How long have you been able to remain sexually faithful to one person?

[Margo]

I don’t know, maybe I’m so slutty, I don’t have the willpower to refuse. Perhaps it’s because most of the people closest to me have never been monogamous either, but I’ve never been able to limit myself to just one partner for long. I am very lucky in that my husband has rather unconventional views on marriage, but despite all this, I am sometimes ashamed of my behavior. I know that I cheat on him many times, or rather an order of magnitude, more often compared to his rare adventures on the side. In addition, I suspect that in my case I am more interested in relationships with men on the side, even if I cool down over time. When in the past, in the relatively recent past, we had threesome or a couple for a couple, then I was always jealous of him towards other girls, but he showed real, genuine enthusiasm when he saw other men taking possession of me. At the same time, not a drop of the cuckold is noticeable in him. When he needs, I always agree with the decisions he makes. I don’t dispute that he is the head of the house. No feminism in the classic form.

[Lust From Beyond]

Maybe then we need to consider relationships outside the framework of monogamous relationships? Then there will be no more cheating, there will be sex with another man without hiding this fact from her husband)

[Margo]

Maybe then we need to consider relationships outside the framework of monogamous relationships? Then there will be no more cheating, there will be sex with another man without hiding this fact from my husband)

My husband knows that I have relationships at work and outside of it . Well, he probably has no idea about the scale.

[Lust From Beyond]

My husband knows that I have relationships at work and outside of it. Well, perhaps he has no idea about the scale

Then this is not treason at all. The main thing is that knowing, he perceives it positively (or neutrally)

[dva2dva]

I remained faithful to my wife for 10 years, then there was a 6-month affair on the side, then it stopped and again 2.5 I do not cheat. True, there is no sex with my wife, but there is nothing on the side either. Is it good? - no, but we have what we have. Do I want sex? Yes and very.

[The passage]

It’s true that there is no sex

And how can you live without sex. What kind of relationship is this without sex?

[Sibiryak89]

It happens anyway, and I don’t change for six months, and sometimes I can’t even last half a day

[Margo]

It’s easier for men to be faithful in the sense that they simply don’t have to take the initiative, it’s much more difficult for pretty women, and for unmarried girls it’s a hell of a job. Sometimes she was even rude and ridiculed, but it was still difficult to put her off. With age and married status, everything is much simpler; there is no intrusive, aggressive pressure from the sexually anxious.

[dva2dva]

And how can you live without sex? What kind of relationship is this without sex?

There is sex, once a month, sometimes once every two months. But most of them are just self-satisfaction. Yes, this doesn’t suit me very much. Or rather, he’s not happy with it at all. But here it plays a bigger role - either without sex or leave your family and child. Somehow in the past, I chose the option of leaving (my first marriage). My conscience is tormenting me. Throw it a second time? Where is the guarantee that the third marriage will be good? After all, in both the first and second marriages, for the first three or four years everything was good in terms of sex.

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Moreover, when we first met and for the first two years, we had sex wherever we wanted. The apartment was all places. Beach, cinema, park, train.. And then the decline gradually.. Less less less and eventually once a month.

[Tanya]

Loyalty to one, as I understand it, one is either a fiancé or a husband.
She lived with the first man in civilian clothes (she tried to take him away from the family), and was also his secretary with love, after he announced that he would soon be divorced and we got married and rented an apartment for us and moved into it. I cheated on him after about 2 weeks. but I think he knew about it and maybe it was to his advantage, it was the auditor out of his head. but I didn’t tell him and he didn’t ask.
And when you got married and my “close” friends introduced me to my husband, after the wedding he left for his duty station probably 10 days later (I quit my job for a month and filled out the documents etc.) “close” friends immediately appeared to “say goodbye.”

