40 years old, married - four children, and not a single blowjob. Similar

Unread post by **Outsider** » 30 Jun 2022, 08:10

I have been living with my wife for fifteen years. Four children. Didn’t change. Always dreamed of a blowjob - but never happened. Life is hard and sad. I always hoped that maybe next time my wife would do it. but still no. I always had sex with my wife with the expectation of oral sex on her part... I have sex for her sake, since I want a blowjob and not regular sex. For quite a few years now, my wife has been the first to cum, and I don’t always have time at all... after she cums, she doesn’t want to continue either, she says that’s it, she’s tired, it’s not pleasant and all that. So I don’t cum every time, and there was no blowjob at all. And I lick..
And recently she told me precisely, firmly and definitively that she will never give a blowjob and under any circumstances, she is disgusted by it, and if I want, I can contact prostitutes on this issue ...
So I’m thinking about how to live my life without experiencing the most desired pleasure... you can’t communicate with prostitutes without a condom, and with a condom - what’s the point in a blowjob. What to do? I have no idea.
If there is a Muscovite girl on the forum who is ready to meet on weekdays during the daytime to make her dreams and mine come true, maybe this is the way out..?

Unread post by **Evgenii7519** » 30 Jun 2022, 08:16

Forget about your wife and have a mistress

30 Jun 2022, 08:19

And when you met her, communicated, did you not discuss such topics in advance of the wedding?

Unread post by **Bro** » 30 Jun 2022, 08:20

Evgenii7519, yes, he lived to be 40 years old, and before I still can’t figure out what to do. Although most likely this is a "left-wing" topic for reviving the forum))
Grown boys don’t ask such questions on the Internet

Unread post by **Outsider** » 30 Jun 2022, 08:22

We met - not for long and the child was already born. They began to live together, the wedding came later, four years later there was a second child, etc.

The topic is real. This is my life. I am faced with a choice - to cheat on my wife or reconcile. I’m not going to get a divorce until all the children are grown up
I’m a decent person with moral principles and one option is bad and the other... I’m just going crazy. I masturbate sometimes, but there is no happiness in sex... problem

Unread post by **Kcirtap** » 30 Jun 2022, 10:45

Outsider, I’m sorry, man. I think that if your wife doesn’t mind, and her words are not an empty phrase, then try to find a girl who will give you that very cherished thing. I haven’t had any dealings with prostitutes, but I think a blowjob is possible without a condom (unless, of course, with herpes on the lips).... although I’m not an expert)
in general, if your wife loves you, then why is she disgusted with giving you sex? pleasure while you constantly satisfy her?

Unread post by **NewDim** » 30 Jun 2022, 19:52

Do you even understand that you are really ruining your life and driving yourself into depression. You know, Freud wrote that demons (in the context of possession) are unfulfilled desires. I completely agree. If you want something, it doesn’t matter whether it’s sex or not, implement it. Fuck moral principles, life and desires are yours. Just as your wife doesn’t give a fuck about you, so should you. And she is stupidly selfish, and I suspect with love that not everything is going smoothly.
Finally find your mistress. And if you continue to keep everything to yourself, sooner or later you will break down, and I don’t know how this might turn out.

Unread post by **Bead41e** » 18 Jul 2022, 22:01

My first wife was the same. Divorced a year later - I couldn’t stand it. But it was easier for me. We didn’t have time to have children.

Unread post by **Wanderer 64** » 18 Jul 2022, 22:24

Stranger, I’m about your age and I’ll tell you - I’m a fool you’re a fool!

Unread post by **Mishytka** » 18 Jul 2022, 22:35

If I were you, I would take a mistress. Well, it’s really bad when one of the partners is selfish. On the contrary, my husband is like that, in 10 years of marriage you can count on the fingers of one hand the times I received cunnilingus from him, and then only through persuasion. I’m tired of begging for affection, I found myself a lover, he likes it when I get high and I also like to give him pleasure.
So find someone who will not be ashamed or disgusted to give a blowjob, who will like it. And the family is intact and you are happy.

Unread post by **Wanderer 64** » 18 Jul 2022, 22:41

Mishytka, Good girl! That’s how it should be! And the wolves are fed, and the sheep are safe!

