When "my husband has a headache"

Unread post by **Tatiana** » 21 Jul 2020, 23:12

I would like advice from men on what to do if my husband has a desire for sex at best 2-3 times a month, but I want it regularly. I told my husband and did a lot of new things in sex, which made him delighted, and said that I want to try something else the sex is hard and there are toys both on his part and on mine, but at best he can only change the position and then on my initiative. By the way, I’m 38, he’s 44. and I don’t feel any pleasure in sex with him. What should I do?

Unread post by **dzy 55** » 21 Jul 2020, 23:26

What to do, what to do... PM me!)))

Unread post by **Guest_781** » 21 Jul 2020, 23:48

Yes, find a husband.. there are few who want it.. you will try everything

Unread post by **niqk** » 22 Jul 2020, 05:07

Tatyana: 21 Jul 2020, 23:12 I would like advice from men on what to do if my husband has a desire for sex at best 2-3 times a month, but I want it regularly. I told my husband and did a lot of new things in sex, which is why he was delighted, and she said that I want to try other hard sex and toys from both his side and mine, but at best he can only change the position and then on my initiative. By the way, I’m 38, he’s 44. And I don’t feel pleasure in sex with him. What should I do? ?

I sympathize, Tatyana! The case is complicated. Send me a private message and we’ll try to figure it out...

Unread post by **Serenky** » 22 Jul 2020, 11:48

If you have already tried radical image changes
then think about changing his diet, choosing foods and safe drugs that increase libido. this can now be solved very simply.

Unread post by **Guest_122** » 23 Jul 2020, 00:13

His problem is not with libido, the problem is that he doesn’t want to try (BDSM) or with toys, just the old banal classics.

Unread post by **niqk** » 23 Jul 2020, 05:28

Guest_122: 23 Jul 2020, 00:13 His problem is not with libido, the problem is that he doesn’t want to try (BDSM) or with toys, only the old banal classics.

nHave you tried to screw him over? Doesn’t blowjob work on him?

Unread post by **Guest_221** » 23 Jul 2020, 05:28

Yes, it’s so boring

Unread post by **Guest_122** » 23 Jul 2020, 06:02

With oral, everything is fine with us, and with the ass too. He doesn’t want mutual or one-sided hard sex or with toys. Yes, and I agree in bed with him, it’s very boring. Yes, men, if your partners offered you someone new in sex, would you agree?

Unread post by **niqk** » 23 Jul 2020, 07:06

Guest_122: 23 Jul 2020, 06:02 Everything is fine with oral and ass too. He doesn’t want mutual or one-sided hard sex or with toys. Yes, and I agree in bed with him it’s very boring. Yes, men, if your partners offered you something new in sex, you would agree ?

So my wife and I are always inventing something! We recently made a mirror by the bedside so we could see all the action! Have you tried fucking in front of a mirror?

Unread post by **vvv123** » 01 Nov 2021, 11:21

buy a vibrator or get a dog

Unread post by **vl123kl** » 01 Nov 2021, 11:25

Tatyana: 21 Jul 2020, 23:12 I would like advice from men on what to do if my husband has a desire for sex at best 2-3 times a month, but I want it regularly. I told my husband and did a lot of new things in sex, which is why he was delighted, and she said that I want to try other hard sex and toys from both his side and mine, but at best he can only change the position and then on my initiative. By the way, I’m 38, he’s 44. And I don’t feel pleasure in sex with him. What should I do? ?

I think the lover will save here

Unread post by **alexey.merkulov** » 15 May 2022, 09:15

There is an option that all these tricks, new things and toys in themselves are not interesting. As well as some tricks during sex. Of course, they are pleasant, but they may lack passion. So that a woman would go crazy at the mere thought of sex, and so that, according to all sensations, during a blowjob, nothing tasty for her would exist. And sex with dedication and passion, not a jerk off person. In short, the topic can be very deep, for an entire article.
Ahh, the thing is that there is no pleasure with him and the whole problem... everything is too routine. Why should both of us suffer? He also sees that you are not enjoying yourself

Unread post by **AlexTDV** » 15 May 2022, 09:17

get yourself a fucking stallion lover)

Unread post by **Zhenina** » 15 May 2022, 23:18

Buy strapon and fuck him the way you want!
Just kidding.
Yes, sad thing.

