I finished quickly and that's it

Unread post by **Bonechka** » 14 Aug 2020, 06:33

I met a man on the north west. Both are no longer young. We met and talked. He has been divorced for a long time. I wanted a relationship with him, I fell in love. He looked after me beautifully, but not financially. It got intimate. The first time was long and good, but I was very wet and it’s clear that I squeezed very poorly due to the very abundant lubrication. But I didn’t finish. It was just nice, very nice. Both physically and emotionally. He offered to give me oral sex, but I was shy. He started, but I interrupted. And I’m too wet and I’m embarrassed by my too big lips there. I could, but not for the first time.
Then, a few days later there was a second time. In bathroom. Standing. He’s behind. Came after a couple of strokes. He said that I was very hot and tight there. It is a fact. He literally had two moves and couldn’t hold back. Both times he apologized after orgasm and got into the shower right away. That’s all. There were no more meetings. If I write myself, he will answer immediately and with interest. The first one does not write. He wants to meet in the evening, later, after work, near my house. And I really want a serious relationship with him.

Unread post by **Swarthy** » 14 Aug 2020, 06:34

and not young is how much?

Unread post by **Bonechka** » 14 Aug 2020, 06:37

He also said that he was a pervert. Loves to watch a woman herself and with his participation. Even before intimacy, he offered to make love on camera. Or for him to show on camera how he cums.
Oddly enough, this would have turned me off in another person, but not in him.
Why did it disappear?
Why if I write, it immediately activates.

Unread post by **I'm 40, he's 49** » 14 Aug 2020, 06:38

I’m not young, I’m 40 and he’s 49

Unread post by **Guest_121** » 14 Aug 2020, 06:43

Bonechka: ↑14 Aug 2020, 06:37 Why did he disappear?
Why if I write, it activates immediately.

maybe he is ashamed of the quick orgasm so far or you’re not the only one like him

Unread post by **Swarthy** » 14 Aug 2020, 06:44

I’m 40, he’s 49: ↑14 Aug 2020, 06:38 I’m not young, I’m 40 and he’s 49

40 - class) I’m 26, but I dream of a woman of that age. As I imagine, it’s literally worth a stake)

Unread post by **Bonechka** » 14 Aug 2020, 06:49

It’s perfect for him

Unread post by **Swarthy** » 14 Aug 2020, 06:52

Bonechka: ↑14 Aug 2020, 06:49 His erection is perfect

describe yourself) chest size, hair, and so on) I would like to understand what his erection is and why he is so lucky)

Unread post by **Bonechka** » 14 Aug 2020, 06:56

Slender, very. The breasts are small but beautiful, girlish. Brunette, long hair, almost waist-length. Caesarean.

Unread post by **Swarthy** » 14 Aug 2020, 06:59

Bonechka: ↑14 Aug 2020, 06:56 Slim, very. The breasts are small but beautiful, girlish. Brunette, long hair, almost waist-length. Caesarean section.

Cool) If you happen to be from Moscow, we can meet you) You will have a lot of different sex. And if not, good luck to you, beauty. Everything will be fine

Unread post by **Bonechka** » 14 Aug 2020, 07:02

I want to be with him... I’m in love

Unread post by **niqk** » 14 Aug 2020, 08:49

Bonechka: ↑14 Aug 2020, 07:02I

That’s how it happens! You want to go with him! He wants with another (or another)! Both of you beat around the bush. And time goes by...

Unread post by **Bonechka** » 14 Aug 2020, 09:23

What can I do? A man chooses...

Unread post by **niqk** » 14 Aug 2020, 09:28

Bonechka: ↑14 Aug 2020, 09:23 What can I do? The man chooses...

Actually, both choose... But the situation is really difficult...

