About my first relationship

[Marina 12345]

I have been dating a much older man for two months. And I’m still a virgin, so we haven’t had sex in any form yet. But there was already something interesting in our relationship.
From the very first meeting he kissed me, touched me through my clothes, stroked my legs and “there” through my panties. I didn’t allow him anything more, and he never did anything if I was against it. Those. I made sure that he is not aggressive, and I can always stop him.
So after some time I agreed to go to his house. We sat, talked, and drank a little. I liked the way he looked after me. Then he said that he accepted my ban on sex, but asked me to at least give him the opportunity to admire me. In general, I persuaded me to first take off my skirt so that I could fully see my legs, then my blouse (I have small breasts and was without a bra), and then I took off my panties. He constantly complimented me, and, indeed, did not even try to grope me, he just looked.
We sat some more and drank a little more. Then I got dressed and he took me home. In the car, as usual, he kissed me goodbye, stroked me, touched me everywhere.
And on the next date, as soon as I got into his car, he asked me to take off my panties and give them to him. He explained that I had nothing to be ashamed of - after all, he had already seen me naked, and it would be very pleasant and exciting for him if he knew that on a date in public places I was without panties.
From that time on almost every date (if I was in a skirt or dress, and not in jeans) I took off my panties, he put them in his pocket, and at the end, when he brought them home, he returned them. At the same time, before each meeting he asked me to wear as short a skirt as possible. He even went shopping with me several times and bought me a pair of miniskirts (well, very short ones!).
This is how my first “adult” relationship develops a little unusually.

[vit123]

and what do you want? she wants it too

[North]

Wonderful TEXT. Literary and not a little... erotic. However, perhaps... this is FANTASY? Very successfully put into literary form.
Some are visible... "inconsistencies" along the way.
But that’s why life is beautiful... what can happen in it - EVERYTHING!

Marina12345, health to you! And good luck...

[Marina 12345]

Wonderful TEXT. Literary

Thank you. For this I need to thank my literature teacher.

[Marina 12345]

is this FANTASY?

My friend, who is aware of all the details of my story, advised me to write on some forum about sex. She said that there would be cool tips and comments.
That’s why I’m talking about my relationships here.
By the way, if a friend described what kind of dates she had with her first adult man, not a single person would believe her, except for that same man.

[Marina 12345]

"inconsistencies"

Everything here is anonymous, so I can clarify any details. Anyway, I already promised to tell you how our date will go this weekend.

[North]

"inconsistencies"

Everything here is anonymous, so I can clarify any details. Anyway, I already promised to tell you how our date will go this weekend.

Very interesting
Let’s clarify the little things: tell me when you were completely naked him at home - did he kiss you? If YES, then... where exactly?
And tell me, approximately... how much older is he?

[Hair shirt]

Everything here is anonymous, so I can clarify any details. Anyway, I already promised to tell you how our date will go this weekend.

If we assume that everything you wrote is true and that’s the way it is, then I wouldn’t I advised you to make an object of trade from your pussy (pardon my French). Excuse me, but you wrote above that you can clarify any details. So I’m clarifying.
The fact is that by making your pussy an object of trade and constantly forcing relationships to revolve around your pussy (whether it will give or not), you thus switch everything exclusively to this question. And sooner or later you will have to give. Some even manage to hold out this moment until after the wedding. And some weirdos get so fixated on this that they end up getting married. And in fact, it turns out solely to finally fuck her. Well, then...

Then the female sex has other lures and hooks. Borscht, flattery, clean house. But this is also not for long. And therefore, the main trump card for all times gets - pregnancy and, as a result, a child!
And here no one has anything to cover with. Not my husband, not his relatives, no one.
You can twist them as you want. At least while the child is small. And there, after a couple of years, it’s like another nail of another.

But this is all about what awaits a man if he meets a woman who begins to manipulate him with the help of her pussy.
In general, it should be noted that in my opinion there is little happiness in such families . Everything rests on pussy and hidden threats of what will happen if a man bucks and suddenly he doesn’t like this whole situation. But the truth is that he is waiting for problems that will not seem enough - everything must be divided and cut. Including children. Moreover, then pay for many many years for this whole someone else’s holiday of life.
Well, in general, all this is boring. I wanted to talk about female sensuality and sexuality.

