I'm 24 and a virgin, but I already want sex wildly

[Guest]

Hello. I’m 24 and a virgin, but I already want sex wildly. There is a big BUT. As I think, although I probably have psychological trauma or something. In high school, I was groped by my mom’s cousin. And now I’m afraid of relationships or something. I dress inconspicuously, so as not to attract any attention, since that fear remains.
In general, maybe someone knows what kind of support groups or advice there are.

[niqk]

There is only one piece of advice - look for an experienced psychotherapist who will help you get rid of psychological trauma. There are clearly no such specialists on the forum...

[Masters]

love yourself, a lot happens in life and a lot of it is bad, don’t live in the past, look to the future and be happy, enjoy communication relationships, sex outfits and all the good things that exist in this life

[dDem]

A support group for virgins before first sex sounds intriguing. Let’s create one, I’ll be the curator, login, nude photos in a private message. And we will discuss your charms and what to do with them for the first time)

[dreamlife]

Гость,

[Hair shirt]

Hello. I’m 24 and a virgin, but I already want sex wildly. There is a big BUT. As I think, although I probably have psychological trauma or something. In high school, I was groped by my mom’s cousin. And now I’m afraid of relationships or something. I dress inconspicuously, so as not to attract any attention, since that fear remains.
In general, maybe someone knows what kind of support groups or advice there are.

It’s hard to believe that all this is actually true. There are too many contradictions in the text.
But if we assume that this is the case, then the problem, in my opinion, should be solved as follows...
The fact is that any sensual relationship begins with touching. Without this, there’s simply nowhere.

Let’s say a young man liked you and he wanted to fuck you (let’s call things by their proper names). The first thing he will try to do to begin with is simply to touch you. It doesn’t matter for what, by the hand, by the shoulder, for anything and under any pretext. Or for you to touch any part of the body yourself. Dancing as a way of communication was invented a long time ago and was invented for a reason. While dancing, you constantly touch your partner. Your partner constantly touches you in different places. And these touches seem to be justified by the dance.

But in fact, the purpose of all these touches is to get used to each other. Get a little closer. These touches are a step towards taking the next step towards the goal. That is, to sex.
Yes, in the end it will all end in sex. Someone may develop it further. That is, a couple can like each other and try to somehow maintain what has been achieved. Both in communication and in sex. This is if we assume that no one is trying to marry anyone.

That is, the result is that you have created an obstacle for yourself without which you will not see any sex like your ears. Sex starts with touching. And from your words, this scares you. And it turns out that we need to somehow overcome this matter. That is, you need someone to touch you. And that someone should be of the opposite sex.
Next...
Look...
You perceive any relationship with the opposite sex as something serious and containing something unknown and unpredictable. That is, all this scares you because you feel out of place and because you are afraid of getting into an unpleasant, stupid situation. Well, like if, for example, your button came undone in a public place and your skirt fell to the floor. And you’re standing there in those polka-dot shorts of yours and everyone is looking at you - horror!!!

It’s about the same thing in relationships with the opposite sex - it’s not clear what to expect from this sex, it’s not clear what he wants. Actually, in general terms it’s clear. But it’s not clear what you need to do and whether you need it all yourself. Although judging by what you wrote that you really want sex, you wouldn’t mind. But be it so that you absolutely trust this or that representative of the opposite sex who intends to fuck you.

And thus the conclusion arises - that you just need to find such a person whom you would trust. That is, the one whom you trust, whom you are not afraid of and whom you trust that he will do everything right and that he will not offend or humiliate you in any way. Well, now think for yourself - who could it be in your circle? Who is this man or young man?
And you need to take all this with brutal seriousness. That is, this person will have to explain the essence of the problem. And he must take your problem seriously. And the essence of your problem is that you need to be fucked, but it needs to be done gently, without haste and so as not to scare you or harm you in any way.

And it is possible that all this will have to be done in several stages. In the sense that first you will need to get used to this man a little. Get used to his touching you. You shouldn’t be afraid of him touching you. And for this you just need to touch it yourself first. Give him a massage. Let him undress and put himself completely in your power. That is, you can touch it, stroke it, massage it. Touch all parts of his body including his dick. Moreover, he must be ready for you to touch his dick. Maybe even kiss him or lick him with your tongue. Why not. But he, in turn, should not immediately expect sex from you in this situation.

Well, in general, you need to find a very patient and very tactful man. Who would go with you all this way from the first touch to you to the penetration of his dick into your pussy. I purposely don’t write dick or pussy. I just call things by their proper names. Because you and this man are actually just solving your problems and not trying to fall in love with each other. That is, these are not feelings, and these are not relationships. It’s just that someone decided to help you become a full-fledged woman and get rid of your stupid fears.

In addition, I want to convey to you this truth...
When a man touches a woman on the back different places, he doesn’t paw her, no! If a man tries to touch a woman, even on the breasts or ass, then this man is not a maniac or some kind of person with an unhealthy psyche. We must understand that this is normal, that there is nothing reprehensible in this. That this is something that both men and women need. In general, for example, I personally don’t even understand how single people live without tactile relationships. Without someone touching them, stroking them, kissing them on the cheek, ass, shoulder...

It’s so cool when someone constantly touches you for something.
Children generally say that at a young age, without this, they get sick, waste away, and generally do not develop quite correctly.

