First sex with whom? Girl or prostitute?

Unread post by **viktor_zet** » 21 Nov 2022, 00:18

Hi all. I’m 22 years old and a virgin. There is no girl. Recently, thoughts began to come to me to hire a prostitute. And now there are doubts whether to hire a prostitute or wait and have first sex with your girlfriend. What do you think? Has anyone had experience? And is it worth telling the prostitute that this is my first time?

Unread post by **Fan96** » 21 Nov 2022, 02:39

Only damaged people go to whores.
It’s not respecting yourself...

Unread post by **Lust From Beyond** » 21 Nov 2022, 02:46

Don’t be so categorical. Situations are different. It’s better to fuck with prostitutes than to seduce girls just for the sake of fucking (they imagine a bright future in their head, but you only needed her pussy), for example. To the author - decide for yourself. There is nothing shameful about prostitutes. You can try it. Whether to speak or not, she will understand herself, the first time you will not be at your best, you understand

Unread post by **Child** » 21 Nov 2022, 02:56

Of course, order a prostitute, just not on the street, from a website, and not a cheap one, and tell her the situation, it’s her job, she’ll do everything right, and relax emotionally when everything works out. I had my first time at 15, she’s 18, she I already had normal sex. I tricked her into sex, but before the process itself I confessed. On the contrary, she liked it, and everything worked out that night, we fucked until the morning

Unread post by **sptlh** » 21 Nov 2022, 03:09

viktor_zet: ↑21 Nov 2022, 00:18 Hello everyone. I’m 22 years old and a virgin. There is no girl. Recently, thoughts began to come to me to hire a prostitute. And now there are doubts whether to hire a prostitute or wait and have first sex with your girlfriend. What do you think? Has anyone had experience? And is it worth telling a prostitute that this is my first time?

I have never been with a prostitute. I always thought that I wasn’t bad enough to pay for sex. And don’t tell me that courtship is more expensive. I had many women whom I pursued with minimal expenses (such as movie tickets or a cup of coffee), or without any expenses at all

If you have money, this is still easier, of course. But being a virgin at 22 is nothing special, you still have time. I also started late (at 24), but in the end I exceeded 100 beauties.
On the other hand, if you really like a particular prostitute, then why not. The main thing is that you want not only to stop being a virgin, but to fuck her.

Unread post by **nz_alex** » 21 Nov 2022, 03:13

Here you need to weigh the pros and cons...
On the one hand, of course, prostitutes - this is not sporting; for a young man it’s kind of like spitting on self-esteem.
On the other hand, all sorts of things often happen for the first time incidents (like something didn’t work out, he got excited, his dick fell, he didn’t want to, and the girl thought this, the girl thought that...), and this is even more unpleasant for a young man, so it’s easier to practice with a professional.
Think: whatever bothers you the least, and go ahead.

Unread post by **viktor_zet** » 21 Nov 2022, 09:37

Thank you for the answers, I’ll weigh everything again and make a decision

Unread post by **Daria166** » 06 Dec 2022, 10:51

viktor_zet: ↑21 Nov 2022, 09:37 Thanks for the answers, I’ll weigh everything again and make a decision

What should I think? Either you do it or you don’t. How and with whom is up to you.

Unread post by **Tanya** » 06 Dec 2022, 11:27

nz_alex: ↑21 Nov 2022, 03:13 ... for the first time, all sorts of incidents often happen (like something didn’t work out, he got excited, his dick fell, he didn’t want to, and the girl thought this, the girl thought that...), and this is even more unpleasant for the young man, so it’s easier to practice with a professional. ...

Exactly noted. As for self-esteem, it seems like it’s just an artificially created barrier that has nothing to do with the realities of modern life.

Unread post by **Shamanakas** » 06 Dec 2022, 11:36

In principle, I am categorically against prostitution and for the criminalization of the client according to the Scandinavian model, so in this particular issue I am somewhat “biased.” But I will still say that now in the era of the Internet, finding sex even for a virgin is not at all difficult. Moreover, you can purposefully look for girls who want sex with a virgin, because there are such people too.
The main thing is that if you have problems talking with girls, with self-esteem, with grooming, and so on, then Going to a prostitute will not solve this in any way. It’s better to start analyzing those barriers that hinder a healthy sex life.

Unread post by **tenzor** » 11 Dec 2022, 00:02

viktor_zet: ↑21 Nov 2022, 00:18 Hello everyone. I’m 22 years old and a virgin. There is no girl. Recently, thoughts began to come to me to hire a prostitute. And now there are doubts whether to hire a prostitute or wait and have first sex with your girlfriend. What do you think? Has anyone had experience? And is it worth telling a prostitute that this is my first time?

From prostitutes you can pick up something.

Unread post by **A charmer** » 11 Dec 2022, 16:35

My first sex was 15 years old, worked as a waiter at that time, served a table with a group of girls. And one actively showed attention to me, smiled at all 32, constantly provoked dialogue... and in the end, after closing, she invited me to take a walk... As a result, we came to her apartment, in the process of communication I learned that she was 24 years old, married, and now she is on a business trip in our city, and the hut is rented. When she realized that I was a virgin, she directly said that she would do everything herself, and that I should prepare for a sleepless night...
She gave me an amazing night)

First sex with whom? Girl or prostitute?

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