Very rarely sex with wife

Unread post by **Zdah** » 23 Sep 2021, 05:27

Hi all. I want to ask my wife and I very rarely have sex (maybe someone can help me with this word with advice) we have sex once maximum twice a month and then once we masturbate to each other well (maybe orally) she says that she is very tired and really wants to sleep but At the same time, he sits on Instagram for an hour while lying in bed. I clean the house, and for the last 10 years the dishwasher has been washing the dishes and she is cooking, but it’s like I’m not lying on the stove either, I’m working. I took him on vacation and stayed at sea for 20 days. And in general, I want some kind of female attention, I want to kiss her, she turns away, I want to hug her, she says give me personal space. Tired of being without female attention. I want you to come home from work and kiss you, not that it’s so late.

Unread post by **nikolay.andreev** » 23 Sep 2021, 05:29

I also have sex with my wife once every month or two

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Do you enjoy sex with your wife?

Unread post by **Zdah** » 23 Sep 2021, 05:33

Yes, I can’t understand why I broke my whole head before, everything was fine where she was in the mood in the park in the elevator at the entrance in the car on the train. And now no, that’s all.

Unread post by **Zdah** » 23 Sep 2021, 05:35

Yes, of course I enjoy it. I know that she likes it when she gets cunnilingus, I do it.

Unread post by **nikolay.andreev** » 23 Sep 2021, 05:36

When I don’t have sex with my wife for a long time, I often start jerking off; it’s pointless to pester my wife anyway.

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My wife also loves cunnilingus, she cums from it several times

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But my wife doesn’t know how to give a blowjob at all, it hurts me and there’s no pleasure at all

Unread post by **Zdah** » 23 Sep 2021, 05:40

Yes, I would like to understand this problem. He always pestered her, bought her beautiful underwear, bought her different sexy outfits, panties, in the end, with a slit, everything lay there and was never put on. Lately I’ve stopped pestering her and paying attention to her, let’s see what happens next.

Unread post by **Zdah** » 23 Sep 2021, 05:42

It’s not mine that does it, sometimes it slips and it hurts, but overall it doesn’t do badly, even sometimes it practices deep, but damn it once a month. I wish I could do it more often.

Unread post by **Mother Heroine** » 23 Sep 2021, 05:45

ZDA7: ↑23 Sep 2021, 05:40 Lately I stopped pestering her and paying attention to her, I’ll see what happens next.

Nothing will change on the wife’s side. Perhaps she is already in love with someone on the side. When you leave her, then yes, she will start trying to get you back through sex. And before that - hardly.

Unread post by **nikolay.andreev** » 23 Sep 2021, 05:46

Have you tried jerking off in front of her?

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Unread post by **Zdah** » 23 Sep 2021, 05:50

Everything is possible. But she is now sitting at home with her child, there are cameras around the perimeter of the house and she clearly won’t bring anyone into the house. And I don’t want to leave because we’ve been through a lot together and I LOVE her very much.

Unread post by **Zdah** » 23 Sep 2021, 05:52

Yes, I tried, then she generally goes to another room and sleeps there.

Unread post by **nikolay.andreev** » 23 Sep 2021, 06:04

And mine, too, when I start masturbating, the kids go to bed

Unread post by **Zdah** » 23 Sep 2021, 06:08

Yes, the same garbage goes to sleep on the first floor in the guest room, although there are still rooms on the second.

Unread post by **Wolfone** » 18 Oct 2021, 09:58

With my wife it’s different and not like…. If you live a family life for a particularly long time, then everyday life gradually absorbs all the passion that was - in connection with which - experiments help, in bed there’s nowhere without it!!!

Unread post by **dbhnefk** » 19 Oct 2021, 05:25

If there is a break from everyday life, but there is still no sex, it means she simply doesn’t want it with you. If talking doesn’t help, then either get a divorce or take on a mistress.

Unread post by **Guest_15** » 19 Oct 2021, 08:32

dbhnefk: ↑19 Oct 2021, 05:25 If there is a break from everyday life, but there is still no sex, then she simply doesn’t want it with you. If talking doesn’t help, then either get a divorce or have a mistress.

Yes, that’s all true. Either get a divorce, or...
And she apparently isn’t afraid of divorce. That’s why he behaves this way. Or he knows that you are not ready for divorce, either morally or otherwise. That’s why she’s not afraid.
Well, everything suits her - she has money, she has a place to live, she’s registered in the living space, she has children if she has anything.
I heard they don’t behave so confidently if there are children no, and my husband already had housing before the wedding. That is, it is not joint property, she has no rights to it.
And then, of course, she does not behave so confidently and even if she doesn’t like something, she does not behave so freely. Somehow she finds some excuses.

Well, in general, I think that why continue to live like this.
It is obvious that she already perceives you as a worked-out option and does not see any prospects. And she no longer wants to continue to somehow build around you.
But the worst thing is that all this happened from the very beginning, when you got married. You just didn’t see all this because she demonstrated unearthly love and affection towards you. And you fell for all this like a deer. However, everything is underway. How to recognize that they are marrying you now for convenience!? No way!

Well, only if someone from the outside sees it. Well, or someone will overhear her conversation with some friend or her relatives. Where she will tell you exactly what and how it really is. But it often happens that they even tell their husband, but he still doesn’t believe it and says that it’s all gossip and rumors and that someone just wants to spoil things in this way.