[Shamanakas]

As you know, a significant part of anthropologists are confident that the “natural” state of man is serial monogamy, that is, the tendency to have long-term relationships with one partner for several years. Moreover, there are biological explanations for this, which at the everyday level manifest themselves in the fact that “falling in love” and “passion” seem to last for several years, and then gradually fade away. Biological explanations boil down to the fact that several years is exactly the period needed to more or less raise a child to a state where he will not be completely defenseless. During this period, it is desirable for a strong couple to exist.
So at the “natural” level, without the influence of social institutions, a person on average is not completely monogamous like swans, and is not prone to complete promiscuity. And he really is, on average, inclined to "cool down" towards one sexual partner over time.

This is speaking strictly in the language of anthropology and modern science. Naturally, all this, like any talk about alpha males and so on, cannot be directly and without amendments transferred to a developed society.

[Shamanakas]

My personal experience is that my first long-term serious relationship was resolved in a marriage that has lasted for 12 years. And my wife is still my most desirable and exciting sexual partner. I know relationships in which the “monogamous spark” burned for much longer, and often it goes out after 3-5 years. "Decency", "truth of feelings" and other moral things have nothing to do with it, because we do not control our sexual desires, but can only control their satisfaction.

That’s why we My wife and I are relaxed about swinging, group sex and similar sexual practices. Both she and I had consensual sex with other partners while married. Because our relationships and our affection cannot be questioned in this way. Because any long-term deep relationship, including ours, does not come down to sex, although everything can begin with it.

There is no point in being “sexually faithful” to your partner. You need to maintain genuine fidelity, and genuine deep trust, which is much more than “sexual fidelity,” and which sex with other people simply cannot hurt.

[Need4sex]

For two years this is the ceiling... and the desire to go left appears much earlier. Well, I can’t, I want to and that’s it

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

She was faithful to her ex-husband for 15 years, well, except for rare online virtual chats in text format, and that was already in the last 1-2 years of our life together.

[Tanya]

I was faithful to my ex-husband for 15 years, well, except for the rare online virtuals in text format, and that was already in the last 1-2 years of our lives together.

And he was in solidarity with you, or...

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

She was faithful to her ex-husband for 15 years, well, except for the rare virtuals on the network in text format, and that was already in the last 1- 2 years of our life together.

And he was in solidarity with you, or...

yes, he was in agreement. I always knew where he was, the phone was within reach, I could always read everything there and according to other signs he was not walking around. We separated due to misunderstanding, different ways of raising children, aggression towards me, etc.

[mouse60]

my wife cheated on me for the first time about five years after the wedding, after much persuasion from me to do it

[Margo]

How can I explain it clearly? Back in my school years, I lost almost all the restraining brakes, I realized that it can be good not only with one and only one, and the abundance of guys (men) near you is a guarantee that they will value you more, even as a whore. I still have external data. When men constantly pester you, you need to have the willpower to constantly refuse, especially if you want to. All my good intentions in the past were defeated by male stubbornness.

[NewDim]

Mine, after all her adventures, lasted almost 15 years. And then, I couldn’t stand it, I met a guy purely by chance, and lost my temper. Yesterday she told me everything. Together we decided to leave everything as it is, we are not going to separate. The woman is already old, you never know whether it will be possible later or not... Let her have a blast. I don’t think I should play too much. We’ve been together for too long, we have too much in common to break up over a casual relationship.

[Margo]

my wife cheated on me for the first time about five years after the wedding, after much persuasion from me to do it

I’m not sure that this is cheating in general. Once upon a time, my husband and I met with a couple, where it was the husband who insisted that the wife agree. I’m not sure it brought her any particular pleasure.

[seriously]

I lasted 10 years out of 12, I didn’t even think about changing it, I met a former friend (she had problems with her husband) and everything happened, but there was only a blowjob, and one that I’ll probably remember for a long time. Unfortunately, the meeting was a one-time event. But I don’t know if my spouse is cheating or not, even if so, that’s good, I definitely won’t be jealous, on the contrary, only for.