Unread post by **You were** » 14 Aug 2020, 10:56

Another guilty propaganda being spread about men. The same - and at any time.
Doesn’t it seem strange to women themselves that when they find a man who, in addition to the maximum positive data, can also have sex for as many hours as women need - he do they get bored quickly?
And then women everywhere again begin to complain that men are weak in sex or that there are no men for long-term relationships.
What kind of men do you need?
Men are constantly improving... with each new woman it gets better and better... providing a full set of services and qualities in all parameters and "directions", almost at the standard level... and women have little . And this despite the fact that women do not improve in a positive sense - not at all. Maybe in the negative "side" - really super-pro.
Women always start to get mad at the fat - attacking the wrong thing, nag, find fault, make trouble, etc., after which Having come up with some absurd reason, they leave. This is a classic of Life. This is the case all over the world.
Women make men who are always guilty.
Well, these types of errand boys and whipping boys - rolled into one.
Having spent more than 18 years in various centers and having collected hundreds of mistresses, I know. Women cannot be pleased.
For women you give 100%, and sometimes it reaches 900% - and again they are unhappy.
Doesn’t this seem more than strange or anomalous to them? They themselves don’t invest even 0.000001% in the relationship.
And nothing changes for the better.
Everything and everything are basically the same. Everywhere the same sequence of relationships. Yes, even turn on the movie - it’s the same thing there.
And after all, not one of them even wants to think about who, in fact, is the Cause of the Collapse of Relationships.
I, having understood the female essence, more than one sex meeting - I don’t agree. It’s a pity that I realized it too late that this is exactly what I needed to do.
It was necessary to give women what they want before - the speedy collapse of relationships... So that they would not be tormented with coming up with absurd reasons for separation.

Unread post by **Bonechka** » 14 Aug 2020, 11:05

It’s a cry from your heart, and it’s understandable.
But how can you comment on this particular story of mine?

Unread post by **Privy Councilor** » 14 Aug 2020, 13:20

Bonechka: ↑14 Aug 2020, 06:33 The first one doesn’t write. He wants to meet in the evening, later, after work, near my house. And I really want a serious relationship with him.

I don’t think he wants a serious relationship (why would he, a free man, before whom the whole world is open? ). Rather, you are just an interesting sex object for him. It is unlikely that you will be able to tie him to you; you will only meet periodically for sex.

Unread post by **Guest_919** » 15 Aug 2020, 01:07

It has been known for a very long time. A woman wants one man, but always, and a man wants all women, but once at a time

Unread post by **Bonechka** » 15 Aug 2020, 02:49

When I don’t write for a long time, he gets offended, saying that I have a lot of fans and it’s just his turn.
When we didn’t communicate for a long time, but then I couldn’t stand it and wrote, I thought that I had left him. And I thought it was him. But he says I’m the only one.

Unread post by **Privy Councilor** » 15 Aug 2020, 04:56

Bonechka: ↑15 Aug 2020, 02:49 When I don’t write for a long time, he gets offended, says that I have a lot of fans and it’s just his turn.
When we didn’t communicate for a long time, but then I couldn’t stand it and wrote, I thought that I had left him

Manipulator

Keeps him on a short leash. But the fact that he does not take steps towards you speaks volumes; he is only satisfied with this option - you run after him, and he, so be it, reciprocates. Apparently, this gives him more pleasure.

Iseis: ↑14 Aug 2020, 10:56 And this despite the fact that women are not improving in a positive sense - not at all.

Well, I don’t know, my current girlfriend is constantly trying to improve in terms of sex, trying all sorts of things to achieve the most pleasant sensations for me. Of course, this is trying to hold me back, but without a motive, no one will improve - neither men nor women.

Unread post by **Bonechka** » 15 Aug 2020, 05:12

He writes first. But when he was first, then I was. But there are breaks, for example for a week or almost a week. Then more often than not I’m the first to start, and in such situations he really and immediately answers and is very active and at the same time always mentions that I don’t write to him, I leave it for a long time and he doesn’t like it. But I could write myself so that there would be no interruptions. Sometimes, of course, he writes first after a break, but more often I do. I don’t understand why this is so.

Unread post by **Privy Councilor** » 15 Aug 2020, 05:34

The answer is simple: you are more interested in him than he is in you. Can this be changed? Don’t think. Usually the roles are accepted from the very beginning and do not change.
I.e. You are somewhere on the edge - you seem to be good for him, but not so much that you should strain too much, taking the initiative.

Unread post by **niqk** » 15 Aug 2020, 05:52

Bonechka, have you tried to find another relationship object? And push this friend aside for an indefinite period of time... And either you will find something suitable,
or your friend will be more interested in you...

Unread post by **Bonechka** » 15 Aug 2020, 06:01

I tried it. Even the first communication is unpleasant for me, not at all. And immediately I involuntarily compare it with him. I like his voice, figure, positivity, calmness, kindness, pleasant courtship, gentleness - I like it all.