Well, in general, what I can advise in this situation...
Start preparing for an independent life. That is, are you ready, let’s say, to start living without her tomorrow?
Imagine this from tomorrow and start doing it as if she didn’t exist and you lived alone.

And what does a man need first of all when he is alone and unmarried!? Right! You need to feel good, have good health and look good.
If you are overweight, then start looking after your health. Start counting calories and eat no more than 1300 kilocalories per day. And force yourself not to eat after six in the evening.
Also sign up and start going to the gym. Create an exercise program to boost your metabolism. Without this, you won’t be able to do anything with your body.

You don’t need to swing hard and lift heavy weights either. You just need to start putting a little stress on your body on a regular basis. At first your muscles will ache. About a week. Then all this will pass. Don’t strain your body too much. To avoid getting any injuries or sprains. Otherwise you will only make everything worse. In addition to strength training, also walk on a treadmill. Forty minutes each lesson.
To avoid getting killed, you don’t need to run on the track. I did this - I ran for 5 minutes at a speed of 8 km per hour. He walked for five minutes at a speed of 5 km per hour. And so for forty minutes. In general, it turned out to be about 5 kilometers.
Be sure to drink water on the path and drink at least half a liter of water somewhere during the walk. This is very important.

You will be sick for two weeks. Then everything will settle down, provided that you continue to exercise regularly.
The results from the exercises will begin to appear no earlier than in a month.

Well, in general, don’t lose your head, you don’t need to change anything, and just take care of yourself. And prepare yourself for the fact that you will part with her. So that by that moment you are not a man who has neglected himself, but a handsome, interesting and pumped-up young man. If you don’t have a car, then buy a car. On credit or immediately for full price if you have the money. And immediately buy a new and, if possible, good car. Because this car will definitely be yours after the divorce. And it will be very useful to you when you are alone. When you are on wheels, you will be of greater interest to the opposite sex in any situation.

Well, what else...
If your profession is so-so, then think about where you can I was about to go to school right now to change my profession to one with more money. Well, in general, while you have not yet been thrown overboard and while you are warm and more or less comfortable, use this time to prepare for jumping overboard.

As a result, if you start training right now you will have to spend all your time on this. Well, judge for yourself if you study somewhere in the evenings, and even go to the gym at least twice a week. Moreover, you can finish your studies at home if you study for someone else somewhere. And time will fly by quickly, so you won’t even have time to look back.
Well, if you manage to steal something somewhere at work, or somehow intercept some extra money somewhere, then put this money in some bank. Well, so that you have some amount of money for the first time. Well, let’s say an amount on which you can very modestly live alone for at least six months. After the divorce, this money will be useful to you.

As you take care of yourself, perhaps after some time you will feel within yourself that you don’t really need your wife. Considering that you do not receive any moral or other support from her. And that you have already become strangers to each other. And you are connected by the stamp in your passport and the upcoming division of property.

As for children, if you have them...
Don’t worry about children. This is a common mistake of all men. And also, don’t take revenge on your wife for screwing you up and stealing so many years of your life. It’s all empty and you can’t get these years back. And you need to understand that you need to live on and build your life without her.
Don’t create illusions about children. From the moment you leave, you will cease to be a father to your children. And your wife will try to find another man and will also try to have the children call this other man daddy.

And this way it will be even better for everyone. The children will have a father. Because what comes on the weekend once a month, if possible, is not the father. What the hell!
You simply won’t have time to take care of these children of yours from your first marriage. Because there is nothing worse than this Sunday dad. Yes, and for the children, too, this all comes out sideways.
The stepfather will treat your children badly because of you. And he will kick them around without considering them his own. It will be better for everyone if he accepts them as his children.
And you simply will not interfere with them.

Believe me, it will be better for everyone, including you. Any man who decides to get a divorce should understand this. That from now on he will lose his children.
But on the other hand, he will lose them anyway from the moment they become adults. They will still leave home and they will have their own life and they won’t really need you.
Well, that’s fine if they extract money from you from time to time.

Unread post by **alex503311** » 20 Oct 2021, 03:52

For me, this is the main thing, even if he doesn’t clean, doesn’t feed, I’ll forgive you.
And if he doesn’t want to and pushes you away, I would talk, or sleep together, or teach a raccoon to cook and divorce.

Unread post by **niqk** » 20 Oct 2021, 08:41

Well, divorce is the easiest way out. Theoretically... But practically - where to put your and her feelings? Shared children?
Shared housing? Total income? Etc., etc.... Moreover, there are no guarantees that the situation will not repeat with the new wife -
no. And it won’t!
But it’s all about hormones, habits and momentary emotions. And here specialists from various psychological services can help you, where you should turn for advice. There are unlikely to be such qualified specialists on the porn forum...

Unread post by **Sergey Bee** » 20 Oct 2021, 09:35

ZDA7: ↑23 Sep 2021, 05:27 Hello everyone. I want to ask my wife and I very rarely have sex (maybe someone can help me with this word with advice) we have sex once maximum twice a month and then once we masturbate to each other well (maybe orally) she says that she is very tired and really wants to sleep but At the same time, he sits on Instagram for an hour while lying in bed. I clean the house, and for the last 10 years the dishwasher has been washing the dishes and she is cooking, but it’s like I’m not lying on the stove either, I’m working. I took him on vacation and stayed at sea for 20 days. And in general, I want some kind of female attention, I want to kiss her, she turns away, I want to hug her, she says give me personal space. Tired of being without female attention. I want you to be kissed when I come home from work, not that it’s so late.

