Ideal marriage and ideal sex within marriage

[Venus]

the constant presence of a loved one nearby 24/7

))) People sleep 8 hours, work 8 hours, travel from work, to work, household chores... and out of 24 it’s good if 1-2 hours are together.
Well, if the presence of a loved one is a burden, then apparently he (s) is not a loved one, but just convenient (th)
I haven’t lived with men under the same roof for a long time. It’s very convenient to go, have sex and return home. And, if you don’t want to, then don’t go anywhere. And I came to the disappointing conclusion that the less sex I have, the less I want it.
When people live under the same roof, but in different parts of the house, in different rooms, then I think sex becomes a phenomenon among them rare, and then completely disappears. They become like neighbors.

[Andrew495]

I haven’t lived with men under the same roof for a long time. It’s very convenient to go, have sex and return home. And, if you don’t want to, then don’t go anywhere.

Finally we have come to the ideal formula for marriage and sex in it!!!!!

[Eustace]

the less sex I have, the less I want it.

by the time it comes to the wedding, at this rate you will become frigid!!!

[Morozgerman]

There are no ideal marriages.
I told my future wife my rules before marriage. She accepted them, so she is the one.
My rules are as follows:
1. Both partners should be sexual, even years later. Attraction to your spouse is the basis of a relationship. After all, initially, people converge on the basis of external attractiveness, then character, then mutual respect.
2. Patience and a little effort. Mood swings, problems at work, etc. all this destroys the idyll. Therefore, each partner should be understanding of the other’s bad mood and only help to get out of it. Let’s call it patience or tolerance.
3. Neither partner should ever allow the other to be insulted, i.e. Don’t get personal. You can swear and swear, but not in a humiliating or insulting way. Especially pointing out some flaws in appearance or like "Your dick is small" or "You don’t know how to suck properly".
4. A woman is obliged not to endure or peck a man’s brain. She must be as cunning as a cat.
5. A woman must be emotional.
6. A man must be calm even when he wants to show emotions. Emotions only lie in pleasant words to your spouse, compliments and sex.
7. Frankness. Talk openly about everything, including sexual desires. Constraint and constraint are evil for marriage.

Ideal sex is when
1. it is not planned or on schedule. Evening + went to bed + sex + like this all the time - it’s not even sex. It’s easier to masturbate.
Change places for sex, do it spontaneously more often.
2. over time, introduce something new or someone into joint sex, even lingerie, even toys, even strap-ons, even another man/woman, whatever. And the spouses should accept this with understanding, or politely and respectfully make it clear that they are not yet ready for this.
3. Ideal sex is when each partner wants to both fuck the other and let themselves be fucked.

[Venus]

the less sex I have, the less I want it.

by the time it comes to the wedding, at this rate you will become frigid!! !

))) I’m in nirvana

[bot458]

What a horror :O
Although I would not at all want such ideal marriages as some here describe :-O ...no, no, no, mind me...
...I have everything, it’s fucked up, it’s not perfect, but this is my man, my woman, period
and you fantasize, scratch him, yeah ...

[red_fox]

I told my future wife my rules before marriage. She accepted them, so she is the one.

Neighing. Did she tell you hers too?

[alberg74]

What kind of marriage do you think would be ideal and, of course, what kind of sex should there be in this ideal marriage?

Vladimir Ilyich and Nadezhda Konstantinovna...

[Morozgerman]

Neighing. Did she tell you hers too?

She also told her wishes and demands. Including sex.

[Lolita1979]

I didn’t have such a thing that everything was perfect both in everyday life and in sex. Either the girl is fire in bed, but in life and everyday life she’s not very good. Or, on the contrary, as in my everyday life, my wife is ideal in the household, but not so much in bed. He is embarrassed to talk about erotic topics, does not like to discuss sex. I had the perfect experience in bed with my friend. We tried different positions, had sex in every room. It happened once even in the mountains, in a pass. Cars are passing by and we are having sex under a bush. Adrenaline was pouring out.

[Fargal94]

An ideal marriage is only in the head
It may seem to a wife that her marriage is ideal, but at the same time her husband, secretly from her, - mistresses and double life. It may seem to a husband that his marriage is ideal, but at this time his wife is making plans to get a divorce.
I will say this, not an ideal marriage, but a successful one - one that has gone through crises, survived and held on, and when you want to return home. And you want to kiss your husband/your wife, and pamper, and give gifts with or without reason, and when his/her smile is equal to a ray of sunshine for you, and then it doesn’t matter what the weather is like outside: we are together and we warm each other up. And here we go.

