Husband spinal

Unread post by **Allah 1974** » 18 Jun 2022, 20:05

Hello everybody! Just speak out. My husband and I are already aged, our son is an adult. Five years ago, my husband had an accident and was paralyzed. Of course he can serve himself a little. But the point is different, we have lost intimacy. I bought myself a couple of toys via the Internet, but this is only a substitute for sex. In general, my husband understands and a couple of years ago he began to convince me to have a lover, at least once a month. I thought about it and decided to take a risk, registered for SZ, of course there are a lot of inadequate people there, and yet I met the torment, he understood me and was ready to be a monthly release for me. When I told my husband about him and that I could go on a date, I saw how he wilted, although he didn’t show it. I realized that my husband was not internally ready for this, so I apologized to that man and deleted the profile. Perhaps I will hear good advice, but in essence I spoke out, poured out my soul.

Unread post by **Wool** » 18 Jun 2022, 20:22

Lord, what prevented you from humiliating your husband and meeting once a month in secret? With this schedule, if you’re careful, your husband won’t know even in 10 years

Unread post by **vikylechka75** » 18 Jun 2022, 20:40

Alla1974, if you want a man, then meet in secret. But your husband can still understand by the change in your mood. Is he not worth it at all?

Unread post by **Allah 1974** » 18 Jun 2022, 20:54

Yes, no erection at all. And they probably didn’t understand me, I don’t want to deceive (this was his proposal), any lie will sooner or later come true and a small deception will become overgrown with lies like a snowball. I don’t think it’s possible to hide a few hours of absence per month convincingly. And no matter how you deceive yourself, you still want a man.

Unread post by **vikylechka75** » 18 Jun 2022, 21:53

The fact that the husband was upset certainly speaks of jealousy. Can he find the man he trusts?

Unread post by **Barmaleykin_47** » 18 Jun 2022, 22:02

Alla1974, your husband loves you, so he wanted what was best I wish you And you could meet secretly, and if it came out, you would explain it and he would understand.

Unread post by **Fargal94** » 18 Jun 2022, 23:49

Is it possible oral sex from your husband? Then toys would come in handy

Unread post by **Cools87** » 19 Jun 2022, 01:14

Talk to your husband frankly again. I think he will meet you. It’s hard to accept. But after he sees you happier, he will forgive.

Unread post by **casanova** » 19 Jun 2022, 05:10

practice mfm

Unread post by **sevener** » 19 Jun 2022, 08:08

Yes, the husband is a deer and selfish. He suggested it himself, he was inspired. The best solution would be to leave him.

Unread post by **xxccxx** » 19 Jun 2022, 09:26

Damn, they’re adults! In your situation there are several different solutions, maybe even opposite ones. Make your own decisions and don’t backtrack if you decide!

Unread post by **Lovesex** » 19 Jun 2022, 12:06

Alla1974, write in PM and let’s talk about this topic I’m so the only person I know is she’s disabled

Unread post by **Cools87** » 19 Jun 2022, 22:08

Lovesex: 19 Jun 2022, 12:06 Alla1974, write in PM and let’s chat on this topic is just as familiar to me, only she is disabled

Can you tell me about your friend?

Unread post by **Frodo** » 19 Jun 2022, 22:22

The decision must be made together, your husband needs to step over himself and become a cuckold, let him watch how you are fucked, maybe your husband at the same time, because his ass can take dicks. You won’t know until you try it whether it suits you or not.

Unread post by **Allah 1974** » 19 Jun 2022, 23:54

Yeah, well, and advice. Didn’t expect this

Unread post by **Maximum** » 20 Jun 2022, 01:38

Alla1974, I can’t write in a personal message. Write to me

Unread post by **Katerina90** » 20 Jun 2022, 03:38

Of course, I don’t want to deceive. But it would be better not to tell him. Then it would be difficult for you mentally.

Unread post by **Frodo** » 20 Jun 2022, 04:41

Alla1974, what did you expect to hear? Any advice has the right to exist, and it’s up to you to listen to it or not. New things are always scary, there is only one life and you have to try a lot while you still have the strength

Sent after 17 minutes 32 seconds:
You don’t want to deceive, you want to fuck, there’s only the option mzhm, there’s no other option

Unread post by **Indifference** » 22 Jun 2022, 19:40

Very soon he became impotent. At 41 due to illness. My wife was 36 years old at the time. She had no intention of leaving me, but she saw that she was suffering, and I decided to express everything to her face. I allowed her, but on the condition that she chooses herself carefully and only one .as a result, Oleg appeared...he was 30 at the time.We have been living like this for 5 years.I allowed him to do this at our house, but then I go to the city for an hour or two on business

Unread post by **MISTER_COCK** » 09 Jul 2022, 09:59

Alla1974, well cheated already on your husband? It’s interesting to know; I won’t criticize; it’s your choice! and if I were your husband, I would probably just put you down instead of offering the excuse of betrayal!

