Desire for betrayal

Unread post by **Alexey93** » 10 Apr 2022, 05:02

Good afternoon, dear forum users. I’m new here, I want some advice. My wife and I have been married for almost 8 years. And there was a desire for my wife to cheat on me. Not mzhm, not swing, but classic, natural and secret betrayal, which I somehow found out about by accident. I love my wife very much. Sex with her is normal, personal relationships are also good, great family. But this desire haunts me that my wife will go on a spree from me, have a real affair on the side. I even dream about it often. Tell me, what is this? And is it worth trying to realize this desire? Or will I regret it later? Thanks in advance for your answers.

Unread post by **DorovAL** » 10 Apr 2022, 05:26

It seems to me that this is a very fine line. What could push her to cheat? If she falls in love, aren’t you afraid that she will leave? Therefore, if you really want her to sleep with someone else, then you can talk to her about it and discuss everything

Unread post by **sevener** » 10 Apr 2022, 05:35

Yes, this is definitely a mistake. You will hate her and, at best, get divorced. Don’t you want to go on a spree yourself?

Unread post by **Sanek007** » 10 Apr 2022, 05:39

I also want my wife to be fucked, when I think that another member is fucking her head it just blows her away

Unread post by **DorovAL** » 10 Apr 2022, 05:40

Sanek007: ↑10 Apr 2022, 05:39 I also want my wife to be fucked, when I think that another member is fucking her head, it just blows her head off

It’s not a matter of being fucked, the author wants her to secretly cheat, but this is completely different

Unread post by **Sanek007** » 10 Apr 2022, 06:01

So mine won’t tell me directly that she was fucked either.

Unread post by **Alexey93** » 10 Apr 2022, 06:01

Thanks for answers. I walked away from my wife more than once, she, naturally, doesn’t know

Unread post by **Sanek007** » 10 Apr 2022, 06:19

Write in PM

Unread post by **Salary** » 10 Apr 2022, 12:25

Alexey93: ↑10 Apr 2022, 05:02 Good afternoon, dear forum users. I’m new here, I want some advice. My wife and I have been married for almost 8 years. And there was a desire for my wife to cheat on me. Not mzhm, not swing, but classic, natural and secret betrayal, which I somehow found out about by accident. I love my wife very much. Sex with her is normal, personal relationships are also good, great family. But this desire haunts me that my wife will go on a spree from me, have a real affair on the side. I even dream about it often. Tell me, what is this? And is it worth trying to realize this desire? Or will I regret it later? Thanks in advance for your answers.

You write an excellent family and you yourself cheated and you want your wife to cheat?... but where is the excellent family then?... this Well it’s not even swinging or gangbangs as some people like... it doesn’t fit in a little

Unread post by **The colot tower** » 10 Apr 2022, 12:35

Karama: ↑10 Apr 2022, 12:25 You write a great family and you yourself cheated and you want your wife to cheat?... but where is the great family then?... it’s not even swinging or group sex as some people like... it doesn’t fit in a bit

He wrote that sex is normal, not good) But the relationship is good)

Unread post by **Rudi** » 10 Apr 2022, 13:09

It’s unclear, he wants her to cheat and he will get high from this. if she cheats, has a lover, then how will he know about it and, accordingly, there will be no buzz. and it’s still unknown how the party on the side will end, maybe then she’ll leave her husband altogether. you’re taking a risk, comrade). if you want your wife to fuck someone else, talk to her and find common ground. I also wanted my wife to fuck others. To do this, I persuaded her for 3 years and after her consent, she fucked with others for 15 years and then stopped. I really want her to continue, but I just can’t persuade her, it’s a shame, of course.