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I’m not sure it brought her any particular pleasure

I also tried to persuade my mom to mzhm or mzhmzh but she doesn’t have much desire, I should probably stop all attempts (

[NewDim]

Moreover, I never cheated on her. Even at the beginning of a relationship. Firstly, she has an extremely negative attitude towards this, and secondly, she has always been enough for me, in every sense.
But... For the last few months I have been closely communicating with one of my clients, she is much younger than me, she got divorced a year ago, she was very upset about it, she is a very pretty girl, but so far nothing has happened, so, everything is at the level of flirting and jokes . By the way, her wife knows her, she knows that we communicate. But it feels like we are holding on with all our strength))) It seems that I have the right morally, my wife now has a lover, but something is stopping...

[Allochka.s]

She cheated on her first husband more than once, probably because she didn’t love him. And for the second time in 20 years there was no desire to do so.

[Veronica]

I got married recently, September 15th. And after a couple of weeks I was fucked by his brothers. She didn’t particularly resist. I also gave it to my boss; today I’m going to a party where they’re waiting for me without underwear. For what? My husband should arrive one of these days; the road is being built. I’m serving my p....

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

How can I explain it clearly? Back in my school years, I lost almost all the restraining brakes, I realized that it can be good not only with one and only one, and the abundance of guys (men) near you is a guarantee that they will value you more, even as a whore. I still have external data. When men constantly pester you, you need to have the willpower to constantly refuse, especially if you want to. All my good intentions in the past turned out to be defeated by male stubbornness.

I don’t blame you for anything... your life is your life.
nMen behave the way you allow them to. I’m also pretty, bright, tall, slender, men always paid attention to me, smiled, looking into my eyes, invited me for coffee, gave gifts, stopped in a car, offered me a ride... but I didn’t allow them more than these signs of attention.

[Civic8]

I stopped getting pleasure from cheating, I stopped getting the same joy and sensations from girls on the side that I used to.
Now the most I can do is see someone, chat for a drink, suckle, grope, understand that mine is better and leave it at that.

[Veronica]

I’m still 44 years old, but I’m also tired of everything, two husbands, etc. Why on the site? I wanted to speak out, show myself naked.

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I forgot, the highest education,

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In general, I haven’t been branded here, but I’m just a beautiful, not a young woman, with a higher education, I just want to chat.. my name is Nika.

[PrematureCum]

It’s been almost 15 years and I can’t say it’s difficult. We both have such an appearance that it will, in principle, be difficult to find partners for betrayal. And we had an agreement - she takes my virginity, and I never try other women.

[Timuryai]

I lived with my wife for 7 years, then I cheated on her

[The passage]

I am ready to remain faithful all my life, but not yet to anyone. I have not yet met such a person with whom, in thick and thin, I can die on the same day.

[Ketzer]

8 years before her betrayal. Apparently in vain.

[Beautiful]

I mean, if a whore wants to fuck, then no amount of brakes will hold him back. Neither children, nor marriage. You just have to accept it as it comes and live as it turns out)

[The passage]

As I understand it, if a whore wants to fuck, then no brakes will hold him back. Neither children, nor marriage. You just have to accept it as it is and live as it turns out)

You didn’t write anything about male dogs. They probably forgot to mention them. For them, too, neither family nor children are an obstacle to adultery.

[Vasyavasilëk]

26 years old....
I’m in awe, as I realized

[ScrewFIX]

As I understand it, if a whore wants to fuck, then no brakes will hold him back. Neither children, nor marriage. You just have to accept it as it is and live as it turns out)

You didn’t write anything about male dogs. They probably forgot to mention them. For them, neither family nor children are an obstacle for adultery.

A man is looking for variety. If it’s possible with his wife, then he won’t be able to walk on the left.

[The passage]

So, if a whore wants to fuck, then no brakes will hold him back. Neither children, nor marriage. You just have to accept it as it is and live as it turns out)

You didn’t write anything about male dogs. They probably forgot to mention them. For them, neither family nor children are an obstacle for adultery.

A man is looking for variety. If this is possible with his wife, then he won’t be able to walk to the left

Is the grass always greener in someone else’s yard? Well, how does he find it?