I subscribe to every word! I’d rather not write. 30 years of experience, happy, I hope my wife is too. Together we experienced a lot of things, both good and bad.

[RANGE_]

)) People sleep 8 hours, work 8 hours, travel from work, to work, household chores... and out of 24, it’s good if 1-2 hours are together.
Well, what if the presence of a loved one If it’s a burden, then apparently he’s not a favorite, but just convenient
I haven’t lived with men under the same roof for a long time. It’s very convenient to go, have sex and return home. And, if you don’t want to, then don’t go anywhere. And I came to the disappointing conclusion that the less sex I have, the less I want it.
When people live under the same roof, but in different parts of the house, in different rooms, then I think sex becomes a phenomenon among them rare, and then completely disappears. They become like neighbors.

I have this crap - a strong tendency towards introversion. Despite the fact that I am not shy and finally not a social phobe.
I love a football stadium filled with thousands of people and the atmosphere in it.

And living in different “wings” of the house with your wife is caring for your beloved first of all. At least you don’t have to go anywhere there))
Fortunately, I mostly work from home.
Just come on foot to my bedroom and have sex for at least 8 hours, at least 24 hours))
n
But my crap is protective for my beloved.
Who wants to see their loved one "without Internet access" when "wi-fi has failed"?

Here, if I don’t disconnect/get alone in time, then I’m an autistic schizoid.

With prolonged physical dialogue and stupid presence, a “quick discharge” occurs for me. If there is nowhere to go, then I fall out - calm + indifference + a minimum of communication... All questions are answered with short "Yes", "No", "I don’t know".

Fortunately, this does not apply to sex;)
This concerns communication with words and the presence of a person or animal (cat, dog).

I thought that I was an eccentric with a complex or a diter -is ill. But no. The pros told me that this is normal...for me in this society.

[A charmer]

An ideal marriage is when a husband and wife are each other’s friends, drinking buddies, support and understanding are a priority, when there is respect, when there are no mercantile views, when they are drawn to each other even after a couple of hours of separation. It is very important to be able to give in to each other, to close your eyes to certain offenses when you are completely open.
And what should sex be like? When, despite the years you have lived, the presence of certain flaws in appearance, due to age (and we all have them), when you know how to please your soul mate, when your partner is a priority, and not yourself, when passion burns in your eyes, when sex can be spontaneous!!! Ideal sex is when the level of libido is the same, when everyday life or all sorts of life problems are not an obstacle to the desire to enjoy each other!!!

[Bully Carrie]

when the priority is a partner, and not yourself,

No, I’m directly against it. Sex should be fun! Enjoy yourself!

[Fargal94]

when the priority is your partner, not yourself,

No, I’m directly against it. Sex should be fun! Enjoy it for yourself!

I’ll correct you, Enjoy it for both of you!

[Bully Carrie]

when the priority is your partner, not yourself,

No, I’m directly against it . Sex should be fun! It’s fun for you!

I’ll correct you, It’s fun for both of you!

Well, if you like if it’s a thrill, then your woman will also be happy. I’m absolutely sure that this is exactly how it works. If you start worrying about "Am I doing everything right?" - that’s it, the buzz will go away. Only marital debt will remain

[A charmer]

when the priority is your partner, not yourself,

No, I’m directly against it. Sex should be fun! Enjoy yourself!

Sex - it actually brings you a thrill!!! And when you give all of yourself to your partner, when you feel that your other half is in ecstasy from your actions, the pleasure that you receive soars to the skies!!!

[Fargal94]

No, I’m directly against it. Sex should be fun! It’s fun for you!

I’ll correct you, It’s fun for both of you!

Well, if you like if it’s a thrill, then your woman will also be happy. I’m absolutely sure that this is exactly how it works. If you start worrying about "Am I doing everything right?" - that’s it, the buzz will go away. Only marital debt will remain

you just go deeper into the topic revealed what I did)

[Sex coot]

Nothing is ideal....there are relationships that are based on compromise and respect....and of course diversity...

[Bully Carrie]

relationships that are based on compromise

in the long run, compromise is tiring and in some places even infuriating IMHO

[Sex coot]

In my opinion, a compromise is the same freedom....we have such an open relationship...

[Venus]

)) People sleep 8 hours, work 8 hours, travel from work, to work, household chores... and out of 24 it’s good if they spend 1-2 hours together.
Well, ah if the presence of a loved one is a burden, then apparently he is not a loved one, but simply convenient
I haven’t lived with men under the same roof for a long time. It’s very convenient to go, have sex and return home. And, if you don’t want to, then don’t go anywhere. And I came to the disappointing conclusion that the less sex I have, the less I want it.
When people live under the same roof, but in different parts of the house, in different rooms, then I think sex becomes a phenomenon among them rare, and then completely disappears. They become like neighbors.