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Unread post by **Guest_15** » 21 Oct 2021, 02:21

niqk: ↑20 Oct 2021, 08:41 Well, divorce is the easiest way out. Theoretically... But practically - where to put your and her feelings? Shared children?
Shared housing? Total income? Etc., etc.... Moreover, there are no guarantees that the situation will not repeat with the new wife -

Look...
You feel good right now, you are relatively healthy, nothing hurts. You are not a pensioner and it is easy for you to find a job, you can even go somewhere to learn some new profession. Even more than that, you can go somewhere abroad, to a different world altogether, to a different climate, to a different mentality. And you can find a local woman there, which means it’s easy to get a residence permit.

That is, you can radically change your life and completely forget that once, somewhere, with someone you were unhappy. Again, a person has such a property that if he forgot something, it’s as if it never happened. Just try to remember day by day at least one academic year at the school where you studied. Or not even a year, but at least one quarter. Every day you live.

No matter how hard you try, you won’t be able to remember this. But those were the days. You were going to school at that time. And this was very important for you because you were punished for being late. And how hard it was to get up very early every time so that you could be in class by eight without being late. And so day after day.
And relationships with peers in the class! And these cool hooligans who don’t give way to anyone and bully someone. And then for some, life becomes hell where you have to go every day.

And these tests, and these teachers and class teachers with whom you sometimes don’t get along well and who are capable of bullying you no worse than the class bullies .
So? In general, you remembered that all this shit happened in your life one way or another. It may not be with you personally, but with someone at the next desk. Or maybe you yourself were that hooligan.
But one way or another, you have conveniently forgotten all this and are completely unable to remember this whole school epic of yours day after day for all ten years.

And if you forgot, it’s like it never happened. Right now it’s difficult for you to remember something specific from your school life, and if someone tells you that you did something at school, you won’t be exactly sure whether this person is right or wrong. And you did it or not.

And in the same way, people who divorced and then started new families...
And who have already lived with their new family for more years than with the first ...
And these people no longer remember how it was and what happened during this first marriage of theirs. And what happened there and how.

In general, returning to the topic, you need to somehow try to change something in your life while you want and can. As long as you are healthy and full of strength and as long as nothing hurts. And while you are relatively young and while you are able to change something in your life and while you are able to earn some money.

As for women...
Women, unlike men, are too practical. And because of this practicality, they lose a lot in this life. Because life is more complicated and cannot be put into the framework of practicality in order to be successful.
Look...
Who usually shits and swears on forums? The answer is men. Women rarely do this. But because it is impractical.

Next...
Women very often marry for convenience. Because we need to do something and somehow move the situation. They look, assess the situation and make a practical and, from their point of view, the only correct decision - to marry this or that young man.
And thus they kill a bunch of birds with one stone - they decide the question of where to live. They solve a financial issue - the husband will earn money. They are resolving the issue with their hateful job - she will go on maternity leave and leave work accordingly.

And yesterday the girl was a beggar and there was no way to call her. And she either lived in a rented apartment, or generally wandered around and lived with one guy or another. And now she has her own home, she sits at home on maternity leave and she has a personal slave who goes to work and regularly brings home money. And if you behave correctly, then this slave can be manipulated and commanded and he will carry out everything and do whatever you want.

But sometimes it happens that, as they say, something went wrong. Either she was tired of pretending, or she realized that she was mistaken about who she married. That in fact he is unpromising and just chews snot. She thought that he would make a career and rise through the ranks. But something doesn’t work out for him. And time goes by...

Or sometimes it happens that some of her plans did not come together. I know friends who got married, but the man did not register his wife and the child who was born later in the apartment. Most likely, it was not he but his parents who did not do this. And she lived in this status with her husband and then divorced and moved out with the child. And the man still lives in that apartment. But already alone.
Well, she just apparently didn’t see any prospects for continuing to live with him. And all because initially she was from out of town and, apparently, got married for convenience in order to solve all the problems at once. But the problem could not be solved and she decided not to delay this matter while she was young.

Well, in general, I would advise you not to delay this matter either. If your wife has lost interest in you, if she is openly rude, if sex with you is unpleasant for her, if she provokes you and is not afraid of the consequences...
Then the question is, why live like this!?

Running right now to get a divorce is of course difficult, I don’t argue. There are many property issues, children, work...
But leaving everything as is is not worth it. While you are young, you need to change something somehow.
And I think that first you just need to prepare for this divorce. I think there is no need to look for a mistress or start some kind of relationship on the side. And you just need to take care of yourself.

In the end, you have the right to do this. To take care of yourself, to change your profession if you earn little or your profession does not suit you. You have the right to look good, you have the right to take care of your body. Start going to the gym, eat right, get enough sleep.
Probably your wife will be irritated by all this and she will interfere with you in this, either directly or indirectly.

