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Recently there was an article about how a couple went on vacation and their wife’s lover was in their company.
I also want to tell you.
I am 41 years old. My wife is 40, but looks like she’s 30. We’ve been married for 13 years. She has a boyfriend. Caucasian from Moscow. 35 years. He gives her flowers, writes love SMS, takes her home in a car. Sometimes they have dinner or breakfast together. I read all this in their SMS. I don’t know if there was sex or not. If before we had sex once a week, now every day with her. I have jealousy and I want to fight for it. Friends, is it worth it or should we disperse them?
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It’s not worth overclocking. Better... start CHANGING. And she herself will understand... how SUITABLE you are for her!
Do you understand?
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So she doesn’t leave my side. We have a tender relationship. She confesses her love to me all the time
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some people do, I personally don’t understand such relationships, but how does a Caucasian react to you?
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There is no word about me in the correspondence
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To fall in love: 27 Jul 2021, 12:38 There is no word about me in the correspondence
Well, don’t worry! Don’t make life miserable for yourself and your wife!
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Didn’t quite understand what you meant?
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To fall in love, the fact that she swears her love to you every day, it’s not out of love for you! Maybe this is not pleasant for you to hear, it is she who has such a psychological reaction to her betrayal in front of you, that is, she knows what she has done and is doing and she has a feeling of guilt and inconvenience and such a defensive reaction of her psyche in front of you! The only thing I can tell you is that the Caucasian guy is fucking her, this is 101% and you yourself should understand this and most importantly, don’t think that everything will continue quietly and peacefully or end quietly! There is a high probability that the Caucasian is simply preparing something with her for you, make sure that one fine day there is no surprise waiting for you, you will come home, and the locks have been replaced and Caucasian guys with beards will meet you and explain to you what to do on the doorstep didn’t appear again and also that you owe your ex-wife.....there may be a lot of options.... But I’ll also tell you that you shouldn’t expect anything good from your wife’s vows of love with you! And the fact that you have sex every day is that she has a type of excitement from the feelings of a group sex, she dreams of a group sex, she is alone and two or three men and she seems to be doing it, during the day this Caucasian guy fucks her somewhere and upon returning home you are staring and she has the feeling of group sex! But for you this is no longer a family, because a family is two people who value each other and are ready to support their half at any moment. And now you just have cohabitation and sex at night. Personally, I would send her to xxx and if you have money, I would take another lady of about 20 years old and fuck her...
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First of all, she always spoke words of love. Secondly, he is a Caucasian from Moscow and has an education, and thirdly, he knows me and my capabilities. Therefore something different. She doesn’t want a gangbang. This has already been discussed.
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To fall in love, well, if you discussed a group sex with her, then your wife realized that she can have fun with anyone she’s interested in... and you don’t have to tell her anything, and if you find out, then there won’t be anything terrible for her... But don’t rule out the possibility that it’s you you know for one, but there may be others and more than one that you don’t know about.... Life is yours, the main thing is that everything suits you :cat2:
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There comes a time in the life of any couple when bftovukha eats up feelings. You are now in just such a period. Pranks with Caucasians are like a breath of fresh air in your relationship. Feelings have intensified, there is a desire to fight for my wife. And now another question. The wife did all this behind her back, on the sly, and how can you live with a person you don’t trust? After all, in addition to the Caucasian, there may be a lot of fuckers about whom you won’t know anything. So here you and your wife need to make a decision together, either change your sex relationship, try something new, or break up if you don’t want to share your spouse with someone. The choice is yours.
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To fall in love: 27 Jul 2021, 13:20 First, she always spoke words of love. Secondly, he is a Caucasian from Moscow and has an education, and thirdly, he knows me and my capabilities. Therefore something different. She doesn’t want a gangbang. This has already been discussed.
Yes, a difficult situation. The only question is, does the Caucasian know that you know everything? If you are not afraid of him, then if I were you, I would simply somehow indicate that you know everything.
Next...
About the wife. I think so...
You can fuck your wife with your friends, colleagues, relatives. Anywhere - in a sauna across the road, at the dacha, on vacation. Anywhere, anytime and in any composition. But provided that no one hides anything from anyone. And it’s a thrill. But when they fuck you, I think that this is no longer good. And all this is somehow too much.

After all, your wife is the person closest to you in the world. You share literally everything with him. And the wife is actually closest to all relatives, children and anyone in general.
And this person is essentially betraying you, leaking you to some other person. Who has no idea what’s on his mind.
Well, okay, even if he just liked your wife and he has no one to fuck with and he fell for her. And he fucks her and can’t get enough of her. And every time he wants more and more. Well, it happens.

