Lack of orgasm in wife

[Rifat]

Hello, such a problem.
My wife and I met eight years ago.
She’s a virgin, I’m not particularly experienced either, there were a couple of women and that’s it.
Then they got married. Our roots are Caucasian, now I’m 29 and my wife is 27.
The wedding night didn’t go very well.
It was terribly dry. Although I caressed her, she was apparently worried. The lubricant from the pharmacy helped solve the problem.

Eight years have passed, I understand that my wife has never experienced an orgasm, I do not see her desire or lust on her part. She says that she masturbated and ended up squirting twice, I really doubt her words, I think she’s saying this so that I calm down and don’t pester her with orgasms.. I’m very worried, I’m afraid of the destruction of the marriage. After all, marriage is not only about love and harmonious intimate relationships and the satisfaction of both.
Cuni, relaxing massage, kind words, I tried everything.
I bought a vibrator thinking maybe it would help her, but it was of no use.
I don’t know what to do anymore.
I gave her a yoni massage, managed to relax her, saw how her clitoris swelled, but then there was no result.
I bought her expensive vitamins to increase libido, also to no avail.
I can certainly live without her orgasm.
But I really want her to feel this pleasure too, to go limp. But unfortunately I can only dream about it. I’m starting to think that I’m zero in sex, I’m very upset.

[Venus]

Hello, this is the problem.
My wife and I met eight years ago.
She’s a virgin, I’m not particularly experienced either, there were a couple of women and that’s it.
Then they got married. Our roots are Caucasian, now I’m 29 and my wife is 27.
The wedding night didn’t go very well.
It was terribly dry. Although I caressed her, she was apparently worried. The lubricant from the pharmacy helped solve the problem.

Eight years have passed, I understand that my wife has never experienced an orgasm, I do not see her desire or lust on her part. She says that she masturbated and ended up squirting twice, I really doubt her words, I think she’s saying this so that I calm down and don’t pester her with orgasms.. I’m very worried, I’m afraid of the destruction of the marriage. After all, marriage is not only about love and harmonious intimate relationships and the satisfaction of both.
Cuni, relaxing massage, kind words, I tried everything.
I bought a vibrator thinking maybe it would help her, but it was of no use.
I don’t know what to do anymore.
I gave her a yoni massage, managed to relax her, saw how her clitoris swelled, but then there was no result.
I bought her expensive vitamins to increase libido, also to no avail.
I can certainly live without her orgasm.
But I really want her to feel this pleasure too, to go limp. But unfortunately I can only dream about it. I’m starting to think that I’m zero in sex, I’m very upset.

Do you have children?

[slavik.meshalkin]

She probably has a fear of another person, maybe problems since childhood.

[Alex Bars]

It seems to me that we need to caress her more often, a relaxing massage with touching the genitals helps a lot, then a good Cooney, and then position you on top with good pushes and maybe something will come of it, my wife didn’t cum at first either, now it’s like a machine gun if she’s well excited, but if you have a quick fuck, you may not always finish, which means try to excite.

[bot458]

It’s not even clear what prevents you from using the answer stated in the question itself?
Jerk and squirt/Jerk and squirt/Jerk..... and repeat until the score evens out, and what is this - only twice in eight years! Tied her hands? Admit it!

[Sweet pepper]

Hello, this is the problem.
My wife and I met eight years ago.
She’s a virgin, I’m not particularly experienced either, there were a couple of women and that’s it.
Then they got married. Our roots are Caucasian, now I’m 29 and my wife is 27.
The wedding night didn’t go very well.
It was terribly dry. Although I caressed her, she was apparently worried. The lubricant from the pharmacy helped solve the problem.

Eight years have passed, I understand that my wife has never experienced an orgasm, I do not see her desire or lust on her part. She says that she masturbated and ended up squirting twice, I really doubt her words, I think she’s saying this so that I calm down and don’t pester her with orgasms.. I’m very worried, I’m afraid of the destruction of the marriage. After all, marriage is not only about love and harmonious intimate relationships and the satisfaction of both.
Cuni, relaxing massage, kind words, I tried everything.
I bought a vibrator thinking maybe it would help her, but it was of no use.
I don’t know what to do anymore.
I gave her a yoni massage, managed to relax her, saw how her clitoris swelled, but then there was no result.
I bought her expensive vitamins to increase libido, also to no avail.
I can certainly live without her orgasm.
But I really want her to feel this pleasure too, to go limp. But unfortunately I can only dream about it. I’m starting to think that I’m zero in sex, I’m very upset.

Is everything okay with her neighbor?