[ScrewFIX]

You didn’t write anything about male dogs. They probably forgot to mention them. For them, neither family nor children are an obstacle for adultery.

A man is looking for variety. If this is possible with his wife, then he won’t be able to walk to the left

Is the grass always greener in someone else’s yard? Well, how does he find it?

Not with his wife. She has a slightly skewed view of marriage. You can’t think that after marriage a man is always yours. And for this you just need to avoid headaches)

[Alex366]

I have almost 7 years... I can generally endure it, but sometimes it’s forced.

[The passage]

A man is looking for variety. If this is possible with his wife, then he won’t be able to walk to the left

Is the grass always greener in someone else’s yard? Well, how does he find it?

Not with his wife. She has a slightly skewed view of marriage. You can’t think that after marriage a man is always yours. And for this you just need to avoid a headache)

Well, I don’t have a headache, but that didn’t stop my ex-husband from drinking constantly. I didn’t consider him property. That’s why he’s an ex. Nobody’s.
And, yes, I cheated on him, but my conscience does not torment me. Not a bit.

[ScrewFIX]

Is the grass always greener in someone else’s yard? Well, how does he find it?

Not with his wife. She has a slightly skewed view of marriage. You can’t think that after marriage a man is always yours. And for this you just need to avoid a headache)

Well, I don’t have a headache, but that didn’t stop my ex-husband from drinking constantly. I didn’t consider him property. That’s why he’s an ex. Nobody’s.
And, yes, I cheated on him, but my conscience does not torment me. Not a drop.

If he drank continuously, your betrayal is a justified act. Sex wasn’t really important to him

[Alex366]

This is also not an excuse, I didn’t fuck, I didn’t drink, I didn’t do drugs. Maybe he was imprisoned for 10 years, so now he should run to change?

[The passage]

Not with my wife. She has a slightly skewed view of marriage. You can’t think that after marriage a man is always yours. And for this you just need to avoid a headache)

Well, I don’t have a headache, but that didn’t stop my ex-husband from drinking constantly. I didn’t consider him property. That’s why he’s an ex. Nobody’s.
And, yes, I cheated on him, but my conscience does not torment me. Not a drop.

If he drank continuously, your betrayal is a justified act. Intimacy wasn’t particularly important to him.

Family wasn’t important to him either. But there is no need to justify my betrayal. I stopped loving him at that time and we became strangers. We simply didn’t have time to complete the formalities, but I had already decided everything for myself and made my choice.

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This is also not an excuse, I didn’t fuck, I drank, I did drugs. Maybe he was imprisoned for 10 years, so now run away to change?

why run away? can be reached by car

[ScrewFIX]

Well, I don’t have a headache, but that didn’t stop my ex-husband from drinking heavily. I didn’t consider him property. That’s why he’s an ex. Nobody’s.
And, yes, I cheated on him, but my conscience does not torment me. Not a drop.

If he drank continuously, your betrayal is a justified act. Intimacy wasn’t particularly important to him.

Family wasn’t important to him either. But there is no need to justify my betrayal. I stopped loving him at that time and we became strangers. We simply didn’t have time to complete the formalities, but I had already decided everything for myself and made my choice.

I could have waited until the divorce then)

[The passage]

If he drank continuously, your betrayal is a justified act. Intimacy wasn’t particularly important to him.

Family wasn’t important to him either. But there is no need to justify my betrayal. I stopped loving him at that time and we became strangers. We simply didn’t have time to complete the formalities, but I had already decided everything for myself and made my choice.

I could have waited until the divorce then)

Why? For the sake of reputation or what’s the point?

