Pain in cowgirl position. What should I do?

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 Pain in cowgirl position. What should I do?

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I have a delicate problem. My fiance just loves it when I’m on top, in cowgirl position. But when I sit on the penis to the very end, it becomes painful and uncomfortable. When he enters me all the way in the missionary position, there is less pain and discomfort. But this pose seems boring to him. He doesn’t even want to hear about lubricants from the pharmacy. What should I do? She was checked for diseases, underwent examinations, nothing wrong was found.
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Offer him conditions, every time after this position so that he caresses your lips with his tongue as they hurt,
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Amateur, they did it this way. Does not help. I feel discomfort during the process and especially during entry, and not after sex. And it’s not the labia that hurt, but the entrance to the vagina itself.
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Most often, if the partner is adequate, it is enough to talk openly.
Yes, yes, I know that most girls prefer to remain silent or at most make a subtle hint, but seriously - tell him directly "to the forehead". That’s the case, if he wants his favorite rider, then caresses and foreplay last longer, more lubrication (foreplay is important, he won’t be so excited when he gets excited).
If he doesn’t want it, it means he doesn’t want “the cowgirl.” Think about other poses - reverse cowgirl, control the "depth" without completely plunging, standing/sitting, etc.

If it’s not adequate, that you can’t even talk - fuck it. Anyway, there are several million of the same people walking around the earth, you’ll find someone :cat2:
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Sofia158, In the cowgirl position, the penis penetrates deeper into the vagina and rests on the arch, hence the discomfort. His penis goes deeper, because it’s more pleasant for him.
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The main thing in sex, in my opinion, is openness. If you communicate on this topic, who likes it, who doesn’t like it, whether it’s comfortable or not, painful, unpleasant... Then you will be able to reach a compromise (but this is not certain). After all, in addition to the rider and the messianic, there are also a lot of poses: lying down, sitting, standing... You can choose one in which you will feel good and he will have fun (since it’s boring in the messionary) - dialogue is the key to health (in this case, a healthy relationship)))
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I completely agree with you
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Sofia158: 30 Oct 2022, 11:05 Amateur, they did it this way. Does not help. I feel discomfort during the process and especially during entry, and not after sex. And it’s not the labia that hurt, but the entrance to the vagina itself.
then I don’t know, I have a tiny penis of 13 cm, mine complained, I just rubbed it on her (30 minutes without I could cum after wine) and asked me to moisten her with my tongue, I was happy to do so. and she didn’t like giving blowjobs, she had to force her
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dv2dv2, our problem is that I only get orgasms if my penis goes in shallow. The most interesting thing is that he also received orgasms from such sexual acts. He himself said that the most sensitive area is the head. But I confirmed to myself: full sex is only when the penis goes in up to the balls, and everything else is not serious. And in my depths there are no erogenous zones. It is difficult for him to have sex while standing. I can’t stand Doggy style. We tried the spoon position. I am comfortable. But he whines all the time that the penis in this position does not penetrate deep enough. He also loves the position when I sit on my penis as much as possible, sitting on his lap, facing him. But again, I feel so painful and uncomfortable.
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Have you tried onal? I have a small size, but sometimes I pushed it completely into her anal and she liked it. and in general as an option oral sex[/url]
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Amateur, but I don’t understand how you can rub your labia during sex. If this is not petting or vestibular coitus. The area near the entrance, walls, and cervix suffers. And what does the labia have to do with it?
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It happens to guys that they can never cum under alcohol. So I had my wife in all poses and angles for more than an hour
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Amateur, but why then were the labia affected, and not the area near the entrance to the vagina, the walls and cervix?
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Sofia158: 30 Oct 2022, 12:01 Amateur, but why then were the labia damaged, and not the area near the entrance to the vagina, the walls and cervix?
you and your big penises may not maintain the pace of a machine gun
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