Unread post by **niqk** » 15 Aug 2020, 09:15

Bonechka: ↑15 Aug 2020, 06:01 I tried it. Even the first communication is unpleasant for me, not at all. And immediately I involuntarily compare it with him. I like his voice, figure, positivity, calmness, kindness, pleasant courtship, gentleness - I like all this.

Well, then I can only sympathize!

Unread post by **Guest_219** » 23 Aug 2020, 07:33

Bonechka: ↑14 Aug 2020, 11:05 But how can you comment on this particular story of mine?

I think that the situation here is as follows...
The difference is ten years . This seems like a lot to him, plus you may also probably look younger than forty. Which means the difference is actually even greater.
And he probably doesn’t have regular sex in his fifties. And he just masturbates at home in the evenings while watching porn or some forums where people stream their genitals.

That is, the desire for sex comes over him, but he will masturbate to porn for a couple of days everything seems to be fine.
As for why she doesn’t write to you herself and doesn’t initiate a relationship with you...
I think he’s just having a complex.

nLook...
He’s jerking off to himself and it makes him feel good. But this is still not real sex, and when it comes to real sex, he just gets overexcited and cums quickly. And he can’t do anything about it because he doesn’t have regular sex. And this is normal for a man. This is how it works if sex is irregular.
But apparently your relationship is on a fairly high level and like you are all madam, and he is all gentleman. And here no one wants to lose face - neither you nor him.

And the fact that he quickly ends and cannot continue despite all your desires is loss of face. This is some kind of shame for him.
And he knows that it will be the same next time. Again and again. Until you get used to each other a little and a trusting relationship is established between you and until he feels that it’s not scary to cum quickly. That you can take a walk or sleep right now, and then continue. That you don’t consider him a loser, and that for you he is not just a dick on legs.

Well, remember what you wrote above about your relationship...
He wanted something like that to rehabilitate - lick your pussy, clitoris, lips. But you didn’t want to. And he thought that either you were disdainful, or you just needed sex and not licking your pussy.

There is a proverb - someone asks - what’s the difference? I mean, between male fuckers...
And she answers - one fucks, and the other teases!
And so he thought that you thought so about him. That they say he doesn’t fuck, but just teases.

But he can’t control all this. That’s why he doesn’t initiate relationships. That is, another fuck. Because he will quickly finish again and that will be the end of it all, and that you will eventually get tired of all this and you will switch to someone else. He actually tells you about this (you wrote about this above).
But when you yourself write something to him, it certainly makes him happy. This is confirmation that you are interested in him. But he is scared of sex with you. Because this is what can destroy your relationship. Because he dissatisfies you and plus he also loses face at the same time. He is ashamed, and uncomfortable, and generally disgusted by all this, that he is such a loser.
But he can’t do anything about it and he can’t control it either.

Next. ...
There are guys and men whom God has not offended with their appearance, the size of their penis, and who can fuck anyone for half an hour. Even a goat.
And such men have no problems communicating with women. They are confident in themselves. Both in his appearance and in his sexual abilities. Often, because of this, such men become womanizers.
Because women like them in all respects.

But what should men do if their penis is shorter than 15 centimeters, or if it doesn’t stand well? or who quickly loses it, or who ends quickly?
Such men suddenly get married. Or rather, they find women who are already tired of being fucked by everyone, but no one wants to get married. And for this reason, a woman wants at least someone to marry her.
And so two loneliness find each other. One needs a family, status and a child. And for the other - regular sex and some kind of peace of mind in this area. Well, it’s like the wife will somehow help in this matter. Still in the same boat. Somehow she will approach this problem more friendly than just unfamiliar women who want to be fucked in full right now in accordance with all the show-offs that were rolled out to her here right now in the process of communication.

Next. ..
I think that this man of yours just needs a woman whose type is a neighbor-girlfriend. That is, the relationship is friendly, friendly, in some places even sensual. But not on the basis of sex, but on the basis of some kind of intimacy and mutual understanding. And in this case, sex with a female friend is simply a continuation of the relationship. It’s not even sex, it’s just a degree of mutual trust.
She trusts the man and is not ashamed of her pussy, her nudity, or the fact that the man is licking her pussy. She is not shy about enjoying the fact that he licks her clitoris. She is not shy about the hair on her legs and pussy.
And she is also not shy about licking his dick, kissing his balls.
And all this will give the man self-confidence. And even the fact that he finished early will not be some kind of shame for him. Well, I finished, so what!? Well, now let’s get up and continue, that’s business!

