Why does my neighbor want me to become his soul mate? He is 20 years older!!!

Unread post by **JuliaPZDC** » 20 Nov 2022, 00:10

When my parents moved, he started hitting on me. Although we have known each other since childhood and when I was born, he was 21 years old. Now he is 43, and he persistently invites me to meet, have lunch, dinner, move in with him, live together, etc. When he gets drunk, he asks to visit, he knocks on the door, but I don’t open it. He confesses his love, says he didn’t even love his wife as much as you. Why is he so focused on me, am I good enough to be his daughter???

He says: I’m a normal guy, I only need you, move in with me and you’ll live like in paradise, I’ll take care of you and a lot more promises

Unread post by **Sibiryak89** » 20 Nov 2022, 00:15

JuliaPZDC: 20 Nov 2022, 00:10 When my parents moved, he began to play against me. Although we have known each other since childhood and when I was born, he was 21 years old. Now he is 43, and he persistently invites me to meet, have lunch, dinner, move in with him, live together, etc. When he gets drunk, he asks to visit, he knocks on the door, but I don’t open it. He confesses his love, says he didn’t even love his wife as much as you. Why is he so focused on me, am I good enough to be his daughter???

He says: I’m a normal guy, I only need you, move in with me and you’ll live like in paradise, I’ll take care of you and a lot more promises

A young, beautiful girl blew the minds of a man, it happens. What prevents you from agreeing, is it just age or is he not interesting at all?

Unread post by **Wot_ja** » 20 Nov 2022, 00:16

Drive him away and tell him, it won’t lead to any good...............

Unread post by **JuliaPZDC** » 20 Nov 2022, 00:19

Sibiryak89: 20 Nov 2022, 00:15 A young, beautiful girl blew the minds of a man, it happens. What’s stopping you from agreeing, is it just age or is he not interesting at all?

He’s known me since childhood! In general, he’s not a bad guy, but when he starts hitting on me, I start to be afraid of him and fall into a stupor. His look is scary

Unread post by **AlexK85** » 20 Nov 2022, 00:24

JuliaPZDC,
If this is for you no need, then you don’t have to endure this harassment! Write a report against him and don’t worry. If someone has a cuckoo whistle, then a young girl should not feel guilty just because she is attractive..., I think this neighbor is simply taking advantage of the fact that you are a kind person, and because of him you may have incorrect stereotypes about men, sad(

Unread post by **JuliaPZDC** » 20 Nov 2022, 00:27

JuliaPZDC: 20 Nov 2022, 00:10 Write a complaint against him and don’t worry. If someone has a cuckoo whistle, then a young girl should not feel guilty just because she is attractive...

What statement? He didn’t do anything to me. The way he looks at me scares me, but that’s not enough to make a statement.

Unread post by **AlexK85** » 20 Nov 2022, 00:41

JuliaPZDC,
Which one do you mean? So you’re saying that you don’t like being scared... or do you just want to wait for the grounds to initiate a criminal case?
If after that the local police officer talks to him once, then he, if he is not completely crazy, will not pester you anymore, and if at all there you need to think seriously about your safety!
In any case, when actions are being taken against you that cause you moral or physical discomfort, sitting and waiting for everything to be resolved on its own is most often a bad idea(

Unread post by **Sibiryak89** » 20 Nov 2022, 07:40

JuliaPZDC: 20 Nov 2022, 00:19
Sibiryak89: 20 Nov 2022, 00:15 A young, beautiful girl blew the minds of a man, it happens. What’s stopping you from agreeing, is it just age or is he not interesting at all?
He’s known me since childhood! In general, he’s not a bad guy, but when he starts hitting on me, I start to be afraid of him and fall into a stupor. He has a scary look

Well, if not bad, I think he won’t hurt you, he just sees a woman in you and wants you, the sober one holds on, the drunk one doesn’t

Unread post by **Shalun70** » 20 Nov 2022, 07:47

JuliaPZDC: 20 Nov 2022, 00:10 When my parents moved, he began to play against me. Although we have known each other since childhood and when I was born, he was 21 years old. Now he is 43, and he persistently invites me to meet, have lunch, dinner, move in with him, live together, etc. When he gets drunk, he asks to visit, he knocks on the door, but I don’t open it. He confesses his love, says he didn’t even love his wife as much as you. Why is he so focused on me, I’m good enough to be his daughter??? I’ll take care of you and a lot of promises

A couple of days ago this topic was discussed... the author was different... don’t waste time on a wanker.... I I already answered last time...