Question for teenagers over 30...

[Topchik]

Is getting married a fading trend or did they live happily ever after?
Well, sometimes it happens that she thought that she was a super-awesome, ageless cunt and could find herself a better one,
maybe a daddy, (but the daddy doesn’t need THAT fucking thing). And he may think that she is unworthy of him or, in general,
that there is only one life, and look how many women around her are fucked. And they have a child, and maybe even a mortgage.
Or maybe they thought so because everything was fucked up. Even love is fucked up.
It’s not that the family is fucked up, it’s just that sometimes when something is fucked up, there’s a domino effect.
Or maybe they are just weak people, or maybe she’s a fool, because it was her task to take care of the hearth?
Or are weak people simply unworthy of a hearth?
Or did each of them simply restrain himself and not get fucked and therefore they lived happily ever after?
So is marriage a fading trend or a scam for the weak and hope for the strong?
It’s just that when you don’t owe anyone anything, they treat you differently. Why complicate an already difficult life?
Just because our parents did it? This is how they lived in a different time. And in general they are different people in consciousness.
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[alex503311]

I envy my parents myself, but mine lived for 10-15 years and that’s it, and if I were 15, then maybe my mother would have looked at me, since she probably lived without a man for 2-3 years, but to caress herself , it wasn’t.
But one day I came home and looked at the cassette, and we bought a video recorder, in the 90s, and it’s in the kitchen, but the cassette is not mine.
Well, I think I’ll see what’s on it , and there was porn, I remembered where the tape was, so I could return it to that place and looked,
I don’t remember the topic, but of course I masturbated, which means my mother was watching it, but I didn’t hear her moaning, maybe she was caressing herself,
When I was alone at home, but there was no camera, I think otherwise, I would have climbed the wall and begged, let me help you, so that she would be pleased.

It happened with girls, but Somehow I was unlucky and there was no romance, one changed her mind, we lived with the other and then I realized that registration
wouldn’t hurt her, I treated her well.

As for without sex, it’s interesting that you want to meet and it’s a bummer, lazy, in the 90s I was a guy who pulled out milfs and of course I’m young
for them, children my age, and then after 5 minutes they started moaning and watched as the penis entered them.
And now we live nearby and pull out, and I’m married, the house next door is convenient, and here the dynamo seems to be sitting on the Internet just to communicate. Moreover, I know that someone masturbates during correspondence and I give 80% that these are not guys for women.
It has happened more than once that I fuck, and my partner caresses herself at the same time, or at the end, and already over 40, or up to 45.

Ex-girlfriend, she was almost 30, already over 40, but I called her to me and there was no way, we ran away with my sponsor, and I probably found myself a student,
then She’s not particularly temperamental, but that’s what was required, age is not eternal.

As for marriage, I think that it’s only for love, if it’s by agreement, etc., then there’s no relationship, and at best they fuck,
which many people got, they are married and maybe not at the entrance.
But it’s hard to find someone who also can’t live without you, that’s why it turns out, and rightly so, they fired you, it’s easier leave your husband and find
who will support you.
Although they said that, many men, for them the relationship is not 2*2, and for girls the family is not the main thing, probably for half.

[Faust]

Marriage is a contract. Living together means no one owes anyone anything. This is roughly the same logic. When someone starts telling me that marriage is becoming a thing of the past, I look at the person who tells me this, and there is, as a rule, a pepper who hardly likes to take responsibility.

[Kotofeicheg]

You might think that you got married once and that’s it, this won’t happen again in life. There are many stable families. Well, sometimes it doesn’t work out the first time. One friend expressed herself approximately "in first time a woman knows what she wants. And in the second she knows what she doesn’t want." And the choice of partners is more conscious.

[Tae]

Marriage is a contract. The purpose of the agreement is to streamline the inheritance of private property. All other lyrics mask this meaning. Some individuals do not know this for life.
Different states like to prohibit marriages (i.e., property agreements) between different castes, “non-traditional” and other inconvenient ones... In this case, escheated property is inherited by the state.
Marriage has nothing to do with love and sex. Those who are happy in sex and marriage at the same time are lucky.

[Alex32]

For me, marriage is mutual love. Marriage without love is some kind of bullshit. If you love, first of all you are afraid of losing and try to be as close as possible to your soul mate. The situation is similar with car rental. Compare the attitude towards car sharing and towards your car. To begin with, a fool would rent a car and wash it, vacuum it and polish it. And with your own car, as a rule, love and time are not spared. So is marriage. There are a lot of couples living in a rental state, but there are also a lot of those who value each other and are afraid of losing each other. Well, the aunties waiting for a prince until they are 30 simply haven’t found love. Marrying someone who is wooing you and you have nothing for him...that’s still happiness. Go to a nightclub for those over 30. There are hundreds of married people there looking for love. And they have nothing for their husband, only obligations for marriage. So, would you guys start living with an aunt you don’t have enough money for? Well, so do they. And the most important thing. Women love not for good grades at school, not for a high salary or a cool car. And for the fact that the partner gives her the emotions she needs. You don’t have to be rich, the main thing is to be an interesting person. You need to become such a person in life that you don’t run after women yourself, but so that women hunt you. And then all that remains is to wait and choose the one.

[niqk]

Well done, Alex! He clearly expressed the main idea: marriage is love! Love has passed - and the marriage may fall apart! If you don’t have enough brains to take family relationships to the next level. And then you already feel your spouse as yourself!
You just see, you just feel what exactly she wants. And similarly - from her side! So guys, love each other! And you will be loved!

[Topchik]

Some individuals do not know this for life.

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And most importantly. Women love not for good grades at school, not for a high salary or a cool car. And for the fact that the partner gives her the emotions she needs.

That’s for sure. Well, men also love for emotions. Sometimes I was afraid of such people, but if there are emotions, then there is love.

[Mr]

The first two posts are a continuous stream of consciousness. Eyes and brain are bleeding.

[G.e.org.ii]

The forum is called sex-f...
Who here thinks about love, about marriage.
They don’t enter the topic at all, neither young people nor non-young people.

[Henson]

Now marriage is nothing more than a package of contracts with legal force + an old tradition, the meaning of which few understand, but many need. For me personally, this is:
1) a relic of the past
2) a person thinks in patterns and got married BECAUSE IT HAD TO
3) a sure way to not invest anything financially in a marriage and then take half of it (I will never believe in a fair divorce. In a divorce there is no longer love, but everyone has their own interest to keep more for themselves)

And at the same time, by abandoning the marriage, the couple does not lose anything, with rare exceptions, which differ in each state:
- loans/mortgages are more readily issued to married couples
- the issue of wills (in our countries, wills are ignored and division is primarily between relatives)
- citizenship for one of the spouses
- tax benefits

But I would prefer, if necessary, to register with a notary the ownership of an apartment or car purchased together, rather than sign up for a compulsory 50/50 split regardless of investment