How to bring yourself to orgasm?

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 How to bring yourself to orgasm?

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Good afternoon, girls! Tell us, how do you like for the first time you managed to bring yourself to a clitoral orgasm, how long did it take and what "Tools" did you use? How did you feel while masturbating?
I tried to masturbate with my hands and sex toys, but overall I wasn’t impressed with the stream of water. When I masturbate with a vibrator, I feel incredible pleasure, I tremble all over, I can’t even breathe, my body tenses so much that I’m ready to accidentally wrap myself in the letter Zyu &#129315 ; However, because of such strong sensations, I can’t overcome myself and put the vibrator away to rest... Therefore, I don’t understand how to “endure” this pleasant feeling to its logical end.
I’m the only one or has anyone encountered this too?(
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Or maybe these sensations are an orgasm? I experience similar sensations :) if it’s a toy, I remove it too, and if it’s a tongue, then after the peak, when your head starts to feel dizzy, sometimes tears flow from pleasure, everything calms down and you lie with this euphoria and savor ’ status.
Main pathogen this is our brain. In my youth I could easily come from my partner’s tongue, because I felt tension and could not relax. With experience, I learned to let go of tension. enjoy.
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For some reason I doubt that this is exactly what an orgasm is, after such sensations nothing subsides at all, you don’t feel that very release that they talk about :sorry:
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Try this: turn on a video that turns you on or read something that will make your panties wet. Then take the vibrator and, continuing to watch/read, select the required vibration speed, but not high and do not stay only on the clitoris, but gently move it nearby, press, then return to the clitoris, and the higher the pleasure, the longer you linger on the clitoris and at the moment When you feel something that scares you, reduce the speed to minimum without removing the vibrator from the clitoris. Or try pulsating movements: touch and release? Maybe it will work out like this?
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Kg ggg: 28 Mar 2024, 04:14 Good afternoon, girls! Tell us, how do you like for the first time you managed to bring yourself to a clitoral orgasm, how long did it take and what "Tools" did you use? How did you feel while masturbating?
I tried to masturbate with my hands and sex toys, but overall I wasn’t impressed with the stream of water. When I masturbate with a vibrator, I feel incredible pleasure, I tremble all over, I can’t even breathe, my body tenses so much that I’m ready to accidentally wrap myself in the letter Zyu &#129315 ; However, because of such strong sensations, I can’t overcome myself and put the vibrator away to rest... Therefore, I don’t understand how to “endure” this pleasant feeling to its logical end.
I’m the only one or has anyone also encountered this?(
They screw normal girls))
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AnonymousTmn: 29 Mar 2024, 00:07 and at the moment when you feel something that scares you, reduce the speed to minimum without removing the vibrator from the clitoris

Thanks for the advice , I didn’t think of this sequence myself, it sounds very good

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I have not yet met girls who got an orgasm from a penis ))
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""Male orgasm is an inevitable process that is necessary for procreation. For women, everything is not so simple. And this is the first difference. A woman must learn orgasm, like riding a bicycle," said Alsou Kuchumova. Different types of orgasm are available for girls , although most often medical specialists are approached with a problem when they cannot experience a vaginal orgasm."
Excerpt from here - https://lenta.ru/news/2024/03/31/seksol ... -orgazmov/
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By the way, I, too, have always been of the same opinion that women, as they grow older, learn to have an orgasm. And this apparently happens to those who for some reason keep their virginity, that when they are old enough they simply simply do not know how to have an orgasm. That is, they fingered their clitoris and received something like that as pleasure. But they never had sex and perhaps they mistook some slight dizziness and slight euphoria for an orgasm.

After getting married, not all women are ready to look into a man’s mouth in this matter. And often women, on the contrary, try to be the head of the family and set the rules. And of course, in bed too. And inability in bed by such women is presented as a man’s ineptitude. It’s like he does something wrong all the time, he doesn’t fuss like that, he doesn’t move like that, he doesn’t approach the issue of foreplay like that. Well, in general, as they say - there are no frigid women, there are inept men.

