Cheating is not sex on the side

Unread post by **Anonymous** » 05 Mar 2020, 22:59

Betrayal is not sex on the side, but a violation of an agreement

nOne person will consider a left like as treason, while another will not even think of suing their partner for group sex at a party. Each person has their own ideas about betrayal. The problem is that most couples don’t discuss them in advance. This is where stereotypes about female treachery and male whoreness grow.

Not agreeing with your partner on the format of the relationship and implying fidelity by default is stupid. And it is fraught with unjustified expectations. The bilateral agreement does not guarantee anything, but it does provide clarity. We feel more responsibility to people with whom the rules of communication are clearly established.

“What is betrayal to you?” - a key question to each other at the start of a romantic relationship.

Unread post by **Guest** » 06 Mar 2020, 21:33

For me, treason and betrayal is if she goes to live with someone else.

Unread post by **Veronica** » 29 Apr 2023, 13:56

I already wrote about myself. We got married when we were already over thirty. Before this, we were no strangers to sex.
We agreed. MFM is definitely with my husband, just like FFM is with me. We don’t go to the left - it’s treason. And why? Do I want to have sex with someone? Please, only he is at home. Will he participate or not? Doesn’t matter. The main thing is that he knows and is present. Just like I did when he got married.
The relationship is normal. But we are not horned.

Unread post by **Andrewv** » 29 Apr 2023, 21:24

Veronika: 29 Apr 2023, 13:56 I’ve already written about myself. We got married when we were already over thirty. Before this, we were no strangers to sex.
We agreed. MFM is definitely with my husband, just like FFM is with me. We don’t go to the left - it’s treason. And why? Do I want to have sex with someone? Please, only he is at home. Will he participate or not? Doesn’t matter. The main thing is that he knows and is present. Just like I did when he got married.
The relationship is normal. But we are not horned.

my wife and I have exactly the same relationship and we live
in perfect harmony

Unread post by **Sibiryak89** » 29 Apr 2023, 21:40

Cheating is in the head, what and how you think about your partner and how you respond to her on the side, and the body is our weakness and strength, depending on how you dispose

my opinion.

Unread post by **Serg_A** » 30 Apr 2023, 01:41

Somehow people close to me informed me that my wife had cheated on me. I took a closer look at her behavior, it remained the same, the relationship between us remained the same. I gave up on this: I wasn’t around for a long time, if there was something there, in the end, she needed a living person.
I go on the side myself so that she doesn’t guess, but my attitude towards my wife remains the same as before.

Unread post by **Concerned** » 21 Oct 2023, 13:20

Cheating is not sex with another.
Betrayal is deception and betrayal.