It seems my wife is cheating on me. Again.

[NewDim]

Good morning everyone. Many people here have read or know from personal correspondence about my wife, a former whore. But, apparently, there really are no former whores. Mine, along the way, picked up the old stuff again)
She and I have been living for the last few months, well, sort of apart. We didn’t quarrel, no, I just live in the country, mostly here and it’s closer to work, and she’s in the city, in our apartment. We see each other every day, at work, at my home.
Sex is present, everything is fine, but lately she has somehow been avoiding the usual: she either gives a blowjob before finishing, sometimes jerks off, but she doesn’t really want to fuck. She sometimes refers to women’s days, sometimes she says that she just masturbated at home, and now she doesn’t want to, etc.
Well, I’m not particularly stressed, autumn is just around the corner))), and I don’t really need it myself.
And yesterday, towards evening, she was getting ready to go to the city again, she said that she wouldn’t arrive early tomorrow, she had some business. And I had a headache, I couldn’t find my pills, they were all gone, so I went into her bag and looked for her. And there, among all the women’s junk - a pack of condoms!!! And printed out! I’m so overwhelmed, she and I don’t use them at all. And even XXL size! Some kind of black packaging, I don’t understand them at all.
I didn’t say anything to her, got ready, kissed her on the cheek, and left. I’m sitting in awe, I don’t know what to think and do. For how many years I asked to change, I wanted her to become a slut again, like before, how much I fantasized about this topic both myself and together, but now, in my old age, I’m not ready))))
We called each other in the evening, everything is fine , at home, TV, washing, cleaning, everything as always. At night I drank some cognac and somehow fell asleep. Early in the morning, I was offline on WhatsApp, I called, the phone was turned off, but that’s normal, maybe I sat down.
So, I decided to share it here. I don’t feel any particular suffering yet, it seems like nothing has happened yet.
I can’t imagine who she could have hooked up with, if this is true. Still, she’s not a girl of the first freshness anymore, she was 49.
In short, like that gentleman in the joke, the tedious unknown))) I’m not going to follow, he’ll come, we’ll talk. I’ll post the results, if anyone is interested, of course (

[Vadim1972]

Well, why are you rushing? She’s with you! Everything is fine. He’ll fuck and come. Many people dream of such wives. Maybe you should try MFM?

[NewDim]

Damn, I don’t even know how to say it... I’ve only dreamed about this for many years, and then, when it seemed like the train had left for good, somehow I wasn’t ready. Especially to mzhm.
The phone was turned off all morning, about half an hour ago I called myself, saying that I overslept and would come after lunch. The voice is really sleepy. I’m silent for now, I don’t ask anything. There was still something along the way.
Fortunately, I’m stuck at work right now, I don’t have time to think much about it, but inside everything is trembling, like in my youth))))

[Akteya]

Ooooh man, it looks like they’re making you into a cuckold, and the most important thing is that you like it)

[NewDim]

Well, no))) I’m definitely not ready for cuckolding) And most importantly, she’s unlikely either. She is monogamous, so to speak

[Akteya]

NewDim, уверены?)

[NewDim]

NewDim, are you sure?)

I don’t know. Earlier, perhaps. And now... well, it’s been years already, it’ll be a bit wild, I think. And most importantly, our city is not very big, many people know us, everything is in plain sight, I’m afraid the conversations will go on and they won’t understand)))
It’s one thing if she’s quietly fucking someone, but so..
In general, we need to find out first, maybe I was just making it up. Little or no, maybe by accident))))

[Engine]

I don’t feel any particular suffering yet

Brother, if a wife wants to cheat, she will change and won’t look at anything. Mine cheated on me recently, it all started three years ago with intimate correspondence with men, colleagues tried to give rides to all sorts of freaks, chased them, taught her, both for good and bad, our children are small by the way, after a long time the dicrets blew her mind, me can’t hear, her eyes are glassy, ​​and then my girlfriends, whores, divorced bitches, began to sit on their ears, they were jealous that we had a good family. As a result of correspondence, photos, attempts to meet with dicks, I ended up having sex with my fat boss, I was very worried, to say the least. I taught him a hard lesson. I feel sorry for the children. I don’t understand what women need; she lived in chocolate, provided for everyone, and was kind and respectful to her. I don’t understand those who dream of having your wife’s girlfriend raped. You don’t know what you really want. There is no self-pity, I learned a lesson for myself: you can’t trust anyone, not even those closest to you. A very useful life lesson.