I have long noticed that women who tend to manipulate men with the help of their pussy, as a rule, are quite indifferent to sex itself. Well, it’s understandable - you’re walking around here with a gun, guarding your genitals, and everything is very serious - wait, who’s coming!? Stop - I’ll shoot!!!
There is no time for sensuality and sexuality! Here you have to be on guard all the time. Anyone who gets close to the pussy is a potential enemy. He wants to steal a piece of the cushioning of this pussy. And we must first consider all the options for this depreciation. And what in return!? Dinner in a big store!? Refuse!!!

But let’s say on your birthday a boyfriend calls and asks you to look down from the window. And there, near the entrance, there is a new car tied with a big bow.
And this, of course, is this guy’s trump card who has practically nothing to beat - that is, he will have to give! And apparently right today. And you urgently need to go and shave, put your pussy in order - cut it if necessary, or maybe even shave it. Because excuses won’t work. Or give up the car! But show me a woman who can do such violence to herself!

And then the man finally gets what he has been wanting for the last six months and discovers that he has been screwed a little. And that’s even putting it mildly. A woman can’t get aroused. As a result, everything there is dry as in the desert. A man and a woman, they both spit on their palms and rub them. He is his dick, she is her pussy. But this is also not enough - it is still dry there. This makes her feel painful and unpleasant. The guy has already rubbed his penis and, apparently, for the next couple of weeks he will have to smear himself with “Rescuer” cream and forget about sex for a while. The woman apparently has the same story. So much for all the fucking.
And such were the expectations! And there was a lot of talk around this!!!

Well, in general...
Lovely girls! Finally, stop making your pussy an object of trade. Finally, stop luring the opposite sex with your pussy. Nothing good can come from this.
Yes, you probably shouldn’t sleep with just anyone and anywhere. It’s probably not worth changing partners every day (and for girls this is quite possible, unlike guys).
But it’s also probably not worth leading the opposite sex on a leash and refusing sex simply because the man is not generous enough or something like that It’s not enough yet.

Now try turning the situation around. Just imagine that you really need sex. And that the man is breaking down and doesn’t want to fuck you. You tell him about it in every possible way, but he breaks down like shit through a stick and keeps going off topic. Either he constantly fools his head, or he says that he is a virgin and is not yet ready for sex. But at the same time, everything is fine with his boner and he allows you to touch his penis. But he categorically doesn’t want to fuck you and keeps saying that it’s too early and that he’s not ready!

Fuck you!!!?
You want to fuck like a gun. You constantly flow when you meet him. After meeting him, your stomach hurts all evening. And you are already very fed up with all this, and he keeps nagging you about the fact that he is not ready and that he loves you very much.
Well, what about your actions!?
You don’t even know if you are ready to commit to him all of my life. You don’t even know if you will marry him. And you don’t know whether he will do it. In general, you still have four more years to study at the university and then you can still pursue a career. In general, perhaps you would like to go somewhere to work after receiving your diploma. Well, to Europe or somewhere else.

And you just met this young man who doesn’t want to fuck you because you became interested in each other. But the relationship grew into something more. And when you meet him, your stomach ache and your panties are all wet, and he keeps nagging you about the fact that he’s not ready!
Tell me - is it normal for him to torment you like that!?
And so that you did you do in this case?

[Marina 12345]

when you were completely naked at his house - did he kiss you? If YES, then... where exactly?
And tell me, approximately... how much older is he?

No, I was just looking , as I have promised. I think he didn’t want to scare me with any touches. In the first post I wrote: “I didn’t even touch him.”
He’s about 40, I graduated from 10th grade.

[Marina 12345]

hair shirt, it seems to me that you described some terrible women from the category of old maids.
I can become like this (if everything is bad in my life) in 20 years, not earlier.
And now I just don’t want to lose my virginity, because, no matter how stupid and naive it may sound, what if it will be useful to me in the future? And I’m not talking about some mercantile considerations, I mean - if I fall in love for real, maybe my future man needs this.
And now I’m not deceiving anyone either. On the contrary, I understand that an adult has only been kissing me and touching my legs for two months now, and this cannot continue for long. That’s why I discuss here on the site what I can offer him.

