How to choose the right meetings so as not to get upset later?

[shadow]

Hi all! I often hear about unpleasant acquaintances, photo leaks, blackmail and other nonsense that accompany meetings in real life or online...

Share your tips on how to act to increase the chances of a pleasant meeting with a little-known person or a generally unknown partner, which will not end with the above...

I think this is relevant for everyone.

It’s also interesting - what other types of troubles Can I meet you through online dating?

[VladimiR]

Instead of advice, a short story.
Once I registered on a dating site. I was 38 then. I had just gotten divorced, so I had a vague idea about such sites.
The site is like a site: dating, flirting, love, etc. In addition to one-on-one communication, there was also a chat.
You come up with a nickname for yourself and communicate with someone unknown. To expand my horizons, I decided to use this site.
After five minutes of chaotic correspondence, I realized that I was talking with one girl and three non-girls, and judging by the style of writing messages, they were very young. Before leaving the chat, I wanted to make sure that I was not mistaken with the ages of my interlocutors. I just asked the girl how old she was... After that, some kind of insanity began.
One of the non-girls asked me why I wanted to know about age, then he announced my age to everyone in the chat, I don’t know where he got it from this information and immediately wrote that I was a pedophile, he was joined by other non-girls (why non-girls? because it’s hard to call such people men who, firstly, are talking some kind of nonsense, and secondly, they are talking about it in a way that is safe for them distance).
My first desire was to answer them accordingly, but then I realized that nothing good would come of this and simply blocked my personal account on the site.
My opinion is that blackmail and other things on the Internet, if it is not related to the extortion of large sums of money, but only for the sake of satisfying one’s pride, in order to fuck, very young people with the psychology of a teenager are engaged. And such people can be identified by their communication style.

[shadow]

An acquaintance of mine made an agreement on virtual with some sultry little thing. We were still at school.
So she recorded everything that was broadcast from his webcam and began to blackmail him. He will send the money to all the dozes in VK.
The acquaintance did not believe her. Or maybe the amount was large... in short, one day I log in, and I have a message from an unknown person, and there is a video of a friend acting out)) I was freaked out, of course, but I wrote to a friend that we are all the same and there is no need to worry. Many were of the same opinion.
But in the end the person retreated into himself for a long time anyway (((

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

There are a lot of inappropriate people on the Internet, at least judging by this site, you need to think 100 times before posting your photos or sharing some important, personal information close to your body.

[Wanderer 64]

◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊, And not only this is if acquaintance on the Internet, this does not mean that the meeting will be pleasant. I am convinced from personal experience

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊, And not only that, if acquaintance on the Internet, this does not mean that the meeting will be pleasant. I was convinced from personal experience

Yes, unfortunately, I have encountered this many times already..

[Wanderer 64]

Very rarely, the expected coincides with reality. Everyone is so sexy in chat, but in real life they squeeze like virgins

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

Very rarely, the expected coincides with reality. In the chat everyone is so sexy, but in real life they squeeze like virgins

I had the opposite situation)) I met a man on a dating site for the purpose of a relationship, not sex for one night. The conversation was very discreet, friendly and sweet, and there was no talk of sex. We agreed that we would meet to get to know each other on neutral territory, to get to know each other, without hands and everything else. But at the meeting he behaved terribly rudely, spread his hands and clearly hinted at intimacy. I literally ran away from him, so he was still indignant that he spent the money on tea (only a cup of tea was 50 rubles))) and on a taxi and that I return everything to him on the card (I must say that the man is not a beggar, he works as a doctor !) wow!.. I was shocked by such a gentleman))

[Wanderer 64]

There is nothing more shameful than such a man, even if he didn’t get what he wanted, well, you can’t be such a scumbag, petty and such a schmuck

[Mishytka]

In the chat everyone is so sexy, but in real life they squeeze like virgins

But this applies not only to women, to men too .))
I recently started communicating with an old acquaintance, by correspondence he was so brave, even a little arrogant, we agreed to meet. And when we met, he immediately became modest, shy, he didn’t know what to do with himself, he was biting his lips, his eyes were on the floor, his cheeks were pink, I could barely stir him up. But it looked pretty nice.))
You can’t understand exactly what kind of person a person will really be like by communicating online. Here, you probably need to turn on your intuition somehow.