But I think you all You should also set yourself the goal of preparing for a divorce and set a deadline for yourself that you need for this. And lay out a plan of what you need to do during this period so that you can then issue an ultimatum to your wife and be prepared for everything that happens later.
But I think one way or another it needs to be done.
Because I have seen older people who continue to live with each other. But out of habit, and they hate each other because they devoured each other’s lives. And they understand that perhaps they should have run away earlier and not been afraid of the consequences. And perhaps they would be happy right now, and not this is what they got themselves into right now.

Unread post by **Sergey Bee** » 21 Oct 2021, 12:16

Ivan62: ↑21 Oct 2021, 02:21
niqk: ↑20 Oct 2021, 08:41 Well, divorce is the easiest way out. Theoretically... But practically - where to put your and her feelings? Shared children?
Shared housing? Total income? Etc., etc.... Moreover, there are no guarantees that the situation will not repeat with the new wife -
Look...
You feel good right now, you are relatively healthy, nothing hurts. You are not a pensioner and it is easy for you to find a job, you can even go somewhere to learn some new profession. Even more than that, you can go somewhere abroad, to a different world altogether, to a different climate, to a different mentality. And you can find a local woman there, which means it’s easy to get a residence permit.

That is, you can radically change your life and completely forget that once, somewhere, with someone you were unhappy. Again, a person has such a property that if he forgot something, it’s as if it never happened. Just try to remember day by day at least one academic year at the school where you studied. Or not even a year, but at least one quarter. Every day you live.

No matter how hard you try, you won’t be able to remember this. But those were the days. You were going to school at that time. And this was very important for you because you were punished for being late. And how hard it was to get up very early every time so that you could be in class by eight without being late. And so day after day.
And relationships with peers in the class! And these cool hooligans who don’t give way to anyone and bully someone. And then for some, life becomes hell where you have to go every day.

And these tests, and these teachers and class teachers with whom you sometimes don’t get along well and who are capable of bullying you no worse than the class bullies .
So? In general, you remembered that all this shit happened in your life one way or another. It may not be with you personally, but with someone at the next desk. Or maybe you yourself were that hooligan.
But one way or another, you have conveniently forgotten all this and are completely unable to remember this whole school epic of yours day after day for all ten years.

And if you forgot, it’s like it never happened. Right now it’s difficult for you to remember something specific from your school life, and if someone tells you that you did something at school, you won’t be exactly sure whether this person is right or wrong. And you did it or not.

And in the same way, people who divorced and then started new families...
And who have already lived with their new family for more years than with the first ...
And these people no longer remember how it was and what happened during this first marriage of theirs. And what happened there and how.

In general, returning to the topic, you need to somehow try to change something in your life while you want and can. As long as you are healthy and full of strength and as long as nothing hurts. And while you are relatively young and while you are able to change something in your life and while you are able to earn some money.

As for women...
Women, unlike men, are too practical. And because of this practicality, they lose a lot in this life. Because life is more complicated and cannot be put into the framework of practicality in order to be successful.
Look...
Who usually shits and swears on forums? The answer is men. Women rarely do this. But because it is impractical.

Next...
Women very often marry for convenience. Because we need to do something and somehow move the situation. They look, assess the situation and make a practical and, from their point of view, the only correct decision - to marry this or that young man.
And thus they kill a bunch of birds with one stone - they decide the question of where to live. They solve a financial issue - the husband will earn money. They are resolving the issue with their hateful job - she will go on maternity leave and leave work accordingly.

And yesterday the girl was a beggar and there was no way to call her. And she either lived in a rented apartment, or generally wandered around and lived with one guy or another. And now she has her own home, she sits at home on maternity leave and she has a personal slave who goes to work and regularly brings home money. And if you behave correctly, then this slave can be manipulated and commanded and he will carry out everything and do whatever you want.

But sometimes it happens that, as they say, something went wrong. Either she was tired of pretending, or she realized that she was mistaken about who she married. That in fact he is unpromising and just chews snot. She thought that he would make a career and rise through the ranks. But something doesn’t work out for him. And time goes by...

Or sometimes it happens that some of her plans did not come together. I know friends who got married, but the man did not register his wife and the child who was born later in the apartment. Most likely, it was not he but his parents who did not do this. And she lived in this status with her husband and then divorced and moved out with the child. And the man still lives in that apartment. But already alone.
Well, she just apparently didn’t see any prospects for continuing to live with him. And all because initially she was from out of town and, apparently, got married for convenience in order to solve all the problems at once. But the problem could not be solved and she decided not to delay this matter while she was young.

Well, in general, I would advise you not to delay this matter either. If your wife has lost interest in you, if she is openly rude, if sex with you is unpleasant for her, if she provokes you and is not afraid of the consequences...
Then the question is, why live like this!?

Running right now to get a divorce is of course difficult, I don’t argue. There are many property issues, children, work...
But leaving everything as is is not worth it. While you are young, you need to change something somehow.
And I think that first you just need to prepare for this divorce. I think there is no need to look for a mistress or start some kind of relationship on the side. And you just need to take care of yourself.

In the end, you have the right to do this. To take care of yourself, to change your profession if you earn little or your profession does not suit you. You have the right to look good, you have the right to take care of your body. Start going to the gym, eat right, get enough sleep.
Probably your wife will be irritated by all this and she will interfere with you in this, either directly or indirectly.