Well, in general, if you really need him and are interested in him, you just need to do something to get used to each other. Simply put, you should become friends. Try touching each other more often in different places and generally be more tactile. Let him somehow excite you with anything - with his hands, fingers, tongue, vibrator, whatever.
Not in the sense of avoiding sex, no. But you just don’t need to rush, neither he nor you, to get his dick inside you as quickly as possible.

As they say, expectations are sometimes sweeter and tastier than the essence itself. Let him touch your pussy, your lips on your pussy, let him generally do whatever he wants with you. If he likes to broadcast your fucking or foreplay on TV and watch it on TV at the same time, then so be it. Even more than that, try to learn to enjoy it too.

The fact that your pussy is very tight and the fact that you flow quickly and abundantly is cool. And this is a huge plus. Because a lot of women have a lot of problems due to the fact that their pussy, for one reason or another, is large in size. I don’t mean the genitals, but the vagina itself. There are many reasons - either it’s really fucked up (pardon my French) badly, or, as often happens, people are gaining a lot of weight in this place too.
And this can be a serious problem if the partner does not have a 20-centimeter penis.

That is, at first, for such a woman with a big pussy, sex seems to bring pleasure if the man has a small penis. But as she gets excited, she leaks more and more and after a while she simply stops feeling the man’s dick in her. And he, in turn, stops feeling her. And both of them are not very happy about it.

Why do you think some men have such a strong desire to invite a third person into their bed with their wife?
Do you think this is some kind of perversion or mental deviation? No!
The whole point is simply that the man wants to maintain the relationship but understands that he cannot satisfy the woman over and over again. And the best way is to invite a normal big penis with legs.
And the psyche has nothing to do with it. It’s just a natural desire to solve the problem.

And the fact that your pussy is very tight is very good and very valuable.
And in order not to lose this, try not to gain weight, and also I will continue to maintain your real form.
Well, you also don’t need to stick all sorts of different unnatural objects into your pussy - bottles, huge vibrators, etc. I’m serious...

Well, in general, everything is fine with you, and everything is fine with your man.
You need to stop being shy about each other and become closer to each other. And also fuck with him more often and I think that this will go away from him - when he cums quickly.
And even if he finished quickly, there is no need to be upset or to calm him down. Just be melancholy about it. Like - well, just think - right now we’ll eat something, watch the TV for a bit and continue.
And that you don’t even have any doubts about it, that he will succeed. And he really will succeed.

And men have such a peculiarity that if he cums once, then after half an hour or an hour he can already fuck for 10 and 15 minutes and half an hour. And everything will be as it should be for him and he won’t finish so quickly.

Unread post by **niqk** » 23 Aug 2020, 08:15

Hmmm... Just scientific research! And most importantly, the findings are encouraging!

Unread post by **Bonechka** » 28 Aug 2020, 07:56

Thank you for your detailed answer.
I would like, I really want to agree with you.
But in practice, again, I don’t understand anything.
When I created the topic, I thought that was all. Communication with him stopped. After the second sex, that quick one, he talked for a couple more days and disappeared. I was silent too.
But then, after three or four weeks, I couldn’t stand it and wrote first. He responded immediately. Was glad. He said that thinking I left him. And I thought it was him.
I was the first to write no more. Every day he. And he even called. But usually he just writes. He generally behaves like a non-free man. But I am sure that he is alone, without a relationship.
After a few days of correspondence we met. Take a walk. Near the front door we said goodbye. And he came to my house with me. Unexpected for me. I thought he just invited me for a walk, as happened before. There was sex at home. I already understood that he first wants to bring me to orgasm with his hands, caressing the clitoris and orally, and only then himself into me, because a few movements are enough for him to do this. And so it was. He got hold of me with his hands, and quickly enough I reached the top. It was oral for both me and him. But I’m complex and ashamed of my big lips. It still seems to me subconsciously and intuitively that he is pleased when they are little. But he didn’t say that. And he said that I had hair there, and I saw and understood, but I didn’t know that there would be sex... before saying goodbye, he asked me to remove it, he’ll come again tomorrow.
And I asked him to let me know when he gets home. It was night. He promised. And then, almost immediately, he wrote back saying, “Don’t wait, go to sleep, I still want to stop by for groceries, so it won’t be in the morning.” And that’s it, suddenly in the morning I didn’t write anymore. I’m sure he’s not in a relationship. And I understand if I had written to him myself, both in the morning then and the next day and now, although probably two weeks have already passed. .will answer immediately and be delighted. How is this to be understood? We don’t communicate again... and he also said that he wants to watch me caress myself. He really likes it. And that if this happens, then everything will be very good with us. He’s such a pervert. This is his word.