Unread post by **Allah 1974** » 18 Jul 2022, 22:42

Why are you licking then? Shouldn’t there be reciprocity in a relationship? Otherwise it’s a consumer relationship and it’s very strange that someone who finishes before you is unique

Unread post by **Andrey57115** » 18 Jul 2022, 22:45

Stranger: ↑30 Jun 2022, 08:10 I have been living with my wife for fifteen years. Four children. Didn’t change. Always dreamed of a blowjob - but never happened. Life is hard and sad. I always hoped that maybe next time my wife would do it. but still no. I always had sex with my wife with the expectation of oral sex on her part... I have sex for her sake, since I want a blowjob and not regular sex. For quite a few years now, my wife has been the first to cum, and I don’t always have time at all... after she cums, she doesn’t want to continue either, she says that’s it, she’s tired, it’s not pleasant and all that. So I don’t cum every time, and there was no blowjob at all. And I lick..
And recently she told me precisely, firmly and definitively that she will never give a blowjob and under any circumstances, she is disgusted by it, and if I want, I can contact prostitutes on this issue ...
So I’m thinking about how to live my life without experiencing the most desired pleasure... you can’t communicate with prostitutes without a condom, and with a condom - what’s the point in a blowjob. What to do? I have no idea.
If there is a Muscovite girl on the forum who is ready to meet on weekdays during the daytime to make her dreams and mine come true, maybe this is the way out..?

Wife I gave you carte blanche for mistresses or prostitutes - don’t be a deer! Use it! :shamp:

Unread post by **Wanderer 64** » 18 Jul 2022, 22:48

Alla1974, My wife hardly sucks either, I I lick her, she cums before me, well, she’s like that, I should leave her and the children, I had a lot of lovers during our life, with Mimi I got what she didn’t give me

Unread post by **Bead41e** » 18 Jul 2022, 23:17

This is selfishness and nothing else. They just can’t understand with their minds that such relationships push their half to look for relationships on the side.

Unread post by **Wanderer 64** » 18 Jul 2022, 23:24

Businka41e, Well, find it and be happy, at home with children , sex with your lover, at work, at work, enjoy everything. Well, don’t start snotting - my wife doesn’t suck! are you a man or a footcloth

Unread post by **Onism** » 18 Jul 2022, 23:50

Stranger: ↑30 Jun 2022, 08:22 I am faced with a choice - to cheat on my wife or reconcile. I’m not going to get a divorce until all the children are grown up

An outsider, what choice could there be? Your wife herself gave you the go-ahead for blowjobs... So look for either a permanent one or prostitutes and realize your desires.

I also don’t often get a blowjob from my wife, but it’s just awesome.

Unread post by **Bead41e** » 19 Jul 2022, 00:22

My first one couldn’t even hold it in her hand - she spoke disgustingly. But to receive from me oral sex[/url] is normal. He left, forgot, got married again. Now I’m happy and everything is fine with sex.

Unread post by **journeyman 2000** » 23 Aug 2022, 23:52

I would suck you better than any woman. I love it and I can do it.

Unread post by Mr » 24 Aug 2022, 00:52

I have read all the tips above. In general I agree.
As they say, don’t slow down - grab a snickers.
And then 40 already means that half past six is just around the corner. Take advantage while you can.

Unread post by **Bulkin** » 30 Aug 2022, 16:17

Sorry! To be honest, first time I encounter a similar case. I’ve heard about the opposite, when a husband, for "boyish" reasons, refuses to do cunnilingus, but it turns out that there is a female version.

Unread post by **Wet** » 15 Feb 2023, 09:31

sven2000: ↑23 Aug 2022, 23:52 24 Aug 2022, 10:52

I would suck you better than any woman. I love it and I can do it.

And I would watch it. And she also sucked. I love blowjob. It seems to me, even more sex.
So, why bother with things that are not yours? There is only one life. And its only meaning is pleasure. For the soul, mind, body. Living your whole life with a penis and in dreams - well, it’s completely sad. You need to please yourself and people) most importantly, not against their will

Unread post by **VKrisov** » 15 Feb 2023, 11:52

Wet: ↑15 Feb 2023, 09:31 You need to please yourself and people), most importantly, not against their will

I strongly agree. There’s nothing to add.

Unread post by **kenzo** » 13 Aug 2023, 11:22

It is necessary to somehow discuss everything in advance, all desires, etc... and so, it reminds me of something like cuckoldry or submission by a tight-fisted woman..... they took you into circulation and that’s it.
In general, when I meet people, I would always like to know sex preferences and compatibility in advance, rather than suffer later.... it’s better to communicate with Dunka than this...

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 13 Aug 2023, 11:31

Yes, a person just wants a blowjob for free, out of pity.

Unread post by **Ogest** » 13 Aug 2023, 13:23

A year has already passed. I wonder if he got what he wanted?