But I think you all You should also set yourself the goal of preparing for a divorce and set a deadline for yourself that you need for this. And lay out a plan of what you need to do during this period so that you can then issue an ultimatum to your wife and be prepared for everything that happens later.
But I think one way or another it needs to be done.
Because I have seen older people who continue to live with each other. But out of habit, and they hate each other because they devoured each other’s lives. And they understand that perhaps they should have run away earlier and not been afraid of the consequences. And perhaps they would be happy right now, and not this is what they got themselves into right now.

Of course, a lot of things are correct, but I can’t agree on everything

Unread post by **niqk** » 21 Oct 2021, 12:22

AND? Where are the objections?

Unread post by **Rabbit** » 21 Oct 2021, 12:24

ZDA7: ↑23 Sep 2021, 05:27 Hello everyone. I want to ask my wife and I very rarely have sex (maybe someone can help me with this word with advice) we have sex once maximum twice a month and then once we masturbate to each other well (maybe orally) she says that she is very tired and really wants to sleep but At the same time, he sits on Instagram for an hour while lying in bed. I clean the house, and for the last 10 years the dishwasher has been washing the dishes and she is cooking, but it’s like I’m not lying on the stove either, I’m working. I took him on vacation and stayed at sea for 20 days. And in general, I want some kind of female attention, I want to kiss her, she turns away, I want to hug her, she says give me personal space. Tired of being without female attention. I want you to be kissed when I come home from work, not that it’s so late.

I congratulate you on your horns, someone else is fucking her.

Unread post by **Sergey Bee** » 21 Oct 2021, 12:28

Kunikolai: ↑21 Oct 2021, 12:24
ZDA7: ↑23 Sep 2021, 05:27 Hello everyone. I want to ask my wife and I very rarely have sex (maybe someone can help me with this word with advice) we have sex once maximum twice a month and then once we masturbate to each other well (maybe orally) she says that she is very tired and really wants to sleep but At the same time, he sits on Instagram for an hour while lying in bed. I clean the house, and for the last 10 years the dishwasher has been washing the dishes and she is cooking, but it’s like I’m not lying on the stove either, I’m working. I took him on vacation and stayed at sea for 20 days. And in general, I want some kind of female attention, I want to kiss her, she turns away, I want to hug her, she says give me personal space. Tired of being without female attention. I want you to come home from work and be kissed, not that it’s so late.
congratulations on your horns, someone else is fucking her.

to the point, the whore gets fucked on the side

Unread post by **niqk** » 21 Oct 2021, 12:38

Absolutely not necessary! For many women, after the birth of a child, the hormonal levels change greatly, since
she needs to care for and raise the child! And sexual needs are driven into the far corner...

Unread post by **Rabbit** » 21 Oct 2021, 12:44

niqk: ↑21 Oct 2021, 12:38 Not at all necessary! For many women, after the birth of a child, the hormonal levels change greatly, since
she needs to care for and raise the child! And sexual needs are driven into the far corner...

well, in principle, to reassure yourself, you can think like that

Unread post by **Guest_15** » 21 Oct 2021, 13:37

niqk: ↑21 Oct 2021, 12:38 Not at all necessary! For many women, after the birth of a child, the hormonal levels change greatly, since
she needs to care for and raise the child! And sexual needs are pushed into the far corner...

This option remains valid because it’s true that women have something going on in their heads while they are breastfeeding.
But she still has brains and she understands that you can’t rush at the bus trying to turn it over because you don’t like the driver.
And still they understand what rudeness towards someone can lead to to her husband.
So it turns out that she is not afraid of this.

And then you just need to look for the answer to this question - why isn’t she afraid? She doesn’t believe that her husband will leave and is completely sure that he won’t go anywhere from the submarine?
Or maybe she found someone who called her to a bright future? Or maybe he hasn’t called yet, but she really hopes so, and that’s why she hasn’t left her husband yet?
Or maybe someone is fucking her, and fucking her very well. Yes, so her husband is simply disgusting and unpleasant to her against this background.

Well, in general, one way or another, when a wife openly argues with her husband and is openly rude to him, but continues to live under the same roof...
Well, in general, it’s definitely not worth it to endure all this and continue to live like this.
Or perhaps she herself provokes the breakup and has already planned everything in advance on how she will live after the divorce. And she’s not afraid of him because she has a child and she hopes for a division of housing and for her husband’s alimony.

That is, she and her friends have probably already planned all this a hundred times and considered all the options in advance I have already calculated what will happen and how it will happen. And now all that remains is to put the squeeze on the husband, but in such a way that everything is his fault. Because there will be a trial and it will consider what is there and how. And it would probably be desirable for the husband to be to blame for everything.

The first thing I would do in my husband’s place would be to go to a legal consultation on divorce cases and tell the lawyer in detail my situation. And for the lawyer to be a man. And tell him everything, what kind of housing you live in, whose it is. How much do you earn, what is your relationship with your wife like, well, in general, everything, everything...
And let him tell you what the chances will be after the divorce. What can a husband count on, what can a wife count on? How will the division of property take place, what shares will the apartment be divided into...

