Wife with ex

Unread post by **Husband** » 04 Jan 2020, 23:46

Hello everyone. I’ll write briefly to me, 34, my wife, 33, we’ve been together for 12 years and have children. For about 2 years, various bickering and minor domestic quarrels began, which is why my sex life deteriorated sharply. About a year ago I saw my wife’s correspondence with her ex-boyfriend (childhood love) several times; well, in principle, there’s nothing wrong with talking about general topics and giving her compliments. For the New Year, my wife had a corporate party and it so happened that an acquaintance of mine saw my ex being picked up from a cafe, after a conversation with her, I brought her to the surface and she admitted that she had been sleeping with her ex for a month and that for the most part there was my fault.
Of course, from the point of common sense, I understand that she will not do this again and I don’t want to lose my family. But how to get rid of this feeling of being deceived by the deer?

Unread post by **Guest** » 05 Jan 2020, 00:40

Hello. Since sex is so important to her, there is only one solution for both of you: book another BDSM club for a day or two.
There, being well tied up and spanked, the wife will be able to sincerely repent, and you will be able to forgive her.

Unread post by **Nika_miku** » 02 Feb 2020, 15:22

Unfortunately, this feeling will never go away. It will always live in the depths of your soul. But you have to be strong and try to accept it as her mistake. If she really loves you, then she herself will be ashamed of this for a long time.

Unread post by **a nymph** » 02 Feb 2020, 17:34

Let her go out with anyone. Bring her friends. Relationships will sparkle with new colors

Unread post by **Guest** » 07 Feb 2020, 14:09

I just envy you, mine doesn’t agree to this.

Unread post by **FEV** » 11 Oct 2021, 13:00

Enjoy it and become swingers

Unread post by **Tanushka** » 11 Oct 2021, 13:56

Husband: 04 Jan 2020, 23:46 Hello everyone. I’ll write briefly to me, 34, my wife, 33, we’ve been together for 12 years and have children. For about 2 years, various bickering and minor domestic quarrels began, which is why my sex life deteriorated sharply. About a year ago I saw my wife’s correspondence with her ex-boyfriend (childhood love) several times; well, in principle, there’s nothing wrong with talking about general topics and giving her compliments. For the New Year, my wife had a corporate party and it so happened that an acquaintance of mine saw my ex being picked up from a cafe, after a conversation with her, I brought her to the surface and she admitted that she had been sleeping with her ex for a month and that for the most part there was my fault.
Of course, from the point of common sense, I understand that she will not do this again and I don’t want to lose my family. But how to get rid of this feeling of being deceived by a deer?

There is only one piece of advice here - stop being a deer, that’s all.

Unread post by **drmaksimfil** » 11 Oct 2021, 14:40

I would also recommend that you not be a deer and separate once the relationship has deteriorated, it will be better for the children than for them to see your attitude towards each other and set a bad example for themselves!

Unread post by **artm. lecher** » 11 Oct 2021, 14:48

Nika_miku, I agree with my ex-wife who allowed her to go to her place , parents. Only on the condition that he comes and tells everything in more detail.

Unread post by **Motogame** » 11 Oct 2021, 17:12

Look
I separated from my wife half a month ago, before that we had a marriage, a son, and rich relatives.
I was told that my wife was having trouble with someone else, I didn’t believe it.
Afterwards, her friend, that she later gave me, sent photos and videos of herself sucking him. I endured it for a long time, promised to stop, but couldn’t. I fucked with him in his car.
The last straw was when at a general meeting (his daughter and my son in the same class) we retreated to the push, where we relieved the tension.
We split up shortly. I took revenge on my wife with the same coin.
The point is, they tried to save the marriage, it didn’t work out, they were strangers to themselves, even though there was sex and family life. She will continue to give to him at any request.
Get a divorce, but don’t yell or hurl, everything has already happened

Unread post by **Affectionate** » 11 Oct 2021, 21:26

Husband, "From the point of view of common sense" you must understand that his wife will be with him many more times! You don’t even have to doubt it! And you won’t be able to get rid of the feeling of being a “deceived deer.” There are two ways to solve the problem - either move to another city with the whole family and, thus, radically deprive them of the opportunity to meet (although this may not give 100% success, since our transport is well developed), or get a divorce and leave them in peace! Tertium non datur (there is no third option)!

Unread post by **Tolkala** » 11 Oct 2021, 22:34

Tender, there is a third option. Make friends and control the situation .Fuck her together. My ex-lover, at one time, gave an ultimatum to her husband. She told him: I don’t want to deceive and hide. Either divorce or fuck me together. He loves her very much and agreed to the second option. We were friends like that for a long time. So far they did not move for family reasons

Unread post by **Frion1** » 18 May 2022, 05:41

Husband, you need this on the ABF forum, there you they’ll tell you what to do

Unread post by **seriously** » 04 Jun 2022, 08:24

Tolqala, well, if she agrees to this option, and if they have already started to fuss, then in my humble opinion nothing like that will work out. Although this would be a wonderful way out of this situation. I would agree to such a proposal from my wife.

Unread post by **artmen88** » 25 Aug 2022, 12:30

Husband: 04 Jan 2020, 23:46 she admitted that she had been sleeping with her ex for a month already

What can I say? There may be many advisors here, as many people as there are so many opinions, but of course it’s up to you to decide! Either they reconcile and hope that the “trips” to their ex will end, or it’s better to let her go back to him, since she just can’t part with him...that means he’s not that kind of ex after all.

Unread post by **Johnny depp** » 25 Aug 2022, 15:14

Damn it, how can you put up with it? You are a man, I hate cheating, I would fuck her sister or mom or friend,
Let her burn with her ex

Unread post by **AlexTDV** » 25 Aug 2022, 21:38

create a Swedish family - you are for family and work, a lover for soul and sex)

Unread post by **poxuer** » 25 Aug 2022, 22:15

Motogame: 11 Oct 2021, 17:12 when at a general meeting (his daughter and my son are in the same class) they retired to the push, where they relieved tension.

Here’s the romance