Well, my wife likes it all. Again, it is possible that this Caucasian man fucks her very well. Well, maybe he has a dick of decent size and your wife feels just like she was fourteen years old with him.
Maybe he has such a dick that it fills her vagina completely and she’s just crazy about these sensations and maybe she’s there during sex with him, everything flows without stopping and cums over and over again. Maybe he fucked her once in the beginning like this in full and she got hooked on this thing like a drug!?

Why not...
Good sex is a sea of ​​pleasure. I knew one dude about whom I knew that he didn’t lie about his women. And I heard what this guy said about this or that girl and I heard what the girls said about sex with him. So the testimony converged - sometimes women simply lost their legs for a while from the depth of sensations and emotions from pleasure during sex.
And your wife could simply get hooked on this thing like some kind of drug. And every time she just wants to repeat these sensations again. It’s like drugs, like booze, like cigarettes, like food for those who are overweight.

And it’s not entirely clear what to do with all this. The wife understands perfectly well that this Caucasian man is unlikely to connect his life with her. Caucasian man likes to fuck your wife. It’s possible that he himself is also turned on by the way your wife is attracted to his dick. It pleases him and he is ready to continue it and is ready to pay for it. In the sense that courting your wife is time and money for him. But he likes it. And they both don’t think what will happen next. Neither he nor your wife.

But I described a good situation. When it’s all just about your wife and that she likes sex with this Caucasian man. But what if this is not so?
And this is precisely the problem.
Because if it’s just all about sex, then this can be solved. You can talk to your wife somehow. In the sense of not throwing hysterics and scandals at her, but simply saying that you know everything and that we are not only husband and wife, but also two good friends in life. And ask her to just be honest about all this. But don’t give her an option in advance that suits you. That is, do not ask leading questions. Just listen to her patiently and not react like a jealous husband. Just listen like a good friend. You can even offer both of them a drink during this conversation.

And let her tell her version. And the two of you will decide what to do with all this.
As for sex with a Caucasian man, tell her right away that it doesn’t shock you and that why not. Just challenge her to be frank. To be completely frank. Let him talk about sex with this Caucasian man. In the process you will understand what is going on here. And the two of you will decide what to do with all this.

But I think that in any case you need to somehow intervene in this whole matter. Because the people above wrote correctly - you never know what’s on this Caucasian’s mind. You never know all sorts of different cases and scenarios when something or someone was developed through women.
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hair shirt, I completely agree with your thoughts that if the husband knows about a Caucasian and besides this there may be no one knows how many Caucasians, and the husband knows about the relationship and fucking his wife on the side and reacts perfectly to it and is silent, why not say then, darling, I know everything about your fucking on side, so that we can openly start trying everything we can and with whom we can together. I don’t think that if a wife finds out that her husband knows everything, then after that she will behave like a decent virgin wife :cat2:
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Nikitas: 28 Jul 2021, 01:45 Vasyanitsa, I completely agree with your thoughts that if a husband knows about a Caucasian man and besides this Caucasian man, it may not be known how many, and the husband knows about the relationship and fucking his wife on the side and reacts well to it and is silent, why I wouldn’t say then, my dear, I know everything about your fucking on the side, so that we can openly start trying everything we can and with whom we can together. I don’t think that if a wife finds out that her husband knows everything, then after that she will behave like a decent virgin wife
Do you give any advice in this topic, that in another...
Push your lover in the ass...
Bullshit...
You advise in such a way that it seems that you don’t believe what’s on the other end a real person and that the situation is real. And if you don’t believe it from the beginning, then why are you writing something?
Out of hooliganism? Why?