Sent after 2 minutes 41 seconds:

Indeferens: 22 Jun 2022, 19:40 Very soon I became impotent. At 41 due to illness. My wife was 36 years old at the time. She wasn’t going to leave me, but I saw that she was suffering, and I decided to tell her everything eyes. I allowed her, but on the condition that he chooses himself carefully and only one. In the end, Oleg appeared.... he was 30 at that time. We have been living like this for 5 years. I allowed him to do this at our house, but then I’m going into town for two hours on business

what a horror! Holy shit. Why can’t the tongue and all sorts of toys settle the situation?

Unread post by **Venus de Milo** » 09 Jul 2022, 12:56

It’s better for you to see a sexologist.

Unread post by **MISTER_COCK** » 09 Jul 2022, 13:38

Venus de Milo: 09 Jul 2022, 12:56 You better see a sexologist.

who exactly is this addressed to?

Unread post by **Hair shirt** » 10 Jul 2022, 05:25

Alla1974: 19 Jun 2022, 23:54 Yes, well, advice. I didn’t expect this

Yes, apparently having a lover secretly from your husband is a bad idea. He will be jealous and suspicious. You will lie, encrypt. The husband can do stupid things. I don’t even want to think about all this.
Well, in general, if we assume that this topic is all true, and that in fact everything is so, then I think the solution to the problem is the following...
n
You and your husband need to find a family friend. That is, find some guy who will become a friend to both of you. That is, first of all, a friend.
And maybe even almost your second husband. Don’t think that this is bullshit, or that these are just my sofa fantasies.
In fact, this is the solution to such problems.

Families face something similar in their lives. Some people often go on business trips. Again, we all know about the astronauts who spend six months in space. Or all sorts of sailors who also spend six months at sea. Or polar explorers. Or geologists who, as soon as summer comes, are away from home for several months - that’s their job. And not everyone is alone. Almost everyone has families. People just solve these problems. Well, yes, they don’t advertise it. But by and large, they all go to hell, all these moralists and judges of other people’s morality.

Well, in general, you need to talk with your husband again and both come to a decision. Well, cry there somehow together and still agree that you both need a family friend. And first of all, the three of you must have a good relationship. That is, the priority should not be sex, but rather building good relationships. This family friend should become good friends with your husband. And the husband should also try to become friends with this family friend, and not pretend to be a virgin and be offended by everything.

It is possible not to rush into sex. And even more so, the husband should not leave the house anywhere if it comes to sex. And where will he go then!?
I think we need to somehow organize everything so that the husband is present during sex. And for this I think all three of us need to drink so well to relieve the embarrassment and tension. Well, let this family friend somehow touch you everywhere. I mean he’ll give you a massage. You give them both a blowjob - both the husband and the family friend.

And give your husband the idea that potency can return if he tries in this direction. The body needs to be trained. People learn to talk again after a stroke. And there are precedents that spinal patients also learned to walk again. They restored the mobility of the limbs.
And to see someone being fucked up close - this should actually act very strongly as a source of excitement.
And I think, if you don’t get driven by jealousy, throw all this crap out of your head and to treat a family friend as a family member, then I think that only good things will come from all this.

Here, in my opinion, in fact, everything is more or less clear with your husband and with you. You both have a motivation to stir up this whole thing.
And in my opinion, here you need to think about what kind of motivation a family friend should have. That is, what is his interest in all this?
Because if he only has free sex on the side, then he will turn out to be a lousy friend of the family. And the husband will be jealous and there will be no mutual understanding between him and the family friend.
And this will no longer be a family friend, but just a fuck. And your husband will eventually get tired of all this and become depressed.

Again, the question is where and how to look for this family friend? Definitely, this should not be a relative and, in general, someone outside the circle of your mutual friends and relatives. Because all sorts of gossip will spread. Relatives love to wash the bones of their relatives - just give them a hint. Rumors will immediately begin to spread.

