How do you feel about your partner probing about your past intimate relationships?

Unread post by **meet1** » 30 May 2024, 08:49

Actually the question is in the title. How much can you open up and why?

Unread post by **Alexb** » 30 May 2024, 09:15

At first I gave out information in small doses and looked at the reaction, my wife did the same, later when I gave out all the information and thought that my wife had told me everything too, it turned out that my wife had just started telling me.

Unread post by **Alex Langhe** » 30 May 2024, 09:28

He didn’t bother and always answered as is. Sometimes I shocked my wife with this

Unread post by **Go ahead** » 30 May 2024, 09:32

Yes, I would tell everything with pleasure, but he’s not particularly interested ((

Unread post by **Alex Langhe** » 30 May 2024, 09:35

AmberaMaze, and you would just tell him, and then you see he would have fantasies and desires for something new

Unread post by **Go ahead** » 30 May 2024, 10:16

Aleks Langhe, she told me, she told me a lot in 13 years , only achieved jokes "You’re my pervert," and at the age of 14 I came to the conclusion that there was probably incompatibility of temperaments and I needed to look for another partner

Unread post by **Shalun70** » 30 May 2024, 11:21

In my youth, one very experienced lady convinced me to use it before sex. And it was a failure... alcohol really gets in the way... unless you have been driven into a complex by fate.

Unread post by **Venus** » 30 May 2024, 11:26

meet1: 30 May 2024, 08:49 Actually the question is in the title. How much can you open up and why

))) You can tell your lover about intimacy from the past, who is needed solely for sex. You can easily tell someone like that what happened and what didn’t happen))) to your husband or man with whom you have a relationship or are planning to... you can’t tell anything. Today this may excite him, but at the first, even the smallest conflict, he will remember everything to you, in the most bad words...

Unread post by **Sool40** » 30 May 2024, 11:30

Once I asked my friend about his ex, and it was crazy. I don’t know why there was such a reaction.

Unread post by **Nick1979** » 30 May 2024, 11:31

Venus: 30 May 2024, 11:26
meet1: 30 May 2024, 08:49 Actually the question is in the title. How much can you open up and why
))) You can tell your lover about intimacy from the past, who is needed solely for sex. You can easily tell someone like that what happened and what didn’t happen))) to your husband or man with whom you have a relationship or are planning to... you can’t tell anything. Today this may excite him, but at the first, even the smallest conflict, he will remember everything to you, in the worst words...

I agree completely. Partners who are purely for sex, with them you can embellish how much everything happened in the past, and how it was. And to embellish everything, to put it mildly.
But when you are already in a serious relationship, it is better to remain silent, well, there was someone and that’s all. No details.
The reaction may be unpredictable)

Unread post by **Shalun70** » 30 May 2024, 12:40

Venus: 30 May 2024, 11:26 you can’t tell anything to your husband or man with whom you have a relationship or are planning to. Today this may excite him, but at the first, even the smallest conflict, he will remember everything to you, in the worst words...

Excuse me... but I don’t agree with you... This husband is the man who accepts you as you are at least 90% or 100% and you must understand him and accept him the same way. You shouldn’t marry someone with whom there is no relationship... stain your passport, put a stamp... for how long...? So I would like to know everything about my wife... and not to reproach her, but to make her happy and not make those mistakes that cause her trouble.

Unread post by **Venus** » 30 May 2024, 12:43

Shalun70: 30 May 2024, 12:40
Venus: 30 May 2024, 11:26 You cannot tell anything to your husband or man with whom you have a relationship or are planning to. Today this may excite him, but at the first, even the smallest conflict, he will remember everything to you, in the worst words...
Excuse me... but I don’t agree with you... This husband is the man who accepts you as you are at least 90% or 100% and you must understand him and accept him the same way. You shouldn’t marry someone with whom there is no relationship... stain your passport, put a stamp... for how long...? So I would like to know everything about my wife... and not to reproach her, but to make her happy and not make those mistakes that cause her trouble.

))) What if there were only pleasant things there?))) until you showed up...

Unread post by **Shalun70** » 30 May 2024, 12:46

Cool40: 30 May 2024, 11:30 Once I asked my friend about his ex, and it just hit me. I don’t know why there was such a reaction.

Be careful! She has feelings for him... So she reacted violently. If a woman’s and even a man’s relationship is over, the reaction will be calm. Now all that remains is to find out... does she love him or hate him.

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Venus: 30 May 2024, 12:43 ))) What if there were only pleasant things there?))) until you showed up...

nYou shouldn’t be teasing me, believe me, sooner or later you will understand that I’m right. And more than one wallet or position in society cannot replace family happiness... Take the Agurbash family for example...

Unread post by **smax** » 30 May 2024, 15:30

Know less, sleep better

Unread post by **A dream** » 30 May 2024, 19:48

I heard in response that I was a pervert

Unread post by **Polk** » 30 May 2024, 20:08

Shalun70: 30 May 2024, 12:40 I would like to know everything about my wife..

Believe me, the brain is such an abyss that this knowledge about your wife’s past can later become a nightmare for you, and you’ll also torture your wife with them) as they correctly wrote: you know less, you sleep better)

Venus: 30 May 2024, 11:26 Today this may excite him, and at the first even the smallest conflict he will remember everything to you, in the worst words... .

generally to the point, and will remember for years and decades, with every conflict)