Erotic massage with hugs and cheating? What do you think?

Unread post by **Ivan** » 24 Sep 2020, 03:19

Hi all! I went for a regular massage, the masseuse was a beautiful girl of about 20 years old (I’m 37), she told me to undress and put on massage panties, that’s just the name and not panties, in general, when I undressed, something jumped inside me, not in the sense that I stood up and wanted to fuck her badly, and some other, incomprehensible feeling, a longing for the former freedom with an erotic slant or something, some kind of craving for her, I haven’t cheated with my wife for a long time and didn’t intend to, but this masseuse can’t get out of my head, I started fixating on young girls after this, just an obsession with intimacy, before this, sex with my wife was enough and I considered betrayal only in theory, but then the switch clicked, and ero mania turned on.
I’m interested in your opinion, do you think caresses with hugs without penetration is cheating? I’m thinking of going to a young erotic masseuse from Intimcity, but damn, if this is also cheating, then I need to slow down somehow.

Unread post by **niqk** » 24 Sep 2020, 05:42

Ivan: 24 Sep 2020, 03:19 Hello everyone! I went for a regular massage, the masseuse was a beautiful girl of about 20 years old (I’m 37), she told me to undress and put on massage panties, that’s just the name and not panties, in general, when I undressed, something jumped inside me, not in the sense that I stood up and wanted to fuck her badly, and some other, incomprehensible feeling, a longing for the former freedom with an erotic slant or something, some kind of craving for her, I haven’t cheated with my wife for a long time and didn’t intend to, but this masseuse can’t get out of my head, I started fixating on young girls after this, just an obsession with intimacy, before this, sex with my wife was enough and I considered betrayal only in theory, but then the switch clicked, and ero mania turned on.
I’m interested in your opinion, do you think caresses with hugs without penetration is cheating? I’m thinking of going to a young erotic masseuse from Intimcity, but damn, if this is also cheating, then we need to slow down somehow.

Don’t bother, buddy! This is a common crisis of forty-year-olds. Everything is no longer surprising, almost everything you dreamed of has been tried... Therefore, you just need to renew your life. Get a mistress! And fuck her with your wife! Get your wife a lover! And fuck your wife with him! Go to a swing club to watch how strange men will fuck your wife. And you will either watch and jerk off, or watch and fuck someone else’s woman yourself... And the easiest way is to go
to porn forums, fantasize and jerk off. Maybe with my wife...

Unread post by **Pregnant** » 08 Aug 2021, 20:58

There was a similar situation about 10 years ago, it still turns me on

Unread post by **Hair shirt** » 15 Aug 2021, 16:17

niqk: 24 Sep 2020, 05:42 So you just need
update your life. Get a mistress! And fuck her with your wife! Get your wife a lover! And fuck your wife with him!

Yes, I think that you must first agree with your wife about your desires. But you need to do this somehow carefully in order to encourage her to have frank conversations on this topic. Well, let’s try a threesome. And in order to be sure of the result, offer to invite the guy third. Think about where it’s best to organize all this. To make it comfortable and convenient. You can, of course, in the sauna. But the sauna is limited in time. This is bad. Well, there may still be other people’s eyes and ears in this sauna. Maybe at the dacha. But then there should be a bathhouse at the dacha. But it’s a whole topic to drag a man to this dacha. It’s not clear how to transport it there and how to get it back.

Think about when it’s better to talk about all this with your wife. Maybe right after sex. Or maybe in the process. Well, like fuck her once and then, without pulling her out, say that you really want another man to fuck her with you. She may think that you are saying this to turn on both of them. Well, he can support the idea, like yes, I want this too, and all that in the same spirit.
Well, and then after sex, return to this conversation, saying that you are so glad that you have the same opinion about this. She will ask about what? Well, tell me about inviting a man. Well, then take the initiative to find this guy.

Look for a younger guy. It will be easier for both of them to behave in his company. With an adult man of the same age, everything can be more complicated. Or things may not go as planned with him. Again, an adult man may be offended by something or not like something - after all, he is an unfamiliar adult. Well, with a guy everything should be easier.