[Guest1234]

No one will ditch you - if you don’t give it to him, if he has serious intentions and he sees you as a life partner, then he will wait as long as you need.

[Marina 12345]

he sees in you a life partner

What kind of "life partner"? It’s just that this is my first relationship with an adult man! And generally the first.

[rmt]

hair shirt, it seems to me that you described some scary women from the category of old maids.
I can become like this (if everything is bad in my life) in 20 years, not earlier.
And now I just don’t want to lose my virginity, because, no matter how stupid and naive it may sound, what if it will be useful to me in the future? And I’m not talking about some mercantile considerations, I mean - if I fall in love for real, maybe my future man needs this.
And now I’m not deceiving anyone either. On the contrary, I understand that an adult has only been kissing me and touching my legs for two months now, and this cannot continue for long. That’s why I’m discussing here on the site what I can offer him.

Do it with your hands, it’s cool if you know how. Give a blowjob. Let it rub on your butt. You can, of course, touch the crack, but it’s dangerous here - in case it can’t stand it and sticks it deep. By the way, letting him touch your pussy is also nice for him and you. I know from my own experience. A 15-year-old girl (girl) came very quickly, and then she couldn’t even hold her legs up. Apparently from emotions.

[Hair shirt]

No, I just watched, as promised. I think he didn’t want to scare me with any touches. In the first post I wrote - "I didn’t even grope".
He is about 40, I graduated from the 10th grade.

I would advise you to lose this innocence of yours as quickly as possible. There are only problems with her, believe me. And by and large, no one really needs her.
Well, unless you are going to marry someone from the Caucasus or Central Asia and are not going to almost change your religion.
Take the man’s word for it First of all, you need a friend and buddy of the opposite sex. All these friends, acquaintances and co-workers of his same sex are actually a temporary phenomenon.
Until you appear in his life.

Next...
Men, unlike women, actually have very big problems with sex. Simply put, no one gives it to them if he is not a major and not beautiful as God.
That is, most men before their marriage have very poor and very rare sexual experience. Somewhere on occasion it happens that they manage to stick some kind of thing in the tits of a drunk and clueless woman. Who had already been fucked by about five people before him.

And so, for the most part, men are engaged in anonism. Fortunately, there is enough porn on the Internet. So people jerk off and cum and thus relieve tension. And of course, he dreams that he will finally meet the one who will fall for him and give him a hard time without being drunk and not thinking anything. But again, this is all just a dream.
In fact, the very women who really want to get married are waiting for these men to lay their nets.

These are the same women who have already tried with their pussy lure either majors or handsome men. But both of them did not fall for this business because girls are already attracted to them like flies to honey.
And these girls then begin to catch ordinary young people. These are ordinary managers, or salespeople, or consultants in retail chains. Well, in general, ordinary guys.
The same ones that no one gives and who do nothing but jerk off to porn. Well, or they’re waiting for the next corporate booze so that the three of us can fuck some drunk accountant in the back room.

Well, oh well...
To our sheep...
I would advise you to quickly lose this stupid innocence of yours. In common parlance - virgins. And as quickly as possible, adjust your body and your mentality to sex.
For some time after the loss of innocence, it will take more than a dozen sexual acts for you to start enjoying it. This is just physiology.
And it is desirable that these several dozen be regular, and not over several years.

And it is desirable that this fucker of yours is not a teenager or a young man who busy with his boner and his orgasm. And in general, for whom sex is rather some kind of feat, some kind of achievement. After which he will tell someone that same evening how he fucked someone. And for whom all this is very important for his status in his society.
Simply put, the fact that you have a potential forty-year-old fucker is good. This is what you need at the moment.

You need him to break your virginity and then to fuck you regularly twice a week for six months. During this time, you should develop sensuality.
In between sex, be sure to masturbate and be sure to bring yourself to orgasm with your fingers.
And during sex with your man, at first combine masturbation and sex. Let him fuck you, and at the same time you masturbate yourself.

