I want to take my son to an erotic massage.

[Elena Vladimirovna 85]

Good day everyone, my name is Elena, I’m 37 years old, the problem is this, I have a son, he’s 11 now, and so, lately I’ve often started to notice him masturbating, that is, his hands are always reaching for his piper, and when When bathing, when I wash him, it often sticks out, I feel ashamed myself, I tell him to remove his stick that sticks out. So, I think he needs some relief, maybe take him to an erotic massage, the girls there are professionals, and it’s clear that with reduced social responsibility, they won’t be shy, I think, let him get a massage there. Girls, women, who have encountered this, can you give me any advice? , I’m raising him alone, and on such forums, I think there are knowledgeable and experienced people.

[StasSP]

Hello! Why massage?

[Elena Vladimirovna 85]

Well, because he will feel like a discharge, and in general massage is good for the body.

[StasSP]

The fact that it costs is good, at this age it is normal, and since he masturbates, then there is a release, it’s just that at this age everyone masturbates a lot))

[Sibiryak89]

Let him go as he goes, but you need to restrain him, otherwise he will jerk off in front of everyone at school and you will end up on a guardianship commission; it will be difficult to prove the opposite.

[Elena Vladimirovna 85]

Don’t quite understand what’s going on? And what needs to be restrained?

[Tolkala]

Elena_Vladimirovna85, give him a massage yourself. And his penis too .In massage parlors of this profile they won’t take on such a boy. I’ve been there, I know. And do to him what you want.

[Elena Vladimirovna 85]

Why do you think they won’t? Don’t the girls care there? They get money.

[StasSP]

Yes, they will do it, but it’s not a fact that they will do it to make him cum

[Region]

Elena, this is normal, at this age, all children begin to show interest in their genitals

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Let it go as it goes, but you have to restrain it, otherwise it will jerk off in front of everyone at school and you will end up on a commission under guardianship, it will be difficult to prove the opposite.

well, it’s unlikely he’ll jerk off at school, first of all he’ll be embarrassed, at that age they already understand where they can jerk off and where not

[Region]

Elena_Vladimirovna85, please look at the PM, answer

[Evgeniy-Spb]

Elena_Vladimirovna85, it’s a dubious idea to take your son for a massage. The result is unpredictable. I’m talking about the reaction of the salon workers, and even the son himself. The girls may suspect a setup (control purchase), or they may turn him in to the cops. Then you will get tired of making excuses.
Let the guy grow and mature calmly, and wash himself - not a little one. By your help in washing, you yourself provoke him. Try "out loud" not to notice his pranks. It should go away on its own. As a last resort, go to the doctors!
In general, the opinion of dear Laskova is interesting)

[sevener]

The post looks very staged, as if it was aimed at advising people to do everything themselves) of course there are enough women who watch their sons, but they obviously won’t write about it on the forum

[Evgeniy-Spb]

The post looks very staged, as if it was aimed at getting people to advise you to do everything yourself) of course there are enough women who watch their sons, but they obviously won’t write about it on the forum

It is possible.

[Elena Vladimirovna 85]

Apparently I wrote in vain, since they think so, I think there will be no advice, sorry if something is wrong

[Evgeniy-Spb]

Apparently I wrote in vain, since they think so, I think there will be no advice, sorry if something is wrong

Elena, You have no reason to be offended. One-day butterflies and fake authors of various topics, we have seen enough .

[Geny90ILublymamy]

I also agree that it’s not worth going for an erotic massage. The employees simply won’t understand. Moreover, the entrance is 18+. And they will immediately call the police. And you will make excuses for a long time and your answer about detente will not suit anyone. They will just register it.
As for masturbation, if he does it, then let him do it.
Well, if you yourself are talking about detente, then everything is in your hands. Of course, my answer boils down to the fact that if you are worried, then help him yourself.
And also about the erotic massage salon, I want to add that you are not there to relieve your son, because at that age a member can stand all day and react to everything that moves. I know it from myself. Therefore, ask for advice and make a decision

[Geny90ILublymamy]

And you won’t be able to visit often. The dick will always stand

[They were formed]

Good day everyone, my name is Elena, I’m 37 years old, the problem is this, I have a son, he’s 11 now, so, lately I’ve often noticed him masturbating, that is, his hands are always reaching for his piper , and during bathing, when I wash him, it often sticks out, I feel ashamed myself, I tell him to remove his sticking stick. So, I think he needs some relief, maybe take him to an erotic massage, the girls there are professionals, and it’s clear that with reduced social responsibility, they won’t be shy, I think, let him get a massage there. Girls, women, who have encountered this, can you give me any advice? , I’m raising him alone, and on such forums, I think there are knowledgeable, experienced people.