[Wanderer 64]

Mishytka, In correspondence communication, a person wants to present himself as he would like to be, but when eye to eye, a person becomes shy, some to a greater extent, some to a lesser extent, depending on the experience of communicating with people. There are simply people who are able to overcome shyness, and there are those who find it difficult to cope with it

Sent after 25 minutes 2 seconds:
◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊, A man can win a lady’s favor if he is self-confident and broad-minded

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

Mishytka , In correspondence communication, a person wants to present himself as he would like to be, and when eye to eye, the person becomes shy, some to a greater extent, some to a lesser extent, depending on the experience of communicating with people. There are simply people who are able to overcome shyness, and there are those who find it difficult to cope with it

Sent after 25 minutes 2 seconds:
◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊, A man can win a lady’s favor if he is self-confident and broad-minded

Undoubtedly this is so, I agree with you.. but as they often do in SZ.. his photos were 20 years ago.. he wasn’t an Apollo in them, but he was quite pleasant, and when we met in person he turned out to be much older, shabby, shabby, bald, potbellied , half a head shorter than me, smoked and drank beer in front of me.. meh.. well, why lie so much about your appearance!? I wanted to leave immediately, but he tried to persuade me to stay

[Wanderer 64]

No, well, yes, if you intend to meet with your interlocutor, then why put saws in your eyes. Well, you also need to maintain manners, otherwise it’s like meeting game in a trash heap

[Mishytka]

well, why lie so much about your appearance!?

By the way, it happens that communication[/url] catches you very much and then you don’t even pay much attention to their appearance. You think, well, he’s not the same as in the photo, well, okay, but for some reason you feel comfortable with him.
Perhaps this is exactly what he was counting on.
But here, yes, that’s not the case.) ))
Next time it’s better to ask for a photo with a piece of paper and some inscription.

[Wanderer 64]

Our intelligence is a nightmare! The nation is deteriorating, it’s scary!

[Sweet pepper]

1) communication
2) calling
3) meeting for coffee

These steps reduce the likelihood of inappropriate

[Van23]

Next time it’s better to ask for a photo with a piece of paper and some inscription.

this is brilliant!!! Why didn’t I think of this myself before(((
I’m on a dating site and 80% of the photos are someone else’s or from the distant past...

[Mongoose]

Next time it’s better to ask for a photo with a piece of paper and some kind of inscription.

this is brilliant!!! Why didn’t I think of this myself before(((
I’m on a dating site and 80% of the photos are someone else’s or from the distant past...

nWith this option, there is no guarantee of authenticity if a person has good Photoshop skills! And secondly, even an average-level photographer knows his disadvantages and knows how to photograph himself (that is, present himself in the best light!!! (or in other words, dust in the eyes let in) Only a personal meeting and if a woman is participating in the meeting, then the meeting is only in a place where she will feel confident and safe!

[Lexis]

It’s simple, you shouldn’t send an intimate photo with your face to anyone at all, plus if you send a photo with your face, it’s better to do it in a different message from the intimate photo. Well, it’s better to run photos received by correspondence through Yandex image search. Sometimes deception comes up right away

[The passage]

The problem with appearance is easy to solve, just chat on webcam. But the adequacy of a person can be more or less understood by communicating with him for a long time. Therefore, at the beginning of communication, I do not send any personal information or photos.
I have not met anyone on this forum. There has never been such a man that I communicated with him for a long time. Oh, there were meetings from other forums. They didn’t develop into anything serious, but I wanted to meet, so I don’t regret it.

[G.e.org.ii]

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How to choose the right meetings so as not to get upset later?
Message 09 Jul 2022, 22:22

Hello everyone! I often hear about unpleasant acquaintances, leaking photos, blackmail and other nonsense that accompany meetings in real life or online.

For about a year, a couple of real pieces of advice, only that no one doesn’t happen in real life?
I had no options, no experience.
How is the author doing with meetings?

[Listening4]

I read the topic and I think that it is best to meet for a normal relationship in BibliotEk.

[Solomon]

There are a lot of inappropriate people on the Internet, at least judging by this site, you need to think 100 times before posting your photos or sharing something important, personal, close to the body information.