In the process, try over and over again so that you masturbate during sex less and less, and still get an orgasm during sex .
Ideally, you need to ensure that you get an orgasm only from sex and without masturbation during sex.

Next....
If you are during If you have sex, you will REGULARLY have an orgasm, then you will develop a reflex that sex is a 100% orgasm. This means that any hint of sex will excite you and cause a sweet anticipation of this sex. As a result, this is growing arousal and, as a result, wet panties.
And this is exactly what is needed for sex in the first place.

Let’s say you went somewhere to dance with someone and took his hand and put it in your panties. And his finger immediately sank between your wet big lips.
And you both have already flown away!
And both of you no longer need to say anything to each other - they are unnecessary words!
You are already with him everyone said with their pussy. You can feel his reaction through his trousers or jeans. And believe me, there will be this reaction absolutely!

Although it should be noted that with your good sexuality, which has been inflamed by someone else, it may happen that your potential fucker may be embarrassed at a party somewhere.
And finish only by thrusting it. Or cum when you haven’t yet reached orgasm.
Yeah, that’s a bummer. And he often hangs out with young people.

So if you want a 100% cafe, then take two young people with you to a private place. This is, in a sense, a guarantee.
And by the way, there is nothing reprehensible in this. And no matter what anyone says, it doesn’t impose absolutely anything on you.
You can fuck two guys and then just walk by and pretend that you don’t know them.

[Guest 1234]

He is your first and you are afraid of losing him, that says it all

[Marina 12345]

He is your first and you are afraid of losing him, that says it all

Not even the first yet. I like meeting and communicating with him, otherwise I wouldn’t bother with the topic “what to offer him.” But what does "all" mean???

[North]

It is clear... that the girl is interested in communicating with an adult man... attentive to her.
But I do not rule out... that he "wants, but cannot"! - It looks kind of strange: she’s visiting him... and at his request, she herself, a virgin... strips naked. In my opinion, this is unrealistic?
Something is wrong. IMHO

[Hair shirt]

What kind of "life partner"? It’s just that this is my first relationship with an adult man! And generally the first.

Well, yes! What a life partner!
You have your whole life ahead of you. And in all these relationships of yours with a man, the only thing that connects you is your pussy.
For you, this is something new and some kind of anticipation of something that you don’t know yet. And for him, too, perhaps this is also the first such experience.
A girl who has not yet had sex and who perceives all these actions of yours towards herself for the first time. And for her it’s all like a clean coin.

In my life there was once a similar case. I was already an adult, and the girl was a schoolgirl. I liked her. But I didn’t know for sure whether I needed her in my life as a wife or even a life partner. Well, I just liked this girlish spontaneity, the freshness of her appearance and actions. And this girl, apparently having some experience communicating with the opposite sex at school, began to try (as I now understand) to manipulate me. Either she wants to kiss, or she doesn’t want to. Either you can touch her in different places, or you can’t.

She herself gets into your panties and jerks your dick and says how big it is, then she generally makes round eyes if anything.
I could of course her fuck on occasion. But this would be solely my decision and a consequence of my pressure on her. And she would have to give in to me, and it would be just penetration. She might as well have broken her virginity with a cucumber (she was supposed to be virgin). Again, she’s a schoolgirl. But somehow I didn’t want to go to prison, especially under such an article.

And that’s why I didn’t really force her to do anything like that. She continued to blow my mind. She was still just a girl and it was apparently not enough for her that someone loved her and that someone needed her. Apparently, some other things that accompany the relationship were needed. And she once announced that she was pregnant. Like, I’m pregnant, your actions!
Like she went to the village for the summer and someone from the village fucked her there.

Well, I say, okay, let’s go Let’s sign. Let’s say that from me and there we will somehow sort all this out.
Well, full of happiness, tears of gratitude and then the recognition that she is not pregnant at all. It was like a test.
I was a little freaked out because I was already an adult and wasn’t used to such situations when they jerk you so seriously just like that.

