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 Need advice from men

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I’m communicating with a guy (we saw each other 2 times, slept with him 4 times), we both understand that there is no question of a relationship... because everything is complicated for me and he most likely doesn’t want to, but I’m not against further development, can such meetings develop into a relationship?
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If you are together then yes
Menelaus
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I can’t call our relationship as together it’s more like meeting for sex. But I hope that there is also sympathy for me personally, since we can only meet at my place (because I have a child and I can’t leave for the night)
But there are phrases in conversations that imply a long-term relationship. And to see me he needs to drive 40 minutes one way, giving him hope that sympathy is present
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Menelaus: 14 Aug 2022, 16:26 I can’t call our relationship as together it’s more like meeting for sex. But I hope that there is also sympathy for me personally, since we can only meet at my place (because I have a child and I can’t leave for the night)
But there are phrases in conversations that imply a long-term relationship. And in order to see me he needs to drive 40 minutes one way, giving him hope that sympathy is present
There is no complete information, how is it in your bed, how does he relate to child, does he bring some food, etc. or not?? Every little thing gives clues, and if you just slept and left, then it’s simple, you came and unloaded...
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Sibiryak89: 14 Aug 2022, 17:41 There is no complete information about how things are in your bed, how he treats the child, whether or not he brings some food, etc.?? Every little thing gives clues, and if you just slept and left, then it’s simple, you came and unloaded...
Well, yes. Simply ideal for a student.
Once upon a time, I spent about a year as a single father. If only you knew how fucked up this is!
You have to pick him up from kindergarten on time! Many times I was late and came to pick up the child when there was only one teacher left with my children. And you should have seen how much reproach there was in the eyes of the teacher and the child.
You won’t go anywhere. You can’t relax on the weekend.

But the most important thing is that you are alone all the time. All your friends and relatives shy away from you like a leper. Well, as for sex, it’s just a pitchfork. Simply put, no sex.
As soon as women find out that you are a single father, they immediately disappear into the fog.
Well, in general, a single mother woman, of course, wants someone to share with her all these hardships of her family life with her child.
Because she is already fed up with all this. She is ready to tell her relatives and friends that children are the flowers of life and that children are cool.

But in fact, she is so fed up with all this that words cannot express it.
I finally want to have full sex. I would like to finally remember that you have self-esteem. That you, like everyone else, can quarrel and quarrel with someone. And not like right now when no one fucking needs you.
But the most important thing is that you simply have no chance of finding someone.

Because in order to To find someone, you need some kind of romantic relationship first. I need to go somewhere with someone, talk somewhere about nothing. Just be with each other for a while.
And there is simply no time for all this. Therefore, you have two states - you are at home with your child and you are at work. Everything you can do, you can do either at home or at work. Colleagues and bosses at work. There is a child at home.
So how, where and with whom should we build relationships?
Just to try to build a relationship with a good friend, I needed to take my child to relatives out of town for a week.

Well, in general, a poor woman. And this asshole that’s fucking her, he should get a fucker for taking advantage of a girl.
I can give advice to a girl - look for a male friend.
Don’t look to see if he has a car, if he has an apartment, if he has loot.
Just look for someone whom you can say with complete confidence that he is your friend. Or was. Or he became.

That is, it should not be the one who fucks, or who supports, or who goes for a walk with the child in the park. And there must be a full-fledged girlfriend, but only male.
There are plenty of such men walking around you. Who could become your girlfriend? But you don’t pay attention to them because you evaluate men according to completely different parameters.
You look for him to be tall, handsome, preferably rich.
And you just don’t pay attention to ordinary mediocre men. And in vain.
Among them are the very ones who will later become your friend and lover, and father, breadwinner and drinker. :-)

Although, of course, it is advisable to do at least some kind of primary selection so as not to get into trouble. Well, just cut off certain categories of men immediately and without hesitation, so as not to have to go after investigators and interrogators.
Well, firstly, it must be one’s own nationality. I’m not a racist, but it’s better not to get involved with another nationality without knowing the mentality. Because if you don’t know, you can just run into a lot of trouble.
Secondly, it shouldn’t be from out of town. Thirdly, there is no need to get involved with married people. Fourthly, immediately tell yourself no if the person has some kind of criminal past or present. They also have their own mentality and you can also run into a lot of trouble.

Well, what else...
Well, you probably shouldn’t get involved with various foreigners. Well, in general, you need to immediately cut off everyone who can simply use you for any of their own purposes. For a market worker, you are a very convenient woman - let’s say you have a place to live, you can be fucked regularly, you can live with you for free, you will regularly cook food for him. Very convenient in all respects. And if suddenly something goes wrong, he will resentfully pack his things and move in with some other woman like you. You thought that you were in a relationship, but he didn’t think so from the very beginning. Although he could say anything. This is the mentality.