And I think that there is no need to be afraid of all this. Because if a wife behaves so recklessly, it means only one thing - that she has already made a decision for herself and is simply waiting for a reason or an opportune moment to blow up the situation. And sooner or later this reason will be found. And he will be found at the most inopportune moment for the husband. When he is either nominated for promotion, or when he is offered any position. This always happens according to the law of meanness at the most inopportune moment. You can say that you are on the rise, you are stuck at work. The boss ended up in the hospital in intensive care with Covid, you were made acting because everyone else just chickened out and then they appointed you. And this is your finest hour. And here the wife at home is freaking out and throwing tantrums while packing her things. Or vice versa with throwing your things out of the window. This doesn’t happen just in the movies...

Well, in general, before getting married you need to think very carefully and weigh a lot. I actually once heard a story about a guy. He has his own one-room apartment. I met a girl and he honestly agreed with her that, regardless of whether we both have housing or not, we will rent the shared housing together. And before we sign, we’ll live together for a year in a rented apartment. And both agreed so. And the man’s house was empty all this time and he just went there to water the flowers.
And I think it’s right when from the very beginning we just honestly agree with each other about everything. And in this case, I think if someone was counting on something out of calculation, it will quickly merge and he will quickly get tired of all this. And the people will scatter long before the stamp in the passport.

Unread post by **123454** » 23 Oct 2021, 02:30

take a lover or you’ll jerk off for the rest of your life

Unread post by **alex503311** » 23 Oct 2021, 09:44

Somehow I didn’t have children, I had feelings, but there was no point in sitting and worrying for a year, I broke up with the girl, according to her idea, but although I was worried for three months, when I persuaded my colleague , then I found something else to borrow
I was already thinking about something else, although of course the girl was very important.
I haven’t encountered it myself, ugh, three times, but if you bother, and it’s a week, then your head , then days, then tired, then so on,
no matter how bad the road was, I would send, yes, she is very close to me, but endure, or talk, or etc.
Since they wrote correctly , if she doesn’t want to, then usually you’re already a deer and she’s sleeping with someone else and you’re disgusting to her,
Why bother then, later the children who will tell you, dad, and mom every day, some Ashot fucks, she screams so loudly that we wake up.

Unread post by **Guest_15** » 24 Oct 2021, 12:15

alex503311: ↑23 Oct 2021, 09:44 I somehow didn’t have children, I had feelings, but then there was no point in sitting and worrying for a year, I broke up with the girl
I ran away, according to her idea, but although I worried for three months, but when I persuaded a colleague, I found another job
I found something else and was already thinking about something else, although of course the girl was very important.
I haven’t encountered it myself, ugh, three times, but if you bother, and a week , then the head, then the days, then tired, then so on,
no matter the road, I would send, yes, she is very close to me, but endure, or talk, or etc.
So as they correctly wrote, if she doesn’t want to, then usually you’re already a deer and she’s sleeping with someone else and you’re disgusting to her,
why then suffer, later the children who will tell you, dad, and mom every day, some Ashot fucks, she
screams so much that we wake up.

Well, yes...
It’s almost as if we say turn the situation around. That is, the wife pesters her husband, this way and that. And he’s like, I don’t want to, I’m tired, my head hurts.
So what!? Any woman will say - why the hell do I need a husband who doesn’t fuck me!? Especially if she is young and she really wants it.
So I think that initially this situation cannot be called normal under any circumstances.

Well, yes, there may be some glitches there . But in any case, they must somehow be compensated by some kind of tenderness and mutual understanding. Well, maybe I can help my husband somehow if he really wants to. Well, give him a blowjob, jerk him off. Or just somehow treat it gently and put it off until tomorrow, say.
But if the wife openly argues, and even pointedly turns away, or even goes into another room.

Although ...
I was thinking...
Maybe my husband just didn’t say something? Maybe the wife set her husband on fire because he was going out somewhere? Or maybe someone reported this to her and from now on she is simply at odds with him and is waiting for him to admit that he is a brute.
This could be the situation. And then relatively more or less everything is logical and understandable.

Unread post by **Afrod** » 24 Apr 2022, 21:47

I have the same crap, sometimes we don’t fuck for six months. I jerk off every day. I love my wife, she does everything around the house. She has problems with hormones, so she doesn’t want to. But I don’t want to run away either. I go to prostitutes, they discharge me very well. And a mistress is a burden. As they say, what is the difference between free sex and sex for money? Sex for money is cheaper

Unread post by **sptlh** » 24 Apr 2022, 23:44

I generally lose interest in a woman after a couple of months of regular sex with her. Libido doesn’t drop, you just automatically start looking for a new one. I’m not happy myself sometimes.

Unread post by **Say** » 25 Apr 2022, 00:44

What has gone wrong is unlikely to be returned. The best way is to simply move on. In this case, when they try to return everything, no matter how hard you try, everything will return to the point where it all ended. If you change your opinion about a person, you can’t change it back. My wife and I have sex every day. I tie her up, she puts on clothes, stockings, there are different toys, I treat her with a cage. She shares what I like. I couldn’t live without sex with her. It’s important for me. My last one was tired or some other crap. I understood that I couldn’t resettle myself. Well, she didn’t love me anymore. These are normal things. Move on and look for someone who will want the same as you.