Well, in general, I think you need to first enlist the support of your husband. Solve everything with him and agree on everything. I say, well, maybe the two of us can cry there, but still take his word that he will try and not be capricious and jealous. Convince him that you love him and that you will never leave him. And that a family friend is just needed. And tell him that if the situation were the other way around, then you, too, would in no way be against a second woman in the house. And maybe even a second wife if all this could be organized in terms of living together.

And after you and your husband agree on everything, start looking. Let’s start with the fact that this should probably be an unmarried man. Further, you don’t need to assume in advance that he will be a lifelong friend like “until death do us part....”
This could be a friend for several years. I think you don’t need to think very far - God, he himself will sort everything out later.

Next...
The search for this family friend is, of course, up to you. And you need not to abandon this matter and constantly find someone and bring them into the house and introduce them to your husband. And see if all three of you are suitable for each other. Don’t rush into sex. And tell the person who was brought in about this. That they say sex is not the main thing here. That you need to simultaneously save your family and that the one you brought should essentially become a member of the family. Like a second husband.

Next...
I already wrote above that this should probably be an unmarried man. Secondly, he should probably be younger than you. Maybe even ten years. It will be easier this way because it’s generally easier with young people. The older a person is, the more difficult it is to get along with him and the more difficult it is for him to compromise.
Again, I think that it will be more difficult for my husband to somehow become friends with his peer due to the current circumstances. He may be more tolerant of a younger man than of his own age.

About a family friend...
No matter how the relationship develops among all three of you, this is how it turns out that the main motivation for a family friend is sex with you. That is, he must like you. And he must enjoy fucking you. And this is the main motivation for the first time. Then maybe everything will change. All three of you may become friends and even miss each other. But first of all, I think there is no need to be a hypocrite - sex with you is his motivation.

But there is nothing wrong with that. When you and your husband decided to get married, your motivation was also sex together. I doubt that you would have married him if he hadn’t had it. And accordingly, he would not have married you if you had said that he would never have sex with you for some reason.
But that was then, and now you don’t want to leave him when he doesn’t have it. Everything has changed. And with a family friend, too, everything may change.

Next...
I THINK that you need to find men and bring them to the house and get acquainted. And so on until all three of you understand that you are suitable for each other and that the three of you feel good. But I think that all this will work under one condition - that the husband will not torpedo this whole matter and will try hard and also look for a solution to the problem together with you. And don’t withdraw into yourself, get offended and become depressed.

I already wrote above - when someone is fucking next to you, it is very exciting. It’s not for nothing that the topic of cuckolds takes place. This is a very strong stimulant. It blows the minds of men when it comes to sex, even if someone is fucking nearby. What I mean is that there is a very high probability that when your husband fucks you, a family friend will also somehow try to excite himself. And perhaps this is exactly what he needs now in order to regain his potency. Convey this idea to him. Perhaps this is the only thing that can help him - for him to regularly try to excite himself.

And I think sooner or later his potency will return. People learn to walk more than one day. For children, this takes months of daily training. They just don’t have complexes or get depressed - they train and practice walking day after day. And in the end it works out for them too.

Unread post by **Wanderer 64** » 10 Jul 2022, 05:51

Alla1974, I’ll say this, I have a disabled friend, the problem is, he can’t, he and his wife have an agreement, she brings him home and everything happens in front of him, so they decided

Unread post by **Hair shirt** » 10 Jul 2022, 07:04

Wanderer 64: 10 Jul 2022, 05:51 I’ll say this, I have a disabled friend, the same problem, he can’t, he and his wife have an agreement, she brings him home and everything happens in front of him, so they decided

Yes, I think it is very important here that all this happens with my husband at home. And so that maybe he somehow took part. I think, first of all, maybe even drink for courage and to relieve shyness and awkwardness. If there is an opportunity to somehow dilute this thing, say, with a village or country bathhouse, it’s generally great.
But the main thing is that all three are not embarrassed by each other and that everything is quite natural.

In general, the husband needs to set himself up in such a way from the very beginning that he is doing all this so that his wife feels good.
And what if the wife found herself in the same situation, then she she would also agree to have her husband fuck some other woman in front of her.
This is life and what can you do if everything has gone so bad.