Almost the same can be said about the other categories of men that I mentioned above, but only with a slight difference. And all of them will also merge into the fog as you come to some kind of certainty. And all because they are using you. But you need to look for a man who is your friend, and who is also your friend. Over time, there may be the closest and the kindest, the most gentle, the most caring. The very best...
And you are for him too.

And there is no need to arrange any checks on the men or expose them to clean water. Just ask yourself whether this or that man is your friend or not. And don’t at least deceive yourself if this is not the case.
Whether this or that guy is a friend or not is clear right away. Because people usually become friends right away. That is, two people met and became interested in each other. They felt some kind of predisposition towards each other, a similarity of interests. And all this regardless of gender.

Well, as for just sex, I think now this problem can still be solved through dating sites. If you just need to have sex for your health, then write an ad on a dating site and describe your conditions. Let’s say you need a certificate of absence of sexually transmitted diseases. Why not?
The meeting needs to be on neutral territory. Let him rent a hotel room. You can have a room in the sauna. But a sauna can be a very uncomfortable place for this - hard, uncomfortable, hot, cold.

Well, in general, find a guy on a dating site, have sex with him in a hotel. And then, with a clear head, look for a guy friend. And first of all, don’t interfere with these two things - having sex and finding a friend.
But fuck off all these strange fuckers who are looking to fuck for free! Don’t waste your time and health on them. Don’t create illusions for yourself because nothing will work out with them anyway.
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Menelaus, Do you want this relationship yourself?
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Tolyan: 14 Aug 2022, 23:17 Menelaus, Do you really want this relationship?
yes!!!
She is tired of being alone. And I’m tired of the baby too. It’s very hard. A child is initially selfish. He doesn’t care about his mother or father the way adults do about each other.
Let’s say dad won’t send mom to the ice cream stand after twelve. And the child easily wants ice cream and doesn’t give a fuck! Well, this is just an example.

And it is very difficult to live with a child if you are constantly alone with him. You care about him, but he doesn’t care about you. To put it more precisely, you love him, but he doesn’t love you.
He reaches out to you with his little hands and he needs (needs) you, but this is not love in the understanding of adults. It’s just attachment and it’s the source of everything you need.
And all this makes an adult simply tired.

Well, and the accompanying problems, of course - the lack of the proper amount of money, lack of full-fledged communication, full-fledged sex, full-fledged sleep.
And you want to push all this onto someone and maybe even be dissatisfied with someone with whom you live, saying that we have problems. We have to decide! Let’s decide!
There are many women who immediately sit on a man’s neck and immediately begin to drive him around - you sit wrong, you whistle wrong! You don’t do this, you don’t do that. If I were you, I would do this and this. Look at the other men. And now the woman is already at ease and everything is fine with her - like with people!

Although I personally would not want such a relationship with the one with whom I live. But as sad as it is, in most cases everything turns out that way.
Putting everything on a man and letting him fuck with it all is not my business!
But men are different too. Who endures and carries this cart. And who once - and got lost in the fog!
And here is another single mother. Or maybe you shouldn’t have done that.

And maybe the responsibility should have been taken on half and half. And don’t blame everything on the guy and then kick him for not doing something or that he’s a loser.
And now the guy has fucked up and the single mother has every chance to realize everything she wants on her own wanted from her husband and everything she was dissatisfied with.

In general, I think that those couples who live together and it doesn’t matter if they have children or not, need to treat each other very carefully. To each other’s hobbies, to desires. Well, in general, somehow protect that tenderness and that warmth that is present. If present. Because if it disappears, then it can no longer be restored. It doesn’t seem to work. It used to be warm, but now it’s stopped and it’s not clear what to do about it.
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Seen each other 2 times..slept 4 times..cool.I’ve never heard of that
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Let’s just say that I was worried that it would be one-time sex, but after the first time we talked, kissed, massaged each other, then the second time. At the second meeting, I thought we’d limit ourselves to just one time, and he probably did too, because he didn’t have a second condom. But we talked, laughed, kissed, and somehow we both wanted it, it’s good that I had it)
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Do whatever he wants in bed, any fantasies, and then he won’t want to part with you.
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Godemis,
Thanks for the extended answer , there is something to think about if a girl reads it...)))
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Sex is not enough for a long-term relationship. It is necessary for attraction to arise on a different level, when you are not indifferent to what is happening to another person in his life. I won’t give you a recipe, you have to act according to the circumstances.
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