[Alex366]

You’re cool Marinka, we can go on foot))

[Fat man]

He was faithful to his wife for eight years

[Veronica]

How I understand you, Margot. I recently got married. While my new husband was sleeping, I was fucked by his brothers. He’s from the village, and today at his mom’s place, when he was drunk, he obliged him to give it to his younger brother: he said, “I liked watching you get fucked.” Moral, I’m afraid of his long-term continuation, about the second one, or, I wanted to put my girlfriend on him, you know:::: yeah, I cheated on him, it doesn’t work out. He gave me his salary card. There are about half a million rudders on it. I’m afraid to spend. I have never seen such money at all. She asked: Leshenka, what should we do with the money? Yes, buy something. We’ve been married for two months, I can’t. I spend my money on food. Stupid? All my friends tell me that, but I can’t.

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Yes, the most important thing is, I’m kind of talking about my own things. It sucked. I stopped cumming, I want someone else’s man, and I’ve already cheated on him five times. His schedule is fine, but I can’t keep up. Growing up. The explosion was given to a neighbor.

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Here he wrote: he has been faithful to his wife for eight years. Do you know about marital duty: it is written about women. In the Domostroy it is written: a husband must have a wife every week for her health. For our damn health. Girls, they are obliged to fuck us on Domostroy weekly. No, it says there that another trustee has the right to fulfill the marital duty, at the request of the wife.

[Go ahead]

I’ve been holding on for 14 years. It’s really hard, I preferred to communicate with guys, I was often on the same wavelength with them, and before (before deep maternity leave) there were a lot of good guys nearby, male attention, constant temptations. I even fell in love with others a couple of times, but, gritting my teeth, I digested it within myself. True, in the first years I was naughty with my friend, but my husband knew that I could play naughty things with the girls, he didn’t mind, so it wasn’t cheating.
At the same time, she herself was not categorical about cheating, but she respected her husband’s opinion that it was terrible . She respected him.
She didn’t forbid him, she just asked him to be honest with me. If it suddenly happens, admit it honestly. He always denied it, like “this is definitely not about me,” “I never wanted to cheat and never will.” And now, after 12 years of relationship, during the most difficult period of my life, I find out that he has been cheating on me for a long time and shamelessly. And with the last whore. This was just the icing on the cake (he already had a lot of mistakes in front of me). I now believe that I probably cheated before, but I just didn’t get caught.
So the man finally freed me from any desire to be faithful. The only thing that gets in the way is that I’m at home with the little ones.
I honestly told him that now I also have the right to cheat. Yes, we are divorced, but we still live together. And he still insists that he will kill me if he finds out about my betrayal. Funny) Sometimes I’m amazed at people’s hypocrisy, to be honest

[Bully Carrie]

I’ve been holding on for 14 years. It’s really hard, I preferred to communicate with guys, I was often on the same wavelength with them, and before (before deep maternity leave) there were a lot of good guys nearby, male attention, constant temptations. I even fell in love with others a couple of times, but, gritting my teeth, I digested it within myself. True, in the first years I was naughty with my friend, but my husband knew that I could play naughty things with the girls, he didn’t mind, so it wasn’t cheating.
At the same time, she herself was not categorical about cheating, but she respected her husband’s opinion that it was terrible . She respected him.
She didn’t forbid him, she just asked him to be honest with me. If it suddenly happens, admit it honestly. He always denied it, like “this is definitely not about me,” “I never wanted to cheat and never will.” And now, after 12 years of relationship, during the most difficult period of my life, I find out that he has been cheating on me for a long time and shamelessly. And with the last whore. This was just the icing on the cake (he already had a lot of mistakes in front of me). I now believe that I probably cheated before, but I just didn’t get caught.
So the man finally freed me from any desire to be faithful. The only thing that gets in the way is that I’m at home with the little ones.
I honestly told him that now I also have the right to cheat. Yes, we are divorced, but we still live together. And he still insists that he will kill me if he finds out about my betrayal. Funny) Sometimes I am amazed at the hypocrisy of people, to be honest

Heavy topic (((

[Go ahead]

It’s a difficult topic (((

Yes, I don’t worry anymore) now it’s just a shame that I’ve wasted so many years of my life. Oh I tried to think high. But it turned out that no one needed all this and I had to break away))