Love lasts two years?

[Nagibator3000]

Greetings to everyone, such a situation has occurred, and it’s not the first time. I’ve been dating girls for three years since the first year, two years since the second, and now the girl with whom I’m in my third year. So, for the first year and a half we have sex several times a day, and closer to two years we’ll be lucky if once every couple of days. And this comes from me, either I’m starting to get bored, or I don’t want her specifically anymore. And with such a long-term relationship it happened with each one, and with the next one again 1-1.5 years like rabbits and again that’s it...
Share your experience, advice, for those who may have this too

[Paulie]

It’s different for everyone, on the contrary, I blossom after about half a year. It’s not that there’s no sex at all, but it takes me a long time to get used to a girl. And over time, the sex becomes more and more vibrant. He’s also not bad at the beginning of the relationship, but when you get used to it, it’s completely different, at least psychologically.
I understand perfectly what you wrote about. And I don’t have an exact answer on how to change my attitude towards a girl. The first thing that comes to mind is spending more time together and giving up porn partially/completely. At least for a month. Look at how you feel after time has passed. If everything remains as it was, and you move further and further away in this regard. The problem is something else. But I would try this first.
A lot depends on her, you can talk to her about it. Especially if the relationship is strong and you don’t want to lose it.

[niqk]

In principle, this makes sense: after a year or a year and a half, the hormonal composition in the person’s body changes. At the beginning of the state of love (the bouquet-candy period), one set of hormones dominates in the body, which determines euphoria
and a constantly joyful mood! But the body cannot withstand such loads for very long. The euphoria gradually subsides, the body calms down and goes into a calmer operating mode. This may be perceived
as "the love has passed - the tomatoes have withered"! But that’s not true! Love just switched to a different mode! Constant reliable combustion mode that can last for decades! If, of course, the person can overcome this love crisis! Unfortunately, many people simply end the relationship and go looking for a new love. But they don’t understand that they won’t be able to appreciate new love and in the new cycle everything will end the same way as in the old one...
Moral: don’t twitch when the euphoria wears off! Take a closer look at your partner! He probably has a lot of advantages
that turned your head at one time... And they haven’t disappeared anywhere!

[Sabrina]

Falling in love lasts two years, but love lasts forever. It’s just that many people confuse infatuation and love.
Love, especially if it is mutual, is Paradise, it is radiance, light, warmth, joy, Sincerity, the merging of two souls in love, endless happiness. And Love is Life itself, it is complex, there are many thorny paths and obstacles in it, but you overcome everything for the sake of your loved one, sacrifice yourself, extinguish your ego, and all in order to give pleasure to your loved one, and enjoy his happiness yourself! This is all very complex and confusing, like Life itself. Love is multi-colored, it has black stripes, there are cold and hungry days. And this is no longer Paradise! This is closer to Hell!
Your relationship is not love, but falling in love and sex, do not confuse them with love. Not everyone meets their other half, love comes suddenly, at a moment when everything is fine with you, everything is fine, and bam! You meet your person, and you understand that you haven’t lived at all, that this is it, that’s the real thing, and you don’t need anything else, and even once a week makes you happy, because what matters is not how many times, but how many times that it is with that very important person for you, without whom Life ceases to have meaning, and only his presence in your life gives it meaning, and your wings grow, you want to achieve everything, desires and aspirations appear, you fly forward, upward, and you will succeed! And all this is because there is your important person on Earth, and this person of yours is also important and needs you!

[Rtand]

It’s just that some kind of addiction arises, surprise your partner with experiments. new views on sex and that’s all. To put it simply, you’re boring. diversify your leisure time

[Sasha1127]

I’ve been with my wife for 16 years, I want her every day, a day without sex is a disaster for me.

[Timuryai]

Love. If she love always lives

[EgorPetrov]

There is no love.
There is family, responsibility, children, everyday life, respect.
And there is love - sweet, delicious. Which, yes, lasts a couple of years.
But there is no LOVE.

[natalya.harita]

She has lived with me for 25 years.

[Keep the change for yourself]

Love lasts two years

this feeling can be periodically revived, the relationship needs to be warmed up.

No love. There is family, responsibility, children, everyday life, respect.

That’s how you described it, love is responsibility, dedication and action are you described it.

In our youth we call love falling in love, and this is a feeling, and love presupposes action.