Valeriya.WL: 19 Dec 2023, 08:52
The question is mostly for guys, but also girls who have this feature, please share your opinion!)
My first relationship has appeared and it comes down to sex, but as soon as I think about it, my I have a slight complex about the appearance of my labia, which differ in size. One is larger than the other and peeks out a little from behind the larger ones. There is no discomfort in everyday life, nothing rubs or interferes. I’m worried that the man won’t like it or that questions will arise at the most crucial moment, because it’s not perfectly level. I understand perfectly well that we are absolutely not symmetrical, but I still have anxiety
I haven’t had any sexual experience yet, so I perceive myself acutely.
Help with advice and an opinion on whether it’s worth worrying about or whether this is absolutely normal
Post a photo of those lips of yours, we’ll look and tell you everything as it is. And without a photo it’s very difficult. For example, you write that you met a guy on a dating site, made an appointment and am very worried - what if I’m ugly! Tell me - I’m not too ugly, no!? Otherwise, I’m very worried about this.
And they forgot to attach your photo.
Well, how can you determine your appearance then? No way!
Well, as for the lips, whether they are somehow different there in your opinion, then firstly, if this is so important to you, then make sure that this happens in complete darkness. And it will be even better - there will be less embarrassment for both. Perhaps the guy who will be dating you will also be worried about this, that you will think that his penis is somehow crooked, or too small, or something else.
Secondly , it’s good if the guy who fucks you is an adult, and not a teenager. Grown men are more tactful in such situations and more attentive to a woman. And in general, for the first sexual experience, I would recommend someone older than you. Preferably twice - it will be just right! Believe me.
Be sure to buy and place a gel-lubricant lubricant nearby. And no matter how shy you are, be sure to lubricate your pussy with it.
Just don’t buy gel lubricant with any additives that improve intercourse. Well, like an anesthetic or, on the contrary, something that should increase attraction. Because all these additives will only add some possible unpleasant sensations to you and this can bring down your entire mood. Buy Aloe Vera lubricant gel. This is the most neutral thing.
And right before that, go to the shower. This is the truth that can greatly offend a man - this is the unpleasant smell from your pussy.
Don’t let it offend you that I call a spade a spade. Get used to it if you decide to start having sex. During sex, partners often call their genitals by their original names - this sometimes gets a lot of people excited. Well, be sure to take a shower before sex. Because sometimes sweat or the smell from the genitals, or sweat can throw your partner off the mood. Although I have heard that women, on the contrary, can be aroused by the smell of male sweat. But this is probably not for everyone.
And when you go to the shower, be sure to lubricate your pussy with gel lubricant. Okay, lubricate it. In theory, you should already be very excited and leak from this.
But this should be so, but you can get too nervous and not get excited and your pussy will be dry. And it will be difficult for him to enter. Yes, even if it’s the first time. And instead of pleasant, awesome sex, you will get a lot of negative emotions, and even possibly some damage - chafing or something else. In general, I heard that women often get negative experiences precisely because of this - when everything is dry THERE, but the man still does not refuse the temptation to have sex, and breaks down and practically rapes the girl. And all this is not good enough. But it was only necessary to lubricate the pussy with gel lubricant before this and everything would be fine.
And one more thing...
This is very important...
If this is really your first time, then don’t be afraid! Don’t give up on having sex halfway. It often happens that girls are cowards at the most crucial moment, and they are scared and they are not sure whether it is worth doing this right now. And they unexpectedly abandon their intentions at the very last moment. And this is very bad in all respects for everyone - both for you and for your partner. Firstly, it will be difficult for you to do all this the second time.
Secondly, your partner may lose his temper, and unexpectedly, even for himself, he may rape you and cause you psychological trauma. There is an opinion among young people that virgins need to be broken practically by force. They say that they themselves will never dare to do this, and they should not be a coward and just simply not believe her, and if she laments, don’t, don’t! You just have to ignore it. And here you go - you were roughly fucked dry. There is no pleasure, and in addition, all this is not very pleasant and humiliating. And the relationship with the young man may have been damaged. And therefore, go to the end and don’t be a coward! Then you won’t regret that this happened. Anyone here will confirm this to you.
Well, in general, something like this. Good luck to you!
Let us know how it all went later, we are all here worried about you, and we wish everything to go as it should. Don’t worry too much about your lips. It all depends on the men - they are all different. Some people like it, others don’t, others don’t care.
Just don’t emphasize it if it’s so important to you.
it seems like this is your first time they didn’t write about farting.. what happened to you?.. now let’s call Marinka so she can heal you 
