Sex as a way to make your way in life and support yourself financially

[Margo]

In general, I inherited this attitude to life from my mother, who settled well in life, was quite pleased with herself, had many lovers with financial support, did a lot of weird things and had fun, and at the age of forty she unexpectedly got married and is now quite happy with her life. Once, when I recently turned 18, my mother, in a conversation with me, described herself as a “smart, happy whore.” Do not be surprised. In terms of frankness and self-criticism, she’s great for me. In principle, from the time I grew up, I accepted her style of approach to life, fortunately my mother gave me enough freedom of choice, she didn’t push me anywhere, didn’t categorically forbid anything, she just advised me, gave me practical advice. In principle, sex and appearance became my main capital in life. Well, I still studied well, but in general this is not the main thing. I used to have a lot of fun in my life, starting from school. Then she started working as an escort and traveled quite a lot to resorts and abroad as an escort. I also mainly made my career through bed. Now I’m over 30, I myself occupy a certain place in the company’s hierarchy, although it’s far from the highest, but at the same time I have to use my feminine charms every now and then. In principle, I solved almost every important issue in my life through bed. At the same time, I have a husband, albeit an open-minded one, and children. From the outside, I suspect that almost everyone guesses what the secret of my success is, but they prefer to keep quiet.

[Marinka97]

I have the same views as the author of the topic, but not so long ago (a year ago).
After university I went to work wherever I wanted (I applied because of this), I worked for 2 months and the head of the department called me and said that I am a valuable employee and currently need money and he can help me on my career ladder and made it clear about intimacy and let me think about it for a week, a week later he calls me back. I went in and sat on a chair and he came close and said if I had thought, I then stretched my fly and gave a blowjob. Sometimes there is sex but mostly blowjobs but every week it happens. And in May of this year I was promoted.

[Tanya]

... In principle, sex and appearance have become my main capital in life. Well, I still studied well, but in general this is not the main thing...

History, well, it just fits perfectly into my biography. I don’t know if this is good, but apparently this path is chosen by the person closest to me.

[Margo]

The most curious thing is that the peak of my sexual madness still occurred in the last year of school and the first 2-3 years at university. Then I got seriously involved in the modeling and escort business, although for the first time I tried sex with material rewards in school (it happened by accident), and my lifestyle became more restrained. I’m not saying that there weren’t crazy things and adventures, but I no longer spent days and days on weekends registering in companies where the number of boys significantly outnumbered the number of girls.

[The passage]

From the outside, I suspect almost everyone can guess what the secret of my success is.

You have a thin silver chain around your neck, but not a single ring on your hand , even a wedding. There is a secret to success, but success itself is not visible.
I do not blame those who make a career through bed. They just recruit empty-headed people for bed pleasures, and everyone else has to work instead of them.
I don’t blame people like that, but when our head of the sales department left for a promotion, I fired all his mistresses. I don’t judge, but I don’t consider such success a success.

[Margo]

You have a thin silver chain around your neck, and you don’t have a single ring on your hand, not even a wedding ring.

I’m married, I generally hate wearing rings, it’s uncomfortable. The chain and cross are a gift from my mother, I don’t take them off, I won’t exchange them for gold... As for professional suitability... I suspect I’m not the best, but I’m also far from the worst, but I don’t argue that I wouldn’t have made a career without sex.

[SERG!!]

Everyone makes their way in life with whatever they can. I also do not condemn this personal matter of everyone. The main thing is that you do what your work involves professionally. I wouldn’t want to end up with a specialist who only knows how to take the right position...

[The passage]

I generally hate wearing rings, it’s uncomfortable. A chain and a cross are a gift from my mother

And what is comfortable to wear? Is a bra, thong, stilettos, mini, stockings, large earrings, manicure, eyelashes comfortable to wear? The rings don’t interfere at all in comparison, but they’re beautiful. Oh, engagement ring, which married lady doesn’t wear a wedding ring? There are such? Well, if you just got fat, rolled it out, and then lost weight and it falls off. And you write so touchingly about your mother’s gift, as if she were not there. It’s long gone, but this chain is what’s left of it. This is not so, and She is quite comfortable in your life, and she gave you such a cheap gift.
I’m not being picky, I just didn’t like the first post of this topic. About success, which in general does not exist. I don’t want to offend, but you boasted there, but there is nothing to boast about.

[Concerned]

I fully support the views of the author of the topic.
And I kindly envy her husband.
But it’s really not clear why, after being an escort, go to make a career somewhere in an office, if you can continue to work as an escort? No office job will give you that kind of money and that much freedom, and even if for the sake of this job you still have to serve men in bed? This is some kind of downshifting.

[Alyosha]

good work and career growth, in my experience - these are two different skills, a person can be infinitely talented at work, but in advancing in his career and expanding his capabilities - a complete layman
as a result - a person could head a department and establish work, but because of the soft skills he sits at the bottom and brings 10% of the benefit of what he could have done
on the other hand - not all the work is really interesting, but he can eat whatever he wants - so all the techniques are good
as a result, the main thing is that your career advancement does not interfere with your work