I fucked a girl in chat roulette, while an unknown girl was masturbating on the other side of the screen, then I received a message like throw money or I’ll post it this video is on the network I laughed and said I would be very grateful for your help in distributing it and that’s it, no consequences
because no one gives a fuck about others, people have a lot of problems with their own, even if all the subscribers see your penis or vagina and, well, they’ll mull over this topic for a day or two and that’s it, they’ll go solve their problems

[The passage]

In order not to get upset again, you must at least firmly know what you want to get from the meeting and in no case wishful thinking.
I met with forum members from another forum. Since then there have been no meetings, but there is no one here yet.
There were proposals for a meeting. They come in PM and offer you a direct offer. It was as if they had seen my ad somewhere. Well, yes. Perhaps my sex now is very unstable, but this does not mean at all that I am starving to such an extent that I don’t care at all with whom, as long as I have sex.
Men need to understand that even if he remains the last man on Earth, this will not mean at all that all women will want him. And, in a competitive environment, he needs to try to interest a woman. I have nothing against men who think that they should be interested. It is their right to think so and want so. Let them continue to masturbate.
About deceptions. I saw on NTV in crime news how men literally fall in love with women and they lose a large sum of money or even all their property, even apartments. In men, the damage is usually less. They are either put to sleep with clonidine and their pockets are emptied, or they order prostitutes, but no one comes.
Well, if we don’t touch on crime, then most often appearance does not correspond to reality. On SZ they post photos or old and photoshopped ones. And instead of a handsome man, a macho, rumpled, tired man comes to the meeting. But this is not always a problem. Sometimes such a man turns out to be cheerful in communication and temperamental in bed. I slept with them, almost all of them. What turns me off in a person is not his appearance, but his inappropriate behavior. If a person is inadequate, then no matter how handsome he is, you don’t want to have sex with him at all.

[Ded]

Marinka, Somehow on one wonderful site one married couple , invited my friend to your place! She went and everything was fine and both they and her friend liked it! But over time, they faded away for one reason: common interests ended up, as they say, on different shores! So you still need to compare common interests or at least hobbies! After all, it’s not just sex!

[Bully Carrie]

I met with forum members from another forum. Since then, there have been no meetings, but there is no one here yet.

I don’t know how it is on E.’s website, but there is also a scattered geography - my mother is not Grieve.

[The passage]

I met with forum members from another forum. Since then, there have been no meetings, but there is no one here yet.

I don’t know how it is on E.’s website, but there is also a scattered geography - my mother is not grieve.

There are also people from different parts of our vastness, from different countries and from different continents. If the desire is strong, then in our time distance is not a problem. And, if you want to meet purely out of curiosity, then of course you won’t go to another city.

[Half well done]

◊_НеБо[_На_]ЛаДоНи_◊, ну и история конечно

[romance book]

Next time it’s better to ask for a photo with a piece of paper and some inscription.

It’s more reliable via WhatsApp via video link, at least for a minute to make sure it’s That person sends photos and videos, not other people’s. Or I had a case, and more than once on the Internet the photos were successful, but in person she wasn’t very good, she was older and fatter.
Another case - one girl doesn’t want to video call, she thinks that I’m an alarmist, that I’m worrying in vain that the photo isn’t her, she even thinks that I’m strange, that I’m distrustful, suspicious.
If she still doesn’t agree via video call, I’ll probably stop corresponding with her, although I like her from the photo.
I don’t know how to convince her via video call

[career]

how to act to increase the chances of a pleasant meeting,

choose a more expensive prostitute

[Hair shirt]

Men need to understand that even if he remains the last man on Earth, this will not mean at all that all women will want him. And, in a competitive environment, he needs to try to interest a woman.

The problem is that many women who meet on the Internet and agree to meet in a public place to look at each other They want some benefit for themselves from this meeting.
I read posts on forums from girls who wrote indignantly that I was already tired of these meetings to look at each other. They say everyone invites you to a meeting in the park and no one takes you to an expensive restaurant. Like, these walks in the park are already fucked up. That they say they don’t even invite you to a table in a cafe in the park, and all these walks and endless conversations about nothing.

They say that all this is already fucked up. What do readers say, tell me what’s wrong with me. Why doesn’t anyone take me to an expensive restaurant? I want to be taken to an expensive restaurant, I want to be fed deliciously, I want all this to be beautiful and pleasant.

What the hell!?
Well, what is all this for? talking about meeting to look at each other. Or maybe the girl just wants to be entertained and fed at someone else’s expense? Even at McDonald’s, a normal meal with dessert for two will cost a decent amount. I’m already silent about some expensive restaurant with white tablecloths and alcohol. Sitting for two hours for an hour and a half will break a serious hole in any working man who is not a bank director or the owner of a laundry chain.