Again, we must not discount it either that the husband needs to make compromises and somehow adjust himself and somehow come to an agreement with himself because how can his wife still leave him due to lack of sex?
Why take things to the extreme?
I think we need to look for some kind of compromises and look for some kind of solutions while everyone is still ready to make these compromises and while everyone has not yet been fed up with all this to the extreme when people despair and say - fuck it all!!!!

Unread post by **Elf Cat** » 25 Jul 2022, 03:41

Complex topic, complex question.
As far as I can imagine, it would be more painful for me precisely if mine receives feelings and emotions on the side, when I am in such a situation, I would feel even more incomplete. Namely, the fact of sexual intercourse would be secondary, I think I would come to terms with it, and perhaps I would even be happy for my wife.

Unread post by **Allah 1974** » 25 Jul 2022, 03:43

Gato Elfo, this is probably the only answer to which It’s worth listening. Thank you

Unread post by **Faust** » 25 Jul 2022, 03:46

When I was young, I saw a more dramatic picture. I was looking for a milf. I found a woman who later, as it turned out, had a bedridden husband, and she was so hungry for sex that she started jumping on young people. And she was looking for someone 20 years younger than herself. At first she said in correspondence that this was my brother, and then I pressed him and found out the truth. And so it turns out, the husband lies in the same room and hears his wife moaning under the young men. Hell, of course. Poor man. Moreover, the woman there was prominent, busty, with large hips. She said that she has a son my age.

Unread post by **Sergei** » 25 Jul 2022, 04:05

Vasyanitsa: 10 Jul 2022, 05:25
Alla1974: 19 Jun 2022, 23:54 Yeah, well, tips. I didn’t expect this
Yes, apparently having a lover secretly from your husband is a bad idea. He will be jealous and suspicious. You will lie, encrypt. The husband can do stupid things. I don’t even want to think about all this.
Well, in general, if we assume that this topic is all true, and that in fact everything is so, then I think the solution to the problem is the following...
n
You and your husband need to find a family friend. That is, find some guy who will become a friend to both of you. That is, first of all, a friend.
And maybe even almost your second husband. Don’t think that this is bullshit, or that these are just my sofa fantasies.
In fact, this is the solution to such problems.

Families face something similar in their lives. Some people often go on business trips. Again, we all know about the astronauts who spend six months in space. Or all sorts of sailors who also spend six months at sea. Or polar explorers. Or geologists who, as soon as summer comes, are away from home for several months - that’s their job. And not everyone is alone. Almost everyone has families. People just solve these problems. Well, yes, they don’t advertise it. But by and large, they all go to hell, all these moralists and judges of other people’s morality.

Well, in general, you need to talk with your husband again and both come to a decision. Well, cry there somehow together and still agree that you both need a family friend. And first of all, the three of you must have a good relationship. That is, the priority should not be sex, but rather building good relationships. This family friend should become good friends with your husband. And the husband should also try to become friends with this family friend, and not pretend to be a virgin and be offended by everything.

It is possible not to rush into sex. And even more so, the husband should not leave the house anywhere if it comes to sex. And where will he go then!?
I think we need to somehow organize everything so that the husband is present during sex. And for this I think all three of us need to drink so well to relieve the embarrassment and tension. Well, let this family friend somehow touch you everywhere. I mean he’ll give you a massage. You give them both a blowjob - both the husband and the family friend.

And give your husband the idea that potency can return if he tries in this direction. The body needs to be trained. People learn to talk again after a stroke. And there are precedents that spinal patients also learned to walk again. They restored the mobility of the limbs.
And to see someone being fucked up close - this should actually act very strongly as a source of excitement.
And I think, if you don’t get driven by jealousy, throw all this crap out of your head and to treat a family friend as a family member, then I think that only good things will come from all this.

Here, in my opinion, in fact, everything is more or less clear with your husband and with you. You both have a motivation to stir up this whole thing.
And in my opinion, here you need to think about what kind of motivation a family friend should have. That is, what is his interest in all this?
Because if he only has free sex on the side, then he will turn out to be a lousy friend of the family. And the husband will be jealous and there will be no mutual understanding between him and the family friend.
And this will no longer be a family friend, but just a fuck. And your husband will eventually get tired of all this and become depressed.

Again, the question is where and how to look for this family friend? Definitely, this should not be a relative and, in general, someone outside the circle of your mutual friends and relatives. Because all sorts of gossip will spread. Relatives love to wash the bones of their relatives - just give them a hint. Rumors will immediately begin to spread.