Well, in general, what do we have left...
You need to find a person the opposite sex and agree on everything with him. Moreover, you need to initially approach the issue from such an angle that you are not building a relationship and that you are not a couple. And that this person is just patiently helping you solve the problem. He should treat you very tactfully and, in fact, you should be either just friends, but of the opposite sex. Or you should somehow become friends very quickly and in a short period of time.

Moreover, outwardly you should be like a couple, but understand among yourself that you are now solving a problem while walking in the park or sitting in a cinema. You should expect him to touch you, some kind of attention. And he treats this with understanding. Do not remove his hands from your body parts. Or rather, on the contrary, take the initiative and take, for example, his hand in the dark of the cinema and run this hand along your inner leg. If you are wearing a skirt. Or if he hugged you by the shoulder, then take the finger of his hand on your shoulder and touch your chest. And then let him touch her himself, touch the nipple on her chest. Let him do all this and you should not interfere with him and, on the contrary, should welcome these actions of his.

Ultimately, this man should fully explore your body. He must touch literally everything on your body. There is no need to be embarrassed if he touches your pussy or touches your anus with his finger. Believe me, there is nothing terrible or shameful or bad about this. In turn, for you, too, there should not be any prohibitions on his body.

Next...
Young insecure people suffer very much because they do not know when and what exactly is allowed and what is not allowed during meetings with girls. And they often come across either a categorical refusal or simply rudeness when they want to touch a girl or woman in this or that place. And when these young people receive such a beating several times in a row, this is also, in a sense, a trauma. And they, just like you, then almost need a female coach who will do everything herself. She will touch herself with his hands in all places, she will lift his penis and insert it into her pussy herself.

Right now you need just such a trainer who will do everything for you.
That is, to put it simply, you need a man who is on your side, whom you are not shy about and who is willing to be patient with your problem and the fact that you need time to get used to everything and to gradually go through all these steps that will ultimately lead to the main one goals - for sex.
But you need to remember that you will not have a relationship with him and, most importantly, in solving your problem you should not have any secrets or misunderstandings or misunderstandings from each other. Well, like, you didn’t like something, you were embarrassed to tell him.

In general, it should be noted that you shouldn’t be embarrassed of each other at all. And if there is embarrassment, then fight it and somehow remove the embarrassment. Well, judge for yourself what place there is for embarrassment if your relationship is now at such a stage that you quite calmly take his hand and put it in your panties. Or you yourself also put your hand in his underpants and touch and massage his penis. That is, there should be nothing forbidden between you at all. He can touch you everywhere, you can touch him everywhere. And accordingly, you can lick and kiss his penis and, of course, he can also kiss your pussy and lick your clitoris with his tongue. And there shouldn’t be any problems with this.
Well, of course, you won’t have to come to all this right away, but after some time everything should happen. And that’s not all. After this, the next stage is sex itself.

But there is one point about which I wanted to warn you. You must be consistent in your actions and your desires. That is, you should not be a coward and jump off the topic on this basis. That is, for example, you agreed that you will start by giving him a massage and maybe touching and massaging his penis. But at the very last moment you chickened out and refused to do it. And it’s uncomfortable for you and right now it’s easier for you to just run away shamefully and just not do all this.

That is, you still have to break yourself somehow. Break your fears and remember that you are not alone, that there are two of you. And that this is the one you can escape. And if there are two of you, then there is another person who has signed up to help you, and that he is also making some kind of effort on himself. Maybe he has been wanting to fuck you right here and now for a long time and he has already been excited to the limit by you, but he is making an effort on himself so as not to cause you another injury. And that if you have agreed on something, you need to be consistent.
Well, in general, you need a man and you need a scenario of consistent actions to solve the problem. And sequentially go through all these stages, achieving consolidation of the result at each stage.

By the way, there is no need to rush with sex itself. This is not an end in itself. It is important to teach the body to become aroused quickly and well. If you learn this, sex will simply be a natural continuation. The body itself will tell you everything. The main thing is that it is well aroused. And if it is excited, then everything will be there - a wet pussy from lubrication, and an orgasm. Or even several.
You can get aroused without a partner, or you can with a partner. Without a partner, you need a good imagination and some tactile actions in relation to yourself.
If with a partner, then some kind of touch and actions of the partner in relation to your body may be enough.

But one way or another everything is connected to your body. This is the key to fulfilling sex. And this thing should love tactile touches. Moreover, this can be your own touch, as well as that of another person.

[Tanushka]

There is only one piece of advice - look for an experienced psychotherapist who will help you get rid of psychological trauma. There are clearly
no such specialists on the forum...

That’s right! I have already found a “therapist” for myself.

[niqk]

There is only one piece of advice - look for an experienced psychotherapist who will help you get rid of psychological trauma. There are clearly
no such specialists on the forum...

That’s right! I have already found a “therapist” for myself.

WELL DONE!!!

[it’s. a matter]

I hope someone is already fucking you in all your holes.... ))))

[Veronica]

NORMAL girl. There will be someone who will give him their honor. There is nothing to advise, psychologists. Life is life. Is it better at 14 years old?
Can you find a loved one? So it will be surgically removed. But he will know that he is the first.
Not like ours. He who is not the first is the second.

[a dolphin]

Hello. I’m 24 and a virgin, but I already want sex wildly. There is a big BUT. As I think, although I probably have psychological trauma or something. In high school, I was groped by my mom’s cousin. And now I’m afraid of relationships or something. I dress inconspicuously, so as not to attract any attention, since that fear remains.
In general maybe someone knows what kind of support groups or advice there are.

I want to fuck you

[Sibiryak89]

Yes, she probably already gave birth in 2019, she wrote