After childbirth.

[Alexas]

For those who had children, sex became very rare, or even non-existent.

[Omut46]

There was a short period when the second child was born, and the first was only two years old, my wife was very tired, although I helped after work. After 7-8 months everything returned to normal. And after the first one, on the contrary, for some reason she wanted it more often.

[Alexas]

When I gave birth, at first I said that my big daughter tore everything up, like she needed to recover, and then she started making excuses like she had a headache or her ass.

[Omut46]

Mine was cesareaned because of my vision and therefore there were no changes at all. I just became more sensitive.

[Alexas]

I will say one subtlety, mine loved fisting, but after giving birth for some reason I stopped loving it.))))

[Alexas]

Omut46, this is probably a rarity anymore, right?

[bot458]

I will say one subtlety, mine loved fisting, but after giving birth for some reason I stopped loving it.))))

Firstly, she was stitched up and, perhaps, she didn’t wants to lose this density. It often happens that a man’s idea of ​​what his wife loves categorically does not coincide with the real state of affairs. It’s just that a woman accepts what her man likes...for the time being.
There are many options for "why" and types of cockroaches. If there is trust, talking can help. Partially.

[Hair shirt]

When I gave birth, at first I said that my big daughter had torn everything up, like she needed to recover, and then she started making excuses like her head hurts or her ass.

I think I won’t be mistaken if I assume that a lot of marriages are arranged. In the sense that not from love, and not from good friendship.
Look with a fresh look at this or that adult unmarried girl. She usually goes to work, she either has her own home, but rarely. Or a removable one for which you need to pay.

Few girls have a career. For a career you need a good start - some kind of pretentious tower, an MBA and a bunch of other internships. Business trips, spoken foreign language, gym. This whole set requires a huge amount of time, and most importantly you need crazy willpower and good health. And marriage is not in the first place for such a girl. They are making a career, and they already look at men with completely different eyes. And in general, it must be said that they get used to communicating with those who are more successful than them. This is the first rule of those who make a career. And that’s why such ladies, of course, look at successful men. Or also at the same career levels as they are, or at the majors. Those who are from good families and with a good education.

But now, against this background, let’s look at those girls who are missing stars from heaven.
They get up early every day to work and get there by nine in the morning. And at six or five their work ends. And this work is usually unskilled, maybe even chosen at random. And this work brings neither satisfaction nor money. But it takes up all your time. And such girls look at their girlfriends who got married and envy. Because their life after marriage changed radically for the next five to seven years.

All you have to do is give birth to a child - and voila! You become the mistress of the situation. You show all your colleagues at work the middle finger, and proudly go on maternity leave for the next five years. You live according to the child’s schedule. But you are your own boss - get up when you want, eat when you want, go for a walk when you want. And all this seems to be necessary for a child. But she really likes it compared to going to a hateful job every day.

Well, as for her husband, he goes to work and brings money to pay for this whole banquet. He is away from home all day and only appears in the evening. Tired and fucked up. And he usually wants two things - to eat and to have sex. And then he falls asleep. Because tomorrow he has to get up at six in the morning and go to his work.
So I think that at first girls don’t have a child yet, and while everything is still very uncertain, they are more willing to have sex with their husband. Especially before the stamp in the passport.
Well, once the child appears, then objective and subjective reasons to refuse sex appear.

Well, firstly, perhaps this or that girl did not marry according to love. That is, she did not have any special feelings for her future husband. Well, yes, I had sex with him and even made all sorts of oohs and aahs there in places. But then she somehow got tired of making faces.
You ask - why does she need all this herself - to live with an unloved person?
And she can quite frankly say this to some of her close friends - but going to a job you don’t like where you get pennies, and where there are no prospects and no future - is that better!?

And especially if this girl has neither a good education, nor her own living space, and She also came from a godforsaken city to the regional center. Or even from the village. And what could she do?
And then ALENY found him, fell for regular sex, asked her to marry him after a series of persistent hints and scandals on this basis.

I personally think that the girls are wrong who do this, laying this mine in their own and others’ lives. But girls, in turn, think completely differently. They have their own rule - everything is better than it was. That is, by marrying for convenience in this way, they definitely improve their lives. And most importantly, in this way they acquire a house slave for their use for free. In approximately the same way, in ancient times, somewhere in Rome, a wealthy woman went to the slave market and bought herself a slave for money.
I looked at his tactical and technical data. Well, the physique is there, health, so that the dick is normal, and not this little pussy.

