Fell in love, but married

[Vince]

Ladies, good afternoon,
now is an unexpected question for a forum about sex. It is not so much about the physical, but about the sensual.

has this ever happened to you: you are married (perhaps for a long time; perhaps there are even children; it is possible that the relationship in marriage is quite normal). And suddenly there is an affair on the side, an affair-hobby-falling in love-what other feelings. And you seem to be ready to abandon your family for this.
How did this happen for you? What did you do? How have your feelings changed? How did you weigh the pros and cons?

I am told that such situations, especially those associated with some kind of marriage crisis, personal crisis, midlife crisis, are quite a common story, even a classic. And I want to understand to what extent such situations are universal.

Thank you if you share your experience. Very important now.

[Venus]

And I want to understand to what extent such situations are universal.

))) Unfortunately or fortunately, there are no universal situations, but crises do exist. IMHO if a woman fell in love on the side, it means that not everything is at home, thank God. Maybe the sex is good and the husband is caring and hard-working and loves the children, but pays little attention. Is it worth ruining a family over such an affair? Everything here is individual. We need to prioritize, what is more important to her? And, based on the priorities, decide. But this is in dry theory, but in life, personally, when I fall in love, I stop thinking straight, literally at all.

[Eustace]

Strecoza, and if, Simply!!!! For....each other? Well everything’s gone!!

[Venus]

Strecoza, and if, Simple! !!! For....each other? Well, it’s all over!!

My ex-alcoholic, otherwise they would probably have lived on and on, but not for sure

[Eustace]

but not exactly

Key Phrase!!!

[Eustace]

My former alcoholic

There must be a reason for Bukhalov!!! Maybe Horns?

[Venus]

My former alcoholic

There must be a reason for Bukhalov!!! Maybe Horns?

This is a disease, alcoholism. The same as the others, but in order to cure a person, you need his desire first of all.
And, it all started tritely with friends. Which men value so much.

[Eustace]

This is a disease, alcoholism

well, Like an acute respiratory infection!!!

Which men value so much.

This is Holy!!!!

[Eustace]

Ah, it all started trivially with friends.

well, I would replace his friends, I’m not talking about Blue!!

[Venus]

This is a disease, alcoholism

well, Like an acute respiratory infection!!!

Which men value so much.

This is Holy!!!!

Easy choice or friends, drinking buddies or family

[Eustace]

Strecoza, Blue Schmuck!! but I won’t quit drinking!!!

[Alex Bars]

I didn’t get married to run left or right! There were quarrels, curses, almost every quarrel led to divorce, there were a lot of options to change, but somehow, instead of hanging around somewhere, I spent time with friends, my wife grew up, I moved away from my friends, as a result, none of us stumbled or went to change, although anyone could do it, but there would be no turning back

[Eustace]

Отправлено спустя 7 минут 50 секунд:
Strecoza, https://i.postimg.cc/Hk1RcyYF/2017-04-26-153825.jpg Это мне, Бывшая прислала!!

[Shalyn]

This was sent to me by my ex

Is that her in the photo?

[Eustace]

Это она на фото?

[Shalyn]

Alex_, apparently Yes?) Well, what a pretty girl

[Christmas_Christmas]

Unfortunately or fortunately, there are no universal situations

I agree, there are different situations... some are similar in some way... some in general “individual”..
for me to fall in love with someone, I mean after marriage... this never happened... I love my husband and sex with him completely suits me... well damn... .almost satisfied... But I’m not looking for “adventures” on purpose, on my side....
But what would sink into my soul is the “image” of a guy or a girl.. that’s it. sometimes it happens... but it’s not love at all... I might just be “interested in” a person... well, that’s all in principle...
the issue in such cases is resolved very simply... "I fantasized "about such a girl or a guy... and everything went well... well, okay, maybe I "fantasized" twice... damn... three maximum...
but as they say, someone else’s family in the dark and there can be a lot of moments and reasons for the departure of one of the spouses... and sex in these reasons is sometimes not even in the first place...
and yet.. here it is necessary to take into account the "other side" ... I mean, that person, man or woman. with which one of the spouses “fell in love... It’s one thing if the object of love does nothing to bring them closer together, and quite another if, on the contrary, he begins to “force” events...

https://i.postimg.cc/g02LPptj/30.jpg

[Eustace]

that didn’t happen.. I love my husband and sex

you are my little Sex is the key word!!! Everything is ahead of you!!!

[Christmas_Christmas]

Everything is ahead of you!!!

damn what is this just in front.. behind me and behind everything is fine.. I’m talking about the butt if anything

[Nina13]

They won’t help you here. Breasts, butt, evaluate immediately. And in your situation, you must decide for yourself what is more important to you.

[Eustace]

everything is fine with me and behind... I’m talking about my butt, if anything

ugh, fuck you...... so scary, I almost started to get hysterical!