I want a colleague from work who is friends with his wife

[Erotophile]

Good afternoon everyone, I need some life advice.

The situation is as follows. I am 38 years old, my wife is the same age. 15 years of happy marriage, everything is fine. Over the years, intimate life has become not very active, although before there was fire. I won’t say that it greatly spoils life, but sometimes excitement comes over me. My wife and I tried a lot in sex, we even had the experience of swinging, but then we decided that it was just an experiment for show, we tried it several times and forgot.

This spring, my wife’s friend came to work with me. A very smart girl, I was looking for a reliable employee, my wife recommended her. Let’s call her Ira. I have also been on friendly terms with Ira for a long time; I never considered her as a sexual object. Firstly, the wife is more beautiful, she is 164-68-4.5, and Ira is 160-55-1.5. Secondly, well, we became friends and became friends.

But now, after a couple of months of work, I understand that I experience a real sexual attraction to Ira. We communicate a lot at work, we often travel together between offices by car, and we plan joint business trips. And so, although she is not a beauty, I want her more and more in every sense. There is another important point: my work involves a large number of business trips, during which I have no sex, but a lot of desire. I don’t want to mess with someone, I don’t want to cheat, I’m taking care of my health.

In two weeks I have my first business trip with Ira. And then everything goes in such a way that we will often travel with her for work together. I’m thinking, maybe she could solve all these problems?

About Ira: I know for sure that she is lonely, there has been no man for a long time. When communicating with her, we discuss all topics; she is sociable, sociable, jokes about sex topics, and does not shy away.

What would you recommend? Should I start this dangerous relationship? Or is it not worth it? Have you had a similar experience?

Thanks in advance! The story is real.

[Sool40]

I wanted a threesome) Well, then the topic is interesting, if you have the strength for two female bodies in the juice itself

[eyes]

I’m thinking, maybe she could solve all these problems?

Ira will solve these problems, only carefully, so that she doesn’t tell her wife.
You can have a drink with her on a business trip, but everything is according to the classics.
Many friends of wives want their husbands (checked personally).
People like Ira

Very smart girl

often when they open up, there will be lust that outweighs its weight...but not always, of course, but it’s worth a try.
The most important thing is to get drunk , if she’s not in any way, and she tells her wife, you’ll say he was drunk, didn’t understand anything...
Well, something like that.

[Erotophile]

Сool40, I just can’t imagine how zhmz in this format to organize...

[Samara]

Personally, I would try my luck on a business trip) Why not, it’s better to regret what you did

[eyes]

Personally, I would try my luck on a business trip) Why not, it’s better to regret what you did

That’s for sure!

[ms240690]

Erotofil, having an affair at work is a bad idea.

[alexey.bro]

Erotofil,
Is your colleague married? Or lonely? And what is his relationship with his wife?

[Erotophile]

Samara, yes. I’m just worried that if she doesn’t appreciate it, she’ll tell her wife and it’s fucked up )

[Alex Langhe]

Everything is very ambiguous here. Maybe just sex on business trips for the sake of mutual pleasure, or maybe pawning his wife just to have hers. It could go either way.

[Erotophile]

Aleks Langhe, yes. The ideal option for both is sex for health. But how to convey this correctly...? I won’t get 200% permission from my wife for this.

[eyes]

I’m just worried that if she doesn’t appreciate it, she’ll tell her wife and it’s fucked up

The most important thing is to get drunk if she doesn’t which one, and he’ll tell his wife, you’ll say he was drunk, didn’t understand anything...

[Alex Langhe]

Pump her up verbally with a glass of kefir. If he really wants to, then set strict boundaries. Like just sex and that’s it, if he tells his wife, then nothing else will happen to her, and so on.

[Erotophile]

Aleks Langhe, well, the question is - take the first step yourself ? Or wait for action on her part? So that she won’t open it anymore.

[Alex Langhe]

Ideally, of course, lead her to take the first step herself. Although this is more to clear one’s own conscience) it still won’t be possible to prove who was the first to reach out to whom, and it won’t matter. The fact of betrayal will cover everything

[eyes]

Or wait for action on her part?

I had a colleague, it was clear in her eyes that she wanted to, but I kept waiting for her to make the move herself , still didn’t wait.
I had already left that place of work, I talked to her on social networks, well, congratulations, etc., but somehow I was drunk and talked to her openly, so we agreed to meet at the hotel.
As it turned out later, she had wanted this for a long time.
Take the first step yourself, but carefully.

[Alex Langhe]

Erotofil, to advise something without knowing the person about whom the speech is meaningless. They will give you advice on how to get her into bed, but you cannot predict what the consequences of this will be.