Unread post by **Alinka** » 10 Apr 2022, 15:04

Alexey93: ↑10 Apr 2022, 05:02 Good afternoon, dear forum users. I’m new here, I want some advice. My wife and I have been married for almost 8 years. And there was a desire for my wife to cheat on me. Not mzhm, not swing, but classic, natural and secret betrayal, which I somehow found out about by accident. I love my wife very much. Sex with her is normal, personal relationships are also good, great family. But this desire haunts me that my wife will go on a spree from me, have a real affair on the side. I even dream about it often. Tell me, what is this? And is it worth trying to realize this desire? Or will I regret it later? Thank you in advance for your answers.

It’s a very difficult topic... I’ll say for myself that I’m married, I love my husband and I’m happy!!! But I feel that if I cross this line, then it seems to me that I won’t be able to stop... That’s why I still haven’t decided to take the decisive step of trying the forbidden... Although at the same time, it drags me on more and more dangerously into flirting on the verge of a FOUL...

Unread post by **solid** » 10 Apr 2022, 15:11

Алинка, как чётко

Unread post by **electrician** » 10 Apr 2022, 17:34

Alinka, I am currently in this situation. Repeatedly I caught my wife in an intimate correspondence with a work colleague. She said that it was a game, a joke, I was stopping everything, it didn’t mean anything. Accordingly, swearing and scandals. Then he forgave and caught me again. Moreover, there was no physical betrayal, I’m sure. The last time, he said that I was filing for divorce. I called this colleague and directly asked what he needed from my wife. He stuttered, bleated something into the receiver, and turned off the phone. And my madam is now sitting and tearing her hair in all places, roaring and asking to give her a chance save the family. He says he loves me and can’t live without me. But I no longer have faith. So much for flirting

Unread post by **helicopt9** » 10 Apr 2022, 18:39

Betrayal in the family is always a sign of degradation of relationships. It’s better not to let it come to this. As for the desire to cheat on a wife, this is, first of all, a desire to look at a partner in a different, unusual way. I also had thoughts about my wife as a sex object. I often imagined how my wife copulated on the side and it really turned me on.
But I would like to know about real betrayals? I think it’s unlikely. This is usually not at all what it is in fantasies.

Unread post by **Alinka** » 14 May 2022, 01:50

electrician: ↑10 Apr 2022, 17:34 Alinka, Currently I am in such a situation. I repeatedly caught my wife in intimate correspondence with a work colleague. She said that it was a game, a joke, I was stopping everything, it didn’t mean anything. Correspondingly, swearing and scandals. Then he forgave and caught me again. Moreover, there was no physical betrayal, I’m sure. the last time, I said that I was filing for divorce. I called this colleague and directly asked what he needed from my wife. He stuttered, bleated something into the receiver, and turned off the phone. And my madam is now sitting and tearing her hair in all places, roaring and asks to give her a chance to save her family. She says she loves me and can’t live without me. But I no longer have faith. So much for flirting

I don’t consider flirting to be cheating... But at the same time, I admit that this whole game is like quicksand... it’s like you don’t see the danger, it’s pure sand, but it’s insidiously addictive))) If the wife says that nothing happened, then I think that it is so, and you need to believe her. But at the same time, of course, there is danger, in view of her flirting...

I’ll tell you my most important secret, this is how far my flirting with the IT guy from work has come...

Unread post by **electrician** » 14 May 2022, 02:04

Alinka, I wouldn’t like to receive such secrets, I tell her I believe, but the sediment is

Unread post by **Lazobai** » 17 Sep 2022, 07:39

Sanek007: ↑10 Apr 2022, 05:39 I also want my wife to be fucked, when I think that another member is fucking her head it just blows her away

I have the same situation, at first I was jealous of her, later for a while now, on the contrary, I’ve been pushing her to cheat

Unread post by **alexprov** » 17 Sep 2022, 07:43

Oh, I have exactly the same desire. The fantasies in which I accidentally find out that she is being fucked on the side or that she is at least conducting frank correspondence with someone are driving me crazy. Moreover, I even shared these fantasies with her, and she was very, very pleased with it, but she is very afraid to cross this line, so we are still in the same place.

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