I just can’t lose my virginity. What should I do?

[Anya T]

Help! I just can’t lose my virginity. And it happened more than once with a guy (the sex was hard, and he had a rather large organ), and she put her fingers and a dildo inside herself during masturbation. But the gynecologist’s verdict is the same: the hymen is stretched, not torn. And I didn’t have a normal first time with blood and pain. So the first few times there was slight discomfort, and then it went away. What am I supposed to do? It seems like we already had sex, but she’s still a virgin.

[Adiofan]

Rejoice
But if from a scientific point of view, then this happens and there is nothing terrible about it

[Hector]

This is how surgery is done in such cases. It seems that the same gynecologist should have suggested this (it’s strange that he remained silent).
In short, the question is not an isolated one - Google it and run to the doctors. And don’t worry about the moral point of view - if sex with a guyand there was penetration, which means she is no longer a virgin. Regardless of whether they are torn or not.

[Andrey Petrov]

You just have a very elastic hymen. Some people experience giving birth, but it turns out to be HURT! Previously it was considered the virgin birth. A light surgical operation with a gynecologist and you’re done! I think our expert Laskovaya will give you more specific advice!

[Anya T]

Hector, Andrey Petrov, the gynecologist told me about surgical defloration. But since the hymen no longer interferes with sexual intercourse, I decided to give it up. But it’s morally unpleasant. The guy says that we didn’t have sex since I’m still a virgin. But I remember that everything happened more than once.

[Sanek]

Bullshit, IMHO. How does it stretch but not tear? Is it made of latex or something? If you insert a normally erect penis, even the average 12-15 cm, completely, then no amount of rubber will withstand it, and then there’s nothing wrong with it. The verdict is crap.

[Shamanakas]

Help! I just can’t lose my virginity. And it happened more than once with a guy (the sex was hard, and he had a rather large organ), and she put her fingers and a dildo inside herself during masturbation. But the gynecologist’s verdict is the same: the hymen is stretched, not torn. And I didn’t have a normal first time with blood and pain. So the first few times there was slight discomfort, and then it went away. What am I supposed to do? It seems like I’ve already had sex, but I’m still a virgin.

Try surgical defloration from a gynecologist. It’s not that expensive, but it will make your future sex life a lot easier.
I will advise my daughter exactly this in the future and will even pay for it if she asks.

[Murzik45]

Yes, hers is mine. I’m not a specialist in defloration, but I may still suffer, in a different position, a larger size and longer, well, try. Good luck....

[Andrey Lukashov]

Bullshit, IMHO. How does it stretch but not tear? Is it made of latex or something? If you insert a normally erect penis, even the average 12-15 cm, completely, then no amount of rubber will withstand it, and then there’s nothing wrong with it. The verdict is bullshit

I absolutely agree with this. To understand what’s going on, remember your school anatomy course. You cannot insert an adult man’s penis even smaller than the average size into the vagina without breaking the hymen. There is a hole in the hymen into which a tampon can be inserted, but the size of the tampon is disproportionately smaller than the size of an adult male genital organ. I don’t have a sister, only cousins. One is my age, and the other is three years older. As a child, we played different games during the holidays. I was in fifth grade then. At that time I didn’t have a penis yet, but a small bald pussy. My eldest cousin already had a curly pubic area, but my age-mate was just beginning to grow hair in the area of ​​the vagina and anus, and it was barely noticeable on the pubic area. My pussy, although small, stood like iron. The older cousin showed the younger one and me how adults make children. They put me on my back and the eldest sat completely on my protruding pussy. This despite the fact that there was still a girl. The youngest also tried, but she couldn’t or was afraid. Then, three years later, also during the holidays, I had already matured a little and hid with my eldest in the attic in the hayloft to remember my childhood. I barely put it in her, she gasped and when I took it out, my penis was covered in blood. After that, we fucked almost every day throughout the holidays, and then she tempted the younger one to try, she herself was no longer a girl, but she didn’t say anything to her. Then I stuck the youngest one in too. Surprisingly, she didn’t even groan. She said that she didn’t feel it, she was just scared when she saw the blood. There was more blood than the older one. The younger one was bigger than the older one. The younger one had great tits. I wore a third size bra.

[niqk]

The essence of the problem is unclear. Well, virgin, well, it doesn’t interfere with fucking, so what’s the sadness about? If you give birth, you may
lose her. What will change? Rejoice! Many Muslim women would only be happy about this - walk for your pleasure!