Ask in advance about this guy’s farming. So that he has twenty centimeters, no less. This way it will be with a guarantee that sex will work out. With a small penis it can be embarrassing. The situation itself is stressful - you have to fuck an unfamiliar woman in public in an unfamiliar environment. And then there’s the small penis. In general, nothing may work out. It will be uncomfortable for everyone. Well, the guy should definitely be doing well anyway. Well, a big penis is a guarantee that your wife will like everything and that she will feel it in herself in any situation.

Agree with your wife so that sex with a third person will take place in the presence of you or her. Let’s say if you invited a guy, then you are also present and participating. And if a girl is invited, then the wife is also present and also participates. This is a guarantee that trust in each other will not be lost and relationships will be preserved. That is, sex with a third person is not cheating, but simply a form of leisure. And you are not really deceiving each other and your feelings for each other will not suffer from this.

I think that the wife may have also thought something about this topic, but she just didn’t imagine what it was can be implemented. This is very unusual and radical at first glance.
But if you convince her that your relationship will not suffer from this, then I think that it will be possible to come to an agreement with her.
You just need to choose the time and place where and how to talk to her about this. You can have a good drink in a group and start a conversation on this topic with close friends and sort of discuss this topic conceptually. Well, then continue it with your wife in private.

Or, as I said above, do it during sex. Without even taking it out, tell her that I really want to be fucked in front of you by some guy who won’t be disgusted by her. That you will be pleased and that you really want it. Motivate this by saying that you want to please her.
If you have a friend who often visits your family and whom your wife knows well, then offer your wife a threesome with a friend. This would generally be the best option. If a friend has a wife, then later it would be possible to drag his wife here into this whole business.

In fact, I think more and more often that when they say that someone is friends with families then I think that people not only make friends for a couple, but also fuck. In general, I think this occurs to many people and many people think about this topic. But few people implement this because too many stars must align for this to happen spontaneously. Well, I think it’s no less difficult for four people to agree on this at once.
But I think it’s possible.
All four would have a secret desire. If it exists, then I think people will not break for a long time. Just make sure that this is not a joke or a setup or a test. And having made sure that everything is serious, I think the people will agree and then they will be happy as hell that everything turned out so well. Because it really is such a joy for both families when they don’t have to be encrypted and deceive and when there is the possibility of such diversity. And in general, in all this there is so much new and unknown that everyone will definitely like it.

Unread post by **Andre** » 15 Aug 2021, 16:19

It is so indeed.

Unread post by **georg** » 15 Aug 2021, 21:07

Vasyanitsa: 15 Aug 2021, 16:17 In fact, here I think more and more often that when they say that someone is friends with families, then I think that people not only make friends as couples, but also fuck. In general, I think this occurs to many people and many people think about this topic. But few people implement this because too many stars must align for this to happen spontaneously. Well, I think it’s no less difficult for four people to agree on this at once.

Very difficult - indeed. At the beginning of our swing, several couples of our friends were hinted at directly - they refused without hesitation. Since then, we meet only on websites and relax for our own pleasure without any problems.

Unread post by **niqk** » 16 Aug 2021, 07:15

It is clear that any sex adventure requires careful study, preparation and execution. Usually a man thinks about reducing interest in sex with his wife. And he begins to look for a way out to a bright future, where women will lie under him with great pleasure. And he learns that there is swing, there are gangbangs and other not quite standard ways of updating feelings. So, if you do this without your wife, then when something interesting comes up, the man runs the risk of getting a complete bummer. And only because he did not prepare his wife for such adventures. And she feels left out and deceived! With all the consequences... And when the husband starts, like, jokingly offering his wife options, and even egging her on, saying that you will be the queen at this festival of lust, then she herself will begin to be interested, and then she will be drawn into the action and will no longer will run into the bushes at the most crucial moment...

Unread post by **georg** » 16 Aug 2021, 07:18

here niqk drew the only correct approach. Follow this road - and you will be happy!!!

Unread post by **niqk** » 16 Aug 2021, 07:33

"We wish you happiness!.."