You think it’s normal to wash a child at 11 years old, and even of a different gender ?
As for taking your child to an erotic massage, how crazy do you have to be to think of such a thing? The child is 11 years old and it is normal that he masturbates and explores the capabilities of his body, why focus his attention on this, try to somehow shame him? He may then suffer psychological trauma, etc.
I would like to believe that the author of the topic came up with all this, if not, then where is this world going?

[Rabbit]

Good day everyone, my name is Elena, I’m 37 years old, the problem is this, I have a son, he’s 11 now, so, lately I’ve often noticed him masturbating, well, that is, his hands are always they reach for their piper, and when bathing, when I wash it, it often sticks out, I feel ashamed myself, I tell him to put away his sticking stick. So, I think he needs some relief, maybe take him to an erotic massage, the girls there are professionals, and it’s clear that with reduced social responsibility, they won’t be shy, I think, let him get a massage there. Girls, women, who have encountered this, can you give me any advice? , I’m raising him alone, and on such forums, I think there are knowledgeable, experienced people.

You think it’s normal to wash a child at 11 years old, and even another

[They were formed]

It is not normal

[Sibiryak89]

I didn’t quite understand what was going on? And what needs to be restrained?

Sexual development is too early for 11 years old, wait three years and you can help yourself manually. And now just be an observer, you are behind him, he is behind you. I’m afraid that well-wishers will knock on their "guardianship" and I’ll have to deal with the PDN commissions. Please wait

[They were formed]

I didn’t quite understand what was going on? And what needs to be restrained?

Sexual development is too early for 11 years old, wait three years and you can help yourself manually. And now just be an observer, you are behind him, he is behind you. I’m afraid that well-wishers will knock on their "guardianship" and I’ll have to deal with the PDN commissions. Wait

It might even get to the Criminal Code , and not before guardianship...

[vikylechka75]

Everyone has their own opinion, of course. But we must not forget that now there are telephones and the Internet, and children somehow receive various content. And to say that 11 years is too early for sex education, I think this is a premature conclusion. If he is already masturbating, then you need to take control of it. So that this does not develop into minute-by-minute masturbation. Therefore, we need to distract him from this as much as possible. Load up with studies. In sections.
Well, as a mother who has sexual experience in communicating with her son, I want to say that in the future it is not ruled out that this mother will help her son

[They were formed]

Everyone has their own opinion, of course. But we must not forget that now there are telephones and the Internet, and children somehow receive various content. And to say that 11 years is too early for sex education, I think this is a premature conclusion. If he is already masturbating, then you need to take control of it. So that this does not develop into minute-by-minute masturbation. Therefore, we need to distract him from this as much as possible. Load up with studies. In sections.
Well, as a mother who has sexual experience in communicating with her son, I want to say that in the future it is not ruled out that this mother will help her son

About the fact I completely agree that the child needs to be busy with studies, classes and other things. The fact that there are phones and the Internet does not mean that you need to give your child 100% opportunity to use it; there are various parental control applications that block adult sites, etc. if you give a child the opportunity to watch porn, then it is unknown how this will affect his psyche in the future and what he will grow up to be.
As for the last paragraph, I don’t quite understand what you meant by mom’s help...

[vikylechka75]

Zaebumba, you can take the phone from him. But he cannot be taken away from his classmates and his friends.

[They were formed]

vikylechka75, I didn’t say pick up the phone, just install the parent one control that blocks 18+ content.

[They were formed]

I completely agree about the fact that a child needs to be loaded with studies, classes, and other things. The fact that there are phones and the Internet does not mean that you need to give your child 100% opportunity to use it; there are various parental control applications that block adult sites, etc. if you give a child the opportunity to watch porn, then it is unknown how this will affect his psyche in the future and what he will grow up to be.
As for the last paragraph, I don’t quite understand what you meant by mom’s help...