[Sibiryak89]

I remember we talked about this topic, the wishes were about the same, and I remember they said that there are no exes (whores), just like alcoholics, drug addicts, sometimes you quit for a while, but it’s worth a try The prizes are proof of this, these are not balloons for National Unity Day, look how much is left.

[Veronica]

Don’t worry, if I’m cheating, it’s me.

[Woman]

everything inside is trembling, as in youth)

emotions are wonderful!
It’s only a pity that they are caused by betrayal (possible, not yet fact) of your woman.

[Andrey Lukashov]

One of my friends said that if a man stops drinking, sooner or later he will start again. It’s the same with smoking, that is, a man who quits smoking eventually starts again. And only a man who quit fucking will never start it again. With women, things are not so simple. I can even see from my wife that she is unlikely to ever give up sex. I absolutely don’t see anything bad in this. After good sex, she’s in the mood for the week ahead, and the house is in order, the kitchen is almost like a restaurant, and when I see that something is starting to go wrong, I already know what my wife needs.

[Woman]

taught her, both good and bad

You think she lived “in chocolate”...
I hope that after you "taught her a tough lesson" she stopped beating, went to the police and filed for divorce.

[Engine]

What makes you think there were beatings? Not all men are rednecks. I didn’t lay a finger on her, there are ways to teach without fighting. Is it normal for you to tolerate whoredom in the family?

[NewDim]

Engine,
Bro, I have a slightly different story) I kind of knew what I was getting into when I got along with her, and in principle I was ready for this too, it doesn’t particularly bother me. Well, this happens.
Sibiryak89,
I’ll definitely count it when he arrives. Only I didn’t count how much there was initially, the box was just unopened. Veronika,
What kind of people ! Where have you gone, haven’t heard a word for three months. And who are you cheating on there, you seem to be a free lady?

[Veronica]

I got married on September 15th. I didn’t calculate my love of freedom. A couple of weeks later I cheated on my husband, even though I gave him a guarantee. With his brothers... My younger brother fucked me first. I tried to wake up my husband, but he was drunk. She didn’t particularly resist. Fuck me right next to my husband. Then he took me naked into the hallway, where both my husband’s brothers fucked me in all my holes. Last Saturday, my younger brother fucked me again while my husband was on a business trip. I’m weak at the front.

[Shalun70]

NewDim,
What people say here is correct ... wants to cheat... and there’s nothing you can do about it... You decide for yourself at the beginning... what kind of wife you need... A faithful and modest nun, faithful but depraved, loving whore, or depraved whore. And you have to start from this and dance... You yourself used to want your wife to cheat... Why weren’t you happy when you found condoms in her purse? After all, your dream has come true... or you don’t mind but don’t want anyone to know about it... or are you used to the fact that she’s not cheating on you...? In order for you to be happy, you first need to have love in yourself!!!
Well, if you don’t want to cheat, don’t ever fight the consequences... it won’t help... but with the cause! Talk to your wife... but without a scandal... without reproaches... find out the reason and eliminate it...

[Veronica]

Thank you, but I confused mine, I’m still a woman.

Sent after 2 minutes 4 seconds:
Should I let you believe it? Come.

Sent after 7 minutes 18 seconds:
nI’ll come with my daughter, wait, where?

[NewDim]

Veronica,
If you me, then thank you for the invitation, of course, but I myself have a stormy sex life planned)))

In short, my missus came literally an hour ago to work with me, brought dinner, didn’t stayed and said that she had agreed to meet with her cousin. I didn’t have the bag with me))) I couldn’t see how much was left) I couldn’t talk, I had visitors. She said it will be there tomorrow morning.
I just wrote on WhatsApp asking if she wanted to tell me something, she responded like I didn’t understand what exactly)
I can’t wait for the end of the working day, even if I can’t shake it))) he’s standing like a boy, his heart is pounding ))

[Veronica]

Do you believe her?.......... I wouldn’t.

[Vladtsst]

Andrey Lukashov,
I quit smoking 12 years ago. And I never smoked again.