[Sibiryak89]

For me, office romances are the norm, it’s better not to tell your wife, but tell your girlfriend that if she’s talkative, she’ll be unemployed and not in love. On a business trip, wine is ideal for relaxing

[Alex Langhe]

Sibiryak89, this is the best option!!))

[Erotophile]

Sibiryak89, but according to the practice of colleagues, they are satisfied with just sex without a relationship ? Friendships don’t count.

[Andrew495]

It’s better not to get involved. You can ruin the lives of everyone involved in the process. Office romances are ok, but not with friends of the spouse.

[Alex Langhe]

It’s better not to get involved. You can ruin the lives of everyone involved in the process. Office romances are ok, but not with friends of the spouse.

and this is also true!
So the author will have to decide for himself, or not to decide)
In general, it’s a good topic to relax with a colleague on a business trip)

[Andrew495]

In general, it’s a good topic to relax with a colleague on a business trip)

Well, of course, so many emotions!

[eyes]

So the author will have to decide for himself, or not)

Risk is a noble cause, even if it’s impossible, but if you really want to, then you can...

[Erotophile]

Tell me, those who had experience with colleagues on business trips, were they single or married ladies? How long did it take you to motivate them to do this?

[Andrew495]

Tell those who had experience with colleagues on business trips, were they single or married ladies? How long did it take you to encourage them to do this?

Single people, there was sympathy both before and without business trips. The question is not even a business trip, but a question of sympathy and desire. It’s better to decide on the shore than to go somewhere and count on something.

[Alex Langhe]

Erotofil, I had an unpleasant experience with an unmarried woman. It’s easier with married people. Both know that they just want to have fun and have fun, and then everyone goes their separate ways to their husbands and wives

[alexey.bro]

Post at least a photo of your colleague?) for understanding?) 100% it’s somewhere on networks or WhatsApp in the profile

[Andrey-37]

If Ira is not a fool, she won’t tell her wife.
I picked up my wife’s friend. She wanted it very much. So she said that she liked my courtship, stroking, my desire. “I really want to, but I can’t,” and I didn’t give it. But she won’t tell her wife, because... not a stupid fool

[Erotophile]

Aleks Langhe, what kind of unpleasant experience was that? I would also be more satisfied if Ira were married.

[Alex Langhe]

Erotofil, she began to demand a relationship other than sex. And do not hesitate to pester me with any nonsense during working hours. As a result, her boss fired her.

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If Ira is not stupid, then she won’t tell her wife.
I hit on my wife’s friend. She wanted it very much. So she said that she liked my courtship, stroking, my desire. “I really want to, but I can’t,” and I didn’t give it. But she won’t tell her wife, because... not a stupid fool

I don’t agree here!
More recently, my wife’s friend hit on an acquaintance. And as a result, I laid it all out to her.
Women are mysterious creatures from the point of view of male logic)))

[Erotophile]

aleksey.bro, well, no, I’m still incognito I would like to leave her. I described the appearance in the post.

[Sibiryak89]

Tell those who had experience with colleagues on business trips, were they single or married ladies? How long did it take you to encourage them to do this?

In general, it doesn’t matter whether she’s married or not, sits, drinks, that means there will be sex, as long as there is mutual sympathy or it depends on you, then sex will definitely be

[Alex Langhe]

or does she depend on you

as I understand it, this is a hint of blackmail?))
Somehow I was playing around with one of these)))

[Sibiryak89]

or does it depend on you

I understand this is a hint of blackmail?))
nOnce I was playing around with one of these)))

Every person has a choice, she herself understands what to choose, without words

[Alex Langhe]

she herself understands what to choose, without words

and also that the choice has already been made for her!))))

[Sibiryak89]

She herself understands what to choose, without words

and also that the choice has already been made for her!) )))

You understand correctly, you make all decisions as a leader and this is one of them

[government38]

the woman is ready to talk Yes, only in one case is it mated, and this concerns cheating, affairs MFM FFM and other things, that’s how they are designed, motivations are different, for one to agree to MFM for the sake of her husband’s career growth with his boss, this is the norm for another to give it to her boss for the sake of raises, my first one turned a blind eye to my affair with my boss because she knew that it was inevitable, but to lose a career because a predator had her eye on you and you refused her was stupid, slept with her several times, took her to nature for a rest, a couple of business trips, and then everything returned to normal, I was amused and let go, the world is built on matter, I personally was against cheating, it’s not professional, my boss taught me this way: when you return from work and pick up your wife, your mistress can sit next to you, and the wife can o It’s up to everyone to guess, but you have to understand that this is a working moment, everyone has it, and your husband too, it’s just that your husband’s mistress is a decent woman and she won’t take him away, as if on the bench, and you don’t have to talk about it out loud, from the words of this wife She understood everything about the boss and kept the situation under control, she was pleased that everywhere on business trips in any situation there was a well-groomed, reliable woman who, when he was far away, would feed him, pet him and please him, and he wouldn’t hang around the clonidine shops, these are the realities of life, in exchange for this the mistress had a good job as a deputy, auto, communications, real estate, not to mention the murky schemes that not every male colleague needs to know....

