The wife agrees to try something new, but is not active herself

Unread post by **????** » 18 May 2021, 11:19

Hello everyone!

My wife and I have been married for 10 years, we have 2 children. I want to try something new (couples massage in a salon, sex in public, etc.). My wife is interested in these ideas, but she never gets active with it. I asked her directly "If I organize everything (for example, a couples massage), will you want to try?" To which she replied "Yes". Is it worth continuing or is she doing this for my sake and she herself doesn’t want to?

Unread post by **NICK** » 18 May 2021, 12:08

Why do you think it’s for you? They really want it but are afraid to admit it. So go ahead and have fun.

Unread post by **niqk** » 18 May 2021, 13:10

Only if your wife later leaves you for the same massage therapist, don’t blame her...

Unread post by **vit123** » 18 May 2021, 14:12

Perhaps she doesn’t want this so much herself as she just wants to please you. I think that if you have one, then perhaps she may not agree to the second, finding some reasons. so try it, and everything will be visible there. Maybe she’s just shy about something. Usually in such cases they are embarrassed about their body.

Unread post by **????** » 19 May 2021, 00:01

vit123: 18 May 2021, 14:12 Perhaps she doesn’t want this so much herself, but just wants to please you

so how can you make sure that she only wants to please? just tried it once? She never offered anything new in bed at all.

Unread post by **vit123** » 19 May 2021, 01:39

So what can she suggest if she doesn’t know?

Unread post by **Sergey999** » 19 May 2021, 07:16

????, let’s fuck her together

Unread post by **Fall in love** » 19 May 2021, 07:19

Three days ago I had MFM with my wife. We met a guy in Sochi and invited him for sex. He turned out to be bi. He and his wife sucked him off for two days. It’s my first time. My wife is delighted and wants more. I don’t feel very good somehow.

Unread post by **Conspiracy** » 09 Jun 2021, 23:56

We talked to my wife, she says that she wants to, but she’s not ready. What does this mean - does not explain

what to do? Try it after a while? Or let her suggest it herself?

Unread post by **niqk** » 10 Jun 2021, 07:38

To fall in love: 19 May 2021, 07:19 I had an MFM with my wife three days ago. We met a guy in Sochi and invited him for sex. He turned out to be bi. He and his wife sucked him off for two days. It’s my first time. My wife is delighted and wants more. I don’t feel very good somehow.

This is out of habit. If you have homosexual tendencies, it will pass quickly. And if not, you won’t want it anymore...

Unread post by **vit123** » 17 Jun 2021, 02:26

????, So you try at least first once. Then ask her what suited her and what didn’t. and then Most women would like a man to offer them something new in bed. And so it’s all individual for everyone. It’s unlikely that anyone can give you the right and only advice. It was different for everyone. For example, everything happened spontaneously for us. How will it be for you is the question. But before doing anything like this, you need to have a complete understanding of your partners. if you are planning a certain format, then you need to find people who will not then have the desire to blackmail you by continuing this in their favor. The topic is a touchy one. What you need to understand here is that the information does not go beyond you and your space. How can you then look your relatives and children in the eyes?

Unread post by **Frodo** » 21 Jul 2021, 03:54

First, organize an MFM for your wife, and then you’ll look at your and your wife’s reaction

Unread post by **va234567** » 14 Aug 2022, 10:55

niqk: 18 May 2021, 13:10 Only if your wife later leaves you for the same massage therapist, don’t blame her...

oh well, half of your wives would have already run away to massage therapists like that . Where can you find so many massage therapists for all the willing wives?

Unread post by **Speedmen** » 15 Dec 2022, 01:30

????: 18 May 2021, 11:19 My wife and I have been married for 10 years, we have 2 children. I want to try something new (couples massage in a salon, sex in public, etc.). My wife is interested in these ideas, but she never gets active with it. I asked her directly "If I organize everything (for example, a couples massage), will you want to try?" To which she replied "Yes". Is it worth continuing or is she doing this for my sake and she doesn’t want to at all?

Of course, continue, not only offer, but also participate. Well, then she’ll understand that she likes it her or not.