Just imagine - you are communicating with a friend. You’ve been drinking and he drunkenly tells you this! And what!? Are you going to advise him of this crap that you are advising here on this forum!?
Yes, I think that after this advice he will get into your ear. And he will be right. Because you are talking about some kind of blizzard that has nothing to do with what we are talking about here.
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Nikitas: 27 Jul 2021, 13:15 To fall in love is what she swears in love with you every day, it’s not out of love for you! Maybe this is not pleasant for you to hear, it is she who has such a psychological reaction to her betrayal in front of you, that is, she knows what she has done and is doing and she has a feeling of guilt and inconvenience and such a defensive reaction of her psyche in front of you! The only thing I can tell you is that the Caucasian guy is fucking her, this is 101% and you yourself should understand this and most importantly, don’t think that everything will continue quietly and peacefully or end quietly! There is a high probability that the Caucasian is simply preparing something with her for you, make sure that one fine day there is no surprise waiting for you, you will come home, and the locks have been replaced and Caucasian guys with beards will meet you and explain to you what to do on the doorstep didn’t appear again and also that you owe your ex-wife.....there may be a lot of options.... But I’ll also tell you that you shouldn’t expect anything good from your wife’s vows of love with you! And the fact that you have sex every day is that she has a type of excitement from the feelings of a group sex, she dreams of a group sex, she is alone and two or three men and she seems to be doing it, during the day this Caucasian guy fucks her somewhere and upon returning home you are staring and she has the feeling of group sex! But for you this is no longer a family, because a family is two people who value each other and are ready to support their half at any moment. And now you just have cohabitation and sex at night. Personally, I would send her to xxx and if you have money, I would take another lady of about 20 years old and fuck her...
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Sackcloth, I was just joking, "on planting him in the ass"... It was just a joke.. Treat it with humor. But seriously, it’s a wonderful insidious plan, if there is a feeling of resentment and revenge in your soul, it’s a great option to invite him to a threesome and make him gay in front of his wife, he fucked his wife, well, that’s why he can’t fuck him :cat2:
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Nikitas: 28 Jul 2021, 02:16 Vasyanitsa, I was just joking, "don’t put him in the ass"... It was just a joke.. Treat it with humor. But seriously, it’s a wonderful insidious plan, if there is a feeling of resentment and revenge in your soul, it’s a great option to invite him to a threesome and make him gay in front of his wife, he fucked his wife, well, that’s why he can’t fuck him
Twenty-five again...
Well, would you follow this advice yourself? Well, even if you manage to do this, then what? Should I commit suicide immediately or go on the run? But where?
And you really begin to believe that only schoolchildren write here for hooligan reasons. Like writing anonymously on behalf of an adult. But where do these adult brains come from?
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hair shirt, I can’t understand why I’m suicidal or go on the run?))) for example, he agreed to have sex with a threesome, a wife and two men!) at some point he became cancer, at that moment I sharply planted him, for example!))) And what next?) ) What’s the problem?)) what will he and can do after that?) sex in a threesome already implies that just as he fucked someone, he can be fucked too. After all, no one told him and no one agreed that they would only fuck someone’s wife, and no one would fuck him?) Maybe people thought that everyone would fuck him too. Well, if you are very indignant, you can always apologize :cat2:
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Judging by the correspondence, they did not have sex. There were three breakfasts and one lunch. He takes me home almost every day in the evening. From time to time he takes up arms from work to home.
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Well, if only a blowjob at most. But in the car during the day he will be embarrassed to do
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Metatropism: 28 Jul 2021, 06:20 Judging by the correspondence they did not have sex. There were three breakfasts and one lunch. He takes me home almost every day in the evening. From time to time he takes up arms from work to home.
All husbands think so. But in fact, there may have been sex more than once or twice.
Three breakfasts and one lunch...
This is about the same as three times from behind and one blowjob...
I think that the sex has already been good. And I think that my wife really likes this whole thing.
And they fuck at work. On his or hers. It is not difficult to write out a pass either for her work or for his. And there, everyone at work already knows where there are places where no one looks. There are back stairs, there is a warehouse. there is some kind of change house for workers, there is some kind of server room. And there are a bunch of other places where no one will disturb.

In general, this is a very bad call from your wife. All this is very bad. In the sense that why live like this if the person you live with is deceiving you.
It turns out that he essentially betrayed you. That is, if something is being done behind your back, then with the same success another fucker can invite her with him to a happy future together. And if she deceives you, then it turns out that she will also deceive you and exchange you for someone else.

Well, why are you wasting your life on a person who can leave you at any moment?
I know from experience that if a woman meets with someone in person several times already, it means sex has already happened. Was yesterday, was perhaps today and will be tomorrow.
But why does she need all this, this is the most important question.

There are women who marry for convenience or not love. But meanwhile, those who are in constant search. And who constantly shoot their eyes and do not miss a single promising man in their opinion. And who are trying to catch this guy on a hook on which, instead of a worm, is her pussy and her body. Women know that this works with men and that men, despite their seemingly brutality and rudeness, are actually drawn to gasps and sighs, to declarations of love, to affection and tenderness.

And if a man is ready to take her to this happy and prosperous future of his, then the husband rushes in without any regret.
But this is also not fatal. And as they say there - the wife left for another - it remains to be seen who was luckier.
It’s worse if the wife is used in some way against the man. How is another question. But one way or another, this could be a matter of life and death.

Therefore, I think this whole situation with a potential lover should simply be declassified. That is, as they say, to tear off the covers. Do not scold, do not make scenes of jealousy. But just to declassify it.
Well, for example, he accompanies her home by car. He drives up to the house, opens the car door for her, she gets out and there you are standing. And they both see you.
And at home, just show your cards and ask her about text messages and spill everything you know. And ask her to tell you everything honestly.

