Why is rudeness exciting or enjoyable?

Unread post by **Six** » 24 Dec 2021, 09:48

Question for everyone. I always believed that pleasure and rudeness are not intersecting concepts. Why/how does roughness in sex excite and please both girls and boys? Girls often say that their partner is not gentle enough or that they like gentle touches, caresses, etc. but then what does rudeness have to do with it. It’s like two realities. Everyone’s opinions are interesting!

Unread post by **vlad.galtskiy** » 25 Dec 2021, 02:19

Sexar: 24 Dec 2021, 09:48 Girls often say that their partner is not gentle enough or that they like gentle touches, caresses, etc. but then what does rudeness have to do with it. It’s like two realities. Everyone’s opinions are interesting

Everyone has their own psychology, everyone has their own cockroaches in their heads... all people are different, both men and women...

Unread post by **Anastasia** » 25 Dec 2021, 04:22

The body is asking for this
Constant tenderness sometimes gets boring

Unread post by **niqk** » 25 Dec 2021, 04:33

Anastasia: 25 Dec 2021, 04:22 The body is asking for this
Constant tenderness sometimes gets boring

Not the body, but the brains! Monotonous sex gets boring and you want variety! This is where the excesses begin. Not always safe...

Unread post by **Anastasia** » 25 Dec 2021, 04:35

Perhaps, but the body also wants it and the brain supports it

Unread post by **Six** » 25 Dec 2021, 13:22

Anastasia: 25 Dec 2021, 04:35 It’s possible, but the body also wants it and the brain supports it

Is it been a long time since they beat me? Ahh I’m already bored...

Unread post by **JackTheJack** » 25 Dec 2021, 23:31

Sexar: 24 Dec 2021, 09:48 Question for everyone. I always believed that pleasure and rudeness are not intersecting concepts. Why/how does roughness in sex excite and please both girls and boys? Girls often say that their partner is not gentle enough or that they like gentle touches, caresses, etc. but then what does rudeness have to do with it. It’s like two realities. Everyone’s opinions are interesting!

Everything depends on your mood. Both girls and boys can want tenderness at one time, and rudeness the next day. Girls in general, apparently, often like rudeness (in normal manifestations, not cruelty). From my own experience, I can say that in sex it can happen that during foreplay and when you just insert, everything is gentle and slow, and after a couple of minutes the girl wants to fuck harder, and I myself get so excited that I want to fuck harder and do something like that, for example, spank the ass, if the position allows, if you don’t overdo it and spank not too softly, but not to the point of pain, then the guy likes it, and the girl gets even more excited and moves more actively. Some people probably like cruelty, but here I don’t know how it works, I haven’t had such experience