[NewDim]

Do you believe her?..........I wouldn’t.

Of course I don’t believe it. Today I was sitting here, remembering the last month: we fucked fully once, the rest only with blowjobs, and more often just with our hands, I stopped kissing, I used to do it all the time. I don’t go into her phone, but it’s always in her hands, so I don’t know whether there are correspondence or not. In the evenings the phone is constantly dead, like it’s old and doesn’t hold well. Everything points to that)
In principle, I have calmed down already, she is unlikely to leave, we have too much tied up together, she will have a lot of problems, and she really doesn’t like it.
If she decided to have sex in her old age, then so be it, especially since she uses condoms, and it’s unlikely that she would get involved with someone who’s a goner.

[Sibiryak89]

NewDim,
Talk, say, there will be no scandal, I think it will be revealed))

[Veronica]

I’ll come with my daughter, you’ll believe her.

Sent after 53 seconds:
And check, it gives everywhere........

Sent after 1 minute 34 seconds:
As I give everywhere............

Sent after 1 minute 31 seconds:
I forgot, I give everywhere, in three holes

[NewDim]

NewDim,
nTalk, tell me, there won’t be a scandal, I think it will be revealed))

I think she knows that there won’t be) it hasn’t happened before))
nShe’s like that, she can resist, like it’s okay, and then, after a year, she can tell herself, it was already. And the condoms - well, I bought them for a vibrator for some reason)))
I called just now via video, it’s really at my sister’s, the two of them are sitting, having dinner, drinking wine. She said she’ll write later when she gets home.

Sent after 2 hours 56 minutes 11 seconds:
I just called myself, very tipsy, said that I was already home, turned off the phone and went to bed. I jokingly said, you’re not bored there alone, maybe you’ll come, I miss you, or you’re not alone there, you never know. She somehow faltered a little, was silent for a while, then said, what makes you think, what nonsense, I’ll arrive early tomorrow, everything will be fine.
Damn, someone is actually fucking her along the way. And today it will be too. Even if you call a taxi and go, I won’t get behind the wheel myself, I drank too...

[Topchik]

tedious uncertainty))) I’m not going to follow, he’ll come, we’ll talk.

Why talk?
Go have sex with someone and you will immediately get sick.
And you will completely forget about these thoughts.

[Shalun70]

Why talk?
Go have sex with someone and you will immediately get relieved.
And you will completely forget about these thoughts.

I think 100% works as a security guard... sits in a booth with a computer... does nothing and fantasizes... sorry for the pre-mat... I gave the man good advice... he doesn’t hear... I get it that it’s not worth spending more time on it.....

[NewDim]

Well, holy crap, the whistleblower has been found. That’s right, there’s no need to waste time here, it’s better to spend it reading the primer first, otherwise you’ll realize that you’re scribbling here. He also gives advice)))

Sent after 2 minutes 30 seconds:
Topchik,
Thank you for the advice, I don’t need it now. Anyone in the know will understand)

[Shalun70]

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Unread message NewDim » 1 minute ago

Well, holy crap, the whistleblower has been found. That’s right, there’s no need to waste time here, it’s better to spend it reading the primer first, otherwise you’ll realize that you’re scribbling here. He also gives advice)))
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Top title: It seems my wife is cheating on me. Again.

Well, I don’t need the advice of every DEER on the forum... you yourself cried here... I need advice... they gave it to you... unsatisfactory ... well, these are your problems... Unlike you, I have been married for 30 years and my wife has not cheated on me... And your hysterical woman... only confirmed that I am RIGHT... I don’t want quarrels... I won’t continue the debate...

[NewDim]

Damn, how can I explain this to you... No one cries or complains. On the contrary, I am not childish about this situation: the fact that my wife, after more than 20 years of marriage, has found someone again, that most likely, like in her youth, she is again being fried in every possible way, that they want her, damn it. It turns you on, you know?
In general, this forum is not about marital fidelity and fanatical virgins, there are cuckolds and bisexuals here, I’m not even talking about lovers of their own daughters. Everyone here is, for the most part, perverts.
I have something like this. And I’m not looking for advice here, but simply sharing my emotions with those who know me here, and not only.
And I intend to continue to share as it develops, believe me, many will be interested.