Well, in general, I think you need to first enlist the support of your husband. Solve everything with him and agree on everything. I say, well, maybe the two of us can cry there, but still take his word that he will try and not be capricious and jealous. Convince him that you love him and that you will never leave him. And that a family friend is just needed. And tell him that if the situation were the other way around, then you, too, would in no way be against a second woman in the house. And maybe even a second wife if all this could be organized in terms of living together.

And after you and your husband agree on everything, start looking. Let’s start with the fact that this should probably be an unmarried man. Further, you don’t need to assume in advance that he will be a lifelong friend like “until death do us part....”
This could be a friend for several years. I think you don’t need to think very far - God, he himself will sort everything out later.

Next...
The search for this family friend is, of course, up to you. And you need not to abandon this matter and constantly find someone and bring them into the house and introduce them to your husband. And see if all three of you are suitable for each other. Don’t rush into sex. And tell the person who was brought in about this. That they say sex is not the main thing here. That you need to simultaneously save your family and that the one you brought should essentially become a member of the family. Like a second husband.

Next...
I already wrote above that this should probably be an unmarried man. Secondly, he should probably be younger than you. Maybe even ten years. It will be easier this way because it’s generally easier with young people. The older a person is, the more difficult it is to get along with him and the more difficult it is for him to compromise.
Again, I think that it will be more difficult for my husband to somehow become friends with his peer due to the current circumstances. He may be more tolerant of a younger man than of his own age.

About a family friend...
No matter how the relationship develops among all three of you, this is how it turns out that the main motivation for a family friend is sex with you. That is, he must like you. And he must enjoy fucking you. And this is the main motivation for the first time. Then maybe everything will change. All three of you may become friends and even miss each other. But first of all, I think there is no need to be a hypocrite - sex with you is his motivation.

But there is nothing wrong with that. When you and your husband decided to get married, your motivation was also sex together. I doubt that you would have married him if he hadn’t had it. And accordingly, he would not have married you if you had said that he would never have sex with you for some reason.
But that was then, and now you don’t want to leave him when he doesn’t have it. Everything has changed. And with a family friend, too, everything may change.

Next...
I THINK that you need to find men and bring them to the house and get acquainted. And so on until all three of you understand that you are suitable for each other and that the three of you feel good. But I think that all this will work under one condition - that the husband will not torpedo this whole matter and will try hard and also look for a solution to the problem together with you. And don’t withdraw into yourself, get offended and become depressed.

I already wrote above - when someone is fucking next to you, it is very exciting. It’s not for nothing that the topic of cuckolds takes place. This is a very strong stimulant. It blows the minds of men when it comes to sex, even if someone is fucking nearby. What I mean is that there is a very high probability that when your husband fucks you, a family friend will also somehow try to excite himself. And perhaps this is exactly what he needs now in order to regain his potency. Convey this idea to him. Perhaps this is the only thing that can help him - for him to regularly try to excite himself.

And I think sooner or later his potency will return. People learn to walk more than one day. For children, this takes months of daily training. They just don’t have complexes or get depressed - they train and practice walking day after day. And in the end, it works out for them too.

The most practical advice!
The only problem is finding a partner for such a trio.

Unread post by **NikLife** » 25 Jul 2022, 04:10

I met carefully in secret and everything was fine! Don’t tell your husband anything at all!

Unread post by **Bars450** » 25 Jul 2022, 05:03

hair shirt, reading you and getting the impression that you are delusional

Unread post by **Allah 1974** » 08 Aug 2022, 21:56

In general, what my husband had been pushing me to do for a long time happened, and yes, after so many years I myself wanted to feel like a woman again. I share my impressions of intimacy with my husband’s former classmate. Everything happened outside the house, on neutral territory, at my request, one on one. My husband liked it, he is in an excited state, of course jealousy slips through, but is glad that he was able to overcome himself. As for me, reality did not live up to expectations. Now I understand why his wife avoids sex with him. Firstly, the person does not know about foreplay, so he started immediately. He immediately picked up the speed of a rabbit, some kind of rusher. I won’t say that it’s big or small, in my opinion it’s average and at the same time it popped up several times. There was a lot of sperm with his small scrotum or it was already out of habit. As a result, complete disappointment, my soul is bad. She told her husband, either another one, or none at all, otherwise they had already started making plans for the future.

Unread post by **Elf Cat** » 08 Aug 2022, 21:59

Alla1974,
I am digesting what you wrote,
... it turned out the other way around, you are more upset than your husband...