I have this crap - a strong tendency towards introversion. Despite the fact that I am not shy and finally not a social phobe.
I love a football stadium filled with thousands of people and the atmosphere in it.

And living in different “wings” of the house with your wife is caring for your beloved first of all. At least you don’t have to go anywhere there))
Fortunately, I mostly work from home.
Just come on foot to my bedroom and have sex for at least 8 hours, at least 24 hours))
n
But my crap is protective for my beloved.
Who wants to see their loved one "without Internet access" when "wi-fi has failed"?

Here, if I don’t disconnect/get alone in time, then I’m an autistic schizoid.

With prolonged physical dialogue and stupid presence, a “quick discharge” occurs for me. If there is nowhere to go, then I fall out - calm + indifference + a minimum of communication... All questions are answered with short "Yes", "No", "I don’t know".

Fortunately, this does not apply to sex;)
This concerns communication with words and the presence of a person or animal (cat, dog).

I thought that I was an eccentric with a complex or a diter -is ill. But no. The pros told me that this is normal...for me in this society.

Are you married?

[RANGE_]

Are you married?

I am not in a legally registered marriage)

[Venus]

Are you married?

I am not in a legally registered marriage)

))) Are you not legally registered?

[RANGE_]

))) And, are you not legally registered?

Is this in gypsy or something?))

[Venus]

))) Oh, are you not legally registered?

Is this in Gypsy or what?))

))) You could simply answer yes or no)))

[RANGE_]

))) You could simply answer yes or no)))

Nizya)))
But I can’t name myself "single", because there is a lot of gunpowder in the flasks)) and berries in the buttocks)))

[Fargal94]

VARG_, the term is single, it sounds very bad, like and lonely(

[RANGE_]

VARG_, the term - single, sounds very bad, just like lonely (

That’s why this is an answer to Dragonfly, because I myself think something like this.

[Eustace]

It’s very convenient to go, have sex and return home.

Dragonfly, lately you’ve been drawn to Sacramental themes !

[Venus]

It’s very convenient to go, have sex and return home.

Dragonfly, lately you’ve been drawn to Sacramental themes :- D !

))) I’m in nirvana)))

[Fargal94]

It’s very convenient to go, have sex and return home.

Dragonfly, you’ve been drawn to Sacramental themes lately !

))) I’m in nirvana)))

is dressed already, will you fly out of it?)

[Venus]

Dragonfly, lately you have been drawn to Sacramental themes !

))) I’m in nirvana)))

is dressed already, will you fly out of it?)

I didn’t understand anything

[Eustace]

I didn’t understand anything

Look there, it’s not lying around anywhere in your Nirvana???

[Fargal94]

Strecoza, he laughed himself that he gave out the phone) When will you fly out of that nirvana?)

Sent after 40 seconds:
Eustace,
I am invisible, but always nearby)

[Shalun 2010]

An ideal relationship is when everyone is happy with everything. Ideal sex is when both parties are satisfied.
We are not all ideal, but if there were an ideal, it would be boring. By accepting strengths and weaknesses with respect, this is also an ideal relationship.

[edgard.shuhard]

There are no ideal people
Someone waits, and someone suffers
Someone misunderstands
And that’s why it’s not yours
Someone’s soul is like their pockets
I have other plans
Without hysterics and deception
I’m trying to be myself...” gr. Animals.

[homa515]

An ideal marriage and sex are just the beginning.

[Frost Demon]

It’s better not to marry at all...

[Nick1979]

Ideal sex is when there are common preferences, no one forces you to do anything against your will, spontaneous sex, and not according to a schedule. No one does for a partner something that would make someone else disgusted. When both are ready to experiment))) Are ready to discuss everything, and not just have sex and turn their backs to each other.

And an ideal marriage is mutual understanding, mutual respect, supporting each other in any situation) ) trusting relationship

[government38]

in my understanding, the ideal woman for marriage is a woman with an Italian temperament, it’s not for nothing that many kings took their wives from those places, they are smart, hot in bed, temperamental, loyal, beautiful, cook well, love giving birth and love big families, but someone can to say that this refers to the Middle Ages, but having communicated with purebred Italian women, I was surprised by their jealousy and devotion, for a sidelong glance at her man they are ready to scratch out her eyes, if the dishes break in the morning, she screams at her Mario, then at night they will definitely break the bed...
So the recipe is that she should be temperamental and jealous, but you will stomp to work with empty eggs...