I am asexual. Maybe I should take some pills?

Unread post by **Olivia** » 08 Nov 2022, 11:45

I don’t know what’s wrong with me. This didn’t happen before. I enjoyed sex. But with a new partner everything is different. Before sex, he always combs my hair himself, makes me have two ponytails like a schoolgirl’s, and makes me wear black stockings and black lace lingerie. Then he throws himself onto the bed and enters. And he has me in different positions for about two hours with short breaks. And I never had an orgasm with him. Moreover, sex with him is reminiscent of a rough gynecological examination. Constant discomfort. Especially when he comes in. Every time I think only about: "When will this end?". At the gynecologist, at least everything doesn’t last long, but here... Again and again and so on endlessly. His penis is very long. So it’s not a matter of small size for sure. I admitted that I don’t experience orgasm. But he said that there was something wrong with me. Other women tested him, and it was easier to enter them. Well, the criticism begins to grow. So now I’m faking an orgasm. Fortunately, I watched a lot of porn films. I underwent various examinations and visited gynecologists. Health is normal. When I masturbate I get an orgasm. And with a partner... Even when he gives me cunnilingus after sex and a shower, I only have discomfort and no pleasant sensations. For some reason he never does cunnilingus before sex. Only after. Maybe I should take some pills to increase libido? I feel somehow flawed. And I used to love sex. And now this is a tedious daily duty for me.

Unread post by **Comrade** » 08 Nov 2022, 11:50

Maybe you should change your partner better? He is your dreamer, he satisfies his fantasies.

Unread post by **niqk** » 08 Nov 2022, 11:55

Definitely - change your partner! There will be no kin! Never!

Unread post by **Woman** » 08 Nov 2022, 12:41

Olivia: ↑08 Nov 2022, 11:45 And now this is a tedious daily duty for me

that’s the answer.
Change your sex partner and enjoy pleasure and orgasms as before.

Unread post by **menma** » 08 Nov 2022, 14:02

You may not be suitable for each other in terms of smell and it doesn’t excite you simply, it’s just not your person. There’s nothing you can do about it, you need to part ways calmly

Unread post by **Comrade** » 08 Nov 2022, 14:10

Yes, he just uses her in his fantasies, pigtails, bowls, but he doesn’t care about her orgasm, the easiest way is to say that the reason is in you and handle it.

Unread post by **Shalun70** » 08 Nov 2022, 16:36

Olivia,
It’s not tactful, well Still, I’ll ask you... this is important on this topic... how old are you? Have you missed your period? Do you feel dryness in your “pussy”?
If you are young and you liked sex before, then it’s not you who is damaged... And forgive your partner who made you an asexual... how does this happen... if you have sex not at will and do not get pleasure, then over time you will develop an aversion to sex... I’m not sure that aphrodisiacs will help you in this situation... You... if you still have feelings for your partner.. You need to sit down at the negotiating table and explain that he is not exciting you correctly and is not having sex with you correctly... try to explain to him how you would like it and how you like it... If your partner loves you or at least respects you... then he will listen...

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Olivia - 2, Yes, and what else is important... if sex with him is not pleasant and does not bring you pleasure... do not engage in it... with a partner who does not know how to arouse a woman to the fullest... for your own good...

Unread post by **wizard13** » 08 Nov 2022, 22:30

It happens differently with different partners. I’ve had women with whom sex was just crappy. You think, well, this is just a bad time. But it turns out that it’s like this every time.

And now my wife and I have very good sex. Moreover, we both note that we have such good sex with each other.

So that sexual compatibility is not a myth.

And if your your partner, instead of thinking about what he is doing, something wrong, blames you and at the same time does not care about your pleasure at all - drive him in the neck! And the sooner the better!!!

Unread post by **Shalun70** » 08 Nov 2022, 23:24

wizard13,
And you are right. .. doesn’t want to go to the neck until she really has become asexual...

Unread post by **Skf** » 08 Nov 2022, 23:43

It’s just not yours, then you’ll start avoiding him and he’ll start to piss you off. The easiest way is to cheat on him and find out how you have it all with another partner today

Unread post by **Piero** » 08 Nov 2022, 23:47

Olivia, Change your partner! No regrets! The faster the better!

Unread post by **Cat Matroskin.** » 18 Nov 2022, 05:39

You’re not in the mood for him. Try to remember what feature your previous one had.
Every person has a button! (Do you remember the movie "The Adventures of Electronics").
So it is with men. One reacts to the chest. The other one is on the butt. The third is for a school uniform. Another for a short skirt. And it happens that even in tears - he wants to regret so much, right up to fucking. Many people like it when they scream, while others just need an intermittent breath.
I’m keeping silent about the physiology - fast-slow, horizontal or oblique, gentle-rough... And sometimes you come only by looking at his tense, frenzied expression on his face. THIS MAN, AS GOOD AS HE IS, IS NOT SUITABLE FOR YOU - not your type.

I am asexual. Maybe I should take some pills?

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