Unread post by **Bonechka** » 28 Aug 2020, 08:05

And such a preface. We met about 2.5 years ago. He just came to me late in the evening after work, we just walked and wandered around, almost every day, for probably three months. There were no gifts or cafe/cinema flowers. But the walks are pleasant and spiritual. My child fell asleep and I went out. And he finished work. There were only kisses. Without sex, without oral... Then it faded away, he wanted sex. I returned to my ex and told him about it.
And two years later she wrote to him and he immediately rushed over. And in general, nothing has changed, walks in the evenings near my house. Sometimes he drives his car to a beautiful shore nearby. Added sex. But only three times.

Unread post by **niqk** » 28 Aug 2020, 08:12

How complicated everything is for you!

Unread post by **Bonechka** » 28 Aug 2020, 09:25

Write already, men, if for example you can (partly) behave like this,
Does that mean you’re not hooked?
After all, if a woman is hooked, then the man doesn’t disappear.
And if not It’s catchy and not wasted.
IMHO

Unread post by **niqk** » 28 Aug 2020, 09:30

Bonechka: ↑28 Aug 2020, 09:25 Write already, men, if, for example, you can (partly) behave like this,
Does that mean you are not hooked?
After all, if a woman is hooked, then the man does not disappear.
nAnd if it doesn’t catch on, then it’s not wasted.
IMHO

Maybe it did. Not alone. Maybe he has another candidate...

Unread post by **Alexander Bystrov** » 28 Aug 2020, 09:33

Bonechka: ↑28 Aug 2020, 09:25 Write already, men, if, for example, you can (partly) behave like this,
Does that mean you are not hooked?
After all, if a woman is hooked, then the man does not disappear.
nAnd if it doesn’t catch on, then it’s not wasted.
IMHO

For me it is so. If I like it, I communicate, if not, then I don’t. And I don’t care about shame when I like a person.

Unread post by **yaoishica** » 12 Aug 2021, 02:00

Iseis, it’s not all women who are like that, but men who They go to the left from their wives, it also happens and there is no need to compare everyone with the same brush. Men, you know, are not angels either. You guys just don’t have enough of a halo, but you still have wings, I fly wherever I want, I leave my wife and children behind. Lover on mistress. And everything is not enough for them.

. I wonder who made you so bad that you don’t hate women. This is probably the same goddess of love who abandoned Yegor Creed. And Timati stepped on her tail. Usually they sing about this nonsense.