And how would you personally react to your own advice about LOADING with something?
Let’s deprive you of sex, say for a year, and respond to your complaints and requests Will we keep you busy? Well, how do you like this? Would you personally like all this bullshit?
This is what I call the hypocrisy of adults towards children. When these adults insist on something that they don’t even consider in relation to themselves personally.

And teenagers realizing that adults are hypocrites in this matter and that they should not be trusted in all this...
Well, in general, adults from this place lose their authority and simply stop believing them.
And teenagers decide their sexual issues themselves. No adults. They fuck their peers. Because they also want to fuck.

Again, this is relatively safe for the teenagers themselves - you won’t get jail time for a bad crime. You yourself are underage.
And you won’t actually get anything for sex with your girlfriend. And this is so.
And then it all comes down to the fact that they just fuck each other. And the parents don’t know anything about it. And they think that the problem has been solved and they have loaded the children with studies and done everything they could. And all this until someone gets pregnant.

I mean, it’s completely useless to load anything. No downloads will stop you from jerking off and wanting to fuck someone. And it won’t be possible to constantly control the child and not let him leave the house. You will then ruin his adolescence and youth. First love, hand-in-hand walks, first kisses. Do you want to deprive your child of all this?

Everything should happen in its own time. And first hobbies, and first love, and first relationships. And all this should be on time, when the body calls. And not when there is parental permission. And if a person is deprived of something that he should have had at certain stages of his life, then this will only cause problems.

You are comparing warm with soft ...
When I was working three jobs, no thoughts entered my head and I didn’t want anything, because there was no time for it. A child should be developed with normal activities for his age - read books, do homework, go to sections or clubs, play games, go out with friends. And not sit on the Internet at 11 years old and watch porn. But you don’t understand this, somewhere your parents missed a moment in your development or were too busy with themselves. You don’t have to answer me, everything is clear to me.

[justanothermistress]

Help your son yourself and that’s it

[Guest_15]

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[They were formed]

When I was working three jobs, no thoughts came into my head and I didn’t want anything,

It sounds like something like "when I was imprisoned for three years; no thoughts entered my head and I didn’t want anything..."
What I mean is that when you worked three jobs, it was probably not the best period of your life. And it’s probably not because of a good life that you had to get into this shit.
That is, let’s say it was a negative experience, and if you had your will and better circumstances, you probably would have avoided these three jobs of yours.
Or maybe it’s not entirely right to plunge your own children into such crap? And you asked the children themselves whether they like your policy of fucking a person to such a state that he doesn’t want anything? And then someone asks themselves a rhetorical question - why did the Ivanov children put them in a nursing home?
Yes, that’s why they gave in because in fact they hated each other somewhere from the moment of puberty.
It’s just that parents often behave towards their children like a boss towards his subordinates. Or how in the army officers treat conscript soldiers.

Do you know what officers say to each other in relation to conscript soldiers?
- No matter where you kiss a soldier, his ass is everywhere.
And the majority of parents treat their children in approximately the same way - they say they cannot be given free rein and must be kept with strictness and not pampered or allowed too much.
As a result, growing children are then left with permanent injuries. life when their parents blow their minds, trying to maintain their right to command and manipulate their child.

And all they achieve is that this child leaves the family somewhere at the first opportunity. Just to be away from these parents who play at being bosses. And then these parents ask themselves - why don’t they come to us? Why have they forgotten us completely? Otherwise!!! That you shouldn’t play bosses and subordinates with your children. And it is necessary with them, especially with those who, five minutes later, adults treat as if it were not a child, but your wife or your friend. That is, without hypocrisy and without this bullshit when the parent is always right. When he doesn’t want to see your problems and doesn’t want to know anything about them.

Near my house there is a regular school but with an emphasis on military affairs. And I often see girls and boys returning from school in these damn paramilitary peacoats with shoulder straps and Cossack caps. And girls in the same killer peacoats and kubankas from under which pigtails with bows stick out. And it’s all so fucked up! And I always want to ask the mother who sent her daughter there - would you put on all these clown clothes and go to your job, where do you work there? And most importantly, would you then walk around the city after work looking like such a killer?
I doubt that the children themselves like all this. All this looks ugly among ordinary city dwellers. Everyone is staring and paying attention, and you’re like an asshole in this uniform of yours.

And then will the children be grateful to their parents for all this crap? Parents, of course, will say that he will grow up and say thank you. But he won’t say it. But most likely it’s just that this resentment will remain for all this humiliation throughout the entire period that you spent in this family of yours. Where you were constantly humiliated, constantly forced to do what you didn’t like, what was disgusting to you. And they never kept their promises, always finding different excuses.