Unread post by **Wool** » 23 May 2022, 22:09

There is an option to go camping with your husband, with a tent, with two overnight stays

The smell of pine needles should do the trick

Unread post by **Andrey57115** » 24 May 2022, 02:24

Contact a sex therapist

Unread post by **Put** » 24 May 2022, 08:17

- Darling, give me money for shopping today.
- I can’t, dear. Today I have a headache.

Unread post by **Wool** » 24 May 2022, 09:10

t833: 24 May 2022, 08:17 - Darling, give me money for shopping today.
- I can’t, dear. Today I have a headache.

In general, it’s a terrible thing when work interferes with your personal life

both partners need to think seriously about this

Unread post by **niqk** » 24 May 2022, 10:39

For some reason the lady has not appeared on the forum for two years... Apparently, she solved the problem...

Unread post by **Put** » 25 May 2022, 06:58

[quote]Apparently, I solved the problem...[/quote]
Look at the question more broadly. Two years of bullshit over a trivial issue.

Unread post by **petr.ivanov** » 27 May 2022, 10:12

I heard the phrase somewhere, if a man can’t satisfy his girlfriend with his penis, then strap him on)))

Unread post by **niqk** » 27 May 2022, 10:15

t833: 25 May 2022, 06:58
Apparently, I solved the problem...
Look at the question more broadly. Two years of fluff about a trivial issue.

Is everything great with you in sex? Neither you nor your husband and your lovers have a good head?

Unread post by **Put** » 28 May 2022, 04:37

So I don’t mind flirting either.
My husband has no lovers)

Unread post by **Simon777** » 02 Jun 2022, 08:23

Well, 2 years have passed, have you managed to change anything?

Unread post by **seriously** » 04 Jun 2022, 09:32

I also sometimes refuse sex with my wife. For all my reasons, let’s try something new, she doesn’t care, she doesn’t want underwear, she’s not interested in toys either. And sex most often follows the same pattern, a little hand caress (massage) of cunnilingus, sex in a classic position, a little doggy style, or something else I can think of. And that’s it, I get bored, I imagine something from porn and I finish. Well, it makes sense for me to agree every time when she wants if everything has been known for a long time what will happen.

Unread post by **eduard.novikov** » 16 Dec 2022, 08:50

You need to get yourself a lover

Unread post by **in us** » 20 Mar 2023, 05:36

sex plays an important role in the family, but its lack can be made up for - with virt, a lover, toys

Unread post by **Mr.hamsterrr** » 20 Mar 2023, 06:18

I have a hard time believing that a man may not really want sex) rather, he just goes out on the side, where he wastes all his potential) you need to talk frankly, as they wrote here, maybe you should start swinging. And if he doesn’t listen, then he’ll have to cheat or break up altogether.

Unread post by **Axler** » 20 Mar 2023, 06:28

Mr.hamsterrr: 20 Mar 2023, 06:18 I have a hard time believing that a man may not really want sex) rather, he just goes on the side, where he wastes all his potential

Or , alternatively, his work may fuck him in this way. When you work 12+ hours, not even sex, you don’t really want to live

Unread post by **Tamerlane** » 20 Mar 2023, 07:04

Age, stress. And hence the decrease in libido. and testosterone drops after 35 years.

Unread post by **Solomon** » 20 Mar 2023, 07:55

there is a very small probability that he really doesn’t really like sex, but 99 percent of men will not get along with a woman if he has at least some feelings and desire for her.
stupid man doesn’t want his woman

Unread post by **FUCKYAMATERITY** » 20 Mar 2023, 07:56

People have strange questions when there are just one or two answers and they are all obvious.