25 Apr 2022, 01:02

I also lived with my ex for a very long time.. Damn 15 years.. Well, the sex wasn’t very good.. I didn’t finish with him for six months, a year.. crappy. And she didn’t leave, she believed that this was how it should be. He was my first ((
and now I have sex whenever I want, as hot as I want)) so sorry for the wasted time, why live with a person who constantly frays your nerves, tyrannies, devalues ?? The specialist didn’t give me compliments and criticized me for every little thing, so that I felt like a schmuck.. a freak!.. also sex doesn’t give me??!!
Value your time and yourself!

Unread post by **Voltiva** » 25 Apr 2022, 01:27

https://hal.red/v49mOxBw заходи и смотри

Unread post by **Center** » 24 May 2022, 12:39

Sig: ↑25 Apr 2022, 00:44 What went wrong is unlikely to be returned. The best way is to simply move on. In this case, when they try to return everything, no matter how hard you try, everything will return to the point where it all ended. If you change your opinion about a person, you can’t change it back. My wife and I have sex every day. I tie her up, she puts on clothes, stockings, there are different toys, I treat her with a cage. She shares what I like. I couldn’t live without sex with her. It’s important for me. My last one was tired or some other crap. I understood that I couldn’t resettle myself. Well, she didn’t love me anymore. These are normal things. Go further and look for someone who will want the same as you.

how did you find a woman to marry so quickly after the divorce?

Unread post by **Sussetsat** » 24 May 2022, 21:44

If a woman loves, then she wants to give a man pleasure, and even if she doesn’t want sex, she will still always give a blowjob and jerk off so that her man is satisfied, but then draw your own conclusions

Unread post by **Say** » 25 May 2022, 10:07

Center, no one is perfect. I invited my friend to a meeting and we just went to the theater. To say that I felt love then no. Sometimes you need to give a person a chance to open up. We just started communicating more, spent more time together. Then she went to the seaside for a month to visit a friend. I was on my own and when I arrived I thought that I would come to her and part with her. I came, I saw her standing with her friend and she ran up to me and hugged me. It was so sincere, so homely. I realized that this is my man.

Unread post by **Center** » 25 May 2022, 11:10

very nice and cool!

I tried to find a girl/woman everywhere, but there was refusal everywhere, either she doesn’t know what she wants, or I’m not what she would like

I tried to get acquainted with different categories of women, both saleswomen/managers and “managerial” women, but everywhere there was a refusal, although I don’t have sky-high demands!

Unread post by **Say** » 25 May 2022, 11:12

Central, but for me it’s the other way around. I usually turned my nose up.

Unread post by **Center** » 25 May 2022, 13:05

Sig: ↑25 May 2022, 11:12 but for me it’s the other way around. Usually I turn my nose up.

well, you are most likely an impressive and charismatic man + your money is in order

AM I RIGHT?

Unread post by **Kos** » 12 Jun 2022, 22:22

In fact, I don’t have sex very often either...
I remember there was a girl before mine, she needed it 5-6 times a day and not just stuck it in and came, a full cycle, a little with each other’s hands help my friend, then a blowjob and only then sex, for at least half an hour... I was already running away from her. It was too much for me.
With my wife everything was more complicated; she doesn’t need so much sex. We are working together now, in the same office. Sex 3 times a week, but when it happens! Moans throughout the apartment... Of course she understands that I need more. She often pesters me, but as soon as I try to answer, she says that she doesn’t need it yet and isn’t ready. She even offered to somehow have a mistress. She says I allow you to fuck her in the ass and mouth, leave the vagina for your wife)

Unread post by **dva2dva** » 23 Oct 2022, 09:41

Same bullshit. 1 per month at best. But the relationship is good. Everything is great except sex.

Unread post by **Say** » 03 Nov 2022, 10:46

Kos: ↑12 Jun 2022, 22:22 In fact, I also don’t have sex very often...
I remember there was a girl before mine, she needed it 5-6 times a day, and not just stuck it in, came and went, full cycle, Help each other with your hands a little, then a blowjob and only then sex, for at least half an hour... I was already running away from her. It was too much for me.
With my wife everything was more complicated; she doesn’t need so much sex. We are working together now, in the same office. Sex 3 times a week, but when it happens! Moans throughout the apartment... Of course she understands that I need more. She often pesters me, but as soon as I try to answer, she says that she doesn’t need it yet and isn’t ready. She even offered to somehow have a mistress. She says I’m allowed to fuck her in the ass and mouth, leave the vagina for the wife)

Have you agreed to a mistress?

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I missed it. My wife knows that a man has a program to cum 21 times a month. We must exceed this program and her head never hurts. Over time, I begin to crave something spicy. Now we are talking about mzhm.

Unread post by **Shalun70** » 03 Nov 2022, 11:05

ZDA7: ↑23 Sep 2021, 05:27 Hello everyone. I want to ask my wife and I very rarely have sex (maybe someone can help me with this word advice) we have sex once a maximum twice a month and only once masturbation to each other well (maybe orally) she says that she is very tired and really wants to sleep, but when This sits on Instagram for an hour while lying in bed. I clean the house, and for the last 10 years the dishwasher has been washing the dishes and she is cooking, but it’s like I’m not lying on the stove either, I’m working. I took him on vacation and stayed at sea for 20 days. And in general, I want some kind of female attention, I want to kiss her, she turns away, I want to hug her, she says give me personal space. Tired of being without female attention. I want you to be kissed when I come home from work, not that it’s so late.