Parents get so used to this role of their boss and to the fact that their children have absolutely no rights and to the fact that they are parents are always right in everything that...
That no one is paying attention to this child anymore and as a result there are no brakes. These parents do whatever they want and no one asks these children anything.
And it remains silent, endures and waits until it can finally get out of the house from under the care of its beloved parents.
nAnd they live as parents and children in two parallel worlds that do not intersect. And the parents think that they will be thanked and that everything they do is good for the child.

But no one asks the child about this whether he really feels good and whether he wants all this. What his parents want from him.

Did you understand what you wrote?
What kind of shit are we putting children into? Games, reading, development, sports? You have shit instead of brains

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And will the children then be grateful to their parents for all this crap? Parents, of course, will say that he will grow up and say thank you. But he won’t say it. But most likely it’s just that this resentment will remain for all this humiliation throughout the entire period that you spent in this family of yours. Where you were constantly humiliated, constantly forced to do what you didn’t like, what was disgusting to you. And they never kept their promises, always finding different excuses.

Parents get so used to this role of their boss and to the fact that their children have absolutely no rights and to the fact that they are parents are always right in everything that...
That no one is paying attention to this child anymore and as a result there are no brakes. These parents do whatever they want and no one asks these children anything.
And it remains silent, endures and waits until it can finally get out of the house from under the care of its beloved parents.
nAnd they live as parents and children in two parallel worlds that do not intersect. And the parents think that they will be thanked and that everything they do is good for the child.

But no one asks the child about this whether he really feels good and whether he wants all this. his parents want him.

It was a good confession...I’m telling you, you don’t have to try to convey your point of view to me, from the first message I understood who you are- child offended in childhood

[They were formed]

Did you understand what you wrote?
What kind of shit are we putting children into? Games, reading, development, sports? You have shit instead of brains

Well, well...
For example, you are sick of music, but for some reason you are forced to go to this music school. And spend a lot of time on things that you will never need in this life. I know a lot of people who know how to play one instrument or another, but only do it once a year. Or even less often. How much time and nerves were wasted?
Let us personally force you to go to a music school to take a piano class right now! And you say - what the fuck!?
And they will answer you - No fuck!!! Got up and went!!!
And after work you will go to this fucking music school and learn something that you will never need in this life because you are a programmer. Or a bus driver. Or someone else there.

But it will seem to us all that it’s not enough that you go to a music school and then we’ll also sign you up for ballroom dancing. I’m serious and I’m not joking!
And you say - why the hell do I need this!? And we’ll say - Don’t give a fuck!!! Then you will say thank you!!!!
And you will ask again - why do I need dancing when I work and also go to music school. And we’ll tell you - are you crazy!? Music and dancing are development! You have shit instead of brains!
Well, how quickly you got up and went to the dance!!!!
If you don’t go, we will prohibit you from using a computer and the Internet at home. And we’ll also take away your smartphone and buy you a push-button phone. And you will walk around with him like a sucker.
Do you want all this? No!?
Well, then I got up and quickly went to the dance!

And all of the above is not bullshit. In relation to an adult, this will seem nonsense, but in relation to a child, from the point of view of the parents, this is the norm.
But for some reason, the parents themselves, if they are offered all this themselves, they will howl and will not last even a week in this mode. But it’s normal to rape children like that. This is development!
But for some reason parents in relation to themselves do not even allow the thought of doing everything that they force their children to do.

Friend , I’m not in the mood right now to try to convey something to you, but you don’t get it at all, due to a lack of gray matter...
Why give it to a place where the child doesn’t want to go? The child himself usually asks to enroll him in a place where he is interested, or you can ask him what he wants to attend...
All your messages indicate that no one asked you or was involved in your development

[Guest_15]

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[They were formed]

Friend, I’m not in the mood right now to try to convey something to you, but you don’t get it at all, due to a lack of gray matter... Why give it to a place where the child doesn’t want to go? The child himself usually asks to enroll him where he is interested, or he can be asked what he wants to attend...

What if he doesn’t want to attend anything? If he wants to sit at the computer and play with toys? And what if he wants to spend time with his friends?
And this is what they want almost everything except the completely lost bastards who simply have a complex and therefore sit at home and don’t go anywhere.
No need to be a hypocrite about the fact that you are all do what your child wants.
I wish I could listen to him and not you. And what does he say about you among his friends?

