Tiredness after work

Unread post by **Sabina** » 13 May 2021, 06:38

Well... I want to ask. Here. Ym. I gained a lot of weight after the third birth; I was 82 kg with a height of 170. Could this be the reason why my husband fulfills his duties, of course, but very sluggishly, or rather... if I ask for something, he says that he is tired. Could he really be tired or is this an excuse? And I stopped exciting him. I do enough caresses. This has never been a problem for me. But now he stopped being affectionate. Of course we have sex once a night. But sometimes he finishes it so quickly, in most cases I don’t have time. Well, of course, there are times when we discharge ourselves together, but for me it happens that I cannot reach the end if he does not discharge inside me. More precisely, I can discharge if it does not discharge inside me. And after the third child, it seems to me that everything got even worse. Men, tell me what can be done to bring him back or is this already the beginning of the end as you think. Please take my question seriously, this is very important to me, I want to save my family. :please:

Unread post by **Privy Councilor** » 13 May 2021, 07:50

Sabina, hello! Most likely, yes, it’s a matter of appearance. A man loves with his eyes. You need to try to lose weight.

Unread post by **S@b!|\|@** » 13 May 2021, 08:04

Possible

Unread post by **niqk** » 13 May 2021, 08:21

Or you can simply find a lover, a lover of crumpets. There are men who are simply obsessed with fatties...

Unread post by **vit123** » 13 May 2021, 10:03

and what exactly does he perform your duties? If it’s about the house and caring for children, then I’ll say it’s better to stand a shift at the machine or chop coal at the face. Household chores are really very exhausting, it has already been verified. What if he simply doesn’t want to do his duty as a man because you gained weight after giving birth. then explain to him that having a child is not buying a doll in a store and that it takes time to recover after childbirth. But you should also try to lose weight yourself. Buy yourself a trainer that, in your opinion, could help you, by the way, not as an advertisement, I’ll buy myself a TWISTER trainer, not because I’m fat, but to keep myself in good shape. 15-20 minutes of studying on it every day gives its plogs. The main thing is that after childbirth you are not genetically predisposed to weight gain.

Unread post by **S@b!|\|@** » 13 May 2021, 10:14

Oops, my mistake, well that means

Unread post by **Yurik** » 14 May 2021, 05:28

Most likely he just has a mistress, he just didn’t give it to him during pregnancy. So I found myself another one

Unread post by **Prematurity** » 14 May 2021, 17:35

Not really. It’s just a different matter. Well, think about it for yourself, if he hadn’t given it to me, I would have had 3 children from him. Yes, everything is fine in our bed and we even unload together. But no caresses. I want it like before. Tenderness of kisses and we are so quick to sleep. Damn it’s so annoying. If you men say that this is wrong, you have no idea what I think about it.

Unread post by **vit123** » 15 May 2021, 04:46

So if you don’t understand each other, then no one will help you. And here people simply express their assumptions and opinions on this matter. We didn’t lie between you and didn’t hold a candle. and how do we know why he got tired of everything in bed with you. Ask him about it yourself.

Unread post by **niqk** » 15 May 2021, 06:48

But the tenderness of kisses depends almost entirely on the woman. If she lies like a log, legs spread, believing that she has completely done her part of the job, and everything else, including calf tenderness, is the work of her husband, then it’s difficult to expect fulfillment of desires! In general, you will have to learn to caress yourself so much that your husband will blow his head off with tenderness!

Unread post by **YX1** » 15 May 2021, 07:35

For example, I get tired of sex... especially with the same woman. When a woman is in a relationship for a long time, she begins to excessively demonstrate her power... that is, to act tyranny. I am not attracted to policewomen and other high-ranking noblewomen and mistresses of the seas.

And sex and marriage (long-term relationships) in themselves are hard labor. It’s like pushing heavy trolleys somewhere in a mine for several hours, and then the "bosses" will be looking for ways to show their power more harshly. Come on, this"boss" nah!

