"If you want, call"

[Bully Carrie]

I am for sex without commitment. This is real sex, when you don’t strive to impress, don’t work for results, but simply give yourself here and now.
One summer I was riding along the Garden Ring in the Bukashka trolleybus, sitting by the window, in a great mood.... A guy sat next to me, and we unexpectedly met. I liked him, so soft, with a gentle, insinuating voice, soft hands..... For some reason I gave him my phone number - out of curiosity, probably, and immediately forgot.
And after some time he called. Shall we meet? Well, come on....Come and see me on Sretenka? Well, ok....
Out of curiosity, she went “to my place on Sretenka” without much conversation - this, as it turned out, was sex at his house. Well, ok.... He had a soft, pleasant body, gentle hands and sad eyes that perfectly suited his insinuating voice.
"You’re fine!" he said into my eyes . "Damn, I need to answer something too," I thought, but was too lazy.
We had classic sex, plunging body parts into each other, without any frills. They kissed delightfully and fucked just as delightfully in his small apartment with a huge bed. They ate strawberries from each other’s bodies and kissed and dipped again.
Then he took me home. "Well, bye! Call me if you want," I finally said.

These "call me if you want" happened many more times later. He was wildly turned on by the fact that I never asked, begged or made plans for anything.
Although no, he was still turned on by my body, pliable and not at all modest. And I was pleased to feel his soft barrel, rounded shoulders, delicate skin in my hands - it was a cool contrast compared to the slender, athletic body of my then husband.
Every time, saying goodbye to this lover, I thought that... well, we had sex and that’s it, we ran away. But he called again, and I again went to Sretenka. No obligations, no continuation.
It was a good time. I didn’t love him at all, and that’s why it was easy for me. I hoped that he didn’t love me either. But then, when I met the Man of My Life, and therefore divorced my husband and resigned, including this lover, I suddenly heard the pain in his voice and realized that I was probably a little mistaken. I hope it’s just a little.
Without love, no obligation - easier. No nerves, no pain, just pure pleasant sex.
What do you say? It was so? Do you agree with me?

[ms240690]

I beg to differ. Sex without feelings is somehow different, less quality or something...

[Alex1987]

This didn’t happen, but I completely agree. I also think sex without love and commitment is simpler and more honest. And I think it’s good when people are honest with themselves and with others. If they need sex, that means they are looking for sex; if they need love, that means love! The main thing is that everything is honest and mutual))) I don’t pretend to be the truth. This is just my opinion)))

[nicolausblind]

I was probably about half a year old, but we met completely by chance and banally. It was cool, she was married and had a small child.

[Venus]

I met, dated and had sex on Tinder. It was sex for sex’s sake. We didn’t walk together, didn’t have lunch in a cafe and talked about almost nothing. They just fucked like rabbits, but I didn’t repeat it with any of them, without exception, although some men hinted at repeating it whenever, but I wouldn’t be able to date for a long time and not become attached to the person, and of course then the sex would stop It would be just sex, without obligations.

[Juss]

On Tinder I met, dated and had sex. It was sex for sex’s sake. We didn’t walk together, didn’t have lunch in a cafe and talked about almost nothing. They just fucked like rabbits, but I didn’t repeat it with any of them, without exception, although some men hinted at repeating it whenever, but I wouldn’t be able to date for a long time and not become attached to the person, and of course then the sex would stop It would be just sex, without obligations.

I also met many times, just for physiology. I just found these in "Friend Around" or I don’t even remember what it’s called as an app in My World. And we can say that out of ten girls, about half immediately agreed to have sex. Of these, another half offered to meet again. We later met with some of them a couple more times.

[SeRg !$!]

Sex for the sake of sex is only at the suggestion of... with her consent, so to speak, and this is rare, but as we see it happens...

[Touch-a-Love]

No obligation - it is possible. But to be completely without feelings... Probably not. Still, at least there was love. It comes unexpectedly. At first, my knees trembled and my heart skipped beats. Then it all goes away, "let go". And then you start to wonder at yourself - why would it be worth getting so carried away?

[eyes]

On Tinder I met, dated and had sex.

Are you not currently meeting for meetings?

[Nick1979]

This happened more than once, some kind of casual acquaintances, from which you don’t expect anything at all and which developed into sex, purely physiology without any feelings for each other, in order to satisfy your needs.
But I personally noticed, if you had sex with the same partner without obligations and more than once, then some feelings, attachment to this particular person began.
Therefore, it’s probably better to just sleep for the sake of physiological needs and not return to it again. Because, as for me, the more such sex without supposed obligations with the same partner, the more attachment and the need to meet with her appears.
But this is my personal opinion.
If If such an opportunity arises, I try not to continue the meeting more than once, well, we had sex, both satisfied their needs and ran away))

[Bully Carrie]

This happened more than once, some kind of casual acquaintances, from which you don’t expect anything at all and which developed into sex, purely physiology without any feelings for each other, in order to satisfy your needs.
But personally, I noticed to myself that if I had sex with the same partner without obligations and more than once, then some kind of feelings, attachment to this particular person began.
So it’s probably better to just sleep for the sake of physiological needs and not return to it again . Because, as for me, the more such sex without supposed obligations with the same partner, the more attachment and the need to meet with her appears.
But this is my personal opinion.
If If such an opportunity arises, I try not to continue the meeting more than once, well, we had sex, both satisfied their needs and ran away))

Well, I did it, that - it seems like it was for one time, but these times turned out to be many..... for about a year. There was no, I swear, no affection, and every time he called it was "wow...well, ok..."..I never called myself.
I didn’t even know who he worked for and what kind of music he listened to (or maybe I knew, but I immediately forgot). I didn’t cook him a single dinner (although he did cook something, it seems). What kind of affection is there!
Who am I in this story? an insensitive bitch or a convenient mistress? ))

[Nick1979]

who is in this story? an insensitive bitch or a convenient mistress? ))

Well, why be so categorical))
Everyone got what they wanted) You both had a good time when you fucked.
This has only advantages. Freedom is complete, and you and he meet and live with whoever you want. Well, he got burned, and you don’t mind. They slept together and fled again. In the end, no complaints.
Yes, and I think that you were not the only one in his phone. Someone just refused, but you always agreed. I don’t think he had any feelings either.

[Nick1979]

Hooligan Carrie,
I have there were many similar cases. When just for once. When a little more often. And sometimes they met after a year. We had sex and again forgot about each other))

[Alex1987]

Well, why so categorically))
Everyone got what they wanted) You both had a good time when you fucked.

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