That is, it turns out that women who advertise on dating sites on the Internet are counting exclusively on rich men. Who will come to the meeting in their own car, who will then take them to a good restaurant and who will then not worry too much if the girl doesn’t go to fuck after the first meeting, but, as befits a decent girl, will set up the next date. And the man will perceive this as the norm and will not worry that he is being bullied right now and that he actually paid for an expensive restaurant in the hope of today’s sex.

And what do we get out of it?
And the fact that such men do not go to such dating sites. They already have enough women and there is no shortage of them. Because they are hunted and there are always a couple of women hovering around such a man who are ready to brighten up his leisure time. In the hope that he will like the sex, that he will get used to it, that maybe he will even fall in love - who the hell is not joking.

Well, as for dating sites, men from the category of office plankton hang out there. Those who have a salary have a budget. And of course he can manage a restaurant for two once a month. But then he will have to choose - or sit at work all month without lunch. Or dine at home with just dumplings. Or if you have a car, then give it up for a month because there won’t be enough money to fuel it.

But what’s most interesting is that the same girls who come to meetings from dating sites are also from office plankton. And they also have a budget. And they can also go to a restaurant themselves, say with their friend. But they, too, will go out of budget and will be forced to squeeze somewhere this month. And then the thought of a freebie arises. That it is possible to promote someone to this matter. Well, if the young man really likes it, then maybe he can pay for the restaurant with sex. Well, okay, they say, just one time will not erase the pussy.

Well, in general, I think that the bourgeoisie do the right thing in such cases. In different places like this, everyone pays for themselves. And this immediately puts everything in its place, even if someone had some kind of intent. Well, we came, well, we sat. Well, we said goodbye nicely and went our separate ways, each paying only for himself. And no one has the feeling that he’s been fucked right now.

No! Everything seems to be fair. You wanted to meet and chat with a guy first. So we met and talked. Nobody promised anything to anyone. No one ate or fucked anyone.

And the most important thing is not to forget that a man, a woman, or a woman in general, meets on a dating site to have sex and not for a relationship. A relationship is assumed if everything goes well and if both of them like everything.
But it’s not the other way around - that a meeting supposedly presupposes a long brain-fucking, which for some reason is usually called a relationship. And therefore, maybe if he behaves well, then sex will be on her terms.

But why don’t women want to accept this, although they know perfectly well why men are looking for such acquaintances and why they need it.
That is, a man just wants to find a woman who wants sex just like he does.
And they meet on neutral territory in order to look at each other and try on a person - whether you like him or not.

But when they reach the meeting place, why do women turn everything over in their heads and forget why they are meeting in the first place? And now they want to be seduced, conquered, wooed and harassed.
Despite the fact that, in general, by agreeing to such a meeting on a dating site, she essentially agreed to have sex with a man, but only on the condition of first looking at this man up close and understand whether you like him or not.

And if you like him, then immediately go to some hotel with him. And if you don’t like it, then say goodbye nicely.
But there were no restaurants planned!

[The passage]

But no restaurants were supposed to be!

Have I written somewhere about a restaurant? Why are you writing these to me?
I assume that if a man invites a lady to a restaurant, then he is either able to pay or it’s a show-off. If the latter, then it is his own fault that he was left without lunch.
Rich people invited me to expensive restaurants. Who can not only pay the bill, but also buy this restaurant and I didn’t sleep with them. It was gratitude on their part and nothing more.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

Men need to understand that even if he remains the last man on Earth, this will not mean that all women will want him. And, in a competitive environment, he needs to try to interest a woman.

The problem is that many women who meet on the Internet and agree to meet in a public place to look at each other They want some benefit for themselves from this meeting.
I read posts on forums from girls who wrote indignantly that I was already tired of these meetings to look at each other. They say everyone invites you to a meeting in the park and no one takes you to an expensive restaurant. Like, these walks in the park are already fucked up. That they say they don’t even invite you to a table in a cafe in the park, and all these walks and endless conversations about nothing.

They say that all this is already fucked up. What do readers say, tell me what’s wrong with me. Why doesn’t anyone take me to an expensive restaurant? I want to be taken to an expensive restaurant, I want to be fed deliciously, I want all this to be beautiful and pleasant.