Every time, at least a couple of hours - "do push-ups". And for some (about 3%) even 8 hours is not enough.
After some time in the relationship, women, of course, “get enough”, they no longer need hours of sex... they only need 30-40 minutes. but still... Yes, I’m simply tired of trying for the sake of anyone. And it doesn’t matter how much time and effort it takes. Basically, it gets boring.
Working hard almost until you lose your pulse, and in response - what? Assaults. "pilyozh"... out of the blue.
So I began to refuse sex. It doesn’t matter who will do what. This doesn’t concern me.

Well, as for weight gain, that’s up to anyone... Me. for example, it doesn’t matter. If only it was beautiful. Skinny people are also scary.
Once I met one of my mistresses. She turned off the light, undressed... and from the window the light of the moon fell on her... So blue and white. In general, there was a blue and white skeleton lying on the bed... I was about to run away... under some pretext, but... There were no excuses. I had to "work out" on it until the morning. I was also surprised: how did I get into such a Kashcheishna? Well, everything is simple for me. If you drank, it means: 100% - a boner... albeit in such extreme conditions.

So I don’t know what to advise here...

Unread post by **Max111** » 15 May 2021, 18:30

When children appear, sex goes away, this is a fact (incest can bring back passion. Otherwise, accept it.

Unread post by **Vetal@82** » 15 May 2021, 21:45

Just take the initiative into your own hands, buy some toys, try something new in sex, but let the initiative move away from you, and after a couple of times he himself will not give you a pass

Unread post by **Competition** » 16 May 2021, 09:58

Sometimes I’m really tired after work... sometimes I just don’t feel like it... then the next day it’s super sex)

Unread post by **Prematurity** » 17 May 2021, 02:50

Well, thank you for taking the time to answer. So I haven’t been able to go to him for three days now, or rather, I’ve been trying to avoid him, referring, of course, to these days. I thought that at the end I would start yelling or I would start to get hysterical as I was tired of these handouts. Sometimes I even wanted to smell him and kiss him when he went to work. So I hide in the toilet, like I have business there. Today I oh....ate. He puts his lips up for me to kiss him. I turned away and said that I didn’t have time to brush my teeth. I continue to cook the porridge and made an indifferent face. So he grabbed my wrists, rolled his eyes and said, “Have you believed in yourself?” He pulled my hands back behind my back, pressed me to the tabletop and kissed me, and he smiled, I closed my lips, I’m just so tired of everything, I’m turning my head here and there, he smiles, grabbed me and started kissing me in the evening. wait, he says, I didn’t understand.

Unread post by **Vitalism** » 18 Aug 2021, 12:29

I answer only for myself (not on behalf of all men). The more extra pounds, the LESS arousal. I don’t know how it is with your husband...

Unread post by **Globalchip** » 27 Oct 2022, 05:00

Yes, there is such a problem. When you are tired, you weakly want sex. Therefore, it goes better with alcohol on weekends.

Unread post by **Akteya** » 27 Oct 2022, 05:03

Lose weight urgently. We have to change every time. As for my husband, well, there is a point. The dude works from morning to evening, gets smart, and then his wife still pesters him. Sometimes they don’t want to))) focus on the weekend.

Unread post by **Sanek** » 27 Oct 2022, 05:16

Akteya,

Akteya: ↑27 Oct 2022, 05:03 Lose weight urgently.

I don’t think it’s a matter of excess weight. The guy burned out, or he found someone on the side.

Unread post by **Akteya** » 27 Oct 2022, 05:24

Sanyok, it’s better for her. A woman should change every time, so that the man doesn’t go to the left.

In any case, over time, everything calms down in a relationship

Unread post by **Sanek** » 27 Oct 2022, 05:36

Akteya: ↑27 Oct 2022, 05:24 In any case, over time, everything subsides in a relationship

subsides, yes, there is no such passion as in youth, but the attraction still remains. And desire. And if there is no desire, then I’ll go to someone else)

Unread post by **Ivankzn** » 08 May 2024, 23:18

Maybe it’s not about weight, but about basic self-care. It is clear that with three children this is difficult, but the husband must help with them in this way. If you are a stressed-out housewife with black eyes and always exhausted from children, this can also take its toll. You can, of course, try to lose weight, but you don’t have to rush straight to 40 kg, you can lose your heels, take care of your face, buy a new set of underwear. Maybe you can go camping together for a couple of nights, play erotic games with each other’s wishes coming true

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