I'm afraid of losing my virginity

Unread post by **Donna** » 10 Dec 2022, 02:02

I’m 14 now, a young man insists on intimacy. I’m a little afraid, is there any advice from women or men?

Unread post by **Faustian** » 10 Dec 2022, 02:09

Donna, I hope you indulge him with oral and anal sex. If not, then there is an alternative for you. And if he insists on vaginal, that’s okay, try experimenting yourself, with objects. You’ll see that it’s not so scary

Unread post by **Hammer** » 10 Dec 2022, 02:17

Advice - improve your literacy. Look for mistakes and correct them. Shame.

10 Dec 2022, 02:39

Donna: 10 Dec 2022, 02:02 I’m 14 now, the young man insists on intimacy. I’m a little afraid, is there any advice from women or men

The main thing is to let him wear a condom

Unread post by **The passage** » 10 Dec 2022, 02:42

Donna: 10 Dec 2022, 02:02 I’m 14 now, the young man insists on intimacy. I’m a little afraid, is there any real advice from women or men

If he insists on intimacy, then it is possible that he doesn’t need anything from you other than sex. I would stop dating someone like that altogether.
Well, if the whole problem is that you are afraid, then this is quite normal. A warm shower before sex, pleasant, quiet, calm music, dim lights, a clean bed will help you relax, and foreplay will help you get excited. Just don’t forget about condoms.
And, you wrote it correctly above. If you like a guy, but you are not mentally ready for sex, then you can caress him with your hand or give him a blowjob. Until you mature morally. You have nowhere to rush. If you lose your virginity two, three, four years later, nothing bad will happen.

Unread post by **JackTheJack** » 10 Dec 2022, 02:56

I agree with the previous comment, it is necessary not only that he wants and is ready, but also that you are ready and want it. If this is not the case, let him wait. If he doesn’t want to wait, let him go to the “available ones”

Unread post by **Martin** » 10 Dec 2022, 05:23

Donna,
If he insists, you should give it to him... Just relax, he will do everything himself... With a contempt the sensations are not at all the same, of course, so it’s better if he fucks you without a rubber band, you’re unlikely to get knocked up the first time, believe me...)

Unread post by **Vladimir69** » 10 Dec 2022, 06:07

If he insists on intimacy, then it is possible that he doesn’t need anything from you other than sex. I would stop dating someone like that altogether.

it’s strange to read such conclusions on this forum, it’s nonsense))) I can’t advise you to give it your all, take a lot of photos and report on the fact defloration photo in an immoral pose and against the background of blood on the sheet))) and not this is all yours)))

Unread post by **niqk** » 10 Dec 2022, 06:42

Vladimir69: 10 Dec 2022, 06:07 If he insists on intimacy, then it is possible that he doesn’t need anything from you other than sex. I would stop dating someone like that altogether.
It’s strange to read such conclusions on this forum, it’s nonsense))) there’s no way to advise giving yourself everything, taking a lot of photos and reporting on the fact of defloration, a photo in an immoral pose and against the background of blood on the sheet))) and not this your everything)))

Pure selfishness! A person has a problem, people give advice on how to solve it, and you only care about your dick,
how to make him happy once again!

Unread post by **JackTheJack** » 10 Dec 2022, 09:03

Martin: 10 Dec 2022, 05:23 it’s better if he fucks you without a rubber band, the first time you’re unlikely to get knocked up, believe me...)

After a couple of months: "...good welcome to pregnant at 16"

Unread post by **Veronica** » 10 Dec 2022, 09:09

First, learn to write correctly, and be a girl so that they conquer you, smart and beautiful.

Unread post by **Timur59** » 10 Dec 2022, 09:31

Sorry, I didn’t mean to be rude..
But, are you crazy about the word goblin?
It looks like you are actually a little old

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Marinka: 10 Dec 2022, 02:42 If he insists on intimacy, then it is possible that he doesn’t need anything from you other than sex. I would stop dating someone like that altogether.
Well, if the whole problem is that you are afraid, then that’s quite normal. A warm shower before sex, pleasant, quiet, calm music, dim lights, a clean bed will help you relax, and foreplay will help you get excited. Just don’t forget about condoms.
And, you wrote it correctly above. If you like a guy, but you are not mentally ready for sex, then you can caress him with your hand or give him a blowjob. Until you mature morally. You have nowhere to rush. If you lose your virginity two, three, four years later, nothing bad will happen.

It seems that the girl has matured and is asking for specific advice. Yours are most suitable
I hope this is not banter, but everything is serious

Unread post by **Faustian** » 10 Dec 2022, 09:42

How individual it is for each one. Lots of girls don’t stand on ceremony at all, they just don’t stuff pencils, felt-tip pens, and a hairbrush into silk. I think it’s unlikely that they are still virgins after such fun

Unread post by **Solomon** » 10 Dec 2022, 10:15

Fuck, how cool everyone is here, it’s like taking a Russian language exam. She will have time to pull this whole thing up. You ask for bread in a store, and they tell you: “Fuck, there’s no sausage!”
You’re doing the same thing here.

Unread post by **eduard.novikov** » 16 Dec 2022, 10:07

Don’t be afraid, there’s nothing wrong with it