Strong experiences!

[Zuzia]

Half a year ago, panic attacks began because of work, the guy, whom we had been dating for more than 10 years at that time, said that he didn’t want a family or children and even just move away from his parents (there is a possibility) and didn’t want to live with me, from of course, I had a severe nervous breakdown for several months, then all these events in the country also had an impact ((
By March I had recovered a little and in April I got a new job. Before that, I lived like a family person - at parties I’m not very comfortable, I get lost in unfamiliar company, although I’m sociable, I always prefer home, I built a family relationship with my boyfriend, we lived together (with his parents) we ran a common household, we solved all matters and problems together, I thought we’d create family, we will live together with him forever, he is like a dear soul to me, and in one sentence how everything ended (
After that I decided - come what may, let everything take its course and not plan anything, in other words, to live unusually life for myself
And then at work I met a guy my age, he seems to be attracted to me, but it’s somehow strange, unusual, I think I’ll just try something frivolous that I’ve never tried, no obligations and all that). I don’t know how it happened, but they drank, slept, (I didn’t like it) but it turned out without a condom, he said that he managed to pull it out, but just in case, take a pill, but I’ve never encountered this, I started reading, studying what it is and how - strong hormonal drugs, I was scared that I would throw off my hormones, this is a bad thing to joke about, I don’t know why, then maybe it hit me - it’s better to take a risk than to take some pills with side effects now ((
It’s already been a week, I’m reading about abortions , I’m seriously worried and think what a rare fool I am, I should have taken the pill on the first day, it’s too early to do tests, but I’m all on my nerves, every day drags on for so long (I tried a new life, completely unprepared for it ((
nThe cry of the soul from the unknown and incomprehensibility of the future(

[AlexTDV]

Yes, everything will be fine, what nonsense, the main thing is everyone is alive and healthy, arms and legs are in place, everything else can be solved! )

[Zuzia]

thank you)) long text of course, but for several days I’ve been more nervous than ever I’ve never done such crap and this is it (the anticipation of the future is scary(

[Stanbuyan]

There is no need to panic ahead of time. According to the calendar, was it far from ovulation? If you really have a chance to get pregnant, you need to see a doctor. They can determine earlier than conventional tests. In general, if you don’t want children, you need to protect yourself in a more reliable way than by hoping that you will be able to get them out in time.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

thank you)) long text of course, but for several days now I’ve been more nervous than everI’ve never done such crap and this is it (the anticipation of the future is scary(

What day of the cycle was it, do you know?.. when you got your period should there be? How many days usually pass from menstruation to menstruation?.. it’s strange, of course, that in our age, oversaturated with information, you don’t know where and how children come from!.. especially since you’ve already been in a relationship!..
If It’s really bad because of the nerves, you can donate blood for the hCG hormone; within a few days after conception it can show whether you are pregnant or not, or sign up for an ultrasound, they can also quickly determine the fertilized egg in the uterus.. at least, whether there was or not. ovulation - the doctor will tell you.
And from now on, use condoms, especially with a new, unfamiliar partner, this, I hope, is not difficult.

[Hippolytus]

it’s really bad from the nerves, you can donate blood for the hCG hormone, it can show whether you are pregnant or not within a few days after conception. Or sign up for an ultrasound, they also quickly determine the fertilized egg in the uterus... at least, whether there was ovulation or not - the doctor will tell you.

Yes, I I’ve already signed up to take it tomorrow, still the wait is so long, and also the result, I don’t know what’s wrong with me, I still understand in my head that this is under no circumstances possible, everything needs to be checked, studied, not agreeing to anything... As if a black veil covered me, I could never even imagine that I would do such a stupid thing ((

[Hippolytus]

No need to panic ahead of time. According to the calendar, was it far from ovulation? If you really have a chance to get pregnant, you need to see a doctor. They can determine earlier than conventional tests. In general, if you don’t want children, you need to protect yourself in a more reliable way than by hoping that you will manage to get them out in time.

Yes, I know where children come from, but about ovulation , safe days, etc., I didn’t know, because there was no need, now I’ve already read a lot (to take the test tomorrow, then wait for the result, it’s just scary, I’m such a fool, how could I relax so much, for the first time in my life I relaxed control over myself, found myself adventures( ((

[Beshtau]

Don’t lose heart, everything will be fine

[Katerina90]

I hope everything goes well for you. But be careful in future. Abortion is terrible, but there are worse consequences if you go without a condom with a new, untested partner.

[Bayaderes]

I hope that everything will be fine for you. But be careful in future. Abortion is terrible, but there are worse consequences if without a condom with a new untested partner

Thank you for the kind word) yes, I was guided by the do first, think later method ((I won’t do this again, now I know for sure