I let go easily. Are you leaving? Fair wind!

[Anonymous]

I let go easily

Are you leaving? Fair wind!

My friends are surprised how I manage to let go of men so easily. From the outside I seem callouser than a beer cracker. This is not entirely true. I use the “killed evening rule”. The point is that you can suffer, worry and listen to sad songs for only one evening. This is enough time for active analysis, hysteria and blame.

Then comes the acceptance phase. I think about the person, but I go about my life. Breaking up is a chance to grow psychologically and find someone better. It doesn’t happen that the best men on the planet are wooing you, but you “can’t forget” your ex. It doesn’t happen that you are seduced by the most beautiful girls in the world, and you torment your first wife with calls.

This means that someone’s departure is an opportunity to make a better choice. True, for this you will have to improve yourself: emotionally, financially, externally. Focus on yourself! Obsession with another person is a disease. Even if we’ve lived half our lives together. We hide behind the phrase “I can’t forget” so as not to work on our own condition.