What the hell!?
Well, what is all this for? talking about meeting to look at each other. Or maybe the girl just wants to be entertained and fed at someone else’s expense? Even at McDonald’s, a normal meal with dessert for two will cost a decent amount. I’m already silent about some expensive restaurant with white tablecloths and alcohol. Sitting for two hours for an hour and a half will break a serious hole in any working man who is not a bank director or the owner of a laundry chain.

That is, it turns out that women who advertise on dating sites on the Internet are counting exclusively on rich men. Who will come to the meeting in their own car, who will then take them to a good restaurant and who will then not worry too much if the girl doesn’t go to fuck after the first meeting, but, as befits a decent girl, will set up the next date. And the man will perceive this as the norm and will not worry that he is being bullied right now and that he actually paid for an expensive restaurant in the hope of today’s sex.

And what do we get out of it?
And the fact that such men do not go to such dating sites. They already have enough women and there is no shortage of them. Because they are hunted and there are always a couple of women hovering around such a man who are ready to brighten up his leisure time. In the hope that he will like the sex, that he will get used to it, that maybe he will even fall in love - who the hell is not joking.

Well, as for dating sites, men from the category of office plankton hang out there. Those who have a salary have a budget. And of course he can manage a restaurant for two once a month. But then he will have to choose - or sit at work all month without lunch. Or dine at home with just dumplings. Or if you have a car, then give it up for a month because there won’t be enough money to fuel it.

But what’s most interesting is that the same girls who come to meetings from dating sites are also from office plankton. And they also have a budget. And they can also go to a restaurant themselves, say with their friend. But they, too, will go out of budget and will be forced to squeeze somewhere this month. And then the thought of a freebie arises. That it is possible to promote someone to this matter. Well, if the young man really likes it, then maybe he can pay for the restaurant with sex. Well, okay, they say, just one time will not erase the pussy.

Well, in general, I think that the bourgeoisie do the right thing in such cases. In different places like this, everyone pays for themselves. And this immediately puts everything in its place, even if someone had some kind of intent. Well, we came, well, we sat. Well, we said goodbye nicely and went our separate ways, each paying only for himself. And no one has the feeling that he’s been fucked right now.

No! Everything seems to be fair. You wanted to meet and chat with a guy first. So we met and talked. Nobody promised anything to anyone. No one ate or fucked anyone.

And the most important thing is not to forget that a man, a woman, or a woman in general, meets on a dating site to have sex and not for a relationship. A relationship is assumed if everything goes well and if both of them like everything.
But it’s not the other way around - that a meeting supposedly presupposes a long brain-fucking, which for some reason is usually called a relationship. And therefore, maybe if he behaves well, then sex will be on her terms.

But why don’t women want to accept this, although they know perfectly well why men are looking for such acquaintances and why they need it.
That is, a man just wants to find a woman who wants sex just like he does.
And they meet on neutral territory in order to look at each other and try on a person - whether you like him or not.

But when they reach the meeting place, why do women turn everything over in their heads and forget why they are meeting in the first place? And now they want to be seduced, conquered, wooed and harassed.
Despite the fact that, in general, by agreeing to such a meeting on a dating site, she essentially agreed to have sex with a man, but only on the condition of first looking at this man up close and understand whether you like him or not.

And if you like him, then immediately go to some hotel with him. And if you don’t like it, then say goodbye nicely.
But there were no restaurants planned!

and many women come on dates already well-fed and order only coffee or tea.. and yes, they are able to pay for their drink themselves)) and if a woman agreed to a meeting on a dating site, this means only what it means - a meeting)

[Hair shirt]

Who can not only pay the bill, but also buy this restaurant and I didn’t sleep with them

Oh, I think I insulted a member of the English royal court. Well, of course, you communicate only with those men who can buy this or that restaurant. And of course, you and they don’t even have any thoughts of sleeping with you. Well, how can you...
Excuse me once again for my rude peasant antics, and also dared to think something indecent about you.
I just can’t understand what you are Are you here among the marginalized, maniacs and pedophiles?
Are you having a charity evening here? Something like this photo...

https://i.postimg.cc/GpNnB3yw/111111111.jpg

Если это так то что то Ваше присутствие тут затянулось.

