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I wonder if this is just me or if it happens often)
Yes, girls from magazines and as in advertising are very beautiful, close to ideal, etc., they excite me, but I get even more excited from more natural looks)
Where, for example, the appearance is not ideal, but there are some freckles/moles, the breasts are not so ideal... I’m not saying that I like scary girls, but I like more natural ones or something)
For the same reason, amateur is more exciting porn)
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We all have our personal fetishes. In addition, the less “ideal” the appearance, the more realistic it is. There are not many people with model appearance, there are many more people with their own characteristics, these are the people we associate ourselves with
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I have a mole in an intimate place, only those close to me know. What else will excite you? The mole is near the navel, but lower than you think. Near the crotch, a little higher. Doesn’t cover with hair.
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Stranger44: 04 Nov 2022, 05:50 Where, for example, the appearance is not ideal, but there are some freckles/moles, the breasts are not so ideal... I’m not saying that I like scary girls, but I like more natural ones)
What is "ideal"? The criterion of model appearance is an entirely social construct, which also changes from decade to decade. After the time of heroin-chic, this seems to be completely obvious to everyone.

The only objective criterion is greater or lesser athleticism and general smartness. Everything else is a matter of taste.
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I don’t have an ideal appearance. But as I’ve been told, I’m damn cute. The breasts are small for me, only the second size, with a height of 176 cm. The butt is small, only 186.
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And I love receding hairlines on men or even bald ones :angel:
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Stranger44: 04 Nov 2022, 05:50 I like more natural ones or something)
Everyone has their own ideals :wink:
I like girls with wide hips and a big butt, but I don’t pay that much attention to breast size :)
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The breasts are small, the second size with a height of 172, maybe small. The butt is normal, but it’s broken. They told me who had it, it’s better from behind.
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Veronika: 05 Nov 2022, 02:53better from behind
both behind and in front, an interesting picture is obtained everywhere :)
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I feel more comfortable from behind.....

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From magazines and so on one can feel the artificiality of the image. Photoshop, makeup, shadows and so on. For me, this is equivalent to jerking off to rubber dolls or anime porn. In general, I love naturalness in everything, relationships develop only with those girls who are naturally pleasant to me and do not wear makeup in everyday life or do it almost unnoticeably.
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Instagram, Tik Tok and all the other evil spirits with filters really do harm, especially when you get stuck on them too much. You look at perfect asses, and then at your girlfriend in real life with the first signs of cellulite and you forget that this is a completely normal phenomenon. You look at the emasculated porn with a lot of makeup and make-up, and then at Lucy’s pimply back from the next entrance while you stretch her anal and involuntarily remember that Jessica’s angle from a wide-angle lens in the porn looked more tempting. In general, this thing is harmful, it corrupts to its detriment, and even ordinary women use damn filters for photos with all their might, you never know what to expect in real life. Then there is nothing left to do but scroll through these ideal images in your head in order to cum quickly, instead of being in the moment and enjoying Lyusya as she is here and now :(
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Veronika: 04 Nov 2022, 17:14 I don’t have an ideal appearance. But as I’ve been told, I’m damn cute. The breasts are small for me, only the second size, with a height of 176 cm. The butt is small, only 186.
Veronika:05 Nov 2022, 02:53 Small breasts, second size with a height of 172, maybe a small Butt is normal, but it’s broken. They told me who had it, it’s better from behind.
You lost 4 cm in height. From the initial 176 to 172)

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N@TyPaL:25 Dec 2022, 23:16 instagram, tik tok and any other evil spirits with filters cause real harm, especially when you stick to them too much. You look at perfect asses, and then at your girlfriend in real life with the first signs of cellulite and you forget that this is a completely normal phenomenon. You look at the emasculated porn with a lot of makeup and make-up, and then at Lucy’s pimply back from the next entrance while you stretch her anal and involuntarily remember that Jessica’s angle from a wide-angle lens in the porn looked more tempting. In general, this thing is harmful, it corrupts to its detriment, and even ordinary women use damn filters for photos with all their might, you never know what to expect in real life. Then there is nothing left to do but scroll through these ideal images in your head in order to cum quickly, instead of being in the moment and enjoying Lyusya as she is here and now :(
It’s the same with men))) That’s why I close my eyes during sex. You know, it really helps)
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In such cases, everyone should close their eyes, a man should be a little more beautiful than a monkey)
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Aleks366: 25 Dec 2022, 23:39 In such cases, everyone should close their eyes, a man should be a little more beautiful than a monkey)
In the dark is best) In the dark you can even with a monkey)
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Aha ha) it doesn’t matter at all, there are holes and it’s great, the main thing is that she gives and performs things)
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Marinka, damn.. I like watching)) I’m a visual person.. that’s probably why I look at the swollen faces in mamba and it makes me sick.. well, can’t you at least take a better quality photo?.. go to a professional photographer?..
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Marinka: 25 Dec 2022, 23:36 It’s the same with men))) That’s why I close my eyes during sex. You know, it really helps)
interesting, it’s usually the lot of men to imagine other women during the act in order to somehow improve the process... A woman gives herself over to sex psychologically Usually, for her, the image of her partner is more important, while a man is tied mainly purely to physical and visual stimuli. And when men picture porn stars in their minds, women picture ex-husbands or partners for whom they still have feelings or a vivid image. But there is rarely Brad Pitt or the bald one from Brothers :D
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N@TyPaL: 25 Dec 2022, 23:55
Marinka: 25 Dec 2022, 23:36 It’s the same with men))) That’s why I close my eyes during sex. You know, it really helps)
interesting, it’s usually the lot of men to imagine other women during the act in order to somehow improve the process... A woman gives herself over to sex psychologically Usually, for her, the image of her partner is more important, while a man is tied mainly purely to physical and visual stimuli. And when men picture porn stars in their minds, women picture ex-husbands or partners for whom they still have feelings or a vivid image. But there is rarely Brad Pitt or the bald one from Brothers :D
Who told you that women draw ex-husbands and partners ?))) If they draw, then in fantasy, how the car ran over the ex in half, and if feelings remain, then how he fell into the river with crocodiles or in the sea with sharks, and you clearly imagine how he is torn into pieces there)