But in fact, the whole point is that the woman simply did not have the opportunity to learn how to ride this bicycle of hers, that is, she I never learned how to get excited and bring myself to orgasm. Someone is too shy, someone is afraid that in the process her crown, which she values ​​​​so much, will fall off - God forbid she will look somehow ridiculous in the process. Fu fu fu, how is it possible.

It is not surprising, but in my memory there are several very passionate and loving women. And some of them began sexual activity very early, some after school went all out and slept with everyone, including the school director and the pioneer leader in the pioneer camp. And someone was actually raped at a tender age. But as a result, these women were always distinguished by the fact that in certain circumstances they fucked like cats, regardless of who their partner was.
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I felt the clitoris with my finger at the age of 12
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I think your clitoris is too sensitive. The power down tip may help. Maybe add some more lubricant... From personal experience: some girls at some point remove their hand when I caress their clitoris with my finger, they describe the sensations much like you... and from cunnilingus they cum as expected. Did they give you cunnilingus? I’ll share: when I was 25, I started cohabiting with a divorced girl with a child. She was 27 at the time. Before this, there were shorter relationships and, as a rule, the girls were younger. From the first days she asked for cunnilingus. But at that time there were stupid boyish princes. She didn’t refuse me anything in terms of sex. And these relationships are the brightest for me so far. As an alternative, he caressed her clitoris with a finger during sex, she came, but said that the kitchen gave more pleasant sensations. My attitude towards sex has changed. I began to enjoy it when a girl comes and this became my number 1 goal in sex. But I never licked her... I really regret it now... And when I tried cunnilingus at the age of 28, I realized that I really like it, when you do a girl very good with your tongue. I wish you to meet a lover with good cunnilingus skills! I think everything will work out...
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Grand: 02 Apr 2024, 17:39 I think your clitoris is too sensitive. The power down tip may help. Maybe add some more lubricant... From personal experience: some girls at some point remove their hand when I caress their clitoris with my finger, they describe the sensations much like you... and from cunnilingus they cum as expected. Did they give you cunnilingus? I’ll share: when I was 25, I started cohabiting with a divorced girl with a child. She was 27 at the time. Before this, there were shorter relationships and, as a rule, the girls were younger. From the first days she asked for cunnilingus. But at that time there were stupid boyish princes. She didn’t refuse me anything in terms of sex. And these relationships are the brightest for me so far. As an alternative, he caressed her clitoris with a finger during sex, she came, but said that the kitchen gave more pleasant sensations. My attitude towards sex has changed. I began to enjoy it when a girl comes and this became my number 1 goal in sex. But I never licked her... I really regret it now... And when I tried cunnilingus at the age of 28, I realized that I really like it, when you do a girl very good with your tongue. I wish you to meet a lover with good cunnilingus skills! I think everything will work out...
Close your gestalt, come to that girl and offer cunnilingus)
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15 years have passed... There is no contact with her. But if fate brings everything together...
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Grand, they did cunnilingus, at first it was generally not I understood what everyone was saying about it, I didn’t feel anything, in fact, that’s why I never asked my partner to do it... Now the sensations and understanding have appeared, but I’m worried that my partner won’t want to focus on this, trying to bring me to orgasm, because this It will probably take a lot of time, since I can’t even do it myself *x) . But thanks for the advice, I think with cunnilingus we also need to "Practice" :lol:

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olga. vernandi, I envy, although I knew about the existence of the clitoris, I never even tried to masturbate and find out what it was... I only began to learn its charms by the age of 21
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olga.vernandi, I envy, although I knew about the existence of the clitoris, but I never even tried to masturbate and find out what it was... I only began to discover its charms when I was 21
[/quote] and I found a book at home, it was about the structure of the vagina and the purpose of the clitoris. And she began to experiment on her pussy. The first orgasm is divine) in the book there was a tutorial on masturbation, 5 minutes to massage the clitoris and a 30 second break for unraveling
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