[The passage]

Who can not only pay the bill, but also buy this restaurant and I didn’t sleep with them

Oh, I think I insulted a member of the English royal court. Well, of course, you communicate only with those men who can buy this or that restaurant. And of course, you and they don’t even have any thoughts of sleeping with you. Well, how can you...
Excuse me once again for my rude peasant antics, and also dared to think something indecent about you.
I just can’t understand what you are Are you here among the marginalized, maniacs and pedophiles?
Are you having a charity evening here? Something like this photo...

https://i.postimg.cc/GpNnB3yw/111111111.jpg

Если это так то что то Ваше присутствие тут затянулось.

Хватит паясничать. Вы сюда фапать пришли? Фапайте и идите спать.

[Hair shirt]

and many women come to dates already well-fed and order only coffee or tea.. and yes, they are able to pay for their drink themselves)) and if a woman agreed to a meeting on a dating site, this means only what it means - a meeting)

I can quote myself again:
n

Despite the fact that, in general, by agreeing to such a meeting on a dating site, she essentially agreed to have sex with a man, but only on the condition of first looking at this man up close and understanding whether you like him or not.

You can come up with whatever you want in your head, but all the men who meet on dating sites and who then make appointments think exactly this way. And it’s sex that they need, and that’s why they meet. And they assume that a woman needs the same thing, and when arranging a meeting, they assume that the woman agrees to sex. And that’s exactly what she needs from him, too. And that she will come to a public place for a meeting solely to just look at what will fuck her. But on the condition that if she doesn’t like what she sees, then she will cancel her decision.

And I think that women know all this very well and only make faces pretending that this is not really the case. That I’m not like that, I’m waiting for the tram.

Stop clowning around. Did you come here to fap? Fap and go to sleep.

You ist das Fap?

[Mitry]

Holy crap! I sent a post and it disappeared!

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

I can quote myself again:

You can come up with whatever you want in your head, but all the men who meet on dating sites and who then make appointments think exactly this way. And it’s sex that they need, and that’s why they meet. And they assume that a woman needs the same thing, and when arranging a meeting, they assume that the woman agrees to sex. And that’s exactly what she needs from him, too. And that she will come to a public place for a meeting solely to just look at what will fuck her. But on the condition that if she doesn’t like what she sees, then she will cancel her decision.

And I think that women know all this very well and only make faces pretending that this is not really the case. That I’m not like that, I’m waiting for the tram.

how great you are.. you’re quoting yourself)) you’re probably a god, since you decide for others what and how someone should think? )) I don’t care what you decided in your crazy head) what’s so evil? Did someone offend you or something?.. the girls won’t give?..

[Keep the change for yourself]

Vas ist das Fapat?

visas from masturbation

all the men who meet on dating sites and who then appoint meetings think exactly like that.

I haven’t met anyone in Northwestern West, and by and large I don’t meet people at all, but when I was single and choosing which girl to hit on, sex was essentially not was in first place. When you are caring for a girl, it is clear that sooner or later this will happen to you, but besides sex, there are also other things to do together, communication and pastime. What is the point of being in a relationship when there is no relationship, but only sex?

[Hair shirt]

I didn’t meet people in North West, and by and large I don’t meet people at all, but when I was single and choosing which girl to hit on, sex was essentially not in the first place. When you are caring for a girl, it is clear that sooner or later this will happen to you, but besides sex, there are also other things to do together, communication and pastime. What is the point of being in a relationship when there is no such relationship, but only sex?

Well, judge for yourself what kind of sex you can hope for if you hit on a girl from your circle - work, study, a friend of some relatives or a neighbor where you live? You both know very well that what will happen right there on the second day will be known to everyone. Well, why does a woman need all this? Yes, and for a man too, if he is not entirely confident in himself. Let’s say there was some kind of embarrassment or he somehow behaved not quite correctly. Everyone will know about this, and all the women around you will know about it. It’s one thing if they know that you have a big penis. But it’s another thing if he’s so-so and he doesn’t stand well.

Everything is almost the same, but adjusted for physiology and with a woman. That’s why these dating sites are popular. Precisely because of anonymity. No one will know anything about you more than what you decide to tell about yourself.
Both men and women suffer equally from loneliness and most of all from the lack of regular sex. Women, no less than men, may need sex for one reason or another. And dating site is a good way to fix things. You can, of course, go somewhere to some club. But first of all, which one? Secondly, with whom? It’s scary to be alone. And even in this club, you’ll be taken away somewhere and then, God forbid, if you stay alive and don’t become disabled. There’s always some kind of trouble in these clubs.