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Aleks366: 25 Dec 2022, 23:45 Aha ha) In general, it doesn’t matter, there are holes and it’s great, the main thing is that she gives and does things)
If it’s all just about the holes, then buy yourself some bagels or crackers, I don’t know what size you are, so go ahead)))
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Marinka, how do you live with such fantasies? )) Past relationships you need to let go and get rid of negative memories. Life goes forward, not backward.
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coster: 26 Dec 2022, 01:11 Marinka, how do you live with such fantasies? )) Past relationships you need to let go and get rid of negative memories. Life goes forward, not backward.
The man above decided that we only think about them, even if they are ex))) Well, But as for letting go, and even if there are feelings, it’s not so simple in reality. When I got divorced, I lost almost 20 kg and turned into a skeleton. You realize in your mind that he’s just an asshole, but that doesn’t make it any easier
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Separation and divorce are often difficult, especially morally. But we must try to quickly return to life, because there are still so many interesting and beautiful things around, and there is no time for suffering and thoughts about the unworthy
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Stranger44: 04 Nov 2022, 05:50 but there is even more excitement from more natural views)
Where, for example, the appearance is not ideal, but there are some freckles/moles, the breasts are not so ideal.
You are far from alone! For example, I am not always excited by “glossy” girls. But if she is naturally beautiful without makeup, that’s absolutely amazing!) And, by the way, I also often like girls who don’t fall into the general beauty templates. Many people think my taste is strange)
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A woman model as a sexual object has little attraction for sex. A normal woman or girl has attractive feminine body shapes. Roundness – hips, chest, butt. You have to grab onto something)
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N@TyPaL: 25 Dec 2022, 23:55
Marinka: 25 Dec 2022, 23:36 It’s the same with men))) That’s why I close my eyes during sex. You know, it really helps)
interesting, it’s usually the lot of men to imagine other women during the act in order to somehow improve the process... A woman gives herself over to sex psychologically Usually, for her, the image of her partner is more important, while a man is tied mainly purely to physical and visual stimuli. And when men picture porn stars in their minds, women picture ex-husbands or partners for whom they still have feelings or a vivid image. But there is rarely Brad Pitt or the bald one from Brothers :D
if I draw my ex-husband during sex, then I most likely your stomach will twist and your muscles will all go into spasm, so you won’t be able to pull out the device later)) it’s better not to remember about it at all.. well, or when you need to throw up.. you can remember)
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Well, you give it! Is it humanly possible to separate so that a normal attitude towards a person remains impossible? First of all, I meant that a woman can imagine a real object from the past with which she felt good and had a psycho-emotional attachment, and not an abstract inaccessible object. A man usually doesn’t want to introduce his ex, because we lose interest when we get a woman, we are more excited by unavailable images or women who weren’t given to us for some reason or something didn’t work out, but we really wanted. Well, or completely inaccessible objects, for example. It seems to me that a woman can rarely imagine some random big black dick from porn during sex, although of course I could be mistaken. One of her friends admitted that during sex with her husband she imagined that she was being fucked by a big black centaur with gilded wings :D If a woman’s breakup with her ex was bad and he caused her troubles emotionally, of course she is looking for first of all, a replacement with someone who, purely psychologically, will give her this emotion again to begin with. And if they parted well and peacefully and the sex was good - why can’t she imagine it so that she could finish, for example, faster??
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And I love short women, just above the shoulder. And my wife is like that. For me this causes an influx of some kind of aching tenderness.
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N@TyPaL: 26 Dec 2022, 12:32 come on! What, humanely separate so that a normal attitude towards a person remains impossible?
I parted with him humanly... I just silently collected my things, children and left.. it was he who then followed me and vilified me, and called me all sorts of names, and told the children all sorts of garbage about me and my parents..
She didn’t take anything from him, didn’t sue him, didn’t even file for alimony, she’s just angry he was so upset that I suddenly decided to leave him.

Why even imagine someone during sex?.. it turns out that this woman (who represented the centaur) was not happy with her object passions and he didn’t arouse her at all?..
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it turns out like this. It’s not just men who go out solely for the sake of relaxation and get fucked
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