I know women have a rule not to inject drugs under any circumstances - for example, they specifically take her off someone’s dick, and she continues to claim that it’s not what you thought . Like, well, now the reproaches and suspicions will begin...
Yes. But you need to make it clear somehow and unambiguously that you would like to clarify this issue and some excuses that this is just a business relationship will not suit you and that if you are not satisfied with her answer, then you will think about whether this whole business is worth continuing. I mean further cohabitation.

You need to understand that if you let this whole thing go, and she doesn’t admit to anything and this whole thing just comes to naught, then this will happen again and again.
Don’t hope that this will all end. And you personally will simply lose her in the end and you yourself will lose not only her but also many years of your life there.
In the sense that you lived there for some years, taking into account your wife, the fact that she is there. Because of this, they refused to do something in their lives, or planned something completely differently. And then you will be very sorry for the lost time.
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I largely agree with you. True, there are a lot of subtleties here... Let’s say, the husband is a cuckold by nature and he will simply be dragged away by the thought that his wife is a success and she is being fucked both right and left... Another subtlety: the husband is used to the comfort of home, and it’s a matter of arranging a showdown very unpleasant. Therefore, he will simply ignore any evidence of his wife’s infidelity... Another subtlety: the husband also has a stupid face. And he walks to the left. An unspoken agreement will be established:
not to interfere with each other...
Yes, there can be a lot more...
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niqk: 28 Jul 2021, 08:32 I agree with you in many respects. True, there are a lot of subtleties here... Let’s say, the husband is a cuckold by nature and he will simply be dragged away by the thought that his wife is a success and she is being fucked both right and left... Another subtlety: the husband is used to the comfort of home, and it’s a matter of arranging a showdown very unpleasant. Therefore, he will simply ignore any evidence of his wife’s infidelity... Another subtlety: the husband also has a stupid face. And he walks to the left. An unspoken agreement will be established:
not to interfere with each other...
Yes, there can be a lot more...
Well, In principle, yes, you can leave everything as is. And this is exactly what I understand and is inclined to do by the author of the topic. That they say let everything go as it goes. He probably understands that this Caucasian man is already fucking his wife with all his might.
But this husband has his advantages - he has awesome sex with her, she also treats him tenderly.

nBut there is no smell of a cuckold here. Cuckolding is when a wife does not hide anything from her husband and tells everything and maybe even asks permission to have sex with one or another guy she likes.
In principle, I agree - there is something in all this.
Here Just imagine that you liked some woman at work or you went to the dacha and there the neighbor was all crazy. And he makes signs of attention to you.

And you tell your wife - listen, did you see your neighbor and how she’s hitting on me!? The wife says - well, yes! And you both laugh.
And then she tells you - well, flood the bathhouse today and invite her. And I’ll also take a steam bath with you and then I’ll get drunk and fall asleep drunk. Well, how it goes.
And then he will kiss you on the lips and say - bunny, I love you so much, I will do anything for you. If you want to fuck her, fuck her, of course. It’s good for your health.
And I love you and believe you!

Well, not an idyll, huh!? Would you like for you to have such a wife and for her to understand you so well and treat you like that?
Now imagine the opposite situation - when the husband says the same thing to his wife - did you like that man!? Well, fuck him!
I will only be happy for you!

People call just such men cuckolds.
What do they call such women? :-)
I think that there are such women who like it when their man fucks her girlfriends, neighbors, his co-workers.

I would be there the author of the topic would simply translate this whole matter into the plane of the fact that he knows about everything, and his wife tells him everything.
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And there are such wives... :cat1:
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Nikitas, dear, you are spouting such nonsense that My stomach is bursting with laughter, keep up the good work, even if you burn with all your heart :please:
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They wrote some kind of poem. The man shared his experiences and desire to fight for his woman. And not with fists and an offer to have a gangbang.
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Frodo, people laugh, keep laughing :cat1:
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Judging by what the author writes, sex really hasn’t happened yet
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To fall in love: 27 Jul 2021, 13:20 First, she always spoke words of love. Secondly, he is a Caucasian from Moscow and has an education, and thirdly, he knows me and my capabilities. Therefore something different. She doesn’t want a gangbang. This has already been discussed.
Plin, I listened to what Nikitas told you. No matter how bad things turn out for you.
But of course, if you yourself selected her for this matter, then that’s a different question. Maybe you have someone yourself. But still be careful. Women with a cool head most often do not know how to go sideways.
But if she just decided to blatantly deceive you for no reason at all, then nothing good will happen further.
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niqk: 28 Jul 2021, 09:45 And there are such wives...
And what are they called?
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Vasyanitsa: 29 Jul 2021, 07:03
niqk: 28 Jul 2021, 09:45 And there are such wives...
And what are they called?
Advanced! :smile001:
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