Psycho. Barrier to sex

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 Psycho. Barrier to sex

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I love watching porn. But here’s the problem, watching the video and watching how the actors behave, I already have a stereotype of how partners should behave in sex, I have favorite films, favorite categories...
And when I start having sex and I don’t see from my partner those emotions, those poses, those movements, and even that look, in general, everything that porn imposed on me; at the moment I lose interest in everything that is happening and, accordingly, my erection drops.
The partner understands everything in his own way and sees his reasons for it. But my upbringing does not allow me to say that she is somehow behaving differently. Tell me how I can turn my partner into a porn actress in my head
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Dima.Russian, What should I do? Stop watching porn! If you do this now, then in a month or two everything will gradually be restored! If you don’t do this, then very soon you will have to say "goodbye erection, hello impotence!" I’m not kidding! What you just said fits perfectly into the concept of the medical syndrome “overvalued idea,” which once again proves the depressing influence of porn materials on the erectile component of the copulatory cycle of men. This syndrome was discovered by the Austrian psychiatrist and sexologist Krafft-Ebing at the beginning of the 20th century. Excessive indulgence in porn within a few years will lead you to such a state that even a horse dose of Viagra will not help you...
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I can also advise switching from pictures to feelings, emotions, energy. Go to any tantra training and you will understand what it is.
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Tender: 07 Jun 2022, 11:27 fits into the concept of the medical syndrome "overvalued idea"
But it’s worth paying attention... Thanks for the information.
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And what can lead to excessive passion for the sex forum?
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Tender: 07 Jun 2022, 11:27 Dima.Russian, What should I do? Stop watching porn! If you do this now, then in a month or two everything will gradually be restored! If you don’t do this, then very soon you will have to say "goodbye erection, hello impotence!" I’m not kidding! What you just said fits perfectly into the concept of the medical syndrome “overvalued idea,” which once again proves the depressing influence of porn materials on the erectile component of the copulatory cycle of men. This syndrome was discovered by the Austrian psychiatrist and sexologist Krafft-Ebing at the beginning of the 20th century. Excessive indulgence in porn within a few years will lead you to such a state that even a horse dose of Viagra will not help you...
Very accurately written! Plus!
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Definitely giving up porn. 100% guarantee :wink:

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G.e.org.ii: 21 Feb 2023, 09:41 And what can lead to excessive passion for the sex forum.
The forum itself is nothing special. Try to look at pictures, photos, and communicate less, just fantasize less when you read and write. And everything will be ok :wink:

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elrotik: 21 Feb 2023, 10:02 look less at pictures, photos
More precisely, don’t look at them and don’t jerk off to them, otherwise You can have a glimpse.
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elrotik, how to jerk off and not watch, yourself "dry" masturbate. I’m used to using both hands to “squeeze” all the “juices” out of myself, so to speak.
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G.e.org.ii: 21 Feb 2023, 10:32 elrotik, how to jerk off and not watch, "dry" jerk off yourself. I’m used to "squeezing" all the "juices" out of myself with both hands, so to speak.
I only recommended what works 100% , tested on myself. If you want, don’t listen, it’s up to you) :wink:
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It’s hard to suddenly stop watching porn if you’re heavily addicted to it. I would recommend to begin with strictly limiting the time and switching to more amateur porn that is closer to real conditions. Professional porn causes the greatest damage in this regard; in life it is unrealistic to see such beautiful angles and shots, even from the outside in a swingers club))
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elrotik, you need to check it not on yourself, but on me .
You will communicate, you can look at me and jerk me off, then I won’t fantasize and...
I won’t do anything at all.
P. S. I just recommend, I think it will work 100%
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XyaH: 21 Feb 2023, 10:45 It’s hard to suddenly stop watching porn if you’re heavily addicted to it. I would recommend to begin with strictly limiting the time and switching to more amateur porn that is closer to real conditions. Professional porn causes the greatest damage in this regard; in life it is unrealistic to see such beautiful angles and shots, even from the outside in a swingers club))
In this case you need to quit right away so that your brain can restructure itself faster and you won’t have problems with erections during sex.
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Well, if you have enough willpower, then of course. So you can safely give up jerking off for a week or two; it will only be beneficial in sex.
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XyaH: 21 Feb 2023, 11:00 Well, if you have enough willpower, then of course. So you can safely give up jerking off for a week or two; it will only be beneficial in sex.
With jerking off you don’t need anything drastic) adjust it slightly so that without harm to health :yes:
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Dima.Russian, you live well, a lot of free time, porn Look, we’re getting drunk.
Get a second job, not for money, to keep yourself busy either interesting or hard - you came home at night, washed yourself, ate and went to bed - in a month there will be such sweet sex.
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G.e.org.ii: 21 Feb 2023, 11:11 Dima.Russian, you live well, you have a lot of free time to watch porn, you’re greedy.
Get a second job, not for money, to keep yourself busy with either interesting or difficult things - I came home at night, washed myself, ate and went to bed - in a month there will be such sweet sex.
Very useful at first, when you decided to get off porn :wink:
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elrotik, tested on myself, 100% works.
No fucking place.
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elrotik, the dick also gets used to the hand a lot, after all jerking off is also relaxing in this regard, it’s not for nothing that artificial vaginas are recommended for training. This is closer to real sex, so it’s easier and easier to play with your hand. But with an artificial vagina, it’s a little hard to insert a semi-flaccid, non-erect penis, just like into a living vagina! Why, if you often masturbate and your partner suddenly appears and it’s not so exciting, thoughts immediately come to mind - isn’t it easier for me to go to the toilet to masturbate than to suffer with this vagina)))
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XyaH: 21 Feb 2023, 21:04 elrotik, the dick also gets used to the hand strongly, yet jerking off is still relaxing in this regard, it’s not for nothing that artificial vaginas are recommended for training. This is closer to real sex, so it’s easier and easier to play with your hand. But with an artificial vagina, it’s a little hard to insert a semi-flaccid, non-erect penis, just like into a living vagina! Why, if you often masturbate and your partner suddenly appears, not so exciting, thoughts immediately come to mind - isn’t it easier for me to go to the toilet to masturbate than to suffer with this vagina)))
So when you jerk off with your hand, you don’t have to squeeze it too hard)) so that it doesn’t fall in your pussy later) :roll:
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