My girlfriend is indifferent to orgasm

Unread post by **Loans** » 02 Apr 2022, 10:45

Good day everyone. I have such a problem. My girlfriend does not experience orgasm. Our sex is stormy, bright, but she cannot come. And even in adolescence she did not fall. And now she doesn’t she says she’s lazy. She doesn’t get pleasure from this. She can’t bring herself to a vaginal orgasm. And she cums from cunnilingus. And in general, this is normal. she never fell? We are already over 20. I thought it was me, but she says no one brought her to orgasm. They even bought her a vaginal vibrator, an egg. She only feels tickling. Let me know if anyone has the same problem.

Unread post by **Six** » 02 Apr 2022, 11:06

Doesn’t she have a spinal injury? Maybe pain in the back or legs, lower back...? It happens that due to a pinched nerve, the surface of the vagina and/or clitoris does not receive enough nerve signals and therefore it is problematic to come. That’s why she can cum from cunnilingus, because... then you touch other areas.

Unread post by **sevener** » 02 Apr 2022, 12:46

This is to see a sexologist. There can be a million reasons, both psychological and physical disorders. If you really love her, then you can try to change the situation, but of course she must have a desire for this

Unread post by **A mermaid** » 24 Sep 2022, 21:33

Not cumming from vanity is the norm. The majority are only clitoral and end up so there is no need to instill complexes in her and herself!!!!
Otherwise she will simply imitate.
I also don’t cum vaginally, but I love sex.
And don’t listen to men, they will never distinguish an orgasm from an imitation.
Your girl is healthy.

Unread post by **Flame** » 25 Sep 2022, 02:42

I join the previous speaker. The girl has nothing to do with it, there could be a million reasons, there’s nothing to guess about.
Unsuccessful throw-in, it won’t work!

Unread post by **xxccxx** » 25 Sep 2022, 02:47

Some girls experience their first orgasms during pregnancy or after childbirth. And very stormy. (not from books, from personal experience).

Unread post by **Gudgeon** » 25 Sep 2022, 13:41

Fiamma: 25 Sep 2022, 02:42 Unsuccessful throw-in, bad!

What does the throw-in have to do with it? Mine also does not experience orgasm from sex. For a long time I was very worried about this, thinking that it was just me, I didn’t measure up. I tried using my tongue and bought a toy... But she doesn’t like it all. I tried to discuss it, he said, I’m already fine, don’t try to make it worse, leave me alone... Well, in general, I gave up over time. But in dreams it remains to bring her well to orgasm, more for her, life goes on, but it seems to me that the best in sex is passing her by. This makes me sad. Well, I still have an aftertaste, to be honest.
So the lack of orgasm in a woman can also be a psychological problem for a man. Not everyone is selfish to the core - he finished, wiped his dick and left.