[NewDim]

Briefly speaking. I don’t know if anyone else is interested in all this or not, I don’t care. I need to talk.
In general, everything turned out, yes, she really went on a spree.
I arrived this morning, I was still sleeping, I didn’t go to work. She lay down next to her, began to caress her, reached into her panties, well, I went to her too, everything was fine, and then I asked, bunny, what kind of condoms are in your bag? She jerked, pulled away, turned away from me, and remained silent. Then he says: well, you would have found out sooner or later anyway.
I tell her, well, then tell me what and who. In general, this has been going on for over a month now, we met in the parking lot near the hyper, the cars were parked nearby, either she hit him with the door, or he didn’t remember.
A man, 55 years old, non-Russian, from the regional center, comes here often for work. Well, at first they got caught because of the car, then they figured out that there was no dent or scratch, well, word for word, he asked for her phone number. She says at first she was confused, no one had approached her for a long time. Then, I decided, let it be, well, like a little flirting, and gave her the number. Well, we started corresponding. He almost immediately offered to get to know each other better and go somewhere. She refuses, I’m married, plus the city is small, where you don’t go, everything is pale.
He suggested going to a neighboring town, 50 kilometers from us, where no one would see us. Well, she says, she’s already covered, she sees where things are going, writes to him, why wait, just come to me, and that’s all, only closer to night. While I was waiting, I was shaking all over, like a girl before a first date, I put on beautiful underwear, got ready, in general.
Well, he arrived, flowers and champagne, in short, that’s all what happened. She says she didn’t expect it from herself, she flowed like a bitch, she literally jumped on his dick. They barely slept that night, they fucked, they talked, he had an erection despite his age, and she tried as best she could.
He left early in the morning, it was still dark, she fell asleep, when she woke up, she was horrified at what she had done. I almost cried about what would happen next. Well, then she calmed down, he called her, thanked her, almost declared his love. Well, in short, we started dating. Not every day, of course, she rarely invited him to her place, three times in total, more often they went to his rented apartment, in the suburbs, well, in the car, of course, too.
We fucked only in condoms, he insisted right away, asked her to dress him herself.
Last night he was with her again, but not for long, he needs to leave for a week or two, he didn’t stay the night.
She asks me what should she do now? There is no talk of any divorce, she still loves me, and he doesn’t propose, both are adults and understand that it’s just sex. She doesn’t want to leave him either, she likes him, she says for the first time in recent years she has such a desire.
I don’t know, we decided to leave everything as it is for now. Today they fucked like crazy all day, she stayed with me for the night, now she’s sleeping in the next room.
These are the things...

[Dmanson]

And I got divorced. Life has become much easier.

[A mermaid]

And why did you decide that you are not a cuckold?

[NewDim]

Why get divorced? I myself persuaded her about this for many years.

Sent after 3 minutes 9 seconds:
Mermaid,
Well, at least from the fact that I am not present while she is being fucked)
You can always convince yourself that it’s not true, I didn’t see it myself)))

[Dmanson]

I’m talking about myself)) of course you decide everything for yourself as you see fit. But I personally don’t believe in fairy tales. A woman who cheated on her man first of all loses respect for him. And this is where all the problems begin. It’s just a matter of time.

Sent after 5 minutes 8 seconds: I’m talking to myself)) of course you decide everything for yourself as you see fit. But I personally don’t believe in fairy tales. A woman who cheated on her man first of all loses respect for him. And this is where all the problems begin. It’s just a matter of time.

[NewDim]

Dmanson,
I don’t argue. But our case is apparently an exception))) At the beginning of the relationship, we had something cooler, we really had to achieve it, all sorts of things happened. And for the last 15 years she has been faithful to me. And with trust and respect, everything is fine with us so far.

[A mermaid]

Many who read this story do not respect you and wife’s lover doesn’t respect you, maybe he discusses her with friends and they all laugh at you, and he’s not the only one with whom she could sleep. And your wife doesn’t respect you, but the problem is not even her, but you don’t respect yourself
And the fact that you sought her suggests that she didn’t need you, she just didn’t find the one she needed and married you out of despair

[NewDim]

Mermaid,
Well, of course. Here they respect those who fuck their own mothers and look for a male dog for their wives. This is such a unique forum.
Yes, it doesn’t matter to me in principle. They got along like a drunk, you respect or not respect (((
My emotions are overflowing right now, and she stands like a boy, and I hope this will last for a long time, this is much more dear to me than respect. I can imagine how she , by and large, a middle-aged woman, jumps into his car like a girl, kisses him, and then does something else, right in the car, my heart jumps out.
I’ll go wake her up, her lover has probably left. for the weekend, we’ll be alone with her.