Unread post by **Frodo** » 08 Aug 2022, 22:25

Well done, the first step is the most difficult, a negative result is also a result, now do the search yourself, finding a good lover the first time is difficult, try a dozen until you find the best option

Unread post by **You’re engaged** » 09 Aug 2022, 04:36

Alla1974: 08 Aug 2022, 21:56 In the end, complete disappointment, my soul is bad. She told her husband, either another one, or none at all, otherwise they had already begun to make plans for the future.

Previously, life stories were published in thin magazines at the end. The one who wrote them was called a columnist. That’s all I did in the editorial office - I wrote in this column in every issue. The stories in such columns are usually almost true, except for some minor details. And therefore, as a rule, they were in demand by the reader and sometimes this magazine was bought precisely because of this columnist’s column - it was interesting to read because all the stories were from life. And this was the condition of the column because someone’s fantasies are immediately visible.

Well, so...
In one of these issues there was a story about one of the columnist’s friends who divorced by her husband on the basis, so to speak, of psychological and sexual incompatibility. Well, they live like ten (or whatever) years. There’s nothing to talk about, the sex is so-so. I want something like this, just like you say - “...to feel like a woman again.”
Well, in the end they separated. Somehow they were able to painlessly cut down the apartment, got everything done, and eventually began to live without each other.

This aunt, of course, after some time began searching for a man. And in this field, a very big disappointment awaited her. Well, for starters, she just looked for men purely for sex. It turned out that this was a problem. No, there are many who want it. But sex with them, in this woman’s opinion, is completely different - it’s not like that, it’s not like that. One cums quickly, the other has a bad erection, the third has a small one. And so on. Everything is wrong, and no one she met had sex with her husband.

According to this woman, we weren’t even talking about some great emotions, colorful orgasms and butterflies in the stomach. No! It’s just that out of all the men she met, no one, in her opinion, could even live up to the bar of ordinary boring sex with her husband. And it turns out that sex with my husband was good for everyone, and there’s almost nothing to complain about. Well, except that something was missing. And she apparently wanted something, but what she didn’t know - as one classic said - either the Constitution, or horseradish, or a pig’s tail.

If anyone is interested, this woman was pushed around like that, pushed around. And in the end she ended up back in bed with her husband. In order to at least somehow dot all the “I’s” and in the end still come to some conclusion. And the story in the magazine ended with the fact that she and her husband were thinking - maybe they could get together at least temporarily!?

Well, I think it’s all about feelings. Some will call it love. Someone with affection. Pushkin generally wrote: “a habit has been given to us from above - it is a substitute for happiness.” Maybe that’s how it is. But one way or another, if we are talking about a woman, then she should experience sincere tenderness and affection for this or that man. And then the penis won’t be so small. And the boner is not so bad, and he doesn’t cum so quickly. And my belly isn’t that big!

But when there is no attachment or it has disappeared somewhere over time, then I think from that moment it all begins. I think we just need to both appreciate and protect, first of all, affection for each other. Don’t be shy about tenderness, just touch each other more often. Do not paw, squeeze, or roughly stick your finger into your ass or vagina. And just touch, stroke, kiss on the shoulder.

Someday I’ll tell you about the fish that I observed for a long time in Pattaya (Thai). But somehow later.

Unread post by **Allah 1974** » 02 Sep 2022, 04:11

In general, this is the situation. After sex with my husband’s former classmate, for whom sex is just high-speed rhythmic movements, and my ultimatum to my husband, that it’s either different or nothing at all. My husband agreed with my arguments that I do not have to satisfy, to be a sperm-milking machine. Now he already agrees to the opportunity with someone else. But what about his classmate, that I don’t want him, he doesn’t understand and continues to call my husband - “when”? Now I have found again the man I originally met, but he no longer trusts me and he can be understood. At the same time, another man, older than us, writes to me. The nuance is that he agrees even with his husband, but also insists with his friend. Of course, there is such a fantasy, but I can’t even imagine how to present it to my husband and I haven’t told him about this option yet. Here is how to do?

Unread post by **Johnny depp** » 02 Sep 2022, 04:33

Alla has disappeared and we are all waiting to see what she will do

Unread post by **Ufa guy** » 02 Sep 2022, 05:27

Hmmm. I couldn’t do that. Horror. The author is a natural slut. So admit it. Fuck! I would have left him then and jumped on dicks. Well, you’re finished.

