Does self-esteem improve with sex?

[Andrey-37]

Maybe I didn’t formulate the title of the topic very well. I’ll try to explain the question. Women (I’ll listen to men too). Have you ever had sex with a certain man or group of men, or the appearance of sex in general, raise or lower your self-esteem?
A couple of cases about my experience.
1) There was a mistress, a hot thing! She told me that she married her first man and the sex with him was not very good. She got divorced (I don’t know for what reasons), and sometimes dated other men. Sex somehow didn’t work out. Deeply over 30, I liked sex for the first time. Then she gave birth, raised a child, rarely had sex, and why would she? And at the age of 40, men began to appear again, sex became more interesting, but I still thought that she was a log. At the time of our meeting, she had been without sex for six months, she came out to the north-west, maybe! We met and started fucking. She liked it and says that with age she became more relaxed. At SZ she met not only me. At the same time, she communicated with others and told them that they had fucked (about seven people in a year, but 1-3 times with each). I told her that she is a gorgeous woman, you can fuck and fuck her and have fun, and that she is a dream for men. She told me that only now she believed in herself and agreed with me, because in a year she had a constant lover (me) + 7 men and + many more who wanted and she (oh my God!) began to choose with whom she wants and with whom No! In short, the attention of men from SZ made her a woman confident in her beauty and coolness.
2) I met a fellow countryman who wanted to make his wife sw. He told her about his desires. She became interested and agreed. We started dating and fucking. Self-esteem is also so-so. He told me about SZ, started a profile in her name, and both had access to it. I started the conversation, she continued. Soon there was no end to people wanting to fuck her. I met someone and had sex. I realized that I am interested in men, the main thing is to offer it correctly and in the right place. We spoke to her the other day. She said that with the start of the sw relationship, she became self-confident, knows her worth and understands how cool she is!
Have you had any such turning points? When did everything turn over in your head and the understanding came “Wow!!!”?

[pervert]

My friends also increased their self-esteem through self-esteem.
Ladies often use this, I think)

[Venus]

))) A large number of sexual partners and promiscuity cannot raise self-esteem in principle, unless it was completely zero or with a minus sign.
Normal self-esteem is not a sense of self-worth, as many people mistakenly believe. Normal self-esteem is accepting yourself as you are.

[Eustace]

))) A large number of sexual partners and promiscuity cannot raise self-esteem in principle, unless it was completely zero or with a minus sign.
Normal self-esteem is not a sense of self-worth, as many people mistakenly believe. Normal self-esteem is accepting yourself as you are.

now in Russian!!!

[Venus]

now in Russian

))) You don’t need many men for good self-esteem. One loving and beloved is enough))) I will be faithful to you, and we will reset all the counters to zero

[Eustace]

You don’t need many men for good self-esteem. One loving and beloved is enough))) I will be faithful to you, and we will reset all the counters

I just knew the answer

[Venus]

I just knew the answer

))) You are smart

[Anatolich]

now in Russian

))) You don’t need many men for good self-esteem. One loving and beloved is enough))) I will be faithful to you, and we will reset all the counters to zero

I am now aged and rethought a lot.
But in my youth I would hardly be able to “zero” it, well, that’s true if you project it onto yourself.

[comagirl]

My wife has a selection of photos from photo sessions where I photographed her in different ways. So, she put them in a folder, which she called "to raise self-esteem."
Perhaps she is letting someone else watch them.

[Andrey-37]

now in Russian

))) You don’t need many men for good self-esteem. One loving and beloved is enough))) I will be faithful to you, and we will reset all the counters to zero

One loving is good! But if there are still people caring for a woman (even without sex), then, it seems to me, she will still have a much higher opinion of herself!

[Venus]

now in Russian

))) You don’t need many men for good self-esteem. One loving and beloved is enough))) I will be faithful to you, and we will reset all the counters to zero

One loving is good! But if there are still people caring for a woman (even without sex), then, it seems to me, she will still have a much higher opinion of herself!

))) Everyone likes attention, regardless of gender))) both men and women.

[Hair shirt]

A large number of sexual partners and promiscuity cannot raise self-esteem in principle,

Who would say that!

[Venus]

Who would say this

))) I’m divorced))) that’s why it turns out this way. Men are not for raising self-esteem, but for health. Physical and mental.

[Andrey-37]

Who would say this

))) I’m divorced))) that’s why it turns out this way. Men are not for raising self-esteem, but for health. Physical and mental.

Yes, I haven’t heard that either: “I should have sex with this guy, raise my self-esteem.” Of course, going to bed is for pleasure, but when they want a woman, and after that they want him even more, then something like this probably comes to her mind "and I hooked him! Am I an interesting thing?!"
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I also heard this, for example. A group of women drinks in a restaurant. An interesting man approaches, invites one of them to dance, then takes her away for the night. And the next day she’s like, “Don’t look askance at me. He chose me out of everyone!” And this was said with such pride like, “I beat you! I’m cooler!”

[Venus]

Who would say this

))) I’m divorced))) that’s why That’s how it works. Men are not for raising self-esteem, but for health. Physical and mental.

Yes, I haven’t heard that either: “I should have sex with this guy, raise my self-esteem.” Of course, going to bed is for pleasure, but when they want a woman, and after that they want him even more, then something like this probably comes to her mind "and I hooked him! Am I an interesting thing?!"
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I also heard this, for example. A group of women drinks in a restaurant. An interesting man approaches, invites one of them to dance, then takes her away for the night. And the next day she’s like, “Don’t look askance at me. He chose me out of everyone!” And this was said with such pride like, “I beat you! I’m cooler!”

What you are describing is not raising self-esteem. People in this way amuse their vanity. Well, everyone wants to be, maybe not better than others, but at least no worse. Although no, I want to be better, but a woman’s large number of sexual partners will not make her better. Not in her own eyes, not in the eyes of the people around her.

[Eustace]

But a woman has a large number of sexual partners, which will not make her better. Neither in her own eyes, nor in the eyes of the people around her.

Darling!!! You’re changing right before your eyes!!!

[Venus]

Eustace, ))) All for you dear

[homa515]

In my opinion, self-esteem increases in men the more. And if you fucked a friend’s wife, then he thinks it’s a jackpot

[Andrey-37]

in my opinion, self-esteem increases in men the more. And if you fucked a friend’s wife, then he thinks it’s jackpot

I find it more pleasant when not more, but when He dragged some very interesting woman into bed, then yes, I think "yes!"