Can a sexwife be a bottom in BDSM?

Unread post by **Katya696** » 10 Nov 2021, 10:30

I wondered. For example, a wife is a sexwife, can she and her lover be the bottom in BDSM or is it no longer a sexwife then?

Unread post by **niqk** » 10 Nov 2021, 10:38

Why such subtleties? Sex - and sex! Wife - and waif! What don’t you like?

Unread post by **Katya696** » 10 Nov 2021, 20:14

I just think it can, but my husband said that it’s something completely different, so I decided to scour the internet, but I couldn’t find the answer to the question.

Unread post by **Rogatik** » 10 Nov 2021, 23:30

Why can’t it? These are concepts from different categories. How warm and soft.

Unread post by **I’m leaving** » 11 Nov 2021, 00:35

Rogatik: 10 Nov 2021, 23:30 Why can’t it? These are concepts from different categories. How warm and soft.

on the contrary it is similar. The lower one fulfills all the whims of the upper one; she can be said to be a slave of her master and must be completely under the power of his desires. Likewise, a sexwife, to some extent, can be under the power of her husband’s desires

Unread post by **Rogatik** » 11 Nov 2021, 00:58

Syshu: 11 Nov 2021, 00:35
Rogatik: 10 Nov 2021, 23:30 Why can’t that? These are concepts from different categories. How warm and soft.
on the contrary it is similar. The lower one fulfills all the whims of the upper one; she can be said to be a slave of her master and must be completely under the power of his desires. Likewise, a sexwife, to some extent, can be under the power of her husband’s desires.

That’s it. The difference is in the expression "to some extent."
As it is rightly said "The bottom one fulfills all the whims of the top one, she can be said to be a slave of her master and must be completely under the power of his desires."
SexWife gives herself up like an ordinary woman, only to an indefinite number of men.
That’s why SexWife may not be the bottom one, and the bottom one may not be SexWife.
... it seems so to me

Unread post by **I’m leaving** » 11 Nov 2021, 01:09

Rogatik: 11 Nov 2021, 00:58
Syshu: 11 Nov 2021, 00:35
Rogatik: 10 Nov 2021, 23:30 Why can’t that? These are concepts from different categories. How warm and soft.
on the contrary it is similar. The lower one fulfills all the whims of the upper one; she can be said to be a slave of her master and must be completely under the power of his desires. Likewise, a sexwife, to some extent, can be under the power of her husband’s desires.
That’s it. The difference is in the expression "to some extent."
As it is rightly said "The bottom one fulfills all the whims of the top one, she can be said to be a slave of her master and must be completely under the power of his desires."
SexWife gives herself up like an ordinary woman, only to an indefinite number of men.
That’s why SexWife may not be the bottom one, and the bottom one may not be SexWife.
... it seems so to me

well, the question here is that she is interested in whether she can be bottom with her lover. Well, why not, if the lover positions himself as the top and if her religion allows her to become the bottom for him. Well, at least perceive it as field games.

Sent after 4 minutes 1 second:
The difference here is that a sexwife, if desired, can turn out to be from her husband’s offer to sleep there with people who propose to them, and the bottom cannot refuse the demand of the Top, unless taboos are discussed in this case

Unread post by **I stagger** » 19 Jun 2022, 12:41

Yes, maybe. I myself am dominant and want to be inferior to me, but I get excited by sexwife and would like my wife to be a sexwife with my permission

Unread post by **Anonym99** » 19 Jun 2022, 13:30

Obviously, the author of the question depends on a value system that she did not come up with herself. Every person can be anyone. But BDSM is an ideology that states that a person must choose a role. We should distance ourselves from this ideology.

Unread post by **Nastya** » 19 Jun 2022, 15:53

Not only can it, but it exists.
Sadism and masochism are always united in a person.
Sexwife humiliates dolls and they both like it.
But at the same time, she herself needs humiliation and receives it from other men.
Lovers at sex wifemost of them are domineering, rude, and tough. They can give her a good pounding.
And she likes to be in their power.

Unread post by **Anonym99** » 19 Jun 2022, 16:09

nastya: 19 Jun 2022, 15:53 Sadism and masochism are always united in a person.

You can even experience excitement from dominance and submission at the same time. This can be said from my own experience.

Sent after 8 minutes 6 seconds:
We can add that all women by nature feel more submissive. Why should sleeping with other men be dominant?
After all, from the question it is clear that the woman wants to submit to her lover.

Unread post by **Truwor** » 20 Aug 2023, 15:48

Sexwife wife a priori it is envisaged to be the bottom for your lovers, including during BDSM. Sometimes the limits of what is acceptable are discussed. But the real pleasure is when a wife gives herself to the man she likes without any conditions. And my husband too.