Unread post by **SERG!!** » 02 Sep 2022, 05:30

do not judge ! and you will not be judged! - everyone here is an expert until they touch upon themselves

Unread post by mm » 08 Sep 2022, 20:00

The woman has a problem, she doesn’t want to go with the flow and you are drowning her...

Unread post by **Zulook** » 24 Sep 2022, 16:35

Alla1974: 18 Jun 2022, 20:54 And no matter how you deceive yourself, you still want a man.

But you understand that the situation with your husband’s health in this regard cannot be changed?
You need to somehow adapt the situation to your desires
If he started this topic... then let him suggest it as he wants....
do not take the initiative yourself but support him if he touches on this topic...
I don’t know of course...is orgasm itself possible in the situation of the husband’s health? because in order to cum, it is not at all necessary for the penis to stand
Based on this, I think you can come up with a form of your release and his pleasure from your pleasure
and no one except you in this you knows better than your judge than you.. .you and all the cards in your hand...
to create a bridge from your pleasure to his pleasure...so that the chosen option makes both of you feel good and comfortable

Unread post by **lexus1987** » 25 Sep 2022, 00:44

Alla1974,
You have only one friend common mistake like other women. The situation is not ordinary but not isolated. Talk to your husband, maybe he will trust you more, then introduce them. If the husband can afford a line of cognac, it is better if they discuss everything themselves over a small bottle.

Unread post by **Woman** » 04 Oct 2022, 13:33

Vasyanitsa: 10 Jul 2022, 05:25 find a family friend

I read your advice to the author and I want to add on my own.
Yes, this is really a way out. I had a lover and he was such a friend to one family. There the husband was not disabled, he was impotent. They all agreed on their relationship together and everyone was fine. Their relationship lasted for many years.

Unread post by **BackAgain** » 04 Oct 2022, 20:17

Woman: 04 Oct 2022, 13:33
Vasyanitsa: 10 Jul 2022, 05:25 find a family friend
I read your advice to the author and I want to add on my own.
Yes, this is really a way out . I had a lover and he was such a friend to one family. There the husband was not disabled, he was impotent. They all agreed on their relationship together and everyone was fine. Their relationship lasted for many years.

I have heard a couple of real stories like this, but why does it only work towards one gender?
The chance of agreeing with your wife that for some reason she cannot have sex and take another woman with her is zero.

Unread post by **Woman** » 05 Oct 2022, 00:16

BackAgain: 04 Oct 2022, 20:17 this only works towards one gender

I think that women (not all, of course) simply do not want to deceive their men and cheat on the side, that’s why such "family friends" appear.
And the man calmly finds a mistress on the side and the pangs of conscience do not particularly bother him. The excuse (other than banal fucking) is that I won’t even try, because the chance of reaching an agreement with my wife is zero..

Unread post by **Piero** » 05 Oct 2022, 00:39

Alla1974, I can say that you are great! And don’t listen to anyone here! I understand that you and your husband are already aged? Perhaps sex toys will partially compensate for the loss and you won’t have to cheat on your husband, but here the decision is yours! The only advice is that if casual sex suddenly comes up, don’t refuse! This is not cheating, this is called replacement therapy...

Unread post by **Tanya** » 05 Oct 2022, 01:06

Alla1974: 02 Sep 2022, 04:11 Here is what to do?

Only the way your soul wants.

Unread post by **Shalun70** » 06 Jun 2023, 21:27

In order to give some advice, you need to know what your relationship was like before and after the tragedy, what the character of your husband was like before and after. It is also very important how much free time you have, I mean the time you spend without your husband’s supervision. You see, people are very different, and there is no and cannot be a universal answer. In such a situation, suggestion finding a lover should not be taken seriously. Perhaps this is suggestion was made to you as a test of how easily and quickly you will agree to find your lover.

Unread post by **1234567** » 08 Jun 2023, 11:58

Alla1974, you did the right thing. This is true love.

Unread post by **government38** » 08 Jun 2023, 12:46

my husband needs to buy phalluses with vibration, they are worn instead of panties, there are heated ones even with sperm, in short, you can use a harness like this and you can ride on it and it’s pleasant for him and there is no betrayal, there are such models but on the face, in short, let the husband google this topic, this is a good compromise, the idea of dating a stranger, in my opinion, will destroy your relationship, perhaps he was testing you with this proposal, swinging has not saved more than one family...

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