Unread post by **Bexed** » 13 Aug 2023, 14:26

I wonder who it was tested with?

Unread post by **Vert** » 13 Aug 2023, 15:05

Businka41e: ↑19 Jul 2022, 00:22 My first one couldn’t even take it in her hand - she spoke disgustingly.

One girl told me that even the sight of a penis disgusted her. Although she had a husband. And the child is already an adult. Nothing happens in life.

Unread post by **vlasm** » 23 Nov 2023, 22:22

Just 2 years ago, I would have thought, like some others, that the topic was a hoax. But now I found myself in a similar situation, too: blowjob ugh, doesn’t touch the penis, never refused sex, but she never showed the initiative, although no, I’m lying once) They already asked, what about before the wedding where did you look ? In my situation before the wedding, everything was more or less: blowjob - not often, but I did it, the initiative was sluggish, but there was some, I touched my penis, jerked it off sometimes, but after... no, I won’t say that it was straight forward, after the registry office, it was somehow gradual, after decreasing. I tried talking, to no avail. And now, like TS, I’m thinking whether to get a divorce or go left. And another unpleasant feeling of being deceived and used. Something like this.

Unread post by **Watchman** » 23 Nov 2023, 22:41

And if there were blowjobs, you see, there would be not four but two children

Unread post by **vlasm** » 23 Nov 2023, 22:59

Yes, there was still a period of soul-searching and I asked my wife directly: maybe it’s just me, am I doing something wrong? She said no, everything is fine. Having also thought about it myself, I came to the conclusion that it is unlikely, because... with others everything was fine. Communication with my ex put an end to my soul-searching. We met and talked, she so calmly, casually asks: are you still good at sex? It was nice, my self-esteem returned to its previous level. She offered to meet again, but I refused. But that’s a completely different story.

Unread post by **Vik.ruba80** » 23 Nov 2023, 23:20

In my younger years, we always organized corporate parties. And they never did without sexual adventures. So you also need to arrange a small celebration, a party, whatever you want. What I mean is that casual connections are possible, but not required. My way of relaxing is always to have fun in bed.

Unread post by **kvlst** » 28 Nov 2023, 18:52

I’m 58, I won’t say that there was no blowjob at all, but you can count on your fingers how many times it happened. We almost always start with cunnilingus. I don’t know, for some reason my wife doesn’t really like giving blowjobs.

Unread post by **angrove** » 28 Nov 2023, 20:27

From my own experience and from the stories of my friends (who like to talk about life), I came to the conclusion that wives are divided into 2 groups - 1. Before wedding blowjob girls, who suck great, but before getting stamped on their passports or before giving birth, and then it begins, - "I have a small mouth, and you have a big penis..", "I have heartburn from sperm"... (before the wedding, the sizes somehow coincided and the gastrointestinal tract was working normally). 2. Wafflers for life. These suck before and after, and anywhere, at any time, bring your dick to her mouth and she instinctively accepts it with her mouth.

Unread post by **Sorcerer** » 28 Nov 2023, 20:32

The demographics need to be raised, not children eaten.

Unread post by **estimated** » 12 May 2024, 09:15

Got it?!

Unread post by **PrematureCum** » 31 May 2024, 20:57

angryboy: ↑28 Nov 2023, 20:27 From my own experience and from the stories of my friends (who like to talk about life), I came to the conclusion that wives are divided into 2 groups - 1. Before wedding blowjobs, who suck perfectly, but before getting stamped in a passport or before giving birth , and then it starts, - "I have a small mouth, and you have a big penis..", "I have heartburn from sperm"... (before the wedding, the sizes somehow coincided and the gastrointestinal tract was working normally) . 2. Wafflers for life. These suck before, and after, and anywhere, at any time, bring the penis to her mouth and she instinctively accepts it with her mouth.

With my wife it’s like- it happened the other way around. For many years, the most she did was lightly kiss the penis. But after giving birth to two children and entering her thirties, for some reason she relaxed. At first I just joked about this topic, then I started sucking with the condition that I finish on her chest and finally allowed me to cum in my mouth.
I had never had a special desire for other women before, but after this it completely disappeared.

Unread post by **brown** » 31 May 2024, 21:06

Now blowjob second me!! From 15 years old to adults, if anything happens straight away....

Unread post by **Profixx11** » 31 May 2024, 23:15

Have you ever tried to piss off to make her more accommodating? They say it helps.

40 years old, married - four children, and not a single blowjob. Similar

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