Well, after some time (it seems this relationship lasted about a year) I cooled off towards this girl. And it somehow happened by itself. It was like he just took off some glasses. Once again, the reality is already different!
And somehow it turned out even strange for me that I started something like that with some girl from her own yard. That girl was also young, but she had already studied at some kind of trade school and even worked somewhere as a saleswoman in some kind of dairy department in a store.

I went after her after work and we went somewhere take a walk somewhere. I was unmarried, had some money at the very least, and we were walking or driving somewhere. There are so many places in the city where you can go, sit and chat.
We were both interested in each other. I, taught by this last girl, was not in a hurry, I didn’t rush things. And we behaved like two friends, but only of different sexes.
And I must say that this girl trusted me one hundred percent and was ready for anything. One day I was at her work somewhere in the back room. And she says if you want, you can close the door from the inside, there’s a latch there.
I say - how are you!? And she says I’m like you.

I kissed her. Almost for the first time. Then he kissed her on the neck, and you won’t believe it, her legs just gave way. In the literal sense of the word. I barely had time to grab her under the arms. He sat him down on the table. She takes my hand and says - look! And sticks it in his panties. And there’s a flood. The panties are all wet. There is also a stain on the table. And it keeps pouring and pouring out of her. Well, who can tolerate this!
But they started knocking on the door and then they said, Lenka, if you are here, then the manager is urgently looking for you to accept the goods. The car has arrived. And they left.
Well, we had to urgently stop this whole thing.

But I still didn’t push the matter and waited for her to climb on top of me. It was more fun than harassing her and, as a result, begging her. That is, I didn’t want the relationship to go in this vicious circle - like I’ll give it to you, I don’t know when and I don’t know why.
And that’s how it would have happened over time. But my work friends somehow dragged me into the women’s dormitory of one plant and my life took a completely different direction. I practically lived in a women’s dorm. Probably about two years ago. I left this dorm for work and returned there again. It was interesting. We were a group of young people and the girls in the dorm were interested in us.

The dorm closed at nine o’clock and there was a watchman who did not let strangers in. But we climbed through the second floor. There were bars on the first floor windows. You climb along it, then pull yourself up to the second floor window and knock on the glass. They open the window and let you in. You leave the apartment on the landing and go where you need to go.

[Hair shirt]

But what does "all" say?

He wanted to say that you really value this relationship with an adult forty-year-old man. Well, it’s like it flatters you, you like it, you yourself think it’s cool. Again, you probably travel with him in his car. It’s comfortable and pleasant. He opens the door for you, sits you down, closes your door, then walks around the car and sits down himself. This is all kind of cool.

And you probably have experience in relationships with your peers. Who constantly have no money and who have only one thing on their mind - how to fuck you. And the conversations are all on the same topic - what is happening at school and about their peers and about their parents. How good or bad they are.
And with this grown man, things may be completely different for you. You’re not used to this. And this guy is probably the same age as your dad or mom. And all this is somehow very cool that it’s almost like your dad, instead of scolding you or building you up, communicates so well and affectionately with you.

That he is so gentle with you and that he does not behave according to treat you like a boss. Because parents generally behave this way towards their children - like bosses towards subordinates. And that’s actually how it is.

[niqk]

Well, Marina, haven’t your ears curled up yet? Get used to it. Gain life experience. Your adult life begins...

[Marina 12345]

she is visiting him... and at his request - herself, a virgin at the same time... strips naked. In my opinion, is this unrealistic?

I remember from kindergarten and school physical education how exciting it is when boys spy on you changing clothes. Besides, I drank, albeit a little. So I decided to try what it was like to undress in front of an adult man.

[Groovy]

Marina, does it excite you that an adult man is looking at you naked? Doesn’t this make you feel bad? Well, have fun, both of you, why complicate it. I would really like to undress in front of several girls, but where can I find them) although I already had a little experience, it’s cool) don’t worry

[North]

she is visiting him... and at his request - herself, a virgin at the same time... strips naked. In my opinion, is this unrealistic?

I remember from kindergarten and school physical education how exciting it is when boys spy on you changing clothes. Besides, I drank, albeit a little. So I decided to try what it’s like to undress in front of an adult man.

Elegant, playful and... literary - it’s said! Bravo, Marina12345 !