Why do some men rape women?

[Margo]

A terribly unpleasant phenomenon. I’ve encountered this four times.
The first, almost unsuccessful, attempt was when I was studying at the university. The guy liked me, I wasn’t touchy, rather a whore, but not with everyone. But he decided that he SHOULD not refuse him at all. It’s good that some guys we knew were nearby. By the end, I was already trying to save him from lynching.
For the second time I found myself in the wrong place at the wrong time of day. Local gopniks forced them to perform oral service, threatening them with a knife. Then I complained about them to my patron, they were found, and then they raped one of them in the butt for a long time, and then ended up in intensive care.
The third time. Then I just had a gun with me. She shot, drove away, and he remained lying there. I have no idea what happened to him then.
Well, this is from his dashing youth, one might say.
For the fourth time. After marriage, my ex-lover raped me in my own home. Then my husband was away on business. Broken lip, bruises. Well, it was limited to the fact that he was simply beaten, and his wife found out about everything. Divorced, left without an apartment and family.
No, maybe not everything ends so sadly for rapists, but I still don’t understand WHY THE FUCK take such risks?

[Ivp1967]

I think this is a deviation in the psyche, something wrong with the head. Well, I can’t imagine myself at all in the role of a rapist, well, even if I manage to get to the pussy and insert it, then what pleasure can there be if the woman is simply in shock, to put it mildly. I don’t know, but believe me, not all men are rapists at heart, this is a deviation....

[dva2dva]

Yes, it’s difficult to answer the question. The reasons are different. Some people are turned on by helplessness. Someone’s fear of a girl. I don’t remember who exactly, but some maniac of the USSR, chikatilo, if memory serves. So he ended exactly at the moment when he killed, (maybe it wasn’t him, I don’t remember.) This is essentially the direction of sado. A man has power over a woman and it turns him on. Deviation. Personally, I don’t understand this, just like you - what the fuck. I lose the desire to have sex even with my wife when I see that she simply doesn’t like it and she “endures” and gives because she has to.. I get excited when my partner gets pleasure.