Unread post by **Stepmother** » 12 Aug 2021, 03:49

Yes, we are all different. Why connect or separate? I think about myself. I compare different sensations, according to years and ladies. Everything was fine. The girl was beautiful, her figure was amazing. Let’s go, the men look around. We arrive at the house. And sucks and twists it. And the striptease itself shows. And I’m in a semi-recumbent state, even if it cracks. It never worked out fully. And so we parted. The other one is okay too. I wanted her all the time and had her everywhere and several times. She didn’t even let her, she said it already hurts. There was a constant desire to fuck her. The third is normal. And fucking "golden hands" . Stocky, not tall. She performed miracles. I’m average. But it was enough for her to have me around. He sits opposite, fingering himself. He tells me, look. I’m also sitting naked, looking, looking. I can’t stand it, I’ll sit on the side and mouth her. It will come, he says, today it will be different. Lay me with my stomach on the pillow and let me lick the anus ring. For a long time. The buzz was great. Lift me up and let’s jerk me off. I felt cumming under me and sperm in my mouth. He crawls out and licks his lips like a cat. I tried everything on me. And I didn’t mind. I even brought a friend for a tee once. But she’s an ordinary girl. A fool didn’t ask for marriage. I honestly regret it. Then I came back on Mondays from my now different boyfriend. In extreme sports, if they get caught, it’s even sweeter to fuck. She left. There was one with a pussy, you were like a mouse’s eye. By the time I insert it, it’s already falling. We played for a long time. She kissed everywhere. But not all the way. I didn’t insist, I was patient. Then one morning, a boner. She started playing and grabbed him with her mouth and rushed off. It’s as if I’ve been doing this all my life. I used to come here in the evenings. He’ll get into the bath for an hour. I’ve used up all my shampoos. And then, oh, they were in short supply. But I’m not offended. She comes out of the bathroom, she’s wearing some kind of T-shirt of mine. It will fit, but there’s nothing underneath. I’m sitting on the couch. He puts his leg next to him and shows his shaved pussy. Calling. I’ll suck in and heal everything. Let’s fight in position 69. Definitely before the end. She will accept everything that is mine. I’m all that her. Class . And then a smoke break and as it should be and wherever you want. Since my youth I have listened and analyzed a lot. Understood. In order for me to feel good, I need to do good for my partner. Then kiss the girl’s pussy neither nor nor. And what would I put in my mouth - a waffle sheet, etc. But I still felt that this was the right thing to do! We were both shy at first. And the taste and smell were not the same. And I feel good. It’s really really good. Look for how to satisfy and be satisfied, try. And never try not to develop complexes. Well, I didn’t get up today. Did not work out. Don’t show it. And continue differently. Like today I want to lick your ass or pussy. There are fingers.... Well, don’t offend each other. Love to everyone and good Sex!!!

Unread post by **Felix** » 12 Aug 2021, 05:14

Stepmother, Intelligent post! Thank you! There is a lot to think about and analyze!

Unread post by **alena** » 13 Aug 2021, 00:49

Bonechka: ↑14 Aug 2020, 06:33 Cummed after a couple of movements.

well, I’ve had all these types of males, they said Well, get ready now, I’ll fuck you, and then back and forth twice and everything is already pouring. always smiled and kind of consoled - well, it’s okay if it doesn’t happen to anyone)

Unread post by **niqk** » 13 Aug 2021, 08:05

alena: ↑13 Aug 2021, 00:49 Well, I’ve had all these types of males, they said, Well, get ready now, I’ll fuck you, and then twice back and forth and everything starts flowing. always smiled and kind of consoled - well, it’s okay if it doesn’t happen to anyone)

You are a kind soul!

Unread post by **Married** » 13 Aug 2021, 10:35

Most likely, such a person is prone to oral sex without reciprocity. There are guys who are sick of pussy-catching, I’m the same. Use this to your advantage (financially or for extreme sports, well, in the entrance in an elevator or car). Such people are prone to adventurism and do not spare money for the sake of a woman’s pussy. I’m not lucky with brave and willing ladies, and I don’t mind paying for it (incognito). Give him what he wants, you will be the mistress

Unread post by **Married** » 13 Aug 2021, 15:50

Be bolder, fall on your knees and suck, and then hint that he will tickle you (the guy there is not a sprinter and there is nothing shameful in that), let him prove himself and most importantly, it will be your secret. I know such stories go far

Unread post by **mouse60** » 14 Nov 2022, 01:06

I also used to cum very quickly and many didn’t have time to cum with me, although they pretended that everything was fine, but I loved to lick women and now I don’t mind giving pleasure with my tongue

Unread post by **gport** » 14 Nov 2022, 01:27

Or maybe he’s married? And he just doesn’t always have enough time

Unread post by **Alexander** » 13 Dec 2022, 23:53

I would advise BONECHKA not to waste time on a person who does not waste time on her. You are still young, and apparently have had little experience communicating with men. One of my friends tried to create a new relationship after a divorce. But then she gave up and decided to make up for lost time, she got three men and one married couple. Within six months it was noticeable how she had changed. She tried a lot in sex, stopped being ashamed of her plumpness, freed herself from unnecessary complexes and found a lot of new things for herself in sex. And a year later, one of their lovers said that he wanted to live with her for the rest of his life. And she moved in with him and left all the sites. As soon as a woman begins to love and respect herself, men immediately feel that it is not they who choose, but she.

I finished quickly and that's it

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