Well, in general, as I understand it, I actually ended up with what I described.
And I understand that the understanding of my words will come to you later. Much later, when your adult son or daughter finally tells you everything that he wanted to tell you when he was 14 years old.
And when he won’t get anything for it. No one will take away your computer, Internet, mobile phone...

I can only sympathize with your childhood and upbringing... I don’t want to say anything bad to my parents and give them them to a nursing home and never had the desire to get out of the house, as you describe. Because they listened to me and took my opinion into account, unlike you.

[niqk]

I’m having fun reading such nonsense! It’s a no brainer that this guy doesn’t understand anything about raising children! Let it be known to everyone that
teaching the same music is extremely beneficial for a child! And the earlier a child begins to learn to play any musical instrument, the better for his development! Science has long established that the development of a child’s brain is tightly connected with finger training! That is why in kindergarten the main activities for children include games for developing fingers! All sorts of Legos, construction sets, coloring books, etc. make the child work with his fingers! And with the development of fingers comes the development of the brain. In addition, by listening to music, a child develops his hearing. At the same time, he learns to understand and love good music. Therefore, in adult life, he will not listen to any rubbish like rap, where there is no melody, no poetic words, and no meaning at all! In general, people can certainly live without aesthetic taste! But this is life at the level of primitive instincts: drank, ate, had sex. And that’s it!!!

[They were formed]

I’m having fun reading such nonsense! It’s a no brainer that this guy doesn’t understand anything about raising children! Let it be known to everyone that
teaching the same music is extremely beneficial for a child! And the earlier a child begins to learn to play any musical instrument, the better for his development! Science has long established that the development of a child’s brain is tightly connected with finger training! That is why in kindergarten the main activities for children include games for developing fingers! All sorts of Legos, construction sets, coloring books, etc. make the child work with his fingers! And with the development of fingers comes the development of the brain. In addition, by listening to music, a child develops his hearing. At the same time, he learns to understand and love good music. Therefore, in adult life, he will not listen to any rubbish like rap, where there is no melody, no poetic words, and no meaning at all! In general, people can certainly live without aesthetic taste! But this is life at the level of primitive instincts: drank, ate, had sex. That’s all!!!

Is this a stone for my garden? I don’t understand about raising children? There are just two people having a dialogue...

[niqk]

What does this have to do with you?! I am commenting on Ivan62...

[They were formed]

What do you have to do with it?! I am commenting on Ivan62...

I didn’t see that it was just a comment for Ivan...

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In general, I don’t quite understand the position of the site administrators - approval of pedophilia and other vomit in relation to children, as I understand it, they are welcome and no ban is given to anyone for this... perhaps it’s time to simply close down the site by writing to Roskomnadzor and at the same time identify all pedophiles, fortunately this will not be much work, because every goblin who writes this is sitting or from a phone or from a home computer linked to an IP address.

[Evgeniy-Spb]

It’s beautiful, guys, and you convince him.....
I respect you!

[They were formed]

It’s beautiful, guys, and you convince him.....
I respect you!

Tomorrow I will send the information to Roskomnadzor, if the site stops working in the near future, don’t blame me if the admins are too lazy to do their own work in accordance with the law, then it will be done for them. All the best, good luck and LOVE!!!

[Masters]

Oh, the overprotectiveness of modern single mothers. And who will grow up in the end? Topic author, don’t meddle with your son, he’ll figure it out on his own without you

[Geny90ILublymamy]

Regarding phones, I will say that parents can set control. But other guys and other acquaintances have phones.
As for how busy the sections are, the problem is not which one he goes to. And the essence of being busy with studies and classes is to distract the child from something else. That’s all the other interlocutors wanted to convey here

[vikylechka75]

That’s it

[Sweet pepper]

Help your son yourself and that’s it

The only smart advice

[niqk]

And how did it all end? Even curious...

[Very old]

Try talking to your son frankly... like an adult

[FakeAgent]

Whoever will accept you is 18+))

[MS85]

Give him a blowjob yourself

[a dolphin]

So, I think he needs some relief, maybe take him to an erotic massage

why don’t you help him yourself, carefully

[MS85]

How nice it will be to wrap your lips around his pepper