It’s up to you... it’s up to you to live, but it seems to me that she doesn’t love you... Insta is important to her... and probably someone on that Insta... otherwise, while on vacation at sea... he would have been brutally fucked...

Unread post by **Topchik** » 03 Nov 2022, 11:14

Such wives should be sent to the forest. Or rather, fuck it.
If you work and take you to the sea for 20 days, then you will definitely find a woman who will hug you, caress you, kiss you, and give you every day.
Maybe your wife just doesn’t like you anymore. This can also happen and this often happens over time.
The main thing is that you don’t forget to take care of yourself, that your breath doesn’t stink, that your hair is combed, clean and dressed properly.
Maybe you just don’t take care of yourself properly. But in such cases, good wives should help, encourage and give good advice.
And if your wife doesn’t do any of this and still behaves as you described, then this is not a wife - this is dog shit.
There is a lot of such shit.
Get away from her if you have the opportunity. Yes, even if there is no opportunity, still leave. Otherwise, you can go crazy over time.
Look on YouTube how you can improve yourself for the better. How to dress? How to look good? How to stop your breath from stinking?
All the answers to such questions are there. And don’t be shy about looking for them and changing yourself.
Many people think that they look normal, but in reality they look very bad and are unpleasant to be with. It happens.
But, don’t put an end to yourself. You should always strive to be better. And if you don’t know how to do this, then YouTube will help you. 100%
Type any question into the search bar and get an answer to your question.
By the way, a lot depends on diet too. It would seem that what does diet have to do with it? But that’s very much the case.
People who constantly eat ready-made, overcooked, overcooked food, then look like this food.
You need to eat more salads from fresh vegetables! To look like a cucumber. You need to take vitamins.
But your wife probably turns away from you for a reason. This is of course an explanation.
But one way or another, you need to start with yourself. Correct yourself for the better and look at her behavior.
If nothing changes on her part, then find yourself another wife.
It’s not that difficult anymore. There are different women. Many of them do not grab stars from the sky.
And they would be glad if they had at least some man.
Sit on YouTube today, look for answers to your questions.
Look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself a question - What would you change about yourself?
Did you get the answer to your question? So sit down at the computer and start looking for how to do this.

I always tell my wife what I like about her and what I don’t like. And she always changes herself for the better. And then she walks around joyfully and is proud of herself that she looks so cool.
She even went and had a plastic correction of her labia so that her pussy would be beautiful. And that’s it, now she’s happy that she has such a beautiful pussy. And I feel good.
I even forgot that she did it. I look at it myself and think how beautiful my wife’s pussy is.

Always change yourself for the better! Don’t stop there...

And also give your other halves advice on how they could look better. This is your direct responsibility.
Because if you don’t say this, then no one will tell them...

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ZDA7: ↑23 Sep 2021, 05:33 Yes, I can’t understand why I broke my whole head before, everything was fine, where did she feel the urge in the park in the elevator at the entrance in the car on the train. But now it’s gone and that’s it.

Well, it may very well be that something has changed in your body.
Maybe your sweat has begun to smell bad due to poor nutrition or a deficiency of some vitamin or mineral.
It’s generally easy. A lack of nutrients in the body leads not only to changes in secretion, mood, behavior, but also to serious illnesses.
Damn 90% of the population of our planet does not know that they have a Zinc deficiency in their body, which leads to very disastrous consequences with age.
And another 85% do not know that they have a vitamin D deficiency. This also leads to a bunch of diseases over time.
So, you need to find the root of your problem.
Often, problems of this nature originate in a person’s poor nutrition.
Then hormones start to go crazy, etc. and so on.

Unread post by **Speedmen** » 15 Dec 2022, 01:01

ZDA7: ↑23 Sep 2021, 05:27 Hello everyone. I want to ask my wife and I very rarely have sex (maybe someone can help me with this word advice) we have sex once at most twice a month and only once masturbation to each other well (maybe orally) she says that she is very tired and really wants to sleep, but when This sits on Instagram for an hour while lying in bed. I clean the house, and for the last 10 years the dishwasher has been washing the dishes and she is cooking, but it’s like I’m not lying on the stove either, I’m working. I took him on vacation and stayed at sea for 20 days. And in general, I want some kind of female attention, I want to kiss her, she turns away, I want to hug her, she says give me personal space. Tired of being without female attention. I want you to be kissed when I come home from work, not that it’s so late.

My feelings of love for you have not dulled.

Unread post by **Niko13** » 15 Dec 2022, 01:12

Well, our wife is the same bullshit. We rarely fuck, age probably, and I’m very carried away with myself. You know, I like to poke holes in myself. Something like this.

Unread post by **Sandy** » 16 Dec 2022, 21:14

This happened to me, the problem was banal, monotonous sex and I stopped making surprises and gifts. Take her to the cinema, to a restaurant, maybe to a club. Where did you go before when it all started? She, too, could have burned out when you went to work. And our (men’s enemy) is a vibrator. The girl satisfies herself and has a blast. If so, then give her cunnilingus with a vibrator in her pussy or make her squirt yourself using your fingers and tongue. Just a surprise first. You can rent an apartment, put flowers on the table, balloons and something else interesting. Go to the cinema or to a club and then go to the house, she will go crazy and fuck you herself. In relationships you always need to develop and improvise.

Very rarely sex with wife

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