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How to retrain a guy in bed for rougher sex?

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We have great sex, we’ve been together for a year, before me he was a virgin. But there is one problem, I don’t know how to correct my boyfriend’s behavior in bed. I want rougher, harder sex. I want him to take me by the hair, strangle me, spank me harder. Yes, he spanks, but not hard at all, he takes her by the head during a blowjob, but that’s not it. I asked him if you like this at all, would you like it, he said no. Please tell me how to hint to him that this is what excites me or can slowly lead me to this?
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Fart more often and tastier, it will either excite him, or he will get angry and want to punish, perhaps even in the ass :udivlenie:!!!
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Watch porn together that contains the scenes that you would like to do together. And boldly tell him that you would like "just like it is there". He’s just inexperienced. If he is dear to you, then everything will work out for you)
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so tell him during sex to fuck him harder, direct him to do it yourself, tell him to squeeze his breasts harder, take him from behind, moan, scream, call yourself a bitch.
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No no no, it won’t work... He needs to feel these animal desires himself. To feel next to you, right now, not a girl or some unloved one, but a whore and a hole... He probably loves you very much... And he is very afraid of offending you. Play... Play the game you want to be... You can show it how you want). Try to be in charge in sex). Just play the dominant bitch). I hope everything will be fine and your feelings will become stronger and sharper).
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My friend started living with his girlfriend. Both are already 40+ and in life in bed he likes to do everything leisurely and romantic, but she, on the contrary, likes hard sex. He tries to force him, but this is not normal for him. So we have to look for a middle ground. My second wife also loves romance in bed, slow caresses with obligatory cunnilingus and all that, but on the contrary, hard sex also turns me on. It’s wildly exciting when she allows you to fuck her like a whore, but you still can’t cross any boundaries.
But the first wife was absolutely omnivorous in sex. She was fine if during sex he flogged her (lightly) on the ass with a belt, twisted her nipples or spanked her and at the same time caressed her vagina - she liked it and never resisted.
Forcing another to change their nature in sex is not always easy. It takes time for him to become imbued with this action, for some kind of shift to occur, but there is no other way. :shamp:
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Everyone has their own tastes, for example, I have rough and hard sex, not all of my opponents liked it, those who need tenderness, sluggish sex, unhurried. But I always wanted it tougher. How is it like this))
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Milanka: 07 May 2024, 03:02 We have great sex, we’ve been together for a year, before me he was a virgin. But there is one problem, I don’t know how to correct my boyfriend’s behavior in bed. I want rougher, harder sex. I want him to take me by the hair, strangle me, spank me harder. Yes, he spanks, but not hard at all, he takes her by the head during a blowjob, but that’s not it. I asked him if you like this at all, would you like it, he said no. Please tell me how to hint to him that this is what excites me or can slowly lead me to this?
You are doing great in sex! There is only one BUT: you don’t understand your happiness! He blows the dust off you, and you wander around! Give you some hardcore! A hard sex are practiced with those girls whom they despise:
whores, whores, prostitutes. You will accustom him to rough sex and he will look at you as a
whore. And then - and like one of the sluts whom he will spank at the opportunity... Do you need it? :question:
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