And with dating sites, the woman controls everything. From and to. And there’s no need to make faces - by giving consent to a meeting in a public place, a woman essentially makes it clear to the man that you are suitable for her according to all preliminary indicators. That she agrees to have sex with you. But she just needs to make sure that everything is exactly as you presented yourself to her on the dating site. And if this is the case when we meet, then there will be sex.

Although here above, Marinka wrote that they say tired men come to the meeting and not those who described themselves so colorfully on the dating site. All that remains is to ask these tired men who they saw when they came to the meeting.

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how great you are.. quoting yourself)) you must be a god, since you decide for others what how should anyone think?)) I don’t care what you decided in your crazy head) what’s so evil? Has someone offended you or what?.. the girls won’t give?..

You yourself know very well that dating sites this is not a place for establishing what is commonly called a relationship.
In general, some kind of stupid word whose meaning I don’t quite understand.
In my opinion, this is such a very specific way of fucking the brain, the goal of which is to bring the situation to registration in the registry office. This is to put it briefly and without further ado.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

institutions of what is commonly called relationships.
In general, some stupid word whose meaning I don’t quite understand.
In my opinion, this is such a very specific way of fucking the brain, the purpose of which is to bring the situation to registration in Registry office. This is in brief and without further ado.

relationships are what happens in all areas of a person’s life. We live in a society and without relationships with other people, no one would survive, except for a few.
You rush from one extreme to another. A relationship does not necessarily mean a registry office... for young girls 20-25 years old it is possible.

[The passage]

tired men come

))) Tired men are not scary. It’s scary to one day run into a bore like you.

[Hair shirt]

relationships are what happens in all areas of a person’s life. We live in a society and without relationships with other people, no one would survive, except for a few.
You rush from one extreme to another. Relationships don’t necessarily mean a registry office... for young girls 20-25 years old it’s possible.

Don’t invent something that doesn’t exist. What does society and relationships have to do with it? Society is work, neighbors, relatives, friends. Do you have a relationship with all of them or something?
Relationships are usually called some kind of temporary union of opposite (and maybe same-sex) sexes for some specific purpose. That is, a man met a woman or a guy met a girl, met a couple of times and started a relationship. That is, they meet from time to time, go somewhere, and spend their leisure time somehow.

And in this regard, the question...
Why do they need all this?
There are many answers, depending on who we are talking about. If it’s a girl, then it may be necessary because the guy is paying for her. That’s how it is. As a rule, she is not interested in where he gets the money. But he constantly takes her somewhere. And without a boyfriend, all this is difficult because then someone will also pay for her. But this someone will be some random guy who will have to pay for everything here and now.

What and how to pay is also clear. This is a common practice when guys went to a bar or a club or somewhere else and, as they say, picked up the girls and then went with them somewhere to have fun. And of course, this girl will not spend the night at home today and it is clear that today she will be fucked. Maybe not just one person, but the whole company. And it’s even possible that the girl herself won’t mind and will like it all.

But all this is very, very extreme. And if everything ended well and no one was hurt, then the girl herself sighs with relief - well, damn, it looks like everything worked out this time.
No one beat her up, she didn’t get poisoned or overdose on anything. All that remains is to wait for her period to understand whether she got pregnant or not, and then definitely breathe a sigh of relief that this time everything really worked out.

And therefore, against this background, the relationship is still better than this one this is constant extreme. You have a permanent, as they call it, MCH (young man). You don’t have to fuck him after every meeting. They can be manipulated within some limits. He can form some kind of patronage, solve some pressing current issues.

Well, in general, this is not a marriage, this is not cohabitation, this is what is commonly called a relationship. That is, this is not a family yet and it is possible that there won’t even be one. But this is still some kind of acquisition of experience in communicating with the opposite sex. Having consistently had relationships with two or three, you can learn how to behave correctly with the opposite sex. Which quirks are acceptable and which are not. What is possible and what is absolutely not possible.

But one way or another, any relationship after some time either ends, or moves to another level - going to the registry office and writing a statement. For the bourgeoisie, this is kneeling on one knee and giving a ring. This is not a wedding yet, but this is the same transition of relationships to another level.

Something like this.
And do not confuse what is called relationships simply with social connections.

[Tamerlane]

Several months of communication on the Internet will reveal the essence of a person. No one will pretend for long. After all, they don’t know whether the person will date or not. Many have superficial communication.

[Watchman]

Are you having a charity evening here?

Maybe loneliness???