Wife doesn't want to share her fantasies
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Wife doesn’t want to share her fantasies
In short, I don’t think anyone has any doubts that we all fantasize about sex. Mine claims that this is not about her. No, he says I have them. The only thing we managed to find out was sex with two men. But this is understandable. Maybe women will help me make some kind of rating of their most desirable fantasies. I don’t have them, no, I’ll throw them to her
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Re: Wife doesn’t want to share her fantasies
Try asking again but over a glass of wine or other alcohol.
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Re: Wife doesn’t want to share her fantasies
She probably has very violent fantasies and is afraid of your reaction.
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Re: Wife doesn’t want to share her fantasies
It seems to me that she is not talking because you will change your opinion about her
With a bottle of wine, I think we can close this issue
With a bottle of wine, I think we can close this issue
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Re: Wife doesn’t want to share her fantasies
He doesn’t speak because fantasies are personal, and secondly, they don’t always reflect the real state of affairs. I know that mine sometimes masturbates, like a girl gets fucked by four or five guys, but in real life she doesn’t need that. Some fantasies will not cause anything other than jealousy in a real person. Do it better. Experiment yourself and see her reaction. Some girls completely give the initiative to their partner. For example, my wife like this. She doesn’t like something, she likes something, but what to try and how to do it is always up to me.
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Re: Wife doesn’t want to share her fantasies
You ask your wife about fantasies in order to try to make them come true, but this is not always necessary. Let’s say that many women (including mine) love to jerk off to gay porn. But this doesn’t mean at all that in real life they need to bring a couple of gays. In addition, there are women, and there are many of them, who, in principle, do not fantasize about sex, no matter how strange it may seem to men. For them, sex is often not even an orgasm, but a feeling of closeness and intimacy.
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Re: Wife doesn’t want to share her fantasies
You recognize fantasies, and then live with it. And they write correctly, fantasies do not mean that they would like them to come true.
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Re: Wife doesn’t want to share her fantasies
And where did you get the idea that a wife MUST have some kind of fantasies, but maybe she doesn’t have them. Work, children, everyday life discourage all fantasies. Ask on vacation, not at home, the atmosphere influences here.
Add to your opinion. I completely agree.Kotofeicheg: ↑22 Jul 2022, 18:59 You recognize fantasies, and then live with it. And they write correctly, fantasies do not mean that they would like them to come true.
And where did you get the idea that a wife MUST have some kind of fantasies, but maybe she doesn’t have them. Work, children, everyday life discourage all fantasies. Ask on vacation, not at home, the atmosphere influences here.
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Re: Wife doesn’t want to share her fantasies
All women have fantasies, and we make them come true. Let me tell you a secret: during sex, does a wife give in with her eyes open? If not, then there are two options, such a pleasure..., the second one represents the other. I had something like this, I had to surrender, I’ll open my eyes, I don’t want it. Closed --- yes, at least someone has you, even Lavrov, even Putin. Everyone has their own fantasy. The eyes are closed, but anyone can be a member.
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Re: Wife doesn’t want to share her fantasies
Eh, fantasies... who we fucked and how many times in our thoughts... you can just lose count))))

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Re: Wife doesn’t want to share her fantasies
I don’t think that in relation to a particular girl, any rating matters
Perhaps her attitude to sex is simpler than yours, she gets pleasure here and now (if she gets it, of course). Try to experiment, and then share your impressions (what you liked, what you didn’t like, what could have been improved). So you will roughly understand what or what areas of sexual pleasure are interesting to her.

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Re: Wife doesn’t want to share her fantasies
Same problem. We’ve been together for a year and a half now, I’m trying to take the girl out to talk about her fantasies, and I get the answer that she doesn’t want anything. Well, accordingly, all my attempts to diversify also come to nothing. She is my first in terms of sex, and I (according to her) am sixth, so I can’t believe that she doesn’t want anything... I tried alcohol, she just falls asleep
To be honest, I don’t know what to do...
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Re: Wife doesn’t want to share her fantasies
Veronica, I tell you to look at me so she can see who’s fucking her
Sent after 9 minutes 50 seconds:
Chance, Why do you need this ?
Do you want to be the best of the former. So you are the best, she is with you. After she tells you, you are unlikely to like it, as has already been written here, jealousy will arise, well, unless you are a cuckold, of course....
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Chance, Why do you need this ?
Do you want to be the best of the former. So you are the best, she is with you. After she tells you, you are unlikely to like it, as has already been written here, jealousy will arise, well, unless you are a cuckold, of course....
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Re: Wife doesn’t want to share her fantasies
Start moving and she will tell you about other fantasies. In general, talk during sex. Someone else’s example is contagious. I want to give you something, not as an order, but as a fantasy. Like "sometimes I fantasize that we will caress each other in a 69 position" or "that you will put a finger in my ass" or "that you will give me a blowjob in the fitting room"... You look and she will share.. .or maybe not
Why, well, why do you need some kind of rating of other people’s fantasies if you have already found out at least one fantasy of yours? Implement (or sweep away)! If he doesn’t want a second man in real life, toys will help! Buy a sex machine, there will be a mechanical second man


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Re: Wife doesn’t want to share her fantasies
well, she toughened up on sharing with you, it remains to decide whether you want to do it? Well, it depends on the circumstances!
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Re: Wife doesn’t want to share her fantasies
I have the same thing - no fantasies... only change houses on my mind(
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Re: Wife doesn’t want to share her fantasies
What a bitch... throw her face down on the bed and bite her hard on the buttock! (At the top of the buttock) and hold it like that. And then tell me or let him talk or you’ll bite again!
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Re: Wife doesn’t want to share her fantasies
Another thing is that what you want specifically in your bed is always worth asking directly and saying directly
Well, yes. Roughly similar situation. There can be a huge difference between what excites you and what you want to participate in. My wife loves rough extreme sex in porn, but prefers tenderness in bed, even with bondage and tying up. Not all fantasies require and are worth fulfilling.
Another thing is that what you want specifically in your bed is always worth asking directly and saying directly
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Re: Wife doesn’t want to share her fantasies
- I " Kashtanka"I read it. If you want, I’ll bite you in the ass..."
"- Do you remember how it was with Romeo and Juliet?
- I " Kashtanka"I read it. If you want, I’ll bite you in the ass..."
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Re: Wife doesn’t want to share her fantasies
Hi all! Tell me, is there such a fantasy that all women have?
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Re: Wife doesn’t want to share her fantasies
As an option, stimulating drops can help, they are sold in any intimate store.
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Re: Wife doesn’t want to share her fantasies
I think this is a very common problem, mine only sometimes gives something like this before orgasm, and even then very rarely
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