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:roll: Hello! I would like to ask the girls if they know about the bondage technique, maybe someone has fantasized about it. Perhaps someone wants to try?
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My wife likes this topic, but we are still very far from being professional.
We pour in with binding at zero level)
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Not mine. I don’t mind when they cover their eyes with a bandage, it’s even interesting, but when they cover their arms and legs, nope. Although it depends on who.))
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Kalyaev: 17 Dec 2023, 08:30 We’ll pour in with binding at the zero level)
Well, yes. It looks like you need to spend a lot of time learning how to tie these knots. And I can’t even tie the laces on my sneakers properly, where should I go?))
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I know) By the way, I read one girl’s blog - she almost came as soon as she was tied up according to all the shibari rules. They only tied my hands: it was fun, but not to the point of orgasm.
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Hypericum, Are you a practitioner or a theorist? Otherwise, I have questions on the technical side.
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Hello. I do mountaineering, so I know the topic of knots well. This is probably why this topic is interesting to me. In theory, I know everything, but in practice I only used it in a mild form, light immobilization. The topic is difficult because many people think that this is violence.
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Hypericum: 17 Dec 2023, 09:14 Hello. I do mountaineering, so I know the topic of knots well. This is probably why this topic is interesting to me. In theory, I know everything, but in practice I only used it in a mild form, light immobilization. The topic is complex, because many people think that this is violence.
And this is violence)
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This thing requires a lot of patience... Both)
It’s one thing to tie up a runaway slave in 10th century Japan) and another, that’s another)
Our first step was spontaneous, I bought a jute rope, for a cat, to make something like a winding on a scratching post, which is sold in a pet store for crazy money)
In general, while I was coming up with it, my wife and I were joking around about the topic of a hostage. Then they looked on the Internet and... He tied her around her neck, chest, stomach, passed her between her legs, lifted her between her buttocks, fixed her hands and there was still a rope left) put her on her knees)
At the stage of accusing her breasts, I already realized that I want to fuck her urgently and hard... But I also had to make her sit on toys and play with her mouth...
In short, she liked it, it turned out that she adores tying up...
Disadvantages.. Jute rope leaves “burns” from friction, does not stretch, and is rigid. You need a balance between weakness and tightness of fixation)
It’s better to buy a rope in a sex shop, it’s softer)
But it’s cool, my wife often asks) but I don’t have enough patience(

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I don’t understand why then untie :(
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Is there a known maximum binding time so as not to disrupt blood circulation? Are there any safety rules so as not to pinch the arteries?
But the other day I was watching a funny TV series, "I killed my husband" it’s called. Just about role-playing games.
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I’ve met a lot of girls who are interested in being fucked tied up, but I didn’t use any techniques, just handcuffs or tying their legs and arms to the bed
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Hooligan Carrie: 17 Dec 2023, 11:32 is the maximum tying time known so as not to impair blood circulation?
From official sources about applying tourniquets during bleeding) I think that this can be emphasized for yourself)

maximum time for safe wearing of a tourniquet:
time in winter up to 30 minutes;
in the warm season - up to 60 minutes .
every 10-15 minutes, loosen the tourniquet, and while loosening, press the vessel above the tourniquet with your finger, then tighten it again with a little more force.
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