[Cat Matroskin.]

I’ll try to "calm down". A friend of mine (very close) talked about herself. They say her husband even took her to the gynecologist, saying there was no blood. And the virgin remained intact. So, she lost it during childbirth - the obstetrician excised it in order to injure the vagina less.

[Ahtung]

When you give birth, the hymen will break. It happened to my first wife, she got pregnant after losing her virginity and the hymen only stretched. Sex before childbirth didn’t help either; it turns out that her son took her virginity during childbirth.

[Andryusha]

My then future wife and I lived together, but we didn’t plan to formalize the relationship. We lived like best friends. It’s clear that if they slept in the same bed, then there was sex. The first time this happened to us, she was in pain and felt that it was very tight there, but there was no blood at all. One day she went to her aunt’s for two weeks and there her cousin introduced her to her husband’s brother. They spent a couple of evenings together, then they had sexual intercourse. She later admitted to me that it was painful again and there was already blood. I also felt that she was getting wider there.
My penis is smaller than average size. I even had a complex because of this.
I wasn’t offended by my girlfriend. We have good sex, we have two children. The fact that the virgin was practically in my hands but went to someone else, I’m not offended, it even excites me.

[Ded]

Andryusha, You are a smart guy. That’s how it should be. The wife should feel free. Then life with her will be brighter and more interesting.

[Amateur]

I have a penis that is smaller than average size.

if it’s not difficult: this is approximately how much?
otherwise I also have complexes. I have 13 x 4.5.

[Andryusha]

if it’s not difficult: this is approximately how much?
otherwise I’m also complex. I have 13 x 4.5

You are probably better at this than I will be.
You don’t need to have a complex.
Mine is within 10-11cm in length and 2.5-3cm in diameter and it is in working order I don’t know how to measure more precisely.
My father was not big either. At one time, my mother was often late at work, and my sister and I heard how my father was jealous of my mother.
I am also jealous of my wife. And I think that this is normal, otherwise you are indifferent to her and you do not love her. It’s just that this jealousy doesn’t need to be splashed out in the form of anger and scandals. Every day I understand this even more. My wife always tried not to cheat on me as much as possible. With my physical capabilities it was not easy. Sometimes it worked, sometimes it didn’t. I understand this and try to see the positive in this too. Now I’m even turned on by the thought that some of the men are going crazy because my wife has a narrow and completely unworn vagina.

[Amateur]

thanks for the answer.
I also broke up with my girlfriend because of excessive jealousy, but everything was fine with us, and wanted to live life together. I still love her, although about 20 years have passed.

[Andryusha]

If it’s not a secret, was there a real reason for jealousy, or did you screw yourself up?
However, in both the first and second cases, you need to learn to manage your emotions.

[Amateur]

If it’s not a secret, was there a real reason for jealousy, or did you screw yourself up?
However, in both the first and second cases, you need to learn to manage your emotions.

screwed up. I am the only one to blame for our breakup.

[Andryusha]

Then blame yourself. Maybe that’s why you registered on this forum. Probably by now I’ve already realized that even if your wife is being fucked by others, you don’t need to make a tragedy out of it, but look for the positive aspects in it.
For example, I always think that someone just likes my wife, but in fact, she is my wife :)

[Amateur]

Then blame yourself. Maybe that’s why you registered on this forum. I’ve probably already realized that even if others fuck your wife, you don’t need to make a tragedy out of it, but look for the positive aspects in it.
For example, I always think that someone just likes my wife, but in fact, she’s my wife :)

I don’t blame anyone else for this.
I definitely didn’t register for this reason. I didn’t even think about it at the time of registration.
In general I agree with you, but excessive trust and blind love are even worse.
My godfather married at 19 out of blind love without reciprocity.
4 children, three of them. Absolutely everyone knows about this (question: does he know) and many people tried to hint about it to him.
he works from morning to evening + does small part-time jobs. In addition to resource extraction, all everyday life is also on him. takes / picks up the children to kindergarten / school, prepares food, cleans the house, washes things...
and the wife stays at home, at most goes to the store, meets with friends, etc....
on question to her: why are you behaving this way
her answer: I gave birth to his children, now he owes me everything.

[red_fox]

They come up with bullshit Who is fighting: stupid people, trolls or wankers?