[Erotophile]

Vlad38, this is the ideal option. But, to be honest, I just can’t imagine how a wife can calmly look at the presence of a mistress. I’m afraid my arguments won’t move her in any way.

[clng2]

Decide what you want. Establish a relationship with your wife, as a result of which you can enjoy her meetings with other men (and not yours with other women), or find yourself another woman (and get rid of your family).
If neither otherwise, maybe you don’t need it?

[Erotophile]

clng2, I don’t really understand how my wife’s meetings with other men will decide the question of what exactly I want more sex with women In my opinion, these are generally different things.

[Alex88888]

It seems to me that wife’s friend I myself don’t mind and my wife suggests it)
So be brave)

[government38]

I know one thing, do with a person as you want them to do with you, my wife has a lonely friend who is pretty, petite, what can I say, well-groomed, decent, educated, knowledgeable about art, with a sense of humor, she visits us when her wife feels like it something to share, to cry, to drink, until recently she was cold towards me, but then she basically cried to her wife that her husband was gone, and the car was in an accident, in short, I need help, I answer that I don’t want to do this because you’ll start to be jealous, but mine insists, help her and that’s it , I had to help tinker with the service station, then pick up a new one, etc. and then my wife asks us to take her in our car to another city, on the way we stopped for a snack, she decided to drink a little whiskey, she began to laugh, she relaxed, she asked to go into the forest there, she trudged to pee, she asked for reinforcements, I had to go with her on duty next to her, then she flops into a clearing, she can’t get up, I try to pick her up she pulls me into the clearing, plops down next to me, reaches for my fly, pulls down my pants, whispers that she wants to thank me, I’m shocked I don’t know what to do she starts squealing that she won’t let go, in short she climbs on top, and I panic because she’s not flowing and I can’t insert her well how narrow she is there, she squeals in pain but pulls herself onto the dick like an owl but the globe, I already think it’s a sin, maybe she’s a virgin, but she warms up and fucks me so I haven’t remembered such wild sex on top for a long time, she fucks like an Amazon, I came 2 times , she’s not, she gets off me, adjusts her panties and is happy in the car, on the way she says that she’s a lesbian and doesn’t cum under a man, she just decided to make it nice, I ask what will happen if mine finds out, she waves her hand, saying she’s already managed to fool around with my wife bed and she won’t even suspect.
a week goes by and then I jokingly tell my friend that I fucked her friend and that she came all the way, mine laughs and whispers that my friend is not interested in lesbians and men and gave it to me out of a feeling of gratitude and interest because mine highly praised my device and she became interested in straddling and feeling the size, and in general she said that she was uncomfortable with such a size and she doesn’t understand how mine can love sex with such a length and thickness, all the insides can be turned out and there is nothing better when girls they please each other with tongues and vibrators, but the bitch is silent about her experience with her

[clng2]

Erotofil, Just if your wife’s opinion on this matter is important to you and with her attitude to this, maybe it’s worth finding out what she would like and come to the realization of her desires, and then, you see, she will treat your desires with understanding.

[government38]

Regarding my girlfriend at work, I can advise you to get the green light from your wife first, when I worked as a marketer I had to give kickbacks under contracts, but not everything is simple, we went together with a colleague, got drunk, fucked clients after signing contracts, sometimes my girlfriend seduced clients, sometimes we fucked together in a group, a colleague, a young girl of 25 years old, at first mine was terribly jealous, but then I invited mine to a corporate party, they met there, had a drink and mine calmed down, I explained everything to the boss, he talked to my wife and calmed me down, realizing that I was not interesting for a young passion because she had a young husband, family, small business, a colleague there explained to her that she had to carry a tidy sum with her and could not entrust such a task to everyone, and my boss added fuel to the fire by saying that he was afraid to let me go alone and would only send me under escort with his niece and if I I’ll go to the left and she’ll quickly besiege me, because money doesn’t like noise, after that I finally calmed down and stopped worrying, since then I’ve always taken mine to the corporate office, let him see who I’m working with and not stress himself out.
I also go to my corporate party and if I go somewhere, I know what kind of person I am and I don’t worry, and even if someone drinks and plays pranks and throws a stick in my absence, then it’s better if it’s his own person without divorce scandals than 3 Caucasians in a bathhouse will be flogged all night and she will bring a bouquet of diseases and a baby with a unibrow

[Erotophile]

Vlad38, tell me, in the end your wife is right here knows about your sex with a colleague on business trips? Or is he just guessing?