And then she took it home. At night he fucked his mistress, and in the morning she fed him and sent him to work. Where she arranged for him for a certain fee. I’m not making this up right now. And so it was. Many slaves in the Roman Empire worked in various workshops and private households. And they were incoming workers. And they belonged to different owners. And these owners received money for their work. Not everyone who had their own slaves could afford a private business - a plantation or several stalls. As in our time, not everyone can do this both in terms of money and ability to conduct business.

But let’s return to our sheep...
And at some point the girl after After a couple of or three years of marriage, he becomes completely bolder, and at one point he just tells his husband - I don’t want to now. And he turns around. And what to do with all this is not entirely clear. You can start sorting things out - they say you stopped loving me if you don’t want to. But she’s a cunning girl, she doesn’t need a divorce at the moment - and she just says that she’s tired, her head hurts, her stomach hurts. And every time one of these reasons is found. Some people even invent some kind of permanent illness for themselves. Like this is something that sucks to me. And from time to time it seems to remind you of this even without a hint of sex.

Question...
Does this mean that this girl doesn’t want sex at all? I think that from time to time I want to. But just not with this man whom she calls her husband. She’s definitely already tired of him worse than a bitter radish with his sniffing, the fact that he cums quickly, the fact that he quickly falls asleep afterwards, the fact that he gets down to business as if she were a rubber doll.
I think that’s exactly what These are the kind of married women who cheat on their husbands with anyone.
There are threads here on the forum where people share their facts of sex with married women. I think that this is exactly the case.

And if we assume that there are almost half of such families, then think about how accessible married women are. That is, in fact, it turns out that there are a huge number of women walking around us who do not love their husbands, and who are unloved from the point of view of these same women. And they want love and sex.
But she doesn’t love her husband, she rather despises him. Because for her he is a slave who goes to work, and who is simply needed to bring money into the house.

By the way, I think any man can easily check his woman quickly to see if she needs him, and how much she loves him. To do this, it’s enough to simply quit your job and, say, not work anywhere for six months. And the one who does not love and who married for convenience, she will not put up with this. And after a series of scandals, he will file for divorce.
So think about it, guys...
Why do your wives really need you.

[Eustace]

Bitch!!! Tell me, does anyone read his lectures to the end

[bark]

Eustace, maybe there is someone.
But even after running diagonally there is so much nonsense.

[red_fox]

Bitch!!! Tell me, does anyone read his lectures to the end

Are you kidding?! Such posts should be formatted as separate topics. I just came to laugh about TS’s post: "Who got children," and I’m too lazy to read such a sheet.

P.S. TS started a poll:

1. The stork brought
2. Found in cabbage
3. They took it from the maternity hospital
4. The wind blew

[Egor247]

Such long foot wraps I have no desire to read at all

[Maria]

You need to wait, as soon as the child learns to play independently and there is no eternal maternal touch, a second wind will awaken in the woman, something that was not there before. Usually this is after one and a half to two years. Until then, in the name of your beloved, you will have to endure rare sex. there is porn, you can temporarily release your ardor like this. Believe me, the wait is worth it, then there will be a sex-bomb. she will miss you.

[homa515]

For some, I often wanted to go for a while half a year after giving birth. I even managed to go for a walk.

[PrematureCum]

Nothing much has changed for us. As it was 2-3 times a week after the honeymoon, it remained the same after the birth of children.
If the wife was very tired with the children and did not want sex, then she simply put her vagina to my mouth, lay and rested until I did everything. After such sessions, her mood improved and her strength increased.

[Egor247]

Nothing has changed for us either; when I couldn’t after giving birth, I just suckled) then everything went back to normal))

[A.AN]

But I stopped wanting my wife when my second child appeared, she became a relative for me, the mother of my children. Previously, sex was also not very often and I was always the initiator, then I got tired of offering it myself and gave up, and then there was no excitement for her at all. She’s slim and has a juicy butt, but I can see that she’s not moving. Sex, of course, happens once a week, but without any spark on my part, but it’s normal for her.