What do you want

[Anonymous]

What do you want

I like to build relationships on the rhetoric of “What You want?". From the outside it may seem boring when partners ask each other about their desires for every little thing. But this question works - both for harmony in the union and for personal development. I understand myself better when I voice an answer to another person.

Body, sex, food, work, communication. It is important to understand what you want everywhere. I watch online psychological sessions where people call an expert live. They talk about their hard life, and when asked “What do you want?” mumble unknown game. And all because: 1) they themselves don’t know; 2) no one asked them before.

[crazy girl]

What do you want?

And all because: 1) they themselves don’t know;

Until people try this question will not help. People really don’t know what they want and, in principle, cannot know.

[WazzzzzzzUp]

I am a very lazy person and without a clear and compelling reason I will not raise my butt again
So for me it is almost always very easy to answer this question. Laziness is a cool thing)

[crazy girl]

good reason for not raising my butt once again

Very interesting to know about good reasons that raise your butt?

[WazzzzzzzUp]

It’s very interesting to know about the good reasons that raise your butt?

Work - it’s clear why, exercise - it’s clear why, home improvement - I think so too.
Dating, just communicating, going somewhere... everything I do, I always understand what I want to get from it. I won’t even get up if I don’t need it or don’t understand why I’m doing it.
What I want from life, I also understand perfectly well and there are no problems with it. If someone wakes me up in the middle of the night, ask me, I’ll tell you without any problems

Is this somehow unusual? I thought everyone was doing everything consciously...

[crazy girl]

Work - it’s clear why, gym - it’s clear why, home improvement - I think the same.
Dating, just chatting, going somewhere...

You don’t look lazy, after all of the above.

If someone wakes me up in the middle of the night, ask, I’ll tell you without any problems

Surely you will tell in general terms or do you have a detailed plan?

[WazzzzzzzUp]

Surely you will tell me in general terms or do you have a detailed plan?

Do you want to make #someone very important who controls destinies#tell him? him about his plans. Of course, there is no detailed plan, but there is an understanding of what I need and what I want. I take this distant something, break it down into subtasks, and complete them one by one, gradually moving in the direction I need.

[crazy girl]

I break it down into subtasks and complete them one by one, gradually moving in the direction I need

Is everything working out as planned?

[WazzzzzzzUp]

Is everything working out as planned?

Yes, everything is great! Thank you!

[vox]

Questions and answers bring clarity, but if you are not ready to answer the question clearly (they don’t know), then the question will be annoying. And the question takes communication into the plane of the mind and harms romance

[Lisa24]

and I have periods when I don’t want anything)) I want to lie like a seal and do nothing

[rat poison]

I have periods when I don’t want anything)) I want to lie like a seal and do nothing

So it turns out that there is no period when you don’t want anything)

[Lisa24]

I have periods when I don’t want anything)) I want to lie like a seal and do nothing

So it turns out that there is no period when you don’t want anything)

well, hello, that’s when you’re already lying like seal then that wonderful period begins, I don’t want anything

[rat poison]

I have periods when I don’t want anything)) I want to lie like a seal and do nothing

So it turns out that there is no period when you don’t want anything)

well, hello, here you go when you already lie like a seal then that wonderful period begins, I don’t want anything

Nenene. There comes a period of “give me a mojito,” “wave your fan at me,” and “oh wow now.”)

[Lisa24]

So it turns out that there is no period when you don’t want anything)

Well, hello, that’s when you’re already lying like a seal and then that wonderful period of not wanting anything begins

Nenene. There comes a period of "give me a mojito", "wave your fan at me" and "oh oh my goodness now")

uh, it depends where you are sealing)) and if on the sofa? ?A?

[rat poison]

Well, hello, that’s when you’re already lying like a seal and then that wonderful period begins, I don’t want anything

Nenene. There comes a period of "give me a mojito", "wave your fan at me" and "oh oh my goodness now")

uh, it depends where you are sealing)) and if on the sofa? ?a?

What’s stopping you from yelling from the sofa?)

[Lisa24]

Nenene. There comes a period of "give me a mojito", "wave your fan at me" and "oh oh my goodness now")

uh, it depends where you are sealing)) and if on the sofa? ?ah?

What’s stopping you from yelling from the sofa?)

sometimes laziness gets in the way) and sometimes the one you can yell at is absent. and so you lie there, looking like a seal, all in melancholy and despondency and here he is, hello period, I don’t want anything)

[rat poison]

there is no one to whom you can yell.

You can yell into the noosphere. Maybe God will hear and send something))

[gnusmas]

I want sex for love, long and tender

[Lisa24]

there is no one you can yell at.

You can yell into the noosphere. Maybe God will hear and send something))

no, I already yelled) I’m happy with what I have)) I’ll wait for the knight and I’ll meow for him))