[Dmanson]

Okay, everything is fine)). Enjoy the situation)) and I’m licking you and I’m still standing because of it -)) well, ok.

[NewDim]

Yes, I enjoy it anyway. It’s already happened once in the morning, now I’m off to the apartment, cleaning, this and that.
I haven’t really tortured her yet, what and how exactly they did it, but she herself, as she begins to remember him, is already swimming)), I don’t know what he’s doing to her there that I can’t)
Today we talked to her again, I said that I couldn’t forbid her, one condition: don’t get burned, half the city knows us after all, you can’t explain to everyone. Well, of course, protect yourself, well, you should understand this yourself, an adult aunt already.

[Puppetry]

I’m going crazy with excitement, imagining how they give it to my wife’s mouth, how her holes are filled with sperm. And most importantly, it turns her on that she herself might like it.

[NewDim]

Well, mine definitely likes it)

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She says that with him she feels like a girl, everything is like the first time), and she allows a lot of things that she didn’t even do with me.

[Mom]

Try to talk to her honestly. Try to convey to her that you think so and that you don’t want to lose her. I think you don’t mind the fact that she’s cheating on you, you want to see her happy. And your future will depend on how you talk to her, either she will deceive you or she heard you and will listen to your opinion. The main thing is not to argue and understand each other.

[Shalun70]

Listen to an interesting conversation...
https://youtu.be/ReHMf4zK1mw

[NewDim]

Do you have to listen to this nonsense for an hour? Or some key points?

Sent after 5 minutes 36 seconds:
Mom,
Well, that’s what I’m talking about. That’s exactly how we talked. And yes, apparently she is happy now. Well, let them fuck some more, I don’t mind. It’s sad, but we’re already such an age that we don’t know whether she’ll have someone else or not. She won’t leave, I’m sure of that. Mostly, he doesn’t need it. He’s married, by the way. For him, mine is just another mistress, and for her, he is, I don’t know, a breath of fresh air or something, an opportunity to feel young again.
By the way, we never fought because of her past and past betrayals.

[Mom]

You have to listen to this nonsense for a whole hour? Or some key points?

Sent after 5 minutes 36 seconds:
Mom,
Well, that’s what I’m talking about. That’s exactly how we talked. And yes, apparently she is happy now. Well, let them fuck some more, I don’t mind. It’s sad, but we’re already such an age that we don’t know whether she’ll have someone else or not. She won’t leave, I’m sure of that. Mostly, he doesn’t need it. He’s married, by the way. For him, mine is just another mistress, and for her, he is, I don’t know, a breath of fresh air or something, an opportunity to feel young again.
By the way, we never fought because of her past, and past infidelities.

right, when you talk to her, show more interest, show that you completely on her side.

[NewDim]

Mom,
Yes, I do always on her side)
You should have seen the expression on her face when she told how it was with them, especially about the first time)

[A mermaid]

So you admit that you are a cuckold and that’s all)))
You started about respect, but the cuckold doesn’t see anything bad in such a situation.

[Mom]

So you admit that you are a cuckold and that’s it)))
You started about respect, but the cuckold doesn’t see anything bad in such a situation.

why is it necessary to quold, maybe just respect for a loved one

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Mom ,
Yes, I’m always on her side)
You should have seen the expression on her face when she told how it was, especially about the first time)

that’s what I’m talking about. It’s good that you see this and understand it. How do you feel when she tells you this?

[NewDim]

Mermaid,
Don’t care, call it whatever you want, a cuckold is a cuckold, what’s the difference.
Mom,
What do I feel? Well, first of all, wild excitement, I want her all the time. I love her, of course, even more than before. I like that they want her, value her as a woman. Well, a little jealousy, of course, mainly because she immediately